No PIV 3 months and cock cage

[CoupleFun555]

She loves size and does not get much physical pleasure from my small penis. Since mid-July, we have not had any PIV sex. She gives me a “small penis handjob” after she orgasms. I’ve been pleasing orally.

We’ve talked about locking me up in a cage, but she has ethical objections to one person making sexual choices for the other, I.e. she doesn’t like the idea that she gets to choose when I get erections or orgasm. Yet, she is coming around to the idea that we can eroticize my small penis and modify our sex life. And, she helped me pick one out tonight and I ordered one.

She and I discussed our contract/agreement two weeks ago and she was good with all of it, except the idea that she “controls” me. She thinks caging and pegging me to see if will orgasm that way to be a fun idea to try. She’s more comfortable now with small penis teasing. And, as she said, sex for her won’t change because our sex life is almost exclusively me pleasing her orally with and without a large vibrator and she will give me handjobs or peg me.

We’ll see how it goes.

[Johor]

Good luck. Pussy free living should be wonderful with a loving wife like yours.

[Magellanic29]

Good luck hope it goes well for you.

[CoupleFun555]

The cock cage arrived and she was curious enough to have me try it right away. From my point of view, the Nub from the dark cobra line is comfortable. I was surprised how comfortable wearing a cage is! The tube may be a bit too big. We’ll see if we got a smaller one depending on much she likes this lifestyle choice.

She had mixed feelings. She was okay with locking me up. Later, we tested whether I could get erect in the cage and it worked well but she expressed how she’d rather be able to play with my actual penis.

She has a particular of the feel and look of big cocks. She actually much, much prefers big penises for intercourse. Yet, she likes all penises, even small ones, particularly mine. She likes playing with my penis because it’s mine and we have a blast together in and out of the bedroom.

I’m not sure she’ll want to really lock me up.

[MartasBoy]

The cock cage arrived and she was curious enough to have me try it right away. From my point of view, the Nub from the dark cobra line is comfortable. I was surprised how comfortable wearing a cage is! The tube may be a bit too big. We’ll see if we got a smaller one depending on much she likes this lifestyle choice.

She had mixed feelings. She was okay with locking me up. Later, we tested whether I could get erect in the cage and it worked well but she expressed how she’d rather be able to play with my actual penis.

She has a particular of the feel and look of big cocks. She actually much, much prefers big penises for intercourse. Yet, she likes all penises, even small ones, particularly mine. She likes playing with my penis because it’s mine and we have a blast together in and out of the bedroom.

I’m not sure she’ll want to really lock me up.

You can tell your wife that chastity play makes sex more exciting for us small penis guys. For me, being locked in my chastity device for 3 weeks gives me more beneficial effect than any Viagra or any other boner pill.

Since I don't do very well with intercourse, masturbation, and hand jobs from her, are the most exciting sex I can do. When she keeps me from being able to play with myself for about 3 weeks, I store up a lot of my sexual energy and end up having the most intense orgasms I ever have.

When my wife keeps me locked in chastity for an extended period of time, it is one way that she can give me a little bit of the excitement that she has with her bull.

I have problems with self-control and I will end up playing with myself whenever I am bored, particularly when she is busy with her lover. For her to lock me in chastity is a very loving act. She is helping me with the control I don't have myself. When she finally allows me to come out of my device and have a release, it is one way that she can give me a wonderful and loving gift.

Feel free to share this with her.

[CoupleFun555]

The cock cage arrived and she was curious enough to have me try it right away. From my point of view, the Nub from the dark cobra line is comfortable. I was surprised how comfortable wearing a cage is! The tube may be a bit too big. We’ll see if we got a smaller one depending on much she likes this lifestyle choice.

She had mixed feelings. She was okay with locking me up. Later, we tested whether I could get erect in the cage and it worked well but she expressed how she’d rather be able to play with my actual penis.

She has a particular of the feel and look of big cocks. She actually much, much prefers big penises for intercourse. Yet, she likes all penises, even small ones, particularly mine. She likes playing with my penis because it’s mine and we have a blast together in and out of the bedroom.

I’m not sure she’ll want to really lock me up.

You can tell your wife that chastity play makes sex more exciting for us small penis guys. For me, being locked in my chastity device for 3 weeks gives me more beneficial effect than any Viagra or any other boner pill.

Since I don't do very well with intercourse, masturbation, and hand jobs from her, are the most exciting sex I can do. When she keeps me from being able to play with myself for about 3 weeks, I store up a lot of my sexual energy and end up having the most intense orgasms I ever have.

When my wife keeps me locked in chastity for an extended period of time, it is one way that she can give me a little bit of the excitement that she has with her bull.

I have problems with self-control and I will end up playing with myself whenever I am bored, particularly when she is busy with her lover. For her to lock me in chastity is a very loving act. She is helping me with the control I don't have myself. When she finally allows me to come out of my device and have a release, it is one way that she can give me a wonderful and loving gift.

Feel free to share this with her.

Thanks for advice and perspective. She read and is thinking about different ways caging me might be “good” for our relationship.

[CoupleFun555]

She and I have been planning a trip with her bf. Tonight, she locked me in a cage before I spoke to her bf on the phone to discuss the trip. Really erotic for me.

[NSEW1]

She and I have been planning a trip with her bf. Tonight, she locked me in a cage before I spoke to her bf on the phone to discuss the trip. Really erotic for me.

Hope you enjoyed the conversation with the boyfriend. What did you discuss?
Are you going on the trip with them?
Will she take the key to your cage with her while she goes away?

[LongTermHubby]

My wife keeps me locked in a cock cage in order to control my masturbation habit. PIV sex is reserved for her lovers.

[parklife]

She has a particular of the feel and look of big cocks. She actually much, much prefers big penises for intercourse. Yet, she likes all penises, even small ones, particularly mine. She likes playing with my penis because it’s mine and we have a blast together in and out of the bedroom.

I’m not sure she’ll want to really lock me up.

I’m curious how this works out for you long term…. I hesitate to bring up caging to my wife because she is very much like yours. One, while she prefers size and we extensively use a sleeve as well as a larger dildo, she still enjoys sex with me from a more emotional context. I worry the cage may interfere I that. Second, she’s not into SPH or any sort and refuses to even hint about my size. I suppose that’s valiant of her but there’s a disconnect when I’ve accepted and eroticized it.

In short, I really don’t think she’d follow thru with locking me up and rather would let it languish and I’d be in charge of self caging which kind of defeats the purpose.

Interested to see how her feelings develop as you incorporate the cage into your lives. Hope you continue to update.

[Anthony57]

I have not had full sex with my wife for about 8 years now,i am locked all the time only when i need to clean my cage and then it is under strict supervision.
I have only cum a few times in those years and the last one being 2years ago now.
My wife has a boyfriend and 3/4 bulls for just sex who she likes to see regular.
I can say i am more than happy to be my wifes cucky and do as i am told

[CoupleFun555]

I’ve been locked up two overnights! Last night she pegged me hard while I was caged for awhile. She then climbed onto my face and I performed oral on her. We ended with me using a dildo on her while I licked her to orgasm. Performing oral on her was incredible because I knew I would not be released!

She does NOT like the look of my junk when caged. She also is so worried about “controlling” me that I’m not sure she will get into this kink.

[realcucklife]

She’s at least having a try, hope it grows on her.

[KevDi69]

You should try to get her to see the caging as a positive for you rather than a negative. She likely would not feel she is controlling you if you were getting a benefit by being in the cage. Now she sees it as preventing you from erections and ejaculation’s. But if you can convince her that she is building up your excitement and increasing your pleasure when released, she may start feeling that it’s positive rather than a controlling negative.
Tell her she’s guiding you to higher pleasure!

[CoupleFun555]

Been caged for 3 nights now. It’s an awesome psychological thrill to be caged by the woman because I know she loves big penises. I’ve pleasured her orally two nights in a row and want to do it again. She told me after she orgasmed last night that she was thinking of the cock of her well endowed bf in her mouth, and she was thinking this while her little dicked husband was licking her! So amazingly erotic for me.

She still does NOT like the look of my caged penis. It bothers her because she has a deep commitment to individual choice and freedom. We’ll see how it plays out.

[Dream Weaver]

....You can tell your wife that chastity play makes sex more exciting for us small penis guys. For me, being locked in my chastity device for 3 weeks gives me more beneficial effect than any Viagra or any other boner pill.....

No doubt. I suspect a huge percent of erection issues are simply too much "edging" type porn masturbation daily and for weeks if not months or years at a time. The dingaling simply isn't meant to be played with that much. I speak from experience.

[snoogaloo82]

Been caged for 3 nights now. It’s an awesome psychological thrill to be caged by the woman because I know she loves big penises. I’ve pleasured her orally two nights in a row and want to do it again. She told me after she orgasmed last night that she was thinking of the cock of her well endowed bf in her mouth, and she was thinking this while her little dicked husband was licking her! So amazingly erotic for me.

She still does NOT like the look of my caged penis. It bothers her because she has a deep commitment to individual choice and freedom. We’ll see how it plays out.

Let us know how things go.

[CoupleFun555]

She let me out after 3 days because she wanted to play with my penis. It was funny because my balls had swollen so much over a few days that it was a bit more difficult to take off the range than I though it would be. She gave me a handjob and I had a huge orgasm.

[CoupleFun555]

I am hoping someone can give me some help from experience on ring and cage sizes. I am using the Nub Cobra cage. When I used the 48 mm ring, when I penis shrank, I just pull it out of the cage.

I shifted to the 43 mm ring and my penis remained secure but the ring was a bit tight. As a few days passed without a lot arousal time, my nutsack became swollen and I couldn’t feel much when I touched them. After I was released, the feeling came back about the time I orgasmed. Is it safe for me to be in the 43 mm ring?

I have ordered the HT V5 in the Nub version with a 45 mm ring that may work.

[grnlght]

You should never lose feeling or cock/balls change to a dark color that is a chastity no no if the ring size is correct that shouldn't happen, if it/they do lose feeling or change color then take it off asap before permanent damage occurs. Be safe

[CoupleFun555]

You should never lose feeling or cock/balls change to a dark color that is a chastity no no if the ring size is correct that shouldn't happen, if it/they do lose feeling or change color then take it off asap before permanent damage occurs. Be safe

Thanks!

[CoupleFun555]

I’m locked up again and everything feels comfortable right now. If my testicles change color or start to lose feeling, I’ll have it removed.

She has a date with her bf on Friday. As long as I remain healthy caged, I expect she will keep me in the device for awhile!

We have discussed her problems with this lifestyle and made some changes. She seems more willing and is getting more engaged in it.

[_xavier_]

When you talk with her about the cage, I would focus on the aspects of how good it feels to build up desire and anticipation while you're in the cage, waiting for the next time that she is in the mood to play with you. That constant exhilaration in itself is a gift that she is giving you.

And on top of that, while you are excited about the idea of giving her that control, doing so *is* your choice. Your choice and your acknowledgement that you see your penis's purpose as contributing to your sex life with her, not a distraction for you to play with solo. That when you feel the cage hugging your penis, knowing she holds the key, it works better for creating that sexual excitement and rush for you during the times that you aren't being intimate, reminding you of the intimacy you share in a way that being out of the cage can't compete with.

Tell her it's some of the best foreplay and pleasure she can give you. It inspires you to reciprocate, and you are constantly thinking about licking her amazing pussy, Knowing that because of your small penis, that is the best foreplay and pleasure you can give her in return.

[CoupleFun555]

When you talk with her about the cage, I would focus on the aspects of how good it feels to build up desire and anticipation while you're in the cage, waiting for the next time that she is in the mood to play with you. That constant exhilaration in itself is a gift that she is giving you.

And on top of that, while you are excited about the idea of giving her that control, doing so *is* your choice. Your choice and your acknowledgement that you see your penis's purpose as contributing to your sex life with her, not a distraction for you to play with solo. That when you feel the cage hugging your penis, knowing she holds the key, it works better for creating that sexual excitement and rush for you during the times that you aren't being intimate, reminding you of the intimacy you share in a way that being out of the cage can't compete with.

Tell her it's some of the best foreplay and pleasure she can give you. It inspires you to reciprocate, and you are constantly thinking about licking her amazing pussy, Knowing that because of your small penis, that is the best foreplay and pleasure you can give her in return.

Thanks for the kind words! She has been reading the posts and is processing what she thinks about it all.

We had a very intimate and intense sex episode tonight where I stayed locked. I had a blast! I seem to be really enjoying pleasing her orally more than I ever have.

I explained that I am frustrated and excited about being in the device. She chose to keep in the device and is not sure when she will let me out. She’s even hidden the keys for the weekend but will obviously release me if the device hurts or I start falling out of it.

[_xavier_]

I explained that I am frustrated and excited about being in the device. She chose to keep in the device and is not sure when she will let me out. She’s even hidden the keys for the weekend but will obviously release me if the device hurts or I start falling out of it.

That sounds like great progress. Especially her saying she's not sure when she will let you out. It sounds like she's becoming more comfortable with teasing you and seeing the effects of making it her decision, not sharing the timeline.

Be sure you are a very good boy for her until she decides it's time. Not just licking her to many strong orgasms, but stepping up and doing more chores around the house without being asked, just because you want to show her how much you appreciate her and how being caged keeps you focused on that all the time.