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mfm4bnc
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Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by mfm4bnc » Wed May 08, 2024 9:46 am

I know there are categories within the umbrella of cuckolding, such as stag-vixen, cuckold, hotwife, etc. Is the desire to have your wife CHEAT a distinct category? My posts about it are usually not well received on the cuckold forums. Where can I find like minded husbands?

Thanks!

inivisibletwin
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by inivisibletwin » Wed May 08, 2024 10:03 am

well, define cheat? I feel like every couple defines cheating differently, and that might be why your posts are not well received. In my personal definition, my wife is free to sleep with whom ever she wants and that does not count as cheating until / unless she lies to me about it or keeps it from me. in my head, the lying and cheating and secrecy is the cheating, not the sex with other men. (this, of course does not apply to her boyfriend, she does not have to share with me details of their sex life. but thats a special specific case, and is just about secrecy / privacy, not lying... but she knows she doesnt HAVE to lie)

I want my wife to sleep with other men, but I don't want her to cheat.
current number of guys my wife has fucked: 68

We only count new guys, we celebrate every 10th guy

our story: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=66297

photos of her: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=66354

mfm4bnc
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by mfm4bnc » Wed May 08, 2024 11:15 am

I DO want her to cheat. I want to "catch her." She knows she has a hall pass, but my perfect fantasy (like consensual non-conscent) is for her to make a game of it. She keeps it a secret, but doesn't try too hard, so I can catch her.

scarfolamew
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by scarfolamew » Wed May 08, 2024 1:17 pm

I've got the cheating fetish. My fantasy is to find out she's been slutting it up behind my back for quite some time, that she's gone through lengths to keep her cheating hidden. I want her to promise to stop, but be so overcome by her need for strange dick that she violates her promise.

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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by trecital » Wed May 08, 2024 11:26 pm

mfm4bnc wrote:
Wed May 08, 2024 9:46 am
I know there are categories within the umbrella of cuckolding, such as stag-vixen, cuckold, hotwife, etc. Is the desire to have your wife CHEAT a distinct category? My posts about it are usually not well received on the cuckold forums. Where can I find like minded husbands?

Thanks!
I think there are likeminded husbands (and boyfriends) here. There might not be as many as you would like, but they are here.
Of course, you could try other cuck forums. But, good luck with that. Unless you like one line responses!

As regards your statement that your posts about it are not usually well received, I can't really comment. It would help if the function to view peoples previous posts actually worked (it does, very occaisionaly).
So I've been unable to look at your previous posts and form an opinion.
Could you give examples of what you consider as 'not well received' comments?
If you don't want to clog your thread, then you could PM me, if you want to discuss further.

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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by luvwives999 » Thu May 09, 2024 1:09 am

Before we married, I told my future and now wife, that I had no problem with her sleeping around. That we would be married a very long time, and it was unrealistic to think I would be the last man she slept with. I only had 2 things that I asked for. 1, that she be open and honest with me and not cheat behind my back, and second, that she not do something with someone else she had not done with me first. 15 years into the marriage, she goes to an out of town party, sleeps with a guy multiple times, and doesn't tell me. 4 months later there is a party now near our home town, and she has to tell me she is going and that she is going to be sleeping with the same guy, so she had to come clean about the last time. I had no problem with her sleeping around, it was actually a huge turn-on, but I did have a problem with her not telling me, and only coming clean so she could continue. It made me suspicious for a long time, keeping a closer eye on her, not the way I wanted to live.

sandman
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by sandman » Fri May 10, 2024 1:34 am

How about consensual cheating

Fred_Garvin
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by Fred_Garvin » Fri May 10, 2024 6:42 am

I've been thinking about this. It is a subcategory of cuckolding that appeals to many, myself included. I came up with one, and asked an AI bot for more, and it came up some that are pretty good. Here they are:

1. Consensual Deceptive Cuckolding
2. Covert Cuckolding
3. Surprise Cuckolding
4. Unveiled Cuckolding
5. Stealth Cuckolding
6. Unexpected Infidelity
7. Discovery Cuckolding

I think I like "Discovery Cuckolding" best, but "Unveiled Cuckolding" is pretty good too.

I would like to hear other suggestions and opinions as well.

Dwightdalwood
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by Dwightdalwood » Fri May 10, 2024 7:47 am

I like Surprise Cuckolding. Everyone likes a surprise! My wife surprised me about 6 years ago. I'm 53 and no need for viagra. Just have to think about that day and instant raging hard on

Fred_Garvin
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by Fred_Garvin » Fri May 10, 2024 8:54 am

I asked the AI Chatbot for more suggestions, and she came up with these:

8. Secret Cuckolding
9. Hidden Cuckolding
10. Mystery Cuckolding
11. Spy Cuckolding
12. Secret Agent Cuckolding
13. Closet Cuckolding
14. Undercover Cuckolding
15. Hidden Desire Cuckolding

I think she came up with some good ones. Maybe we can choose one that will stick and be accepted as the shorthand term for this particular kink.

mfm4bnc
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by mfm4bnc » Fri May 10, 2024 11:18 am

Fred_Garvin wrote:
Fri May 10, 2024 6:42 am
I've been thinking about this. It is a subcategory of cuckolding that appeals to many, myself included. I came up with one, and asked an AI bot for more, and it came up some that are pretty good. Here they are:

1. Consensual Deceptive Cuckolding
2. Covert Cuckolding
3. Surprise Cuckolding
4. Unveiled Cuckolding
5. Stealth Cuckolding
6. Unexpected Infidelity
7. Discovery Cuckolding

I think I like "Discovery Cuckolding" best, but "Unveiled Cuckolding" is pretty good too.

I would like to hear other suggestions and opinions as well.
I love discovery cuckolding!

mfm4bnc
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Re: Name for wanting her to cheat.

Unread post by mfm4bnc » Fri May 10, 2024 11:20 am

scarfolamew wrote:
Wed May 08, 2024 1:17 pm
I've got the cheating fetish. My fantasy is to find out she's been slutting it up behind my back for quite some time, that she's gone through lengths to keep her cheating hidden. I want her to promise to stop, but be so overcome by her need for strange dick that she violates her promise.
That is my favorite fantasy. Not sure I could handle quite that intensity.

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