Who pitched the idea? And how was it received?

Unread post by **hubudig2** » Wed Sep 20, 2023 11:26 am

How did the idea of becoming a cuckold couple first come up?
For your current or most recent relationship only.
I know there's a lot of grey area in this but hopefully there's an option that comes closest.
It doesn't have to be a proper proposal, just whoever might have mentioned it first.

Iamgroot · Unread post by **Iamgroot** » Wed Sep 20, 2023 2:14 pm

Well, it started with me suggesting she play with another guy. She kept saying no until my best friend came out to visit us. She felt bad for him because his wife was horrible. It started in the hot tub and ended up in the bedroom. From there, she slowly realized she could have free dick

Iamgroot · Unread post by **Iamgroot** » Wed Sep 20, 2023 2:16 pm

Well, it started with me suggesting she play with another guy. She kept saying no until my best friend came out to visit us. She felt bad for him because his wife was horrible. It started in the hot tub and ended up in the bedroom. From there, she slowly realized she could have free dick

isinlarsa · Unread post by **isinlarsa** » Wed Sep 20, 2023 6:05 pm

I needed two votes because I've had two wives. I voted the first one - she proceeded without pitching the idea, and I immediately allowed her to continue. If I had a vote for my second wife it would be she pitched the idea and I was immediately willing (of course, I had been hinting for 18 years).

Alimpy4K · Unread post by **Alimpy4K** » Wed Sep 20, 2023 6:58 pm

I voted for "she came around without persuasion"
The only persuasion that was needed was clarifying to her that it wasn't a swinging situation where we both played with others. It was just that she could be with other men, and I needed nothing in return. After that conversation, she was always open to the idea.

PANTIES · Unread post by **PANTIES** » Wed Sep 20, 2023 9:08 pm

I asked her since we have married who have you meet that you would like them get in your panties. She told who and I told her to go for it. She did and she got her playmate fir the next two years.

Pauline

Shadnaster · Unread post by **Shadnaster** » Thu Sep 21, 2023 4:11 am

I didn't see an option that applies to us. It was kind of an obvious evolution for us. We had met a couple that were swingers and it interested us. So, we started swinging for a bit. Not with that couple though. There was a lot of drama. Tough to find a 4 way connection. I found myself getting more excited watching her in action than having sex with other women. The first time we had an MFM was the husband from one of the couples we knew. They often played separately. From there, that just seemed more natural for us.

Peaks23 · Unread post by **Peaks23** » Thu Sep 21, 2023 5:24 am

I must admit, even though we haven't achieved an actual meeting yet (see thread called "two weeks to go") I never thought that we'd get this far. She was so against the idea 7+ years ago when it was first mentioned. Over time she's come round to the idea where now she's at the stage whereby in one breath still finding the idea weird/unusual, it's countered by her obvious desire to fuck an ex lover again.

Cdncuck · Unread post by **Cdncuck** » Thu Sep 21, 2023 6:42 am

It was me who came up with the idea. We were still dating then and as much as I was afraid she would split up with me, it was important she knew what she was getting into before marriage. Much to my surprise, she was intrigued and excited. Once she tried it, she loved it and here we are decades later.

SmallHubbyTexas · Unread post by **SmallHubbyTexas** » Fri Sep 29, 2023 10:17 am

I told her my fantasy and she got quiet. I thought she was mad and I dropped the subject. A couple months later, it was my birthday and while we were at a restaurant, she had my look at a picture on her phone. It was a selfie taken in a bathroom mirror. It was her standing next to a man and they were both naked (I could see the tops of her stockings). As looked back at there she told me my present was my fantasy coming true.

best_friend · Unread post by **best_friend** » Wed Oct 25, 2023 7:20 am

the results of the poll reflects my impression of what i´m reading here.
it´s not surprising, especially the part with the persuasion.

BBCfan · Unread post by **BBCfan** » Wed Oct 25, 2023 7:58 am

My wife went from initially being extremely opposed to the idea, to the point of saying that if I needed it to happen she wasn't the partner for me.

After 4 years she is now at the point where she's willing to move forward with it and see how she feels.

She still isn't a 100% sure, but I can see the change and excitement when we talk about it now.

BBCfan · Unread post by **BBCfan** » Wed Oct 25, 2023 7:59 am

SmallHubbyTexas wrote: ↑
Fri Sep 29, 2023 10:17 am
I told her my fantasy and she got quiet. I thought she was mad and I dropped the subject. A couple months later, it was my birthday and while we were at a restaurant, she had my look at a picture on her phone. It was a selfie taken in a bathroom mirror. It was her standing next to a man and they were both naked (I could see the tops of her stockings). As looked back at there she told me my present was my fantasy coming true.

That's crazy and unbelievably hot! Wow!!!!

SmallHubbyTexas · Unread post by **SmallHubbyTexas** » Fri Nov 10, 2023 5:36 am

BBCfan wrote: ↑
Wed Oct 25, 2023 7:59 am

SmallHubbyTexas wrote: ↑
Fri Sep 29, 2023 10:17 am
I told her my fantasy and she got quiet. I thought she was mad and I dropped the subject. A couple months later, it was my birthday and while we were at a restaurant, she had my look at a picture on her phone. It was a selfie taken in a bathroom mirror. It was her standing next to a man and they were both naked (I could see the tops of her stockings). As looked back at there she told me my present was my fantasy coming true.
That's crazy and unbelievably hot! Wow!!!!

We are a month away from our 5 year anniversary for this journey and she is still with him.

tractorman2 · Unread post by **tractorman2** » Fri Nov 10, 2023 10:43 am

One definately posted by our American friends,

When I first mentioned sharing her, she asked with whom, so i named my best friend. Her body liked the idea her mind appeared not to as she said NO, NO,NO.

The second time i stupidly mentioned sharing her she stopped me making love to her and didnt speak to me for quite a while,

Unknown to me then shortly after he visited us awaiting my arrival from work, she fresh out of the bath asked if he wanted tea or coffee, paused then said to him, "this is really what you came for isnt it as she dropped the towel to the floor"........

So started her affair with him and as i found out later he wasnt the first........

Website · Unread post by **snoogaloo82** » Fri Nov 10, 2023 12:05 pm

It was me who first pitched the idea. She was aghast the first time I mentioned it and said I only wanted to because I wanted to be with other women. Over time and such I assured her that she is the only one for me and letting her know that I will always love her no matter what she does or how many people she does it with. She still wasn't sure, but she was at least listening. Then about nine months later she said "You know what? I want to give it a try." She started looking for a guy and found one that she could meet and one that they played online. The one she met they had sex for the first time this past Wednesday. They stayed up till 2am in the morning (during the middle of the week that's crazy for me) She said he had so much energy and came multiple times. He even rode her bareback which even I hadn't done yet! lol But instead of cumming inside of her he came on her belly. He also fucked her standing up with both her long legs wrapped around his fit body! To top it off she said he was huge. I asked how much and she couldn't give me a number, but I teasing told her to bring a tape measure to their meeting this weekend and tell him that she wants to be able to prove to her girlfriends that she has the largest cock of them all! lol

Unread post by **iloanmywife** » Fri Nov 10, 2023 1:17 pm

Hotwifing was my idea. Cuckolding was hers.

It was my idea to share her with other men, and that started not long after we started having sex (i.e., as college freshmen). She was just as into it as I was. It was years ago and I don't remember her exact response, but it was some version of "FUCK. YES." We fantasized about it for years. 99% of the time that we had sex we were talking about her fucking other men, and the other 1% of the time both of us were thinking about it. For almost as long as we've known each other, her fucking other guys has been the central dynamic to our sex life. It still is, but now it's our reality.

Me becoming a cuckold was her choice. I happily acquiesced, but I never thought, "I want to be a cuckold." I don't think we ever fantasized it in all of our years of fantasy play. But after she became an official hotwife there was a brief transition period where our dynamic changed, from "vanilla MFM" to something else. It started when she played alone for the first time. After seeing him a few times she told me about what he had taught her, that he was our Bull and she was a slutwife. She was so earnest about it that it was cute and endearing. "Did you know that you're my cuckold?" Yes, I knew all of these terms from the internet and porn, but I was turned on by how excited she was. Then we met him together and had an unforgettably kinky night, and after that it felt like there was no turning back.

Reno1 · Unread post by **Reno1** » Fri Nov 10, 2023 8:28 pm

I was really lucky. My wife came to me and confessed that she was fucking two other guys, because I couldn’t satisfy her. All I had to do was to tell her it turned me on. That is the perfect start. However I’ve had to introduce it to a wife as well. I knew she had some affairs for fun in her first marriage. The thing I finally convinced her to fuck her ex. She had some doubts but it was a great way to break the ice. Then we spent time talking about who she might like to fuck and she mentioned a guy that had been having an affair wit her married friend for years, so I suggested she seduce him. It didn’t take long, and he fucked her for years. It did piss off her girlfriend, but they got over it. By then she had more than one guy fucking her regularly. A word of advice, don’t start this unless you really want it. You can never express any regret or doubt over her fucking other guys. It’s your idea.

Website · Unread post by **snoogaloo82** » Sat Nov 11, 2023 1:40 am

Reno1 wrote: ↑
Fri Nov 10, 2023 8:28 pm
I was really lucky. My wife came to me and confessed that she was fucking two other guys, because I couldn’t satisfy her. All I had to do was to tell her it turned me on. That is the perfect start. However I’ve had to introduce it to a wife as well. I knew she had some affairs for fun in her first marriage. The thing I finally convinced her to fuck her ex. She had some doubts but it was a great way to break the ice. Then we spent time talking about who she might like to fuck and she mentioned a guy that had been having an affair wit her married friend for years, so I suggested she seduce him. It didn’t take long, and he fucked her for years. It did piss off her girlfriend, but they got over it. By then she had more than one guy fucking her regularly. A word of advice, don’t start this unless you really want it. You can never express any regret or doubt over her fucking other guys. It’s your idea.

Yep, I've taken into consideration that it's my idea. I'm fully willing to accept that from now on she will have males lining up for her! In fact I'm actually looking forward to more of it!

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