Thanks! The key will try to get her on the topic of other guys. We are planning on going out on another date this weekend and if she doesn't suggest it leading up to the night of going to a club dancing I may bring it up as a suggestion of something we do and see what she says.BallSpanking wrote:The fact she made a reference to stripping, was probably because the idea turns her on.
She loved you being more authoritative, but also enjoyed demeaning you.
I think that if you can get her attention focused on a fit, well endowed stud, he could show her what "really firm" can be...
She might like the idea.
I forgot to add that when we watched the show about porn one of the people had a large dildo in their hand and my wife started talking about using toys. She told me she doesn't want a toy that feels better then me. Basically so she isn't more driven to use the toy or feels more satisfied by the toy then by having sex with me. This is probably a small step back as a point of finding a bull would be to get better sex.
Then yesterday while we were talking my wife brought up that she wanted me to take her golfing and teach her how to golf as she thought it would be a fun activity. I told her I absolutely would take her and teach her (although I am not very good at it) and even with my response she said if I didn't she would get one of our guy friends we know (really more of an acquaintance) to teach her. He is an avid golfer.. She said this so nonchalant and with no teasing me in mind. I couldn't tell if she said this to try to get an arousal from me or if she just innocently said this because she knew of him to be a good golfer, I don't know, but it was interesting and really turned me on without her knowing it.
She continues to look good when she goes to the gym. She puts on make up, again, and this time wore some super tight black spandex long pants that look so hot as they show off her sexy legs. When I saw her I immediately touched her legs as it feels good because its so tight the material is almost slippery. I told her they were my favorite work out pants of hers and she laughed and said I liked them because they are the most see through pants she has. She then told me that when she bends over you can almost see her all of her butt.
You guys are absolutely right about letting her lead the conversation. She is also starting to send me more and more sexy texts during the day. I will sometimes get random sexy pics from her and although I respond with how hot she is, she doesn't usually write back. I think its a strategy for her to send me a teasing pic that she knows I will find hot, but then say nothing else even though she knows I desperately want to have a naughty conversation. It's a great tease.