Cuckold urges and surges

[Her_cucky]

A question for cuckolds, bulls and people of expertise in the lifestyle.
I am new to the LS and may sound a bit naive so bear with me.

As cuckold, do you ever experience strong urges where you are horny, a little extra than usual, and not just for having sex, but a very strong urge to see your wife very well pleased by a man, where every part of her body is taken care of so that she moans like never before?

Sometimes I get this feeling when I'm looking at my wife Renne's sexy body or sometimes when we are having sex, I just can't stop obsessing about every pound of her flesh to be shaking in orgasm with another man while I enjoy her pleasure. I'm like 50%turned on by her beautiful body and 50% by the fantasy of her being fucked into multiple orgasms.

How do you address them?

[Shadnaster]

Yes. I'm at my horniest when I see her receiving pleasure from another man.

[Cdncuck]

Some of us are just wired that way

[Her number1]

Some of us are just wired that way

[ucaneffher]

A question for cuckolds, bulls and people of expertise in the lifestyle.
I am new to the LS and may sound a bit naive so bear with me.

As cuckold, do you ever experience strong urges where you are horny, a little extra than usual, and not just for having sex, but a very strong urge to see your wife very well pleased by a man, where every part of her body is taken care of so that she moans like never before?

Sometimes I get this feeling when I'm looking at my wife Renne's sexy body or sometimes when we are having sex, I just can't stop obsessing about every pound of her flesh to be shaking in orgasm with another man while I enjoy her pleasure. I'm like 50%turned on by her beautiful body and 50% by the fantasy of her being fucked into multiple orgasms.

How do you address them?

Back in the day when my then girlfriend and I were in the lifestyle, I have to say that I had more urges and surges than not. My type of personality and my desire led our relationship to become extreme when it came to the lifestyle.

During our talks I would really encourage her to let go and not hold back in fear of hurting me or making me feel left out. I told her that I actually received pleasure by the frequency and intensity of her promiscuity and therefore encouraged her to not hold back and take on more lovers, go out a few more times per week, spend more nights away with other men, spend entire weekends away.

She was confused at first but she really loved the idea and in no time I was experiencing her getting ready for dates almost every evening after work, she started spending the night with many different men and a lot more frequently. I was in heaven and I was very vocal about it with words of affirmation, encouragement, and support. As a result my girlfriend had more men on rotation than the actual amount of male friends that I had. As this became normal, we started talking about taking it a step further as we both wanted her to be even more active and involved. This led to her moving out of my place and living with her lover who at that time became her boyfriend.

This is how I addressed my urges and surges. It led to my girlfriend going to live with another man. She was away for 18 months and I loved every moment of it. I was in a state of arousal 24/7 not having my girlfriend with me, not knowing when she was being intimate with her boyfriend, asking myself if she was likely in their bedroom wearing lingerie for him, or perhaps she was bent over and being taken from behind, not to mention being unable to show up or call her until she reached out. It was a whole intense mindfuck that came from me getting the urge to want another or other men to have very frequent access to the girl that should've been for me and only me but instead I preferred to share with whomever she wanted to be with.

[tractorman2]

I am a locked semi feminised cuck and have been for over 30 years i have these feelings everyday and have since i was about 21. They surge when i know i am about to deliver her to her lover or he is here and she is his.

[Teensy1]

I’m at my most excited when wifey is at her bull’s place getting a deep pounding. I stay at home with a vibrator up my ass playing with my cuckyworm until it dribbles my useless semen.

[stevens4fun]

It's different for each couple, but for us, - my surges of pre-tryst (on her part) horniness were addressed a couple of ways: 1) if my wife wasn't nearby to help me, jacking off was the best solution. But the benefits of jacking off only last a short while before the horns are up again and my penis is again tingling and semi-erect, and 2) a loving gesture on the part of my wife - she would have me take my clothes off and she would sit beside me or between my legs and give me a prostate massage while slowly jacking me to orgasm. A woman who is really good at this can hold you on the verge of orgasm until you are exhausted, then let you cum. This is where good communication skills are so important - you need to be very clear with your wife about what will keep you on edge, and then satisfy you when she's ready for you to cum. This orgasm usually buys me a half a day or more of not being too horny. The day before was always best for us, otherwise I woudn't have much of a load for her when she came home from her date.

I think about it all the time. If you are really lucky, your wife will simply take you to bed the day before and the two of you will have good sex even though she's thinking about her boyfriend while you are fucking her. Some wives won't have sex with their husband the day before though.

A question for cuckolds, bulls and people of expertise in the lifestyle.
I am new to the LS and may sound a bit naive so bear with me.

As cuckold, do you ever experience strong urges where you are horny, a little extra than usual, and not just for having sex, but a very strong urge to see your wife very well pleased by a man, where every part of her body is taken care of so that she moans like never before?

Sometimes I get this feeling when I'm looking at my wife Renne's sexy body or sometimes when we are having sex, I just can't stop obsessing about every pound of her flesh to be shaking in orgasm with another man while I enjoy her pleasure. I'm like 50%turned on by her beautiful body and 50% by the fantasy of her being fucked into multiple orgasms.

How do you address them?

[Mgcouplemn]

With Laurie and I it is the chase of getting her ready, taking her someplace, watching her flirt, making the arrangements with the guy she picks, undressing her for him, and presenting her to him to fuck. There are times it is overwhelming and at some point I have ejaculated in my pants prematurely because I became so excited.

To address them: I really don't, instead I go with the flow of the night, my reward is to watch the best porn ever and to jerk off while watching.