1) Our situation is very unusual. You asked two question in this first part, so I will answer each:Greg_N_Shelley wrote: ↑Mon Nov 20, 2023 10:36 amAlthough complex sexual situations involving family members (or even close friends) is outside my personal comfort zone, I got to admit your situation is very interesting. I am curious about a few things...
1) How did you and your husband embark on hotwifing and how did you find out about your mother and father's lifestyle? Please forgive me if this has been described elsewhere. What I am curious to know is if their lifestyle had a possible influence on you and your husband, or if your mutual sense of unorthodox adventure was coincidental or connected in some unconscious way.
2) You describe a sense of jealousy and angst regarding your husband and your Mom. I am curious if that jealousy/angst is arousing to you in some degree? Not the part about your Mom per se, but the part about seeing your husband enjoying another woman. I started a thread a while ago pondering questions about the differences between men and women regarding compersion and arousal due to the tease of jealousy. Your situation is rather rare and I am very curious to hear your perspective.
Thanks for sharing your journey with us, Sophie!
(a) Brent and I met in college. Brent was dating a girl named Rebecca (who is now my best friend). Brent's roommate Ralph slept with Rebecca and she chose Ralph as her life partner, dumping Brent. Rebecca and Ralph are married to each other. Skipping ahead, I slept with Ralph which excited Brent. It was his second cuckolding by the same man, and couldn't get enough of talking about it.
(b) I found out about my parents when I came home from college unexpectedly and walked in on Mom with a lover. It was Dad who took it upon himself to tell me about their relationship and how it works. He was exceptionally insightful and caring, and he has been the one person who helped me understand a man's feelings in a hotwife or cuckolding relationship.
2) I think there is a difference between how men and women feel about "cuckold angst." I have no desire to be humiliated or feel inferior. But I am really excited about the idea of watching my man do what he does with a woman. My angst is insecurity. I suspect everyone he sleeps with will be better than I, and unlike Brent, that doesn't turn me on, per se.