WatchinginNJ wrote: ↑Wed Sep 28, 2022 6:31 am
Well things have changed for sure, but we’re still good.
Jumping to the point, earlier in the summer Grace and her husband started discussing having another kid. She’s in her 30’s and time is kind of ticking for her. Now before all the baby fetishists start asking questions, I have no intention of putting one in her. I have kids, and love my kids, but I’d also want to be more involved than I think could happen. We’ve had the conversation more about “what if” than “why not” and she’s said she would be OK with having my kid, but it’s one thing if it’s an accident, versus deliberate. As of now they are trying so we’ve had to curtail a lot of activity. It also means I’m back on condoms, and being a little more careful. I like spending time with her besides the sexual aspect, but I know what having another kid is like, especially when you already have kids. I suspect our chance to get together as often as we do will be pretty limited if she does have another baby.
On a personal note I’ve mentioned I’m building another house. Let me just say that the construction industry is a fucking shit show right now. Getting subs to bid, much less show is just par for the course. If you want to make money, now's your time, there’s so much opportunity. I had a friend from the country club have his contractor just disappear mid project. The guy was like, “Yeah I can’t afford to do your project anymore” and left. I haven’t had any problems like that, but it’s been really slow. I would have been done over a month ago in normal times.
My new place is out in the country, so I’ve moved into a rental I own. The nice thing is it’s pretty central to my kids and my ex-wife's place so they tend to come and go. The downside is my oldest has pretty much figured out what’s going on. Early in the summer he came over after the gym and Grace was over. We weren’t caught in the act, but he was looking at me weird. Later he came out and asked me, and I told him that it was all above board, that we were adults, but yeah it’s probably what it looks like. So we had the non-monogamy conversation. He now texts me anytime he comes over, so there’s that.
The big story for the summer, was a lifestyle party event. I’ve got good friends that are swingers and they always have an annual summer bash. They’ve got a nice secluded place with a pool and their bash is usually an all day into the next day event. Grace and I had a lot of pillow talk about this for a few months leading up to it and she mentioned she found it very intriguing. We talked about her going with me, or even her and her husband going as my guests.
The downside here was one of the couples most likely attending would be a teacher-couple in the same district. I told her I could reach out discretely and kind of gauge their reaction. From my side I know them and they are good people, and have played with the wife in the past, so I didn’t think it would be a risk, so much as it may just be awkward. I’ve seen coworkers naked but it was always on purpose you know?
I reached out and kind of poked around the issue. My swinger friend sent me a message back saying, “All good, we won’t be there anyway”. They had some conflicts for summer travel sports. Ironically she pegged it right away, “Grace?”
I asked “How’d you know?”
“I know you, and I’ve seen you together and how she looks at you.”
Noted. Swinger-radar? Swadar? Don’t know how to say it as catchy as gadar? My swinger friend and her husband are good people, so I trust her with that info. We have a really good community with the school district and parents, and everyone attends the different events like high school football games, and the like. But I imagine it would take a special ‘eye’ to pick out more than just friends sitting together at a game. I mean I sit with my ex-wife half the time.
With that info, Grace said she’d like to go even if it’s just to “see what it’s like” She told me she didn’t know if she’d want to swap, but thought it might be fun to watch or be watched.
My friends house is in a nice country setting in a rural area. Perfect for a big swinger party. They have a tree lined driveway, it’s surrounded by woods, and along with a big patio and swimming pool it’s perfect for discreetly entertaining.
Swinger parties are like ballroom dancing to me. The mans job really is to frame the woman, and show her off. You have to show up and look good, so you can’t look like a schlub, but in the end you also need to come prepared to get busy. So I dressed in a nice short sleeve button down, fitted shorts and casual shoes. Our hostess described the required attire as “Upscale Vegas Pool Party” and that’s what I relayed to Grace.
When I picked her up she was wearing a short summer dress, with a halter top, but I could see the strings for a bikini top on. I didn’t bring a suit, because frankly I knew if there was swimming it would probably be skinny dipping anyway. I warned Grace there’d be a lot of casual and explicit nudity, and most women brought suits for show more than function.
We parked in the big circle drive and I counted about 10 cars. Usually these parties are about 20 people so that seemed about right. You have to be vouched for, so everyone pretty much knows the hosts directly, and over the last couple years has been a pretty consistent core of people, with a few couples coming and going due to schedule issues, or the like.
I introduced our hostess to Grace and she quickly grabbed her arm and shooed me off to the bar in the back while she gave Grace the grand tour. Grace’s eyes got kind of bright because our hostess was clad in what was basically a see through summer dress. Later when we were talking about it she told be her first thought was “Holy tits!” and then it sort of became a little more real.
I got to the bar and decided to make a mixed drink for myself and grabbed a glass of Sangria for Grace. I said hi to some of the couples that were around the pool, and a couple were already naked in the pool and every woman was topless. The couple in the pool were not coupled normally so it looks like the fun had already begun.
No new couples, so I began introducing Grace. She’s my girlfriend. She’s married. Not to me. OK good, that’s out of the way.
Ever go to a high school reunion where you didn’t attend the high school? Well that’s what it’s like going to one of these parties for the first time. “This is Bill and his wife Sharon”. “Hey I’m Mark and that’s my wife in the pool.” “I’m Beth and that’s my husband with his wife”. I mean not 100% the same, but similar in a weird way. Authors note, I’d been to two of my ex-wifes reunion, and do remember a few couples being with new husbands and wives after? So maybe more similar than I thought.
This summer in NY has been really hot. Normally we might have a nice 75 or 80 degree day, where you’re in the shade and its bearable, but this day? It was in the 90’s and hot. Our hosts pool had a nice covered bar, and a big covered patio area. So I found a spot and took off my shirt. Grace took the queue and undid her summer dress. She had a scandalously small bikini on that barely covered her small breasts, and a cheeky bottom that made her ass look awesome.
“Wow, that’s pretty racy for you”
She smiled, but joked back “I’m still overdressed.”
We made the rounds and introductions. Right away there were two couples that you could tell were interested in Grace. I introduced Grace as a newbie and that she was “testing the waters”. Like I said, this is a great party, and really low pressure. One of the couples is still soft-swap only even after coming for a few years. Right away one of the women asked, “Does she like girls?”
She shook her head and our questioner stated, “Oh that’s a shame!”. Grace’s neck flushed red from the compliment.
After catching up with a few of the couples I knew well, and introducing Grace among them we found ourselves at the pools edge. It was hot and I wanted to cool off. I took off my clothes and jumped in, and motioned for Grace to join me. She started to get in.
“loose the top.”
She frowned, but reached behind her and untied it. Throwing it on the lounge with my stuff.
We were embracing in the pool when the husband of one of the couples came and sat on the edge of the pool to talk to us. It was the usual chit chat, swinger-type feeling out if she might be interested type thing. His wife joined him and they got in completely nude and got in the pool with a round of drinks.
It was really hot just sitting there talking to some attractive naked people while my topless date was next to me. I’m a voyeur at heart and I love showing off the girl I’m with. Grace kind of picked up on the vibe and was lively and animated. Our friends said they were going to get out, and go see some other people, but that maybe later we could “catch up”
“Oh they want to play with us.”
Grace being new and naive said, “Really? You think so?”
We spent the next few hours mingling, and introducing ourselves. Grace stayed topless and was really comfortable with it after awhile. It’s hard not to be when most people are naked.
There’s always somebody who starts it off, and sure enough our hostess had enough mingling. We were walking into the house when I noticed her feet up in the air and she was getting railed. It was right out of porn scene and it made Grace stop in her tracks for a brief moment. Her initial reaction was slight embarrassment, like when you walk in on someone you’re not supposed to.
“Let’s sit and watch. Trust me she wants us too.”
The surreal scene played out, while people came and went. I massaged Grace’s clit through her swimsuit and she watched intently on the coupling in front of us. She came pretty quickly.
I took it as a queue to do a check in. She was excited. It was fun to watch, and a little taboo to her.
Over the next hour or so couples stared pairing off. I took Grace by the hand and we went to one of the rooms set up for play. I explained that if we leave the door open, someone could watch, or we close it and have some private time. She said “It’s up to you.”
So I left it open.
I stripped her bottoms off and we started making out. After a bit I heard someone ask, “There you two went. Mind if we join you?” It was the couple from the pool.
I said OK, and Grace whispered to me, “Just us for now OK?”
I got the message and told our new friends it would be just same room play. “Grace is kind of new and exploring what she likes.”
Grace started to quickly work on my erection. I was caressing her all over and when I got to her pussy found she was very wet. I asked her if she was ready and she shook her head affirmative.
I slid into her with ease and started to fuck her slowly and rhythmically. Our couple friend was masturbating each other while intently watching Grace. I whispered to her she was being watched and that sent her over the edge.
The woman said out loud, “She’s beautiful.”
I got into a rhythm and fucked her for what felt like an eternity but was probably just a few minutes. I came pretty hard and had to catch my breath. When I started to notice my surroundings, I heard our couple friends going at it and Grace and I spooned while we watched them finish.
While I’d love to tell you Grace turned into a sex fiend, alas, it was just us for the night. We did get to watch and be watched a few more times. And our lady friend offered me a blow job at one point in the night. I asked Grace if what she thought and she joked, “It’s a blow job!”
Later while we were driving home and having the post talk I asked her what her thoughts were. She said it was fun and really sexy and liberating.
“Would you do it again?”
“I think so.”
“Would you do more?”
“Probably”
So since then and them focusing on having a new baby our time has been a little more erratic. Certainly there’s been a few dates postponed because of “baby making attempts”
So for me I think this is where I’ll wrap up this thread. I think she’ll be a part of my life for the foreseeable future, but for sure if she gets pregnant her priorities will change for awhile. I wish them the best, and one of my great joys in my life is my own children, so I can’t wait for them to enjoy this again.