My wife's last lover had: no kids, really disliked his relatives, and loved my wife SO much, soooo...he asked Cressida if I'd mind if he listed her as beneficiary to ALL HIS ASSETS!! When she asked me, I told her, "Mind? Fuck, no!! It's a GREAT IDEA!." Then I mentioned that to get his pension, she'd have to marry him. And all she said was, "Hmmm."surry wrote: ↑Thu Sep 07, 2023 3:59 pmMy wife had an older lover. He had never married and had worked at his company for 30 years. He got sick and had a couple of years to live. He did not want the company to get his retirement and benefits. He asked her to divorce me and marry him. Then, she would get his benefits.
We did this, and they got married. It was exciting for me. I became the boyfriend. He was now the husband.
Sadly he passed a year after they married. She is back with me.
So there it was: I "suggested" she divorce me to secure her future better...but the subject was never brought up again. We're still married.
But it did show that: 1) He obviously fucked her better than I could (since they all did ); 2) He was a better provider than I was ; and 3) I would have been a willing participant in our divorce and their subsequent marriage.
I knew if we divorced, our "poly threesome" would "probably" continue the same (but you never know)...only I'd be outed as my slutwife's cuckold. And I think I'd have liked that!
Also Surry, did you and your EX! ever remarry?? Or does she still have her lover's last name? Did she move in with him for that year? What does the outside world know about your threesome? Were they "in love", fuck buddies, or something in between when they married? The cuck in me hopes they were in love...
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