She thinks it’s a bit crazy but exciting. She always encourages me if i have the slightest desire to open up with my partner. Back in 2018 I was getting mixed signals from an ex Gf. This ex had just went through drastic change physically and was looking fantastic compared to her previous chubbier and super insecure self. She was telling me she wanted to start dressing provocative, showing more skin, no longer wanted to wear a bra and when I told her I supported her wanting to do that. She questioned about being approached by men. I told her that I thought it was normal and would prefer she was approached in efforts to boost her confidence and in fact told her we should go out with her dressed provocative and I’d leave her alone so she could get approached. My ex was totally down for it.ez456 wrote: ↑Wed Apr 21, 2021 12:04 pmWhat is this female friends reaction to it all?ucaneffher wrote: ↑Wed Apr 21, 2021 11:57 amPretty much all of my ex girlfriends close guy and girlfriends knew that I was accepting of her having multiple sexual partners. Both of her parents knew that she was with me but going out with other men. Both of her older sisters knew and even went out together to party and misbehave together. A handful of our then mutual friends knew including one if my female cousins. Many times I’d be out with friends at bars/casino on the weekends and my gf would call me to pick her up from her lover’s home. On numerous occasions I picked her up with either a buddy in my car who saw my gf walk out of a mans home at 4am with high heels in hand and the sexiest of little skirts/tops ever. My female cousin also went on numerous occasions and was fully aware of my gf having sex other men several nights a week.
Moving to present day, I am not as open about my past of sharing my gf but I do speak very openly with a close girl friend of mine who knows absolutely everything about my lifestyle past and current wants. She is the one I have ran to over the last 5 years when a current girlfriend is giving hints of wanting to sleep around or anything lifestyle related. This girl friend of mine knows that I would let a girlfriend cut me off fully if she tried, knows I would settle for a long distance relationship with a girlfriend if it meant that she would live with another man or date other men, this friend knows my limits and desires. I feel very comfortable opening up to her and she is the only one who knows 100%, as much or more of what I have shared on this forum full of strangers.
My friend helped me the entire way just trying to help me figure out my next moves and how to potentially get myself in the lifestyle again. She would help me pick sexy outfits to gift my ex, helped with what she thought would be wise to say or would sound appealing to my ex. She was very happy hearing how things were going and it was looking like my ex was going for it and how she was mentioning seeing other men.
My last three girlfriends have all made hints, dressed sexy/wanted to be shown off, or want(Ed) to go out in very sexy outfits without me present. I can almost taste the sweet joy of once again seeing my partner become promiscuous but just never get there despite getting so close. My ex had the personality to cuck the living hell out of me and I wish I would have enjoyed her new confident and sexy body to watch her leave me at home to go be with other men.
Sorry added much more than you asked.