Whose idea

[Mike_B]

Whose idea was it to cuck you ? You or your wife?

[jrobb]

As I mentioned elsewhere,

Did she want to cuck me? Nope, it was I who wanted to see her enjoying sex.

For years I had searched for whatever it was that my shy wife might enjoy in terms of sex. She was painfully withdrawn about such things. No talk of fantasies or other such openness. But one night, much to my surprise and joy, she was loosened up enough to reveal herself to me. From the start of that moment, to being shared, took only a couple hours for my hotwife to appear.

It was a regular weekend night. Me, my buddy, and my petite wife had all been in the living room listening to music and casually talking over a few beers and more in the late '80's. In the course of our conversation, he told a story about how he was involved in a threesome some years ago in college.

Later on that same evening, we went out to the hot tub. After a while, when he got out to get a drink and make a pit stop, she told me, "His story really turned me on." She was clearly loosened up, and I quickly responded with an approving "Mmmmmmmm!" In only a matter of seconds, I was slipping my hard dick into her and quickly gave her a good filling.

By the time my buddy came back to the tub, she was already filled with my cum. He had barely sat down and I lifted her bottom up to where her pussy was above water and said, "Ok, I just got done. Now it's your turn." She, somewhat shocked, asked, "Are you sure? Are you sure you want to do this?" I said, "Absolutely!".

I had her balanced in my hands, floating in the water with her pussy easily visible. Her arm around my neck, my left hand under her shoulders, my right hand under the small of her back. He got down in the water, positioned his face between her spread legs, and started to eat her as I held her in place. I cautioned him about her just being filled with my cum, but he continued to tease her clit and maybe even savor a bit of my remnant. She was cooing her pleasure when he stood up, positioned his hips between her legs, and slid into her VERY ready and willing pussy.

He didn't last long, and when he took his seat again, we all sat there, in a sort of pleasurable shock about how exciting the last couple of minutes actually were.

And that's how it started, and why for us, it took only a couple of hours, if even that, to start our hotwife life.

JR

[Cucky45015]

Not married. New relationship. We met on a fetish site. We both were looking for the cuckolding dynamic. She has experience, I don't. We are working on us first before we actually bring in a 3rd. We both want a real relationship with Cuckolding dynamic

[Cucky45015]

Not married. New relationship. We met on a fetish site. We both were looking for the cuckolding dynamic. She has experience, I don't. We are working on us first before we actually bring in a 3rd. We both want a real relationship with Cuckolding dynamic

[Cdncuck]

It was originally my idea for her to fuck other guys. After we got married, she began to make it a cuckold relationship

[Abrandnewstart194]

It was my idea. My Queen had never even heard of such a thing before, and was confused, but intrigued by it. We had multiple conversations about it, and why a guy would not only allow, but WANT his woman to fuck other guys. That progressed to fantasy play.

She was open-minded about it all, and eventually agreed to try it. She saw it as something she could give me that my ex wouldn’t. She anticipated doing it a few times a year if all went well, but…once a woman tries it, it seems yo unlock something hidden inside themselves. Her Bull fucked her brains out for seven hours (with breaks), and gave her the most powerful orgasm of her life.

Though it took us four months to work through everything, she was hooked. She now fucks her Bull weekly, and intends to do so on an ongoing basis. She has also found the guy she wants to add to her stable as her second Bull.

I got her onboard, but now she LOVES it, can’t imagine going back to a monogamous relationship ever, and is in charge and driving the train!

[isinlarsa]

In both the case of my first wife and my second wife, it was her who proposed she get fucked by other men.

[SmallHubbyTexas]

It was mine. She was hesitant but once she did it, she took off with it.

[tractorman2]

As discribed elsewhere it was my young wife who wanted/needed and drove us firmly into this LS.

[DavaoMike]

I met my wife Maricel in Davao, Philippines, when I was living there. At the time, she was my live-in girlfriend, and over 30 years younger than me. Such age differences are common as between Filipinas and western men.

As I’ve described previously in this forum, Maricel had been fucking her first boyfriend, Arsenio, behind my back. He was the one who took her virginity before she met me. One time, I came back to our apartment early and caught Maricel and Arsenio in bed together. At first, Arsenio was scared shitless, and Maricel was tearfully apologetic. But I then gave my blessings to her continuing to see Arsenio, as long as she was totally open and honest with me. So, in a way, Maricel’s “cuckolding” me was her idea, though it was just cheating in the beginning.

After I brought Maricel to the US and married her, she met her current boyfriend, Adam, who has lived with us for years. I have a thread describing our situation in my signature link below.

DM

[dinoo]

In fact I can't answer.

My wife discovered already before we married, I had no problems if she flirted with other guys/men.
Perhaps to make me jealous but the contrary was the reality.
Raising kids didn't change her attitude but the possibilities of flirting were only there when I or parents took care of the kids.

This changed when the kids left home.
One day she asked me to show me what I gathered of porno on my computer.
I did and she then discovered that husbands who shared their wives with other men, did arouse me.

We decided to visit a sex club.
I let her decide what kind of evening she preferred. She chose the nudist evening where only men were welcome.

I will never forget that first evening.
During the first few minutes of our exploration of the rooms, we had to go through a narrow corridor (with a holey wall from the dark room on one side) and she could not avoid having her naked breasts groped. It made me afraid that she would decide to leave the club and asked those two men to leave her alone for a while. After all, she had asked the management at the entrance if there were more couples present.
It was she who responded with "let it be, it is fine with me."
Of course, those men heard that too and hands quickly disappeared to her pussy while the other man took over her breasts.
With seductive eyes constantly fixed on me, she spread her legs further apart to make it easier for them. Twice.
I just had to accept it.

I was bombarded as a spectator. It stayed that way all evening.
Finally, in the early hours, she was the focal point of a dozen men. Six of them came on her body. She asked the others to do the same but apparently they were "empty".

She didn't shower and only put on her thin dress when we returned home.
When I got home she "ordered" me to lick her body clean, which I did. And if I forgot a spot of dried cum, she pointed it out to me.
A cuckold was born........ and because she noticed that I adored her more and more, it remained that way during all subsequent visits.

[4herpleasure89]

It was mine in the beginning, although I didn’t fully know what I hoped for. I just wanted fun adventures together. Her intense jealousy guided the direction to cuckolding. And I found it made me very happy as well.

[wrknman66]

It was my idea and she was very much against it even becoming angry. Then she started reading about it and began to open up. She still has not taken the leap but is meeting a guy Sunday. She also met one other guy but nothing happened but kissing on that one.

[Tank Turner]

Did she want to cuck me? Nope, it was I who wanted to see her enjoying sex. JR

Hi JR,

I appreciated your wanting your wife to enjoy sex. I love watching my wife enjoying one of the most pleasurable facets of her life which is sex.

I knew my wife was sexually experienced the first time I fucked her which was on our first date. In fact, I thought that she was going to be a booty call. I never dreamed that I'd fall in love with her.

As we grew more comfortable with each other, she opened up about how important sex was to her. She emphasized to me to assure I understood that orgasmic euphoria was the most pleasurable sensation she experienced.

Watching my wife floating is a euphoric, orgasmic haze is magically mesmerizing.

I'm not a cuck because I always participate except once when she fucked a guy who worked out at our gym. He had a huge crush on her. She wanted to fuck him. She fucked him after work at his place. Other than that time, we've always played together.

After my second money shot, I'll usually fall asleep while watching her and another man engaging in sexual acts on her side of our bed. I love falling asleep while watching her enjoying her most pleasurable physical act.

[Caribwaters]

The idea of my girlfriend or later wife enjoying the attention of other men was a massive fantasy of mine since my teenage years. Of course I could never discuss this type of relationship with anyone, including any gf, because in those days nobody ever mentioned it, even though there was reference ion literature and history. Boyfriends and husbands were expected to be very jealouse of another man's interest in his female companion.

I sort of agreed when my then gf asked me if she could go out for a few drinks after work with her department boss. This after work "date" led to them going parking on a deserted road and they engaged in full oral. My gf told me the next day, as she felt guilty as to what had happened. I explained that I understood, as she had never been intimate with any. other guy but me and she was obviously "curious". She was pleasantly surprised that I didn't flip out on her. When a coworker approached her a few weeks later for an after work drink, I encouraged her to enjoy herself, which she did. The trill I got as she later explained the details was incredible. Months laster we broke up unrelated to her with other guys.

Number of years later when I discovered that my wife was having an affair with her older, married boss, we had a couple of big discussions and to her amazement I finely suggested they could continue as long as she was honest with me.

So in answer to the above question, it was my idea.

[Filou]

The cuckolding part was certainly my wifes idea - although it did not start with cuckolding in a classical sense.
It started with her wanting to live out certain BDSM aspects I did not care to participate in as I am not that much into pain. So we started with BDSM and a heavy set of rules only (intercourse was out of the question at that time) and over several years - including some backlashes - it slowly evolved into cuckolding.

[Jaggu]

My first wife wanted to be fucked hard after drinking and taking weed with friends.I have a small cock and mostly satisfied her by licking and finger. We were young so I got a stud to come and she was fucked hard. After that she when she wanted hard fuck we would take our children to grandmas and I what will happen. She would get in bath and I give her weed . She would ask to get someone to play. The best was when she described what she wanted, young how big etc. so I became her cuck and she did it

[jrobb]

Did she want to cuck me? Nope, it was I who wanted to see her enjoying sex. JR

Hi JR,

I appreciated your wanting your wife to enjoy sex. I love watching my wife enjoying one of the most pleasurable facets of her life which is sex.

I knew my wife was sexually experienced the first time I fucked her which was on our first date. In fact, I thought that she was going to be a booty call. I never dreamed that I'd fall in love with her.

As we grew more comfortable with each other, she opened up about how important sex was to her. She emphasized to me to assure I understood that orgasmic euphoria was the most pleasurable sensation she experienced.

Watching my wife floating is a euphoric, orgasmic haze is magically mesmerizing.

I'm not a cuck because I always participate except once when she fucked a guy who worked out at our gym. He had a huge crush on her. She wanted to fuck him. She fucked him after work at his place. Other than that time, we've always played together.

After my second money shot, I'll usually fall asleep while watching her and another man engaging in sexual acts on her side of our bed. I love falling asleep while watching her enjoying her most pleasurable physical act.

Tank,

I had sex with my now wife on our first date while we were in college. Although she had sex with a long-term high school boyfriend, she was mostly a hand job gal on high school dates. Getting to know her more, I realized she was always worried about what other people would think about her <fill in the blank>. Basically low self esteem. I never heard anything from her about her enjoyment prior to her being shared. I asked for her fantasies and she'd go silent. Her seeming lack of sexual interest was actually quite a strain on our marriage.

JR

[jenscuck]

It was originally my idea for her to fuck other guys. After we got married, she began to make it a cuckold relationship

Did that surprise you? Did you enjoy being cucked?