noreenandnaz wrote:know that you're entering into the middle of a complex relationship full of quirks and pre existing understandings between a husband and wife. whilst you've been invited into their relationship, know that for her, he's number one. and for him, she's also number one. even when it seems like he's handing over his wife to you, really it's not like that at all, he's not giving something to you, he's giving something to his wife and she's giving something to him in return. what that is is very personal and private to them and you may never get the chance to understand all the complex things they communicate to each other in those extended glances they share with each other.
that's how it is for us.
Wow, this is very powerful stuff. Thanks for sharing it and putting it so perfectly. You capture something that I find incredibly sexy about being with a couple.
The only thing that would make your statement more powerful would be you finally getting verified as a hotwife. It's a simple thing, just a plain vanilla photo that is not compromising at all, but it assures the rest of us that you are actually a female. I always feel that women who have not been verified have strangely husky voices.
But that's just me.
Be that as it may, I have saved your comment in my words of wisdom repository. It is something boyfriends have to remember, respect, and hopefully find sexy.