Fun Thursday Night

[CoupleFun555]

My wife went on a date with her hung and super fit bf on Thursday. She had a great time in bed. When she came home, I asked her to peg me and jerk me off with a two finger, little penis handjob. It was fun for me but not great fun.

It turns out that she wasn’t able to “switch” from being the receiver to then pegging me with any type of interest. She had a great time with him but I think she would have preferred I’ve I’d gone inside of her instead.

We may try this again. My hope was that she’d tease me about how much bigger her bf is and just how much more she enjoys his cock while she was pegging me.

[BoBatty]

I think you know this but communication is key. Maybe ask her (in a non-invasive) way about her date. Active listening with no intrusive comments and, when the time is right, maybe open with "You're date sounds really exciting, I had some exciting thoughts for us but I realize now you needed some time to process things" and go from there. I think sometimes we have thought of the scenario so many times it's like we already did it but it may be completely new to our partners and they need time to digest the scenario. I can name countless times where I sprung some internet porn idea on my wife, she went along to please me, and it came up later how uncomfortable she was.

Some things we did again, so we got shelved. Relationships are give and take but also incremental. Imagine if you brought up where you are today on your first date. Either one of you or both might have run for the door. Communication, trust and time got you where you are today.

Don't ditch your feelings but also remember to try to see things from her eyes. She had a manly man and she came home hoping her manly man would reclaim her. You had a different idea.

I'm sure you two will get it right!

Good luck.