For cucks, what started you on your path to cuckolding?

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What started you on your path to wanting to be cucked?

Being cheated on
53
16%
Wife/gf was out of your league and/or often flirted with by other men
24
7%
Inability to sexually satisfy your wife/gf
47
14%
Inability to self-satisfy your desire to see your wife/gf "properly" fucked
17
5%
Wife/gf manipulated you into wanting it, intentionally or not
17
5%
A third person manipulated you into wanting it, intentionally or not
9
3%
Natural progression from other femdom dynamics
14
4%
You have had the desire as long as you can remember
48
14%
Feeling sexually inadequate - Small penis
37
11%
Feeling sexually inadequate - Erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation
24
7%
Feeling sexually inadequate - Lacking dominance and/or sex drive
11
3%
Feeling sexually inadequate - Body issues
10
3%
Other inadequacy
2
1%
Other (non-inadequacy)
20
6%
 
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Unread post by hubudig2 » Mon Oct 02, 2023 5:17 am

Most can trace their desire to be cucked back to an initial experience or period of their life.
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Unread post by Shadnaster » Mon Oct 02, 2023 6:16 am

For us, she cheated. Eventually, I was turned on. We tried swinging for a bit but I was more turned on watching her. Plus, there was a lot of drama with swinging. So I selected Other.

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Unread post by PANTIES » Mon Oct 02, 2023 6:39 am

When I asked her who has she meet since we have been married who would you let get in your panties. She told me who and I told her to go for it. She did and he did get in her panties.

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Unread post by sherulestherooster » Mon Oct 02, 2023 8:15 am

Initial fantasy was to do a “stag” type of MFM threesome as that was my favorite porn scene to watch - one woman satisfying two horny men. I’d like to give the third first dibs and watch and when he was finished go in for a sloppy second. She initially proposed this to her first bull who thought it was weird to be with me, so she ended up playing alone with him thinking she was a cheating wife.

But long before that we started playing with FemDom - sex is for her pleasure, lots of denial for me. I think it played in naturally to cuckolding. I never actually got to watch her have sex, just a few photos that her bull would take and she sent me a few of them. Very hot!
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Unread post by tito123177 » Mon Oct 02, 2023 8:22 am

When I was a 18 I always thought that it was ilogic that it was socially fine to accept that your partner has the hots for a famous actor but it wasn't fine if she has the hots for a person she knows, that you were supposed to feel jelaousy for one and be ok with the other, for me it was ok for her to like other men, that was the spark of my cuckolding fantasies but wasn't until my GF cheated on me that it was truly the beginning of my fantasies. At first I was mad because that was supposed how you must feel, but I was also excited and I didn't know why, with the passing of the years I read about the subject and learn more and more about it and why I felt that way, now I crave to be cuckolded in every way possible.

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Unread post by isinlarsa » Mon Oct 02, 2023 8:41 am

It started with my wife asking me to have us swap with a couple we were friends with. My initial desire was to fuck the other wife, and accept that her husband could fuck my wife in turn. It wasn't my idea in the first place, but was my wife's. Then she started cheating on me with a co-worker. They were alone in the office in the afternoon, and he would fuck my wife before she came home. She didn't tell me at first, but even made me unknowingly eat her out, feeding me his creampie. For some reason she got off on doing that to me. After a while she admitted she was getting fucked at work, but only later added that she was making me eat his cum.

I discovered it excited me that she was being fucked by other men; and encouraged her to continue. Later finding out that she had been making me eat his cum turned out be icing on the cake (so to speak), and I was hooked on creampies.

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Unread post by Johor » Mon Oct 02, 2023 3:06 pm

It has nothing to do with any woman or unfaithfulness. Wanting to be a cuck is an extension of my bisexuality.
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Unread post by hush_s » Mon Oct 02, 2023 3:40 pm

I didn’t know about cuckolding, until I read a cuckold story. Man that story drove me crazy, made me feel sick in the stomach but I came so quickly - before the story resolved, while the cuck was in the middle of his angst. I felt disturbed for the rest of the day, until i went back to it and finished reading it, coming again, but with resolution. In retrospect the story was d tier at best but triggered that inevitable reaction, setting me up to somehow allow my gf to later do what she wanted and sleep with someone else, despite every other instinct fighting it. So, umm, thanks to that author I guess, for setting me on this humiliating, angst ridden path. All my past girls and my present wife are grateful.

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Unread post by CU4A2on1 » Mon Oct 02, 2023 4:58 pm

I picked inability to satisfy wife. Wasn’t related to my performance but to the fact I was away for long periods of time, my wife has a high sex drive, and I wanted her to have sex with other men to replace what I couldn’t give her at the time. Now we enjoy the extra fun with the men that please her.

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Unread post by Cuckyboy3 » Mon Oct 02, 2023 6:50 pm

Hunky men flirted with my wife, it turned her on, and she flirted back.

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Unread post by Dse2012 » Mon Oct 02, 2023 6:51 pm

Part of it was her engaging in some foreplay/heavy petting with someone else very early in our relationship and realizing it turned me on instead of upsetting me. And part of it was some mfm 3 somes we had that made me realize how I enjoyed her her fucking someone else.

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Unread post by ucaneffher » Mon Oct 02, 2023 8:02 pm

She was too hot for me and as a result her older sisters kept introducing her to other men and encouraging their little sister to be a " player" just like them. Her sisters were incredibly promiscuous and wanted her to follow their steps. H
A couple of her close girlfriends were doing the exact same as her sisters and continued to encourage my gf to cheat and continuously brought guys to meet her.

Seeing this super attractive girl receiving encouragement by 5 other women simultaneously over a year to start cheating and being introduced to guys constantly just left me feeling like I stood no chance.

I knew that it was only a matter of time before my high school girl friend was going to parties behind my back and having sex with guys. Not to mention that her sisters were all sluts and knew promoters and bouncers at clubs, they would do my GFs hair and make up to look like a 24 year old and often got my underage gf into clubs.

After clenching and bracing for the moment or news that I was getting cheated on, I sucked it up and gave her the freedom to do it with my encouragement. So now she had her sisters, her girlfriends, and her boyfriend encouraging her to date other guys and sleep around. As a result of expecting her to cheat so much, I became obsessed and truly wanted to get cheated on. I had learned to truly wanted and started wanting it and masturbating to the thought.

Of course, now with me in the picture along with sisters and friends, it was only a matter of time... in no time her sisters were taking her out with them and being wingmen for her, covering for her, enabling her. Same for her slutty girl friends. It took 2 years for her sisters to finally learn that I was on board and they no longer hid it from me. My gf and i would hang out at her sisters apartment while I would watch her sisters' (yes plural) help her get ready to go out. One did make up while the other picked out slutty outfits. When my gf got picked up, I'd stay drinking with one of the sisters and her boyfriend. That was intense!

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Unread post by handye12 » Tue Oct 03, 2023 12:23 am

ucaneffher wrote:
Mon Oct 02, 2023 8:02 pm
She was too hot for me and as a result her older sisters kept introducing her to other men and encouraging their little sister to be a " player" just like them. Her sisters were incredibly promiscuous and wanted her to follow their steps. H
A couple of her close girlfriends were doing the exact same as her sisters and continued to encourage my gf to cheat and continuously brought guys to meet her.

Seeing this super attractive girl receiving encouragement by 5 other women simultaneously over a year to start cheating and being introduced to guys constantly just left me feeling like I stood no chance.

I knew that it was only a matter of time before my high school girl friend was going to parties behind my back and having sex with guys. Not to mention that her sisters were all sluts and knew promoters and bouncers at clubs, they would do my GFs hair and make up to look like a 24 year old and often got my underage gf into clubs.

After clenching and bracing for the moment or news that I was getting cheated on, I sucked it up and gave her the freedom to do it with my encouragement. So now she had her sisters, her girlfriends, and her boyfriend encouraging her to date other guys and sleep around. As a result of expecting her to cheat so much, I became obsessed and truly wanted to get cheated on. I had learned to truly wanted and started wanting it and masturbating to the thought.

Of course, now with me in the picture along with sisters and friends, it was only a matter of time... in no time her sisters were taking her out with them and being wingmen for her, covering for her, enabling her. Same for her slutty girl friends. It took 2 years for her sisters to finally learn that I was on board and they no longer hid it from me. My gf and i would hang out at her sisters apartment while I would watch her sisters' (yes plural) help her get ready to go out. One did make up while the other picked out slutty outfits. When my gf got picked up, I'd stay drinking with one of the sisters and her boyfriend. That was intense!
This is such a turn on for me Ucaneffer. Thanks for taking the time to write it, Handye
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Unread post by tractorman2 » Tue Oct 03, 2023 12:31 am

I enjoyed other men looking at my tall fit young girlfriend and when she confessed to being fucked whilst drunk on holiday aged 17, i was very turned on by her admission.

The thing was she knew this too, we got engaged soon after. The seed had now been sown in both of us.

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Unread post by safira » Tue Oct 03, 2023 2:34 am

my girlfriend was a stripper. she invited me to move into her townhouse and i did. usually, she would come home from work smelling of cigarette smoke and sweat and would immediately jump in the shower before coming to bed. once, she did something different. she came home late and immediately climbed up and straddled my head and pushed her pussy onto my mouth. i licked and sucked at her and then we fucked.
she never told me what she had done but looking back, i knew. i was younger then, insecure, and in denial. i don’t doubt it now that she was at that time freshly fucked and that i ingested her lover’s semen?

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Unread post by hubudig2 » Tue Oct 03, 2023 3:42 am

Some of these stories are crazy hot.
isinlarsa wrote:
Mon Oct 02, 2023 8:41 am
... She didn't tell me at first, but even made me unknowingly eat her out, feeding me his creampie. For some reason she got off on doing that to me. ...
safira wrote:
Tue Oct 03, 2023 2:34 am
... she came home late and immediately climbed up and straddled my head and pushed her pussy onto my mouth. i licked and sucked at her and then we fucked ... i don’t doubt it now that she was at that time freshly fucked and that i ingested her lover’s semen?
Why do you think a woman would do this? And enjoy doing it? Is she sadistic? Or is it just some instinctive urge? Would she in some way feel bad about doing it?
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Unread post by US31 » Tue Oct 03, 2023 5:32 am

I started reading Penthouse stories when I was 18.
Then I saw the movie Emmanuell.
And the movie Behind the Green Door which made me want my girlfriend fucked that way.
Along about then I started encouraging my girlfriend to explore her college life, but tell me about it.
She confessed several hook ups that she’d already been having.
I was instantly jealous and hard!

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Unread post by isinlarsa » Tue Oct 03, 2023 6:03 am

hubudig2 wrote:
Tue Oct 03, 2023 3:42 am
Some of these stories are crazy hot.
isinlarsa wrote:
Mon Oct 02, 2023 8:41 am
... She didn't tell me at first, but even made me unknowingly eat her out, feeding me his creampie. For some reason she got off on doing that to me. ...
safira wrote:
Tue Oct 03, 2023 2:34 am
... she came home late and immediately climbed up and straddled my head and pushed her pussy onto my mouth. i licked and sucked at her and then we fucked ... i don’t doubt it now that she was at that time freshly fucked and that i ingested her lover’s semen?
Why do you think a woman would do this? And enjoy doing it? Is she sadistic? Or is it just some instinctive urge? Would she in some way feel bad about doing it?
I don't think is was sadistic, nor instinctive. Could it be some form of dominance or empowerment? A form of taking control of her own sexuality? In any case, I found it incredibly exciting when she told me what she did. I really don't know why it excited me as it did.

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Unread post by safira » Tue Oct 03, 2023 6:14 am

hubudig2 wrote
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Why do you think a woman would do this? And enjoy doing it? Is she sadistic? Or is it just some instinctive urge? Would she in some way feel bad about doing it?
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not all women would do that. i’ve been with some who just wouldn’t. that woman was a strega, a witch. that has nothing to do with whether she would or wouldn’t. not all witches act that way. i only mention it because it possibly allowed her greater insight into me than another woman might have had.
i’m transgender. though i’ve likely always been so, i wasn’t educated enough about transgenderism to know that the term described me. i don’t think that at that time i knew of any word other than the derogatory t-r-a-n-n-y and from a very young age, i knew from observing my community that that was not what you wanted to be.
i think that she read this in me. she used to peer into my dreams, sleeping beside me. she was often present in my dreams, but separate, an observer, and often she would comment or laugh cruelly. she was a mean woman. if she had a kinder kind of woman, she might have helped me come to terms with being trans and i was young enough then to have transitioned and achieved that holy grail of passing. alas, she wasn’t kind and i was insecure about so much.
why she did it?
i think that she was likely hurt by some man or men and it left her with a desire to emasculate the men who came into her life, to destroy them. she cheated on me many times and i cheated on her, too.

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Unread post by hubudig2 » Wed Oct 04, 2023 3:18 am

isinlarsa wrote:
Tue Oct 03, 2023 6:03 am
I don't think is was sadistic, nor instinctive. Could it be some form of dominance or empowerment? A form of taking control of her own sexuality? In any case, I found it incredibly exciting when she told me what she did. I really don't know why it excited me as it did.
I think you might be right, empowerment at first, leading to dominance.
I'd love to hear from a woman that's done this, If anyone knows someone?

As for why it excited you, I can't think of a hotter way for a wife to assert dominance over her husband.
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Unread post by isinlarsa » Wed Oct 04, 2023 3:29 am

hubudig2 wrote:
Wed Oct 04, 2023 3:18 am
isinlarsa wrote:
Tue Oct 03, 2023 6:03 am
I don't think is was sadistic, nor instinctive. Could it be some form of dominance or empowerment? A form of taking control of her own sexuality? In any case, I found it incredibly exciting when she told me what she did. I really don't know why it excited me as it did.
I think you might be right, empowerment at first, leading to dominance.
I'd love to hear from a woman that's done this, If anyone knows someone?

As for why it excited you, I can't think of a hotter way for a wife to assert dominance over her husband.
Her empowerment does not mean my diminution. Yes, I did find it exciting the way she made me eat her creampied cunt. After she told me I encouraged her unfaithfulness and willingly ate her out every time she came home from her lover. And I think she gloried in setting it up so we would have dinners with her stud and his unknowing wife. She was really twisting my tail on that one; and I think she also enjoyed socializing with his wife, knowing she was the better lay. But in other ways in our relationship she was not dominate.

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Unread post by hubudig2 » Wed Oct 04, 2023 3:56 am

isinlarsa wrote:
Wed Oct 04, 2023 3:29 am
Her empowerment does not mean my diminution. Yes, I did find it exciting the way she made me eat her creampied cunt. After she told me I encouraged her unfaithfulness and willingly ate her out every time she came home from her lover. And I think she gloried in setting it up so we would have dinners with her stud and his unknowing wife. She was really twisting my tail on that one; and I think she also enjoyed socializing with his wife, knowing she was the better lay. But in other ways in our relationship she was not dominate.
Sorry, I wasn't trying to imply that she was otherwise dominant.
The act itself, of cheating and then literally rubbing your face in it is very confident/brazen.
When I read it originally, I figured it wasn't dominant because you're unaware, you're not feeling dominated.
When you suggested empowerment, it made sense, she was getting a similar kick to dominance without you actually feeling dominated.
It was almost dominance-in-advance because had you known what you were really doing, you might not have complied but to later find out about it might make you feel manipulated.
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Unread post by isinlarsa » Wed Oct 04, 2023 4:26 am

hubudig2 wrote:
Wed Oct 04, 2023 3:56 am
isinlarsa wrote:
Wed Oct 04, 2023 3:29 am
Her empowerment does not mean my diminution. Yes, I did find it exciting the way she made me eat her creampied cunt. After she told me I encouraged her unfaithfulness and willingly ate her out every time she came home from her lover. And I think she gloried in setting it up so we would have dinners with her stud and his unknowing wife. She was really twisting my tail on that one; and I think she also enjoyed socializing with his wife, knowing she was the better lay. But in other ways in our relationship she was not dominate.
Sorry, I wasn't trying to imply that she was otherwise dominant.
The act itself, of cheating and then literally rubbing your face in it is very confident/brazen.
When I read it originally, I figured it wasn't dominant because you're unaware, you're not feeling dominated.
When you suggested empowerment, it made sense, she was getting a similar kick to dominance without you actually feeling dominated.
It was almost dominance-in-advance because had you known what you were really doing, you might not have complied but to later find out about it might make you feel manipulated.
I guess you could say that I was manipulated, but it didn't occur to me, because I found it so hot that she had initiated the whole situation for her own satisfaction -- getting fucked by another man and (as you say) rubbing my face in it. This was my first exposure to cuckolding, so I don't know why she felt comfortable doing so. Perhaps she intuitively knew I would be turned-on rather than upset.

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Unread post by Cuck4Life » Wed Oct 04, 2023 5:25 am

I have lived as a cuckold for all of my adult life, I am 68 years old now. Looking back the first time I realized I had this interest was reading the “wife watchers” stories in Penthouse Variations. These stories would spur many emotions (and erections) and quickly became my #1 interest. At the time I had never heard of the term “Cuckold”

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