What is your relationship with masturbation?
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My wife is not quite as restrictive as desertsub's better half, but she also does not want me to masturbate. When she was away from home for any length of time I also was caged. In the last couple of years, she no longer travels, so I am not caged but on the honour system. Lately I have cheated a few times and rubbed on out. I used to be caged when she was with someone, but I can't remember the last time I was caged. Now, she just has me watch, or orders me to get nude and put on her panties.
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Yes it is. Thanks.
I used to be 6-6 1/2". But as I got older my cock has gotten smaller, now 5-5 1/2".
I used to be 6-6 1/2". But as I got older my cock has gotten smaller, now 5-5 1/2".
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The only way I am permitted to mastutbate is under supervison of my wife. She generally stands at the foot of the bed and has me hump a pillow through my diaper while laying on the bed on my tummy. She makes me remove my panties so that my bare diaper is exposed and it also allows for my pamper to crinkle very loudly as I hump. This adds to the humiliation. She generally verbally degrades or emasculates me as I masturbate. I must look into hear eyes while I hump. When it is time to get off I have to ask her permission if I can make sissies. Once done she makes me remove my diaper and insures I through it away in the trash as that is where my sissies belong. I absolutely love it.mr cuckles wrote: ↑Tue Jun 11, 2019 3:54 pmi like this forum and this particular thread. I'm wondering if any of you masturbate by rubbing on the wet spot left by your wife and her lover (I have - love the humiliation)? Or what about using a pillow or some other large, soft object, like a teddy bear (I haven't)? Do you do it in front of them, or just your wife/gf, or alone? Last, where's the wet spot, on your side of the bed, or hers, or just wherever?
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I am caged most of the week. Usually on the weekend SIR orders my wife to masturbate me. He refers to it as "milking the cuck". After i cum in her hand, i lick my cum from it.
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Sorry she disses you. I guess she forgot that we all have feelings.
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She does it on SIR's orders only! Last nite he ordered her to jerk me off on the tile floor and then was told by SIR to lick it up.mr cuckles wrote: ↑Sat Jun 15, 2019 7:32 pmYou're very lucky your wife is kind enough to milk you, or does she only do it because SIR orders it?
I like being told to masturbate and to eat my cum in front of my wife and her lover, or alone with my wife for her amusement. I also love having my wife jack me off into my mouth, although now that I'm getting older, it's harder to get into position and to get mr cuckles pointed in the right direction!
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we both seem at peace with us both in service to SIR>
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I masturbate way too much. I have been a masturbation addict since childhood. Almost every day several times a day. Adding internet porn has made matters worse.
My wife also masturbates, is pretty open about it and does not mind me masturbating. She is aware that I masturbate fantasizing about her extramarital activities. She welcomes this as well.
What my wife does not realise is that my nasturbation habit is affecting my sexual peformance. Last year I tried to abstain or at .least limit my masturbation. That has helped somewhat but when i realised that my performance is erratic and sometimes i can perform even though i have masturbated and on other days i cannot even though i have abstained, i stopped my abstinence.
On top of that, i feel the role of a cuck is to be a masturbator. My wife talks about me masturbating while she is out fucking.
I realised that its not so bad with me being a wanker because penetration isn t even my wife s favourite way of sexual activity. I found joy in practices that don t require maintaining an erection. If i need to i have viagra as a last resort.
My wife also masturbates, is pretty open about it and does not mind me masturbating. She is aware that I masturbate fantasizing about her extramarital activities. She welcomes this as well.
What my wife does not realise is that my nasturbation habit is affecting my sexual peformance. Last year I tried to abstain or at .least limit my masturbation. That has helped somewhat but when i realised that my performance is erratic and sometimes i can perform even though i have masturbated and on other days i cannot even though i have abstained, i stopped my abstinence.
On top of that, i feel the role of a cuck is to be a masturbator. My wife talks about me masturbating while she is out fucking.
I realised that its not so bad with me being a wanker because penetration isn t even my wife s favourite way of sexual activity. I found joy in practices that don t require maintaining an erection. If i need to i have viagra as a last resort.
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yeah, I'd prefer not to. I am an addict. I have tried to get rid of this once, with remarkably good results, but then I soon relapsed. Mostly because it is so tough to get rid of a lifetime habit. But also because i realised that my erections for intercourse are absolutely random. When I stopped porn and limited masturbation for three months, I was just as distracted and my bedroom performance was not necessarily better.
Also, I am a cuck, so I guess it is my role to masturbate.
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i so relate with you Bartleby - you just can't stop - and the desire to show the wife to others - and the cuckold feelings and angst - and so many other sexual triggers built up over a life time - I just told her last night i could stop but i am here once again - looking for contacts
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I am encouraged to masturbate by my wife and her lover. They don't want me to become overly frustrated and pouty while they can enjoy the pleasure of sex at their leisure.
-But their rules Do Not permit me to lurk outside the bedroom door and play with penis while they make love in the master bed.
-My marriage evolved into a mother/child relationship many years ago. She and my former boss became lovers 13 years ago. He is the man she loves and the man of our house. We were childless and my wife came to think of me as a child. I address her as Mommy. She does not allow me be on a 1st name basis with 'G' who I address as Papa or Father.
- They have made it clear to me that they are adults and entitled to private enjoyment of sex. So I must relieve myself alone, but Mommy sometimes helps me play and sprinkles baby oil on my penis.
-But their rules Do Not permit me to lurk outside the bedroom door and play with penis while they make love in the master bed.
-My marriage evolved into a mother/child relationship many years ago. She and my former boss became lovers 13 years ago. He is the man she loves and the man of our house. We were childless and my wife came to think of me as a child. I address her as Mommy. She does not allow me be on a 1st name basis with 'G' who I address as Papa or Father.
- They have made it clear to me that they are adults and entitled to private enjoyment of sex. So I must relieve myself alone, but Mommy sometimes helps me play and sprinkles baby oil on my penis.
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After deciding to transition and with the use of estrogen for the past 6 1/2 months I no longer have erections nor am I am able to climax on my own thru masturbation. The last time I had a climax was when her lover had me and I ejaculated in my panties without touching myself.
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Everyday lol
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For me, less masturbation results in more intimate sex with my wife. If your goal is to get all of your sexuality subsumed into the fetish, masturbate more, and masturbate exclusively to cuckold fantasies. If you want cuckolding to be a fun addition to a diverse and intimate sex life, masturbate less, and enjoy other kinds of sex with your wife.
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Before my wife's bull became more a part of our lives i masturbated on a daily basis, sometimes twice a day. Since being trained as a subcuck
i am masturbated by my wife whenever i am allowed to remove my cock cage. The hardest is when i am ordered to lick her freshly fucked sex
and am in my cage. i tend to dribble out cum at some point that is never a satisfying cum. I feel always in a state of heat.
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i am masturbated by my wife whenever i am allowed to remove my cock cage. The hardest is when i am ordered to lick her freshly fucked sex
and am in my cage. i tend to dribble out cum at some point that is never a satisfying cum. I feel always in a state of heat.
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Waay back in the day I thought that one of the perks of marriage was always having your lover right there for the rest of your life, no need to resort to jerking off anymore. LOL!
Very early in our marriage I would try to sneak masturbate next to my "sleeping" wife. I was very quiet about it; even so my wife later told me she was aware of what I was doing. I felt slightly embarrassed.
But if she wasn't in the mood for sex I sure as hell wasn't going to force the matter.
Well that was 1987.
Fast-forward to 2019 and masturbate openly right next to my wife is ALL I do for sex. I do it on my own too, but with her there watching me it is a million times better.
I am a happy and 100% confirmed cuck and now relish my role with my wife. While she has a great lover nearby I get to enjoy the intense vibe of knowing that my beautiful wife is off-limits to me, and she lets me masturbate watching her get ready for a date, or after she comes home, whenever.
She gazes at my tiny limp cock as I rub it; she tells me about her lover's massive rock-hard 10-inch cock by comparison. She sees how much this excites me and watches as I shoot my cum all over myself. Then, sometimes, she will tell me to clean myself up. She smiles as I scoop my cum off my tummy and lick it all up. She asks me, doesn't it taste good? Of course her lover pumps his load deep into my wife's mouth and deep into her gorgeous cunt. She knows all about the deliciousness of cum!
Oh yes, it all began with masturbation and Playboy Magazine back in the 60s; now it is masturbation again IN my 60s! But nothing so lame as Playboy to inspire me anymore. Now I have the hottest thing in the world to fuel my sex drive - my wife sleeping with another man. Awesome!
Very early in our marriage I would try to sneak masturbate next to my "sleeping" wife. I was very quiet about it; even so my wife later told me she was aware of what I was doing. I felt slightly embarrassed.
But if she wasn't in the mood for sex I sure as hell wasn't going to force the matter.
Well that was 1987.
Fast-forward to 2019 and masturbate openly right next to my wife is ALL I do for sex. I do it on my own too, but with her there watching me it is a million times better.
I am a happy and 100% confirmed cuck and now relish my role with my wife. While she has a great lover nearby I get to enjoy the intense vibe of knowing that my beautiful wife is off-limits to me, and she lets me masturbate watching her get ready for a date, or after she comes home, whenever.
She gazes at my tiny limp cock as I rub it; she tells me about her lover's massive rock-hard 10-inch cock by comparison. She sees how much this excites me and watches as I shoot my cum all over myself. Then, sometimes, she will tell me to clean myself up. She smiles as I scoop my cum off my tummy and lick it all up. She asks me, doesn't it taste good? Of course her lover pumps his load deep into my wife's mouth and deep into her gorgeous cunt. She knows all about the deliciousness of cum!
Oh yes, it all began with masturbation and Playboy Magazine back in the 60s; now it is masturbation again IN my 60s! But nothing so lame as Playboy to inspire me anymore. Now I have the hottest thing in the world to fuel my sex drive - my wife sleeping with another man. Awesome!
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It plays a big part. I only masturbate with my sweeties permission.jacksonjones wrote: ↑Fri May 24, 2019 2:02 pmVery curious how much of a role masturbation plays in your cuckolding.
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I secretly masturbate, but I am not allowed to. If I get caught by my wife, I get punished.
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Has she ever caught you?Smallcock74 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 18, 2023 7:10 amI secretly masturbate, but I am not allowed to. If I get caught by my wife, I get punished.
If she has what's the punishment?
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She catches me quite often. The punishment varies. She recently caned my erection.
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lately my wife has been supervising me when I jerk off.
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You should be ashamed for disobeying your wife.Smallcock74 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 18, 2023 7:10 amI secretly masturbate, but I am not allowed to. If I get caught by my wife, I get punished.
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i wholeheartedly agreeRonDom wrote: ↑Sat Nov 18, 2023 9:10 amYou should be ashamed for disobeying your wife.Smallcock74 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 18, 2023 7:10 amI secretly masturbate, but I am not allowed to. If I get caught by my wife, I get punished.
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We have sex pretty often. I only regularly masturbate if she's sick or one of us is out of town.