What Makes a Woman a “Slut?”

[fredfred2]

My late wife was Sexualy shy till as she said she said was made a slut by our best friend. I think it's up to the woman to define is she is or is not one.
At the moment before he thrust he asked her if she was ready to become one and she said yes. After he always referred to her as slut, not my slut, which I fond interesting and she agreed that she was available to any presentable male that wished to use her.

[TinyBoyDick]

My late wife was Sexualy shy till as she said she said was made a slut by our best friend. I think it's up to the woman to define is she is or is not one.
At the moment before he thrust he asked her if she was ready to become one and she said yes. After he always referred to her as slut, not my slut, which I fond interesting and she agreed that she was available to any presentable male that wished to use her.

Your experience with your late wife is one of the numerous scenarios that brought me to the conclusion that generally speaking, humans do NOT prefer to be monogamous- given the freedom to choose- but are pressured into a one-mate lifestyle by society... usually influenced by religion. Of course, there are women who DO prefer monogamy- and that is their right- but in my humble opinion, the MAJORITY of women (and men) would choose to have an unrestricted number of sexual partners if there were no societal stigma attached to it.

[CoupleFun555]

We don’t like the word because we see it as a product of historical misogyny and attempts to control the sexuality of women. We are both cool with any woman who embraces the word. We just don’t like to use it.

[Heroprus]

I've embraced the word and LOVE using it now.
In fact, a podcast about "slut training" opened some amazing doors for me.

Now that she has had a few men, my wife loves me calling her my personal slut. As far as we're concerned, she's a slut, I'm a slut. We both like fucking other people. I wouldn't react well to someone else calling her that in an offensive way though.

I stay up late. Sometimes in the middle of the night I will come in fully hard, throw the covers off and say "spread your legs, slut". She wakes right up and LOVES this. just a couple years ago she would not have reacted well and I wouldn't have talked like that. Things change quickly.

[Tank Turner]

Who cares? I'd marry a porn star if I were in love with her, assuming, of course, I wasn't married. I am. I married a porn star. Years ago I told my wife that when I was in college I used to tell my friends I was going to marry a porn star. Without a second's hesitation she shot back, "You did!" She was right. She's my porn star.

My wife loves to be told she's a naughty, nasty, and kinky slut during dirty talking sex. Other than sex talk, I'd never call her a slut or any other derogatory name. I'm thoroughly in love with her.

My wife had a lot of sexual experience before I met her. I'm thankful for her sexual experience every time we have sex. She should write a book entitled "A Million Ways to Make Men Cum".

Mature, self-confident and self-assured men never call women denigrating names. Women, however, will call other women denigrating names. For an unknown reason, women seem to always be in competition with each other. Men aren't.

[grassysparkie]

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[cucking88]

A woman whose body is available for everyone but emotionally available for just one is the true slut.

[Maximus54]

Who cares? I'd marry a porn star if I were in love with her, assuming, of course, I wasn't married. I am. I married a porn star. Years ago I told my wife that when I was in college I used to tell my friends I was going to marry a porn star. Without a second's hesitation she shot back, "You did!" She was right. She's my porn star.

My wife loves to be told she's a naughty, nasty, and kinky slut during dirty talking sex. Other than sex talk, I'd never call her a slut or any other derogatory name. I'm thoroughly in love with her.

My wife had a lot of sexual experience before I met her. I'm thankful for her sexual experience every time we have sex. She should write a book entitled "A Million Ways to Make Men Cum".

Mature, self-confident and self-assured men never call women denigrating names. Women, however, will call other women denigrating names. For an unknown reason, women seem to always be in competition with each other. Men aren't.

What you are saying makes perfect sense except that when my husband refers to me as a slut, it is not in my view derogatory.

I was a prostitute for over a year. My husband sees that time as essential to my innate sexuality.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Maximus54,

Thank you.

Your husband is a very very lucky man to be able to call you his wife. I sure he's the envy of all other men.

I would treat prostitutes with the Golden Rule. I make no judgments about their profession.

My wife has a prostitute fantasy. She wanted to make it a reality. She had developed an elaborate plan to proposition a man at a swanky So Cal beach resort. I was to remain nearby to assure her safety while she went to his room and performed professional services. She had planned to text me his room number before performing professional services. My job was to respond if she felt she was in danger. After she learned consequences if she mistakenly propositioned a vice cop, she decided the risk wasn't worth the reward.

Both my wife and I believe prostitution should be legal for the same reason: governmental intrusion into women's expectation of their intimate privacy is a line that must not be crossed.

Prostitution is a normal and common women's sexual fantasy.

My wife told me that men could be married to former prostitutes and never know it unless they were told.

The only time I'll call my wife a slut is during sex. She gets off on it. It does nothing for me. She gets off on dirty talk. I would never, ever think about calling my wife a slut outside of a bedroom. I would never call any woman a slut or other derogatory name. I treat everyone, especially women with respect.

BTW, have you seen the movie "LA Confidential"? Russell Crow played an LAPD cop. Kim Basinger played a prostitute. She won an Oscar for her performance. Russell Crow knew her profession, dated her while she continued to work as a prostitute, fell in love with her, and at the end of the movie they left LA together for a small Arizona town. It's an excellent movie.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DacxCcEo-HY

My best to you,

Tank

[runaway]

I’ve heard the term ‘Ethical Slut’ to refer to women in the lifestyle who have an open ended relationship on their end. I guess it’s a woman with a healthy sex drive and multiple concurrent partners who embraces the term. I’d never refer to a woman as a slut unless she embraced the identity. I’d like if my wife were a slut but only if she loved being that way. I think she’s a slut at heart.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

My wife, a formerly devout Catholic, gets a thrill out of being a slut. She says that the thrill comes from being brought up in such a strict religious home when she was young.

When I get the opportunity to reclaim her, especially when her boyfriend has just finished inside her, I often ask her how she likes being a slut. She always gets a bit delirious in that moment and can barely articulate how much she loves being our slut, available for our pleasure…especially his, since he is the forbidden fruit of our marriage.

She is very proud of how far she has come since she was a little girl receiving her first communion, and if that means being labeled a slut, she’ll happily own that just to grind one out with him and satisfy his sexual needs……and then maybe mine, if she feels like it.

[troilusand]

My wife, a formerly devout Catholic, gets a thrill out of being a slut. She says that the thrill comes from being brought up in such a strict religious home when she was young.

When I get the opportunity to reclaim her, especially when her boyfriend has just finished inside her, I often ask her how she likes being a slut. She always gets a bit delirious in that moment and can barely articulate how much she loves being our slut, available for our pleasure…especially his, since he is the forbidden fruit of our marriage.

She is very proud of how far she has come since she was a little girl receiving her first communion, and if that means being labeled a slut, she’ll happily own that just to grind one out with him and satisfy his sexual needs……and then maybe mine, if she feels like it.

Cressida freely admitted to being a slut...and like your wife, was PROUD of being one! She got great pleasure in giving men the satisfaction of orgasm and trying to make her pregnant. She never used a condom because it never occurred to her to limit a man's pleasure that way. Passion ruled the day -- even if meant risking me becoming a cuckold father when she was cheating on me.

She fucked most men she dated (before AND after marrying me), and only a small percentage of those times did she orgasm herself. But she sure enjoyed the process...and also the pride in providing a man with the opportunity of inseminating a beautiful woman. You know, "a job well done..." sort of thing.

Troilus

[HotWifeHotLyfe]

My girl proudly self describes as a slut. She loves being a slut and pleasing men. She loves being my hot little slut. She loves being called a slut by me and her lovers. The term, for her and me, means she’s sexually empowered, liberated, and flipping the bird at societal expectations of women being chaste and constrained in their enjoyment of giving and receiving pleasure.

[Pressingher]

It's a matter of perspective. Most mainstreamers are going to consider any hotwife a slut; most cucks would never. Personally,I don't believe in the word. Ive had more casual sex than nearly any "slut" but I've almost always been praised for it. It's just bs society peddles to shame women because the average man is too insecure to sexually compete with any other man. They would rather virtue signal about prudes and vergins while turning their pockets inside out for prostitutes, paid OF dms, and stroking themselves until they have 3rd degree friction burns while watching increasingly "degenerate" porn after which they insult "sluts" in the comment section of porn sites because the post nut clarity has allowed the shame and insecurity to flood back in.

[Astrid Servel]

It’s basically an insult generally kept for women who men believe they have the right to judge.

[n8217n]

For me the definition of a "slut" would be a woman with very low standards for the sex partners she chooses.I guess that means it's all about the quality and not the quantity.Sorry if this offends anyone but there is a decided difference between a modern liberated woman with standards and some female that will go with anybody for the sake of convenience.

[TinyBoyDick]

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THANK YOU to everyone who has participated thus far!

[Caribwaters]

My wife was brought up in a conservative household, where her parents and sisters never discussed sex beyond kissing. Even after she was years married, the subject was never brought up.

After we were married about 7 years and she had her 1st affair with an older man and I subsequently became a cuckold, she started during our intimate moments, referring to herself as a "whore". After hearing this term a few times we had a discussion where I mentioned, whores get paid in some form, whereas sluts have sex outside of marriage for the sheer enjoyment.

She engaged with her lovers over the years for the feeling of someone difference, the excitement of the anticipation and the exceptional pleasure she enjoyed from most of these men. To echo a comment above, she only engaged bareback, never letting anything diminish her gratification. Her bosses with whom she enjoyed regular sex with, always treated her special outside of the bedroom and the office, but that was not the primary reason she became involved with them.

For years when we engage in sex and she is working up towards her peak, I will often reference to a past lover telling her that she is a slut and that term, along with the memory of the boyfriend will always bring her to organism. I believe that she enjoys her secret identity of knowing that she is really a slut, whereas everyone in her family and within her circler of friends think that she is a "proper" mother, wife and well dressed professional, married to her high school sweet heart.

[EliMySexyWife]

1) Non-ethical slut is really shameful and one of the biggest sins. A woman who betray his partner and have sexual with other men, even with the mans who have a non-consensual wife/gf

2) Ethical sluts are the best women of the world. They are the beauty of this life!

[Smallcock74]

I think it comes down to public perception. You can call yourself what you want, but the vanilla public as a whole will come up with a term for women that sleep around. In England they're referred to as "slags.'

[snoogaloo82]

This thread was meant to collect honest opinions... I HOPE nobody will take offense to opinions expressed in this safe space.

THANK YOU to everyone who has participated thus far!

i would so love to second this motion!! Thank you to everyone who's provided a safe place to participate.

[Hotwife2020]

My wife grew up veryyyy religious and embraced the 'slut' nickname well before I knew her. Our first time together she told me to 'cum in the town slut'. Over the years she has explained that basically the word- and entire concept of sex- was so taboo that she embraced it as a way of rejecting her upbringing.

For her, it is an extremely positive word which represents sexual freedom and choice.

[Cgb29]

Depends on the context. As an insult, it says nothing about the woman and everything about the accuser. As long as she's not hurting anyone, a woman should be free to do with her body as she pleases without judgement from others.

As a self-descriptor, it's however the person defines it. My wife refers to herself as a slut with no negative connotation.

[lanceHarden25]

1) Non-ethical slut is really shameful and one of the biggest sins. A woman who betray his partner and have sexual with other men, even with the mans who have a non-consensual wife/gf

2) Ethical sluts are the best women of the world. They are the beauty of this life!

I like this distinction. I love that my wife considers herself slutty in the ethical sense of the word and she finds power in embracing her sluttiness.

[ccklvr]

My Wife hates the word slut. I don’t feel she is one. She has only been with 4 men. 3 long term, Including myself, a steady bull we had for a year, & her cousin before we met. The 4th was a drunken one night stand after her cousin & before me. Seems too steady to be classified as a slut.

her cousin?
that sounds interesting tell us more!

well, my wife loves to be called a slut.