I'm confused

[Iwatchherplay]

Not all "cuckolds" are gay and have no desire to have sex with another man. They have no desire to "clean'" another mans cum from their wife's pussy, body or lips.

Is there such a thing as a "normal" cuckold that doesn't involve some kind of sex with another man?

In my opinion I have felt like a "cuckold" when my wife "chooses" her fuck partner at a bar, surprising me and I just go along as if I'm the "third" and watch her have sex with him whether it's fucking or a blow job.

She is enjoying her new found freedom and I'm happy for that. I don't always like her choices. When I reluctantly watch her have sex with someone I don't like does that make me a "cuckold"?

She has never openly disrespected me or humiliated me. She respects me more for "allowing" her to have sex with other men.

[Gavriloprincep]

I would call that a stag. Enjoy watching and sharing and participating with wife and 3rd

[Itman]

Labels are never exhaustive. Between black and white there is a scale of multiple shades of gray.
Every experience is unique. Don't look at yourself compared to others, but live your situation with fullness and aligning it with your and your partner's desires.

[Jaxbchcuck]

Not all "cuckolds" are gay and have no desire to have sex with another man. They have no desire to "clean'" another mans cum from their wife's pussy, body or lips.

Is there such a thing as a "normal" cuckold that doesn't involve some kind of sex with another man?

It's somewhat ironic that you choose to use a label here yourself. I'm personally not into granny porn or stuck porn, but that doesn't make anyone who is turned on by those sexual scenarios "abnormal." I would posit that the same is true for those who are turned on by the desire to, as you state, "clean another man's cum from their wife's pussy, body or lips."

As long as the activity isn't illegal or causing harm to another (at least without the other's consent and perhaps a safe word) then why can't it all be considered "normal."

Just a thought in our ever increasingly tribalized world.

jbc

[trecital]

Is there such a thing as a "normal" cuckold?

Nope.....

[ucaneffher]

Many people live the cuckold lifestyle the way they want and fits their needs.some are extreme in one way and some in another. Some men use the lifestyle as an excuse to be bi/gay, some truly just want the wife to be happy, some because of health reasons, and the rest of us want our wife to be our porn star.

I personally don't do gay/man-on-man, humiliation, sissification, feminization, creampie cleaning, and I definitely don't tolerate disrespect from her or any man that she's with.

My thing is to let her be single and available at all times whether I'm with her or not, she can pick any man she wants, when she wants, as frequent, and for as long as she wants. I require no prior knowledge or permission so she doesn't have to ask me but rather tells me when she is going out.

I still identify as a cuckold because my philosophy is that one day I want my girlfriend to have a full on boyfriend and real relationship with him outside of our relationship and/or down the road end up in a poly cuckold relationship where this boyfriend of hers moves in with us and he becomes her main and primary and priority partner while I become her secondary/deprioritized partner. We'd live under the same roof but I'd mostly become a spectator to their relationship. She would mostly sleep in his bed at night, have most sex with him, date nights with him, everything basically with him. I would get all that but less frequently. My masochist side wants to be up close in person under the same roof with her and her main man to see what I am missing out on and be teased 24/7 as to how he gets everything without limits or restrictions and I can't get that from her.

See, that's what I mean about everyone doing things differently but still being cucks. Good luck!

[wagonmaker1]

u know there is a separate forum on here called stag & vixen, which i believe is for guys like u & i who love to share our wife's but, have no desire to interact with their lovers, or to even eat her creampie, i always just watched & then reclaimed her soon after,

[Iwatchherplay]

Not all "cuckolds" are gay and have no desire to have sex with another man. They have no desire to "clean'" another mans cum from their wife's pussy, body or lips.

Is there such a thing as a "normal" cuckold that doesn't involve some kind of sex with another man?

It's somewhat ironic that you choose to use a label here yourself. I'm personally not into granny porn or stuck porn, but that doesn't make anyone who is turned on by those sexual scenarios "abnormal." I would posit that the same is true for those who are turned on by the desire to, as you state, "clean another man's cum from their wife's pussy, body or lips."

As long as the activity isn't illegal or causing harm to another (at least without the other's consent and perhaps a safe word) then why can't it all be considered "normal."

Just a thought in our ever increasingly tribalized world.

jbc

huh? confused even more

[Topnotch]

If you think it's gay or bi...then maybe it isn't for you...eh?

[Cdncuck]

Normal is a setting on the drier.

[milehinbi]

Traditionally speaking… anyone whose wife fucks someone else with or without their knowledge, approval or participation would be a cuckold. All the personal preferences and additional kinks are simply variations on the theme.

[ucaneffher]

If you think it's gay or bi...then maybe it isn't for you...eh?

GTFO with that lol, why would you even say that? You make it sound like gay/bi is synonymous with cuckolding, it's not. Cuckolding doesn't have to be about being gay, it's about your woman being unfaithful to you although the modern approach is that "it's not cheating if you both are up for it"

If an element other than your wife dating or sleeping around is present, such as man on man, wouldn't it actually be that the involved men are gay or curious?

A lot on here come excusing their gayness in the name of cuckoldry when in reality it's just their desire to be with a man. Not bashing it but I absolutely detest when these closet gays come on here masking their curiosity with the lifestyle.

[Johnann2227]

u know there is a separate forum on here called stag & vixen, which i believe is for guys like u & i who love to share our wife's but, have no desire to interact with their lovers, or to even eat her creampie, i always just watched & then reclaimed her soon after,

I am a stag and have never thought of myself as a cuckold and neither has my wife. She never goes bareback with her boyfriends but in our swinger group of friends we are totally bareback. Every Saturday night she receives at least three loads in her pussy which I love to then eat. I am in no way bi (although I am comfortable with the unavoidable male contact in orgy situations) or gay but I do love eating creampies (as do the other husbands in our group). I think it is a combination of the tabooness (if that is a word) of the act and the best way I can immediately show my wife that I am fine with her fucking other men.

[BBCfan]

It seems to be such a personal thing where lines are drawn as far as humiliation and "gayness".

If I was ever with my wife and she openly hit on a guy in front of me, I would find that extremely disrespectful and humiliating.it would not go over well.

Even though I have had some bi encounters in past, for me I've been there, done that, got the activity badge... I want no interaction with the guy fucking my wife, other than maybe a high five...

and certainly would not go down on her In front of a guy that just fucked her, and not ever after he's left if he has unloaded in her.

Not that there's anything wrong with that.
Just seems too humiliating and passive and gross for me. I didn't like jizz when I sucked dick. lol

Perhaps things will change and evolve... who's to say.

I still enjoy hearing about others experiences no matter what they are, and have no judgement on who identifies as what. Who cares.

Seems like there's unlimited variations on the theme. I don't care what I "am" as long as wife and I love and respect one another through the journey.

Labels are for beer bottles.

[RonDom]

Is there such a thing as a "normal" cuckold that doesn't involve some kind of sex with another man?

No, when it comes to interpersonal relationships there is no such thing as "normal" anything.

[RonDom]

Traditionally speaking… anyone whose wife fucks someone else with or without their knowledge, approval or participation would be a cuckold. All the personal preferences and additional kinks are simply variations on the theme.

I agree. Webster's Dictionary defines cuckold as "a man whose wife is unfaithful." A man who knows about his wife's infidelity and accepts it is a wittol.

[BBCfan]

Traditionally speaking… anyone whose wife fucks someone else with or without their knowledge, approval or participation would be a cuckold. All the personal preferences and additional kinks are simply variations on the theme.

I agree. Webster's Dictionary defines cuckold as "a man whose wife is unfaithful." A man who knows about his wife's infidelity and accepts it is a wittol.

Interesting. We want our wife to have fun "wittol" the dick she desires.
Sorry, couldn't resist.

[Iwatchherplay]

u know there is a separate forum on here called stag & vixen, which i believe is for guys like u & i who love to share our wife's but, have no desire to interact with their lovers, or to even eat her creampie, i always just watched & then reclaimed her soon after,

oops! You're right. Should have at least copied it there.

I just wanted relate to other "straight" guys that you can feel like a cuckold or be treated like a cuckold with out gay sex.

[bernhard_10777]

What is cuckolding for me? Is it about my satisfaction? I have a need for mutual happiness. I experience my satisfaction when I see contentment and fulfilment in the facial expressions of the woman I love above all else. Where this facial joy comes from is not so important. I know from past relationships that sexual intercourse produces these joyful facial expressions.

[Gulfcpl]

cuckold
noun
cuck·​old ˈkə-kəld -(ˌ)kōld
: a man whose wife is unfaithful
cuckold transitive verb

From Websters dictionary. The meaning, according to the dictionary, mentions nothing of the husband knowing of the wife’s unfaithfulness or not. It’s simply a wife that is unfaithful. Unfaithful can have different meanings too. As cuckold or husbands of hotwives, we don’t see it as being unfaithful.

You certainly do not have to be bi, gay, submissive or any term you want to use to be a cuckold. There are many preferences within cuckoldery (is that a word?), just as we are all humans and are all different. You don’t have to fit into any mold you don’t desire. Just have fun and don’t worry about what others think you should be.