toreaddave wrote: ↑Mon Oct 16, 2023 1:14 pm
Similarly, ucaneffher's girlfriend lived with another man for 18 months! That is an extremely hot scenario to me, but again, I'm not sure I would want that in actuality. I'm still trying to figure out the best balance between fantasy and reality. Drawing that line is proving to be quite difficult!
and here I am ready to watch it happen yet again if the scenario presented itself. There is no substitute for that feeling you get when watching your woman temporarily but completely give herself to another and I mean
completely
The feeling of helplessness each night as you know that you cant call her, you cant text her, you cant see her, tell her you love her, you have zero control and the only thing you know for certain is that she temporarily belongs to him. While youre in bed alone at home, she could be cuddling with him, watching a movie on the couch with him, or maybe she is fully dolled up in lingerie, makeup hair-done and heels and giving him the time of his life in the privacy of their own home where they can do anything that they want with each other. maybe theyre taking a shower and having a quickie in the shower before bed.
For me, unable to contact her, unable to show up, and having to wait for her to contact me was mind blowing. I loved hearing the stories and experiences she was living in her new life. I was not in it but was included by hearing of it and seeing her social media posts as she proudly shared belonging to another man.
I can't think of anything hotter than being 10 months into your 21 year old girlfriend living with another man, 10 months of not having sex with her, still having no clue you're not gonna have her for another 8 months but here she is on Friday night sending you the pictures that her boyfriend just took of her in lingerie. Nothing hotter than seeing her all sexy and slutty from the perspective that her man gets to see her in.
Hell, just thinking back and writing all this makes me wish my current gf would also decide to put me on hold. All while temporarily giving another man 100% of herself while I am on standby just watching her give herself more and more with each phone call that she makes to catch up with me.
Pretty twisted, I know. I wish I could go back to being normal but here I am probably being judged by internet lurkers who read the crazy desires and fantasies that turn me on. I am happy that I have at least been courageous enough to live out what others can only call a fantasy. Being 21 and sending your gf to live with another man and give herself entirely to him for a year and a half, to simply resume your relationship like nothing out of the ordinary happened, right after is not something for the faint of heart but we both loved it.