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PhilSwe Couple wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 7:13 am

I have a 24 yo girlfriend who is not on birth control. Its too early for kids so I am trying to be careful and not cum inside her during her fertile period. She is meeting other men bareback sometimes and is becoming so excited that she wants them to cum inside of her since it makes her feel so good (and she knows I am also getting so excited about it). Anybody else with similar experiences?

Seems almost all in this forum also love creampies when hotwifing. How do you handle the pregnancy risk?

PhilSwe Couple wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 8:08 am

Even if I am trying to be careful we dont mind to take the risk, since we are planning for a kid later. Sex with preg risk is so much hotter and more loving.

Cdncuck wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 7:55 am

You know what they call people who use pulling out for birth control? Parents!

gruenberg wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 9:25 pm

The fact is that the possibility of pregnancy is part of the appeal of this lifestyle. With all its consequences.
If you break it down to the basic social level, then the female has sexual intercourse with another male. Why is that? Because she wants the sperm and therefore the genetics of the other male.
If we play in the lifestyle, then you can project that onto this formula.

Is this a good idea from a social point of view? Nowadays with all the possibility of detecting the biological father? Probably not.

But most of the time when our brain and will to survive as a group of primates were developed, there wasn't a DNA kit to buy for some bucks. So nobody cared who the biological father was, important was the one who raised the child. Maybe the best of two worlds: the best physical genetics and the best stable enviroment.

mmcnx2 wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 8:43 pm

Find a guy that has been snipped. I was with a couple for a few years, hubby used a condom, I got to take her bareback and fill her up. They were holding off starting a family and they both got off knowing I could cum in her and he couldn't.

annsman wrote: ↑

Mon Mar 11, 2024 1:48 am

mmcnx2 wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 8:43 pm

Find a guy that has been snipped. I was with a couple for a few years, hubby used a condom, I got to take her bareback and fill her up. They were holding off starting a family and they both got off knowing I could cum in her and he couldn't.

One of my wife’s boyfriends had been snipped and

A big part of the turn on for both of us is knowing that she has part of him inside her for days afterwards.

leggysman wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 6:45 pm

Cdncuck wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 7:55 am

You know what they call people who use pulling out for birth control? Parents!

It's a cute catchphrase, but not particularly true.

Here's a recent article about it that's interesting: https://slate [dot] com/technology/2024/02/withdrawal-pullout-method-birth-control-contraceptive-pregnancy.html

I used this method my entire adult life - many many partners, very much sex, no mistakes.

(and all along I was plenty fertile - after we had our kids, it took 2 vasectomies to shut me down)

Cdncuck wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2024 8:14 am

leggysman wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 6:45 pm

Cdncuck wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 7:55 am

You know what they call people who use pulling out for birth control? Parents!

It's a cute catchphrase, but not particularly true.

Here's a recent article about it that's interesting: https://slate [dot] com/technology/2024/02/withdrawal-pullout-method-birth-control-contraceptive-pregnancy.html

I used this method my entire adult life - many many partners, very much sex, no mistakes.

(and all along I was plenty fertile - after we had our kids, it took 2 vasectomies to shut me down)

The link wouldn't open. All I can say is we all have different experiences. I know of two instances where pregnancy has resulted from the pull out method. One of them was my ex wife.

slate [dot] com

slate.com

Sexual health experts have known for years that it’s about as effective as male condoms when used correctly—the two have near-identical failure rates of 4 percent and 3 percent, respectively. And in a large national study, 18 percent of couples who relied solely on withdrawal experienced an unplanned pregnancy, compared with the 17 percent who used only condoms.

the clinical community tends to trust and prefer contraceptive methods that they can prescribe. “Withdrawal is a behavior,” he said. “It’s not necessarily a product that you can sell or a technique you can teach that can be billed.”

This is ironic because the very people who counsel against withdrawal also often use it themselves. In a study of 340 sexual and reproductive health experts, 76 percent had relied on withdrawal at some point in their lives.

annsman wrote: ↑

Mon Mar 11, 2024 1:48 am

mmcnx2 wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 8:43 pm

Find a guy that has been snipped. I was with a couple for a few years, hubby used a condom, I got to take her bareback and fill her up. They were holding off starting a family and they both got off knowing I could cum in her and he couldn't.

One of my wife’s boyfriends had been snipped and while physically the sex, sloppy seconds and creampies were enjoyable we both felt there was something missing emotionally by her not having his sperm inside her.

A big part of the turn on for both of us is knowing that she has part of him inside her for days afterwards.

leggysman wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2024 8:25 am

Cdncuck wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 12, 2024 8:14 am

leggysman wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 6:45 pm

Cdncuck wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 09, 2024 7:55 am

You know what they call people who use pulling out for birth control? Parents!

It's a cute catchphrase, but not particularly true.

Here's a recent article about it that's interesting: https://slate [dot] com/technology/2024/02/withdrawal-pullout-method-birth-control-contraceptive-pregnancy.html

I used this method my entire adult life - many many partners, very much sex, no mistakes.

(and all along I was plenty fertile - after we had our kids, it took 2 vasectomies to shut me down)

The link wouldn't open. All I can say is we all have different experiences. I know of two instances where pregnancy has resulted from the pull out method. One of them was my ex wife.

I obfuscated the link because the admins don't particularly like us posting links. Try replacing

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Different experiences is ... something ... but facts and statistics are something else.

Sexual health experts have known for years that it’s about as effective as male condoms when used correctly—the two have near-identical failure rates of 4 percent and 3 percent, respectively. And in a large national study, 18 percent of couples who relied solely on withdrawal experienced an unplanned pregnancy, compared with the 17 percent who used only condoms.

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the clinical community tends to trust and prefer contraceptive methods that they can prescribe. “Withdrawal is a behavior,” he said. “It’s not necessarily a product that you can sell or a technique you can teach that can be billed.”

This is ironic because the very people who counsel against withdrawal also often use it themselves. In a study of 340 sexual and reproductive health experts, 76 percent had relied on withdrawal at some point in their lives.