Is this a cuck Phenomenon?

[BFofGF]

I’m a cuck & I literally can’t cum unless I’m with or thinking about my
GF ( who’s my Dom in the bedroom) she has a few regulars she plays with while I watch , fluff & clean up all cum . I love her very much and she Doms me in the bedroom. She rarely lets me fuck her and prefers that she sits on my face & or talks dirty to me while I masterbate my dicklett. I prefer this too & we call it our “ own special way of making love”

She doesn’t believe me that I can ONLY think of her to cum LOL & or thinks I’m saying it just to make her feel good !

I literally feel like my brain has been re-wired !?

We’ve been together for 7 years and ever since shes cucked me I can ONLY think of her while masturbating . The very few times I’ve tried to look at women on the internet I have to find a thicc blonde Milf and I have to pretend it’s her ! LOL

Two years ago we broke up for 4 months and I met a girl who was open to the cuck lifestyle but we were in the very beginning stages and we had not been together long enough to fall in love and she had not cucked me yet so I literally had to take viagra to get & remain hard . We only played about 5-6 times before I got back with my GF , so I really can’t compare her to my current GF .

Since my Current GF started cucking me I’ve never had to take anything like viagra . I’m so turned on by her & our dynamic that I’m perpetually rock hard ( yet small LOL )

My question is ….WHY ???!!!!

[ucaneffher]

Very interesting! Curious to hear more details about this...

[ugcp]

I think there are a couple phenomenon at play here.

First, true fetishes are often such that those possessing the fetish require that mental or physical stimulus (or that of another fetish they possess) to be able to be sexually aroused. This is more pronounced with age, when simple physical responsiveness is diminished.

Second, submissives often battle sexual anxiety and insecurity when not with a partner that they are safely bonded to. They can still function sexually sometimes without such a partner, but those with penises can struggle to achieve and maintain erection, and mental disconnect/disassociation can also be the result for any sub when anxiety is high.

[patw3268]

As a wannabe, I also to struggle to cum without thinking about my wife being taken. I imagine if it ever actually happened, I’d also be totally fixated. If she sat on my face after fucking another man, game over. RIP any other sexy thoughts. Haha.

[MartasBoy]

I’m a cuck & I literally can’t cum unless I’m with or thinking about my GF...

...My question is ….WHY ???!!!!

It's called being fixated. It happens when one person or fantasy if it's exactly what turns you on and you become fixated on that or sort of addicted. You are lucky. It usually happens the other way around, with guys getting fixated on porn and then they can't get it up with their wife. It happens a lot to guys married to vanilla wives, and then they get addicted to porn.

A guy can get fixated on a particular porn fantasy, say dominatrix porn, and then he goes to his very vanilla wife and admits, "Honey I can only get It up if I fantasize about you tying me up, sitting on my face, and telling me I'm a worthless piece of scum." And if the wife responds by saying, "Oh, that's sick! I will not do that!" Then the guy is stuck with porn and before long, he can no longer get it up for his wife.

You are lucky. You are fixated on the particular looks of your wife, and her dominating you.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Once I watched/heard my wife enjoying her boyfriend, I could think of no other way to have sex with her other than as a sloppy-seconds man or a cum-cleaner.

It was, and continues to be, the hottest thing I’ve ever seen in my life.

When we occasionally have solo sex without him, I can simply NOT think of anything else other than watching him on her, seeing his penis sliding into and out of her, listening to her moan and eventually cum, and finally watching him pick up his pace/more urgently pounding, stiffening his jaw as they maintain eye-contact, his low-moaned exhale, and the sudden stoppage of movement with that last thrust, evidently unloading inside of her.

And to hear her, the woman I love, the woman who bore our children, the woman who loves me, gladly moan her acceptance in return…..

That did it for me!

I guess I’ve become fixated on that experience….and then, later, to see his cum dripping from her down there. Fortunately, she has given me many dozens of opportunities to satisfy my fixation over the last 17 years with him.

They are winding down, now…looking in other directions.

At first, I thought we were returning to “vanilla.” Then, I realized she was/is completely drawn to a coworker. She was interested in another lover, it seems.

He thought she’d be a cheating wife. I asked her to let him know I’m cucked. She eventually (awkwardly) did. He immediately recoiled, thinking that I’d have to be present to satisfy my own fixation. She assured him that I would NOT need to be present. (I was, naturally, a bit jaded by this development, but she assures me that she’ll re-surface the topic when he feels more comfortable. For my part, I’d seen it so much with her previous boyfriend that I had PLENTY of fixational imagery to occupy my mind.) He is now okay with the situation.

They don’t fuck as much, but it has become an occasional treat that she should come home late every two or three weeks and show me her “punished” pussy when she gets home.

My fixation takes hold. I move to reclaim my wife.

In my mind, as I move back and forth in her, I can imagine nothing other than the fact that he was just inside of her an hour or so prior, feeling her pussy milk his nuts, him squeezing her tits, him kissing her on the mouth, him listening to her moan on his cock, and finally, him stiffening his jaw, letting out a low moan, and thrusting deep inside of her one last time before withdrawing his limp penis a minute or two later.

It’s a fixation I shall NEVER get tired of.

Once you’ve actually seen it, it’s impossible to un-see…..even if you’re not there.

[MartasBoy]

I can simply NOT think of anything else other than watching him on her, seeing his penis sliding into and out of her, listening to her moan and eventually cum, and finally watching him pick up his pace/more urgently pounding, stiffening his jaw as they maintain eye-contact, his low-moaned exhale, and the sudden stoppage of movement with that last thrust, evidently unloading inside of her.

That did it for me!

I guess I’ve become fixated on that experience….

At first, I thought we were returning to “vanilla.” Then, I realized she was/is completely drawn to a coworker. She was interested in another lover, it seems.

My fixation takes hold. I move to reclaim my wife.

It’s a fixation I shall NEVER get tired of.

You describe the experience, in the feelings very nicely. This is very exciting and very hot. Thank you for sharing

[MartasBoy]

I can simply NOT think of anything else other than watching him on her, seeing his penis sliding into and out of her, listening to her moan and eventually cum, and finally watching him pick up his pace/more urgently pounding, stiffening his jaw as they maintain eye-contact, his low-moaned exhale, and the sudden stoppage of movement with that last thrust, evidently unloading inside of her.

That did it for me!

I guess I’ve become fixated on that experience….

At first, I thought we were returning to “vanilla.” Then, I realized she was/is completely drawn to a coworker. She was interested in another lover, it seems.

My fixation takes hold. I move to reclaim my wife.

It’s a fixation I shall NEVER get tired of.

You describe the experience, and the feelings very nicely. This is very exciting and very hot. Thank you for sharing