Wife Is On a Plane To Spend a Week with Her Crush

[Kaffircouple90]

Can’t believe I’m writing this but it’s happening. She’s making the trip now to go spend a week with her crush. No idea if anything will happen or not but it’s very likely. He knows he has that option. Their plans include sharing hotel rooms…nervous as hell but it’s also so hot.

[ucaneffher]

Damn, that's intense! A whole damn flight to be with another man is seriously hot. I've driven my then gf 200 miles each way to go spend 2 weeks with her favorite lover. Hopefully something fruitful will grow out of this trip.

Has she given you hints or told you of her plans once she is with him? Such as dinners or dancing? Or doing some type of activity together?

Will she be staying at his home with him?

[Kaffircouple90]

Damn, that's intense! A whole damn flight to be with another man is seriously hot. I've driven my then gf 200 miles each way to go spend 2 weeks with her favorite lover. Hopefully something fruitful will grow out of this trip.

Has she given you hints or told you of her plans once she is with him? Such as dinners or dancing? Or doing some type of activity together?

Will she be staying at his home with him?

They’ll be staying in the same hotel room. She definitely wants to have him but not sure he wants it, he’s my good friend and maybe too loyal (even though he knows he has the option).

[Cory87]

Please keep us updated.

[Long Lurker 34]

Please keep us updated.

KC90 - Seconded!!

[Kaffircouple90]

Please keep us updated.

So far, nothing. My wife is dying from desperation. She said at one point this evening they’d both taken showers and were just in towels and their eyes briefly met in the mirror…And nothing happened. I don’t get it. Who takes a trip with their friend’s wife knowing you have a green light, she wants you, and you share a hotel room, and walk around her in a towel, and nothing happens…

[stubbyhubby]

Can’t believe I’m writing this but it’s happening. She’s making the trip now to go spend a week with her crush. No idea if anything will happen or not but it’s very likely. He knows he has that option. Their plans include sharing hotel rooms…nervous as hell but it’s also so hot.

Keep us updated!! It is super hot, especially when you don't hear from her for days. Part of you worries, but part of you knows she is just enjoying herself too much to be bothered with calling you.

Lisa did this several times years ago. Her job required travel, so she started mixing pleasure with business and had me arrange for her other men to hook up with her while she was there. That was back when Craigslist was still around and it was a lot easier.

She traveled to Portland one time and spent a week with a married couple. The wife was no longer interested in having sex but loved watching her husband tie up other women and fuck the hell out of them.

She has also traveled to Dallas, Baltimore, southeastern Virginia, somewhere down in Mississippi and Las Vegas. In every case she was there a week and I arranged a man or men for her to be with.

[scarfolamew]

Please keep us updated.

So far, nothing. My wife is dying from desperation. She said at one point this evening they’d both taken showers and were just in towels and their eyes briefly met in the mirror…And nothing happened. I don’t get it. Who takes a trip with their friend’s wife knowing you have a green light, she wants you, and you share a hotel room, and walk around her in a towel, and nothing happens…

Are you certain he knows he has the green light? If you've just hinted and implied, trust me he has no clue. People like us are not normal lmao. Why don't you give him some direct indication you'll be extremely disapplinted if something doesn't happen?

There's also things your wife can do to get his hands on her naked body, eg claim a sore muscle and ask for a massage.

[Whenwillshe]

Tell her to make the 1st move and she'll find out fast if it's on!
Life is too short!

[Kaffircouple90]

Please keep us updated.

So far, nothing. My wife is dying from desperation. She said at one point this evening they’d both taken showers and were just in towels and their eyes briefly met in the mirror…And nothing happened. I don’t get it. Who takes a trip with their friend’s wife knowing you have a green light, she wants you, and you share a hotel room, and walk around her in a towel, and nothing happens…

Are you certain he knows he has the green light? If you've just hinted and implied, trust me he has no clue. People like us are not normal lmao. Why don't you give him some direct indication you'll be extremely disapplinted if something doesn't happen?

There's also things your wife can do to get his hands on her naked body, eg claim a sore muscle and ask for a massage.

He and I literally had a conversation in June that we both approve of him as the ‘third,’ if the opportunity presents itself. Like there’s no doubt he knows.

[Kaffircouple90]

Tell her to make the 1st move and she'll find out fast if it's on!
Life is too short!

Nah it’s on the dude, not the woman.

[Long Lurker 34]

Tell her to make the 1st move and she'll find out fast if it's on!
Life is too short!

Nah it’s on the dude, not the woman.

KC90 - I have to agree with WWS, life is too short. It could be your friend, even with all the green lights is just not a guy who has a lot of confidence in himself. Inparticular with the wife of a friend, even thou they showered together and spent the night in the same bed. Despite outward appearances and how he comes off or portrays himself doesn't mean he doesn't have self doubt and maybe feeling guilt.
If you and your wife really want this to be a success, have her give a little lead. Once the ice is broken it's another matter all to together.

[Kaffircouple90]

Tell her to make the 1st move and she'll find out fast if it's on!
Life is too short!

Nah it’s on the dude, not the woman.

KC90 - I have to agree with WWS, life is too short. It could be your friend, even with all the green lights is just not a guy who has a lot of confidence in himself. Inparticular with the wife of a friend, even thou they showered together and spent the night in the same bed. Despite outward appearances and how he comes off or portrays himself doesn't mean he doesn't have self doubt and maybe feeling guilt.
If you and your wife really want this to be a success, have her give a little lead. Once the ice is broken it's another matter all to together.

I think she’s friend zoned, like he’s talking to her about other girls.

[Whenwillshe]

Ok, so maybe something subtle like." I'm cold, come over here and fuck me"
Might work.

[Kaffircouple90]

Ok, so maybe something subtle like." I'm cold, come over here and fuck me"
Might work.

She told him she’s cold and he offered her his blanket lol

[scarfolamew]

Brutal. Text him and ask why he's not taking care of your wife hahaha.

Do any of yall drink alcohol? That could help.

[Johor]

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[Johor]

You need to call him and tell him you don't approve of his behavior. Be direct and tell him to fuck your wife.

[Kaffircouple90]

You need to call him and tell him you don't approve of his behavior. Be direct and tell him to fuck your wife.

Lol yah that’ll work. Just tell my really good friend to fuck her even if he doesn’t want to.

[AstaSilva]

Tell him you'll give him a cookie if he cooperates. It would convince me

[Dream Weaver]

You need to call him and tell him you don't approve of his behavior. Be direct and tell him to fuck your wife.

Lol yah that’ll work. Just tell my really good friend to fuck her even if he doesn’t want to.

I bet it very well might work, I think he might simply be very shy. I'm guessing he's a respectful guy.

So don't be so brutally crass, but reach out, ask if he has a moment, and tell him she is definitely a little shy, but she flew all the way there to have adult fun and it's really okay to make that move.

[Whenwillshe]

Keep us posted.
Hard to believe he hasn't made a move.

[scarfolamew]

He hasn't made a move because KC never had an explicit discussion with him about the intentions for the trip. Just a vague chat about him being a third 'if the opportunity presents itself."

How does he know this is the KC-approved 'opportunity'? He doesn't know the rules of the lifestyle; he could reasonably assume that it means at some point in the future the three of them will be together and KC will give the actual explicit greenlight.

Maybe I'm wrong and the discussions were clearer than I imagine, but it really feels like they're operating on implication and assumption to a degree.

[scarfolamew]

So it was a bust?

[Kaffircouple90]

So it was a bust?

Yes, he told her he thought he could but he can’t, that she reminds him too much of me or else he’d be all over her