Help with humiliation!

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Beautyandthebeast
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Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Beautyandthebeast » Sat Aug 19, 2023 4:53 pm

My man is very dominant. Handsome. Works out a ton. He isn’t small at all. He is very into cuckolding. He is asking for more humiliation with words and actions. Im struggling as to what to say because he isn’t weak or small or any of the normal things you can say. He also is like I know I’m not small or anything so make it genuine. Any suggestions of some sexy humiliation type chat?

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Lucky 1 » Sat Aug 19, 2023 6:56 pm

I own several companies and am very athletic, but I love it when my wife tells me how small I am. I love it when she tells me that her former lovers were better in bed (especially at intercourse). I would love to see my wife start to flirt with other guys. It would show me that she knows that she can get something better, with a new man. Even if she didn't ultimately sleep with the person with whom she is flirting, it would be hot to watch her attract a new man. Not sure if your husband would be interested in the same things, but I love to hear my wife's fantasies. Good Luck

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by trecital » Sat Aug 19, 2023 10:04 pm

Beautyandthebeast wrote:
Sat Aug 19, 2023 4:53 pm
My man is very dominant. Handsome. Works out a ton. He isn’t small at all. He is very into cuckolding. He is asking for more humiliation with words and actions. Im struggling as to what to say because he isn’t weak or small or any of the normal things you can say. He also is like I know I’m not small or anything so make it genuine. Any suggestions of some sexy humiliation type chat?
He's really going to have to give you some more information about what he wants to be humiliated about.
"Make it genuine"......He must know what he wants. He might just be shy about telling you.
And it's almost impossible for people here to suggest things, with so little information to go on.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Johor » Sat Aug 19, 2023 11:09 pm

Double post
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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Johor » Sat Aug 19, 2023 11:10 pm

It’s not about a small cock. It’s about an ineffective penis.

Men get off on being seen as ineffective, inept or being treated as submissive to other men in letting themselves be cucked.

What’s worse than having a good tool and lacking the skills to use it ? Then getting shown how a better man can, but still not learning the craft.

Work that angle and see where it goes.
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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by wishfulwatcher » Sun Aug 20, 2023 4:21 am

Try edging him him for a few days so he cums quickly during intercourse.Then you can tell him that's why you fuck other men.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by lockedbybullsw » Sun Aug 20, 2023 5:44 am

I basically fall into this category and I understand the struggle. He is certainly already happy that’s you’re willing to participate. It depends on him, but if you struggle to actually say mean and demeaning things, you should know you may not have to and still be very effective.
He won’t say it, but your confidence and comfort with delivery of these comments is what’s also very hot. So practice normalizing it to yourself. Be open to pointing out attractive qualities of other men while you’re out in public and gauge his reaction. Or asking your husbands opinion if you should buy certain clothes. Always look for a small window to needle him. If you pick up something purple and he says you look great in purple put it down and say “ yes, but my bf likes me in red then ask him to buy you something red. If you actively have another partner, get used to vocalizing the topic by concentrating on the positive experiences you receive without being demeaning. You can always dirty it up when you’re comfortable. For example. Instead of saying “ my boyfriend fucks me so much better and his cock is bigger than than yours”. Try “omg by boyfriend flipped me into a position that just was great. I don’t even know what he did but I came like crazy”. Or any other non demeaning open ended statement. It will make his mind go and he will most likely try to “ compete”. Never lie about anything. Ever. If something is really good for you, but it will be painful for him to hear, deliver the news confidently. If something didn’t do something for you and you don’t like it, deliver the news the same way. Ruthless honestly is important. Him losing control to you is humiliating.
It’s important to know that, I think anyway, for the most part
Porn gets cuck humiliation wrong but I can’t speak for everyone.
Keep talking to find out what he is into. Does he like public humiliation, does he simply want to hear another dude is bigger than him, or maybe he wants to go hardcore by being forced to expose a locked cock to one of your girlfriend.
Humiliation is endless. I think this type of humiliation it’s the male equivalent to what bdsm is to a woman. It’s a deep level of understanding what your partner is comfortable with to handle and how hard you can push them. Similar to BDSM, humiliation is a commitment to sprinkling sharp harsh comments and texts throughout the day, then switching it off leaving them wanting more.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Cdncuck » Sun Aug 20, 2023 9:34 am

There's a lot not said in your post.
Are you a hotwife? How do you feel about humiliating him? Does the idea turn you on too or is it something you just do for him?

Also, there needs to be a conversation between you and he about what he wants. It's not enough to tell someone to humiliate you and by the way, make it real.

He needs to tell you what about humiliation turns him on. He might find it difficult and or embarrassing to reveal what his real needs might be. without such conversations, it will be difficult to do what he wants. You aren't a mind reader.

You might want to check out some femdom sites and find out how those women engage in humiliation.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Amayzed » Sun Aug 20, 2023 11:28 am

Agree with what many of the posters have said: Communication is everything. You need to find out what in his psyche are the turn-ons around humiliation.

Not only that, the probing, matter-of-fact type discussions where you get him to reveal stuff to you might be more exciting than the humiliation role play itself. It is for me anyway.
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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Dream Weaver » Sun Aug 20, 2023 1:11 pm

Ideas:

1) In bed, tell him he doesn't deserve your pussy. Sit on his face (literally rub his face in that which he doesn't deserve), give him a handjob,
2) Ask him "what are your most shameful, embarrassing thoughts" as you play with his cock.
3) Ask him if there are any friends he has, maybe gym buds, who he fantasizes about you playing with.
4) Tell him he deserves lesban-like sex with you.

Of course, none of this means you have to do any of it. Cuckolding is a mindfuck. Fuck his brains out, have fun.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by SimpleEnigma » Wed Aug 23, 2023 7:56 am

lockedbybullsw wrote:
Sun Aug 20, 2023 5:44 am
I basically fall into this category and I understand the struggle. He is certainly already happy that’s you’re willing to participate. It depends on him, but if you struggle to actually say mean and demeaning things, you should know you may not have to and still be very effective.
He won’t say it, but your confidence and comfort with delivery of these comments is what’s also very hot. So practice normalizing it to yourself. Be open to pointing out attractive qualities of other men while you’re out in public and gauge his reaction. Or asking your husbands opinion if you should buy certain clothes. Always look for a small window to needle him. If you pick up something purple and he says you look great in purple put it down and say “ yes, but my bf likes me in red then ask him to buy you something red. If you actively have another partner, get used to vocalizing the topic by concentrating on the positive experiences you receive without being demeaning. You can always dirty it up when you’re comfortable. For example. Instead of saying “ my boyfriend fucks me so much better and his cock is bigger than than yours”. Try “omg by boyfriend flipped me into a position that just was great. I don’t even know what he did but I came like crazy”. Or any other non demeaning open ended statement. It will make his mind go and he will most likely try to “ compete”. Never lie about anything. Ever. If something is really good for you, but it will be painful for him to hear, deliver the news confidently. If something didn’t do something for you and you don’t like it, deliver the news the same way. Ruthless honestly is important. Him losing control to you is humiliating.
It’s important to know that, I think anyway, for the most part
Porn gets cuck humiliation wrong but I can’t speak for everyone.
Keep talking to find out what he is into. Does he like public humiliation, does he simply want to hear another dude is bigger than him, or maybe he wants to go hardcore by being forced to expose a locked cock to one of your girlfriend.
Humiliation is endless. I think this type of humiliation it’s the male equivalent to what bdsm is to a woman. It’s a deep level of understanding what your partner is comfortable with to handle and how hard you can push them. Similar to BDSM, humiliation is a commitment to sprinkling sharp harsh comments and texts throughout the day, then switching it off leaving them wanting more.
It is refreshing to hear from someone who gets it. Well stated.
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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Xmatty1 » Thu Aug 24, 2023 4:45 pm

So he has a big cock. Would you like a bigger one or is it perfect?

Can he go as many rounds as you would like? And make you cum as hard and as often as you would like?

Do you ever desire someone not as muscular? More of a skinny pretty boy type?

Is sex the same every time? Do you want more variety?

Nobody is perfect. Tell us more about sex with him. Help us help you.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by airhorn » Thu Aug 24, 2023 5:37 pm

Beautyandthebeast wrote:
Sat Aug 19, 2023 4:53 pm
My man is very dominant. Handsome. Works out a ton. He isn’t small at all. He is very into cuckolding. He is asking for more humiliation with words and actions. Im struggling as to what to say because he isn’t weak or small or any of the normal things you can say. He also is like I know I’m not small or anything so make it genuine. Any suggestions of some sexy humiliation type chat?
I looked over your other posts.

Rather than make it about his physical characteristics, you can make it about what mental or emotional characteristics.

Sure, his dick looks adequate and he's 'not small' (which I read to mean physically weak). Not a 'sissy'.

(The rest is a little coarse to drive the points home, if you use some of these with him, adapt to fit your style of sexy talk.)
  • He's got an adequate dick and an okay body, but you have to go to someone else to get properly fucked.
  • He does suck you clean after, right? Make that his primary contact with your pussy -- he can add his come only after doing a proper job cleaning a better man's come out of you. Maybe.
  • ... and he has to make a convincing plea to do so. Denial can make a man do things he might not have expected (might need to find a way to prevent his release otherwise, cages are popular)
  • 'Not a sissy', right. He wants to be a little cocksucker.
  • ... is he going to at least do it right and swallow a better man's come? Or is he a failure as a cocksucker?
  • For that matter, it's not a big, big step from taking it in his throat and taking it up his ass.
  • ... or is he too much a pussy to give it up? Scared his widdle bum-bum can't do it?
And so on. Highlight that this is what he wants, make him own his cuckolding. Have him ask other men to take care of you like he can't.

If you really want to crank it up, make sure they're men he is uncomfortable doing these things with. Taking steps for your wife to fuck a stranger and to let you both suck his cock is one thing, asking a friend or coworker to do it can be a lot more. How will he feel sitting in a meeting with a man who's has his cock in both you and your husband (whether it's mouth or other)?

No one is totally secure in their self-confidence, everyone has something they're not totally happy with. Find his and play on it, especially if it's even a little sex-related.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by unfasten_her_slacks » Thu Aug 24, 2023 8:46 pm

My dear wife likes to go shopping for expensive, stylish lingerie. She will hand me the receipt with a sweet smile so I can balance our home accounts, then telsl me she's bought it not for me but for her boyfriend, Connor. When she really wants to tease me badly she will also undo the button at the top of her slacks and begin to ease the zip down very slowly, again with a smile on her face. She always stops just before she reveals her new panties and tells me they're strictly for Connor's enjoyment before zipping herself back up again.

Very frustrating and very humiliating for me!

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by mrdnrm » Fri Aug 25, 2023 4:28 am

Beautyandthebeast wrote:
Sat Aug 19, 2023 4:53 pm
My man is very dominant. Handsome. Works out a ton. He isn’t small at all. He is very into cuckolding. He is asking for more humiliation with words and actions. Im struggling as to what to say because he isn’t weak or small or any of the normal things you can say. He also is like I know I’m not small or anything so make it genuine. Any suggestions of some sexy humiliation type chat?
lockedbybullsw wrote:
Sun Aug 20, 2023 5:44 am
I basically fall into this category and I understand the struggle. He is certainly already happy that’s you’re willing to participate. It depends on him, but if you struggle to actually say mean and demeaning things, you should know you may not have to and still be very effective.
He won’t say it, but your confidence and comfort with delivery of these comments is what’s also very hot. So practice normalizing it to yourself. Be open to pointing out attractive qualities of other men while you’re out in public and gauge his reaction. Or asking your husbands opinion if you should buy certain clothes. Always look for a small window to needle him. If you pick up something purple and he says you look great in purple put it down and say “ yes, but my bf likes me in red then ask him to buy you something red. If you actively have another partner, get used to vocalizing the topic by concentrating on the positive experiences you receive without being demeaning. You can always dirty it up when you’re comfortable. For example. Instead of saying “ my boyfriend fucks me so much better and his cock is bigger than than yours”. Try “omg by boyfriend flipped me into a position that just was great. I don’t even know what he did but I came like crazy”. Or any other non demeaning open ended statement. It will make his mind go and he will most likely try to “ compete”. Never lie about anything. Ever. If something is really good for you, but it will be painful for him to hear, deliver the news confidently. If something didn’t do something for you and you don’t like it, deliver the news the same way. Ruthless honestly is important. Him losing control to you is humiliating.
It’s important to know that, I think anyway, for the most part
Porn gets cuck humiliation wrong but I can’t speak for everyone.
Keep talking to find out what he is into. Does he like public humiliation, does he simply want to hear another dude is bigger than him, or maybe he wants to go hardcore by being forced to expose a locked cock to one of your girlfriend.
Humiliation is endless. I think this type of humiliation it’s the male equivalent to what bdsm is to a woman. It’s a deep level of understanding what your partner is comfortable with to handle and how hard you can push them. Similar to BDSM, humiliation is a commitment to sprinkling sharp harsh comments and texts throughout the day, then switching it off leaving them wanting more.
There are so many things I agree with in your post. For me I do not like flat out verbal humiliation rather I very much thrive on the visual or being left out For instance about buying clothes; one time I bought a nice mini skirt and halter top for my wife to wear on a date she was going on. When she got dressed she wore a very small tube top over her DD breast and very tight blue jeans for her nice ass. When I asked her why? She simply replied; my date is with him not you and this is what he wants me to wear.

My wife also does a good job of dragging me along on her dates. She will do things like holding her lovers hand and kissing him while I walk behind them or while sitting at the bar she faces him and when the bartender comes over to her and her lover, she will order drinks and she tells the bartender ask my husband what he wants pointing to me behind her and also say he is paying. Then she will most often kiss her lover and start laughing or give a good comment to her lover about how exciting tonight is going to be with him.

Another thing we do on her dates is that I drive and she rides in the backseat with her lover. This not only leaves me out of the conversation but they flirt and make out while I drive them around. She has even sucked him off too. See you don't have to say things to deliver a loud message, after all actions speak louder than words in our book.
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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Abrandnewstart194 » Fri Aug 25, 2023 5:05 am

After insisting for two years that she couldn’t understand humiliation play, my Queen had a recent breakthrough and suddenly discovered that it gets her horny. I’m significantly larger than her Bull, but he fucks her better, and longer than I can do she focuses on performance, not size.

For example, she sent me a video from her latest fuck session with her Bull. She looks straight into her phone while he’s fucking her from behind, and says “Cuck, don’t you wish you could fuck me like this? You want to fuck me like my Bull fucks me?” I watch that video over, and over, and over…

It’s not JUST what she’s saying, it’s that she’s “looking at me” with a look of unconcealed lust for her Bull as plain to see as the pleasure she’s receiving from him as he pounds her from behind. It’s also seeing her immediate, unquestioning obedience to his instructions, and the fact that he can hear what she’s saying to me, and (as she confirmed) getting off powerfully over it.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by Beautyandthebeast » Fri Aug 25, 2023 6:22 am

Thank you!! I love these ideas. I do send pics and videos but I think me talking to him during those would be amazing!! Thank you!

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by lockedbybullsw » Fri Aug 25, 2023 7:58 am

To the original poster,
We all know it’s a personal thing, but would you be interested in sharing some of your ideas with the group? If you can voice them here in an annoymous fashion it may help you do it for him. We can all gauge what your into and help color your world with comments and ideas that you can either choose to implement or not!
It’s so awesome you’ve joined a community like this and you’re working on pleasing him. It’s funny how pleasing him is done by removing his power and making it sting but that’s his fun. Your a good wife.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by subguy80 » Fri Aug 25, 2023 10:01 am

Humiliation is highly personal and as others have stated, it should be tailored to your husband's needs and wants. Of course, your "likes" and your BF's role are critical. Here are a few that work for us:
1. Husband uses condoms. BF does not.
2. BF may have permission for certain sex acts that are off limits to Husband. Wife tells husband about those acts in detail and how much she enjoys it.
3. When the three of you get in a car, wife and BF get the backseat while hubby drives. They kiss and mess around while hubby listens and watches in rearview mirror.
4. When you go out, wife and BF hold hands while hubby follows behind.
5. If you sit in a booth in a restaurant, wife and BF sit on one side and play under the table. Hubby sits opposite and watches. If you're lucky, the waiter or others in the restaurant notice.
6. Hubby strips the bed and washes the sheets after wife and BF have sex in the marital bed.
7. We use SPH a lot. I am smaller than her lover, so it works for us. If your husband is larger, you can achieve the same thing through a chastity cage. His dick will be small and it will be "out of commission."
8. Make hubby wear the chastity cage when you go out with your BF. Text him a picture of what he is missing!
9. We use nudity a lot. Order hubby to strip while you two stay clothed. Or, have him remove your clothes in front of your lover and then "hand you over" to him.
10. Hubby washes lover's car, ideally in front of the neighbors
11. For us, the ultimate humiliation is cleaning a creampie from the wife after BF has flooded her pussy.
Hope that helps!

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by micro pp » Fri Aug 25, 2023 11:55 am

For us, a major aspect is how I am submissive to Her but he is not. He doesn't have to do anything besides show up on dates and it can feel really emasculating.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by cukgrl69 » Fri Aug 25, 2023 12:11 pm

I'm also attractive and fit, and I've got an almost 8" cock. I can just tell you what type of stuff I like.

#1 Just simply being called a cuck. "Come here cuck."
#2 Introduce him to other men as "my cuck", or "my cuck husband".

Talk about how the thought of his cock doesn't turn you on anymore. For example, if you see him naked getting out of the shower or something, look at his dick and just shrug and be like, "Meh."

Deny him sex and talk about keeping your pussy clean and fresh for other men.

Talk about other guys that you think are hot.

Talk about other guys that are NOT as hot or buff as him. "Oh, I'd like to fuck that guy! He's not as hot as you, but I'd still rather take his cock." "I'd like to fuck him. What would you think about letting that little guy have me?"

Masturbate talking about other guys.

"Oh yeah, I can't want to fuck Mark again, I love how his cock feels in me." He starts touching you... You push his hand away, "No, you're making my pussy dry up."

Has he licked another man's cum? If not, get him to lick another man's cum. Then afterward hold it over him.

"I can't believe you licked his cum, you're such a cuck." "You're a cum eating little cuck." "You like the taste of real men's cum don't you?"

Nothing really better than talking about his cum eating. Have a man cum in you then tell him to lick it all up in front of him.

Also tell him to cum in his own mouth. Get him to masturbate next to you in bed, then while he's masturbating say something like, "I want to see you cum in your own mouth." See what he does. If he's not sure how have him elevate his ass by putting pillows under it so his cock is aiming at his face. If he does it, tell him to get used to eating his own cum because he won't be cumming in your mouth anymore. And every now and then bring it up and just be like, "God I can't believe you cum in your own mouth." "I bet none of the other guys I fuck cum in their own mouths."

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by beta boy » Fri Aug 25, 2023 3:32 pm

mrdnrm wrote:
Fri Aug 25, 2023 4:28 am
Beautyandthebeast wrote:
Sat Aug 19, 2023 4:53 pm
My man is very dominant. Handsome. Works out a ton. He isn’t small at all. He is very into cuckolding. He is asking for more humiliation with words and actions. Im struggling as to what to say because he isn’t weak or small or any of the normal things you can say. He also is like I know I’m not small or anything so make it genuine. Any suggestions of some sexy humiliation type chat?
lockedbybullsw wrote:
Sun Aug 20, 2023 5:44 am
I basically fall into this category and I understand the struggle. He is certainly already happy that’s you’re willing to participate. It depends on him, but if you struggle to actually say mean and demeaning things, you should know you may not have to and still be very effective.
He won’t say it, but your confidence and comfort with delivery of these comments is what’s also very hot. So practice normalizing it to yourself. Be open to pointing out attractive qualities of other men while you’re out in public and gauge his reaction. Or asking your husbands opinion if you should buy certain clothes. Always look for a small window to needle him. If you pick up something purple and he says you look great in purple put it down and say “ yes, but my bf likes me in red then ask him to buy you something red. If you actively have another partner, get used to vocalizing the topic by concentrating on the positive experiences you receive without being demeaning. You can always dirty it up when you’re comfortable. For example. Instead of saying “ my boyfriend fucks me so much better and his cock is bigger than than yours”. Try “omg by boyfriend flipped me into a position that just was great. I don’t even know what he did but I came like crazy”. Or any other non demeaning open ended statement. It will make his mind go and he will most likely try to “ compete”. Never lie about anything. Ever. If something is really good for you, but it will be painful for him to hear, deliver the news confidently. If something didn’t do something for you and you don’t like it, deliver the news the same way. Ruthless honestly is important. Him losing control to you is humiliating.
It’s important to know that, I think anyway, for the most part
Porn gets cuck humiliation wrong but I can’t speak for everyone.
Keep talking to find out what he is into. Does he like public humiliation, does he simply want to hear another dude is bigger than him, or maybe he wants to go hardcore by being forced to expose a locked cock to one of your girlfriend.
Humiliation is endless. I think this type of humiliation it’s the male equivalent to what bdsm is to a woman. It’s a deep level of understanding what your partner is comfortable with to handle and how hard you can push them. Similar to BDSM, humiliation is a commitment to sprinkling sharp harsh comments and texts throughout the day, then switching it off leaving them wanting more.
There are so many things I agree with in your post. For me I do not like flat out verbal humiliation rather I very much thrive on the visual or being left out For instance about buying clothes; one time I bought a nice mini skirt and halter top for my wife to wear on a date she was going on. When she got dressed she wore a very small tube top over her DD breast and very tight blue jeans for her nice ass. When I asked her why? She simply replied; my date is with him not you and this is what he wants me to wear.

My wife also does a good job of dragging me along on her dates. She will do things like holding her lovers hand and kissing him while I walk behind them or while sitting at the bar she faces him and when the bartender comes over to her and her lover, she will order drinks and she tells the bartender ask my husband what he wants pointing to me behind her and also say he is paying. Then she will most often kiss her lover and start laughing or give a good comment to her lover about how exciting tonight is going to be with him.

Another thing we do on her dates is that I drive and she rides in the backseat with her lover. This not only leaves me out of the conversation but they flirt and make out while I drive them around. She has even sucked him off too. See you don't have to say things to deliver a loud message, after all actions speak louder than words in our book.
mrdnrm You reminded me of experiences I had back in my high school days. Back then outdoor/drive in movies were popular with young people.Kids didn't go to them for movies. It was a place we could go and makeout and have sex with our girlfriends in our cars without the cops bothering us.Being a whimpy girlish type of guy and very shy around girls, I never could get a date but I had a car and my best friend didn't.So I often brought them to the movies where they fucked in the back seat. I had to sit alone in front pretending to watch the movie till the windows steamed up.I would jurk off my very small penis and that's all I could do but I learned to enjoy it. After a few times out like this my buddy got a new girlfriend who was a controlling bitch.She told him she wanted privacy when they fucked and told me to bring a lawn chair so I could watch the movie outside.She said It would be different if I had a date too and teased me that I could get a girl. . . . My buddy didn't like me being so lonely and decided to fix me up with some girl he knew. She was kind of a slut who would fuck anybody. So we went out in our usual fashon to the movies,me in the front seat with my date. I was still a virgin but was happy and proud that I had a girl, and horny too. I really felt like a man for once in my life.The movie started and so did we. As usual my stud friend was in the back making his bitch screem.I started to feel up my date under her skirt while she unziped my jeans.I eagerly slid them down so she could get to me and could feel her handling me. I never had a girl touch me there before and it felt so much better than when I jurked myself off.She told me eariler that she was on the pill so I didn't have to bother with a condom so I figured I was going to enter her pussy, not just a handjob.As I got my erection, suddenly out loud she shouts: "Is this all you got?" She started laughing and calling my cock a tiny dicklett. She squeezed it between her thumb and finger gave it a few quick jurks while laughing and telling me what a loser I was. That finished me and I made a mess on her hand accidentally and she rubbed it on my face and pulled my hand away from her pussy. . . . That was the end of our date. There was another car parked next to us with some guys she knew.She got out of the car saying she was going to get with some real men and I was alone once again.I got the cum rag I always bring with me and cleaned up.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by subguy80 » Sat Aug 26, 2023 3:54 am

beta boy wrote:
Fri Aug 25, 2023 3:32 pm
As I got my erection, suddenly out loud she shouts: "Is this all you got?" She started laughing and calling my cock a tiny dicklett. She squeezed it between her thumb and finger gave it a few quick jurks while laughing and telling me what a loser I was. That finished me and I made a mess on her hand accidentally and she rubbed it on my face and pulled my hand away from her pussy. . . . That was the end of our date. There was another car parked next to us with some guys she knew.She got out of the car saying she was going to get with some real men and I was alone once again.I got the cum rag I always bring with me and cleaned up.
Wow, that's brutal. I like it when my wife or her love user SPH, but your story is way beyond that. I hope you eventually found girls who enjoyed your penis!! I hope you were able to move on from that episode. Thanks for sharing.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by beta boy » Sat Aug 26, 2023 12:46 pm

subguy80 wrote:
Sat Aug 26, 2023 3:54 am
beta boy wrote:
Fri Aug 25, 2023 3:32 pm
As I got my erection, suddenly out loud she shouts: "Is this all you got?" She started laughing and calling my cock a tiny dicklett. She squeezed it between her thumb and finger gave it a few quick jurks while laughing and telling me what a loser I was. That finished me and I made a mess on her hand accidentally and she rubbed it on my face and pulled my hand away from her pussy. . . . That was the end of our date. There was another car parked next to us with some guys she knew.She got out of the car saying she was going to get with some real men and I was alone once again.I got the cum rag I always bring with me and cleaned up.
Wow, that's brutal. I like it when my wife or her love user SPH, but your story is way beyond that. I hope you eventually found girls who enjoyed your penis!! I hope you were able to move on from that episode. Thanks for sharing.
The way I moved on was to realize that no woman would ever consider me a man or allow me to try and fuck them knowing it would be a waste of her time. I was strangely turned on by that evening at the drive in movie. Afterward my buddies girl teased me about it and the next day she told all our friends. The girls in our the group all thought it was funny and some constantly humiliated me and wanted to see for themselves if I was really that small.At one point they ganged up on me and pulled down my jeans to get a good look at me. To make matters worse I started to take a fancy to wearing girls panties. I guess it made sense and tied in with my lack of manhood. Well that day happened to be one of my "panty days" and you can well imagine the reaction of the girls. The thing is I enjoyed my shame and that enjoyment increased.I became the neighborhood sissy and was given a lot of panties by these girls.I was expected to wear them which I did with delight and they routinely made me show them which ones I was wearing. The girls remembered which ones each of them gave me seemed to take pride if I was wearing one of theirs.I think the most intense experience was one day at school when this particular click of girls dragged me into the girls locker room and made me give them a routine panty showing and one girl was wearing a rubber latex glove and took me between her thumb and finger. It didn't take long for me to make my "sissy cream" as they called it.They were in hysterics.The girl who jerked me off then took off the rubber glove and stuffed it in my panty like a menstral pad and told me to keep it there all day.I had to finish out the day like that in wet panties.I was teased and jeered at all day but I loved it.It was the only way I could interact with girls.

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Re: Help with humiliation!

Unread post by PANTIES » Sat Aug 26, 2023 1:13 pm

My MIL told me when she saw my peepe she had never seen one as small as mine and then said it’s no wonder her daughter has a lover. Then later she told her girl friend about my mini penis, her girl friend wanted to see my penis.

My MIL’s friend came over to MIL’s home. I was told to take my pants off revealing my panties. My MIL said to pull my panties down so they could see my penis. They both agreed they had never seen one as small as mine.

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