Advice for good dating sites to get into this

[DeAd so7]

So I am hoping somebody can perhaps advise as to what is a good dating website as to where to get into this lifestyle together with my girlfriend and I, we've looked at places like feeld, after seeing it come up in suggestions on reddit, and albeit we do not live in a low population area in the American south west, nevertheless there does not seem to be much activity here at all, at least on feeld from what we've seen. And so if somebody can perhaps advice us as to a few other places where to find people for this lifestyle, that would be most appreciated. Thank you.

[Htwf4fwb]

SLS, fetlife, Ashley Madison, adult friend finder

[DeAd so7]

SLS, fetlife, Ashley Madison, adult friend finder

Thank you very much, we appreciate the help.

[2inUPMichigan]

Keep on mind that some sites seem to be more regionally active than others. The key is to find which ones are most actively used in your area.

[Mr Stag]

Doublelist.com might work out for you. Also try wifewantstoplay.com and post under the bull section.

[Swanilla]

SLS, fetlife, Ashley Madison, adult friend finder

From someone who has been in the LS for years (and have lifetime memberships on many LS sites), here is a little more info:

SLS - Old School swinger site. Older crowd but lots of people everywhere
Fetlife - Horrible site but if you have a kink, may be worthwhile
Ashley Madison - Cheating site full of bots. Nothing LS about it.
Adult Friend Finder - Lots of lurkers but good if you are seeking bi play

In the southwest, you also may want to check out Kasidie.com and SDC.com. They tend to have more people in the SW. They also post a lot of events which may be fun for you two. Also, once you find your local "community," there are a ton of facebook groups for the LS (which encompasses HW too).

Good luck!

[Topnotch]

Swinger sites seem to work best for us. My wife has had luck on Ashley Madison also. We haven't found anything else that gets close to those tho

[PlayboyFan]

Much depends on what type of play friend your girlfriend would be most comfortable with.

Swinger sites would bring you lifestyle educated partners, where cheating sites like Ashley Madison are more populated with husbands looking to quietly play on the side.

PBF

[OpenCouple]

Wyylde and Feeld

Im not sure it works outside Europe. I feel like you dont have good websites/apps like that In the US, that's a shame

[kort677]

we just set up an account on www.cougarlife.com
hotflagal if you want to check her out
we'll see if it is a viable site

[cukgrl69]

We've had good success with kasadie.com. What I like about it is that its really more focused on groups and events, not just meeting people one on one. I'd give it a shot. It operates more kind of like Facebook than a typical dating side.

[CaliLondon]

We've met an amazing playmate on Feeld

[kort677]

I posted an ad for her on doublelist, I've gotten a lot of responses in a couple of days.
I like using it because it is local.
we're meeting two guys from there tonight.
I invited two guys to come meet her in case one is a no show.

[UPDATE]
both were no shows!

[cukgrl69]

I'll add that what really worked for us was NOT "dating sites", it was going to a sex club. Meeting some guy off the internet can be awkward and disappointing. We've done it, but had a lot of misses as well and misses the first few times can be a real killer. You may not live in an area with a good sex club, but I'd say try to find one, even if you have to travel and do it like a vacation. The good thing about a sex club also is that you don't even have to do anything. You can just watch.

If you can't find a club, then I'd suggest going to local events. Look on sites like Kasadie and you;ll find events in your area, at least in your state. Same type of thing as a club. Its not just one on one and you know its going to happen. Some guy off the internet may not show up, may be a jerk, whatever. If you go to an event, and I mean even a "swingers" event, not a "cuck" event, you can just observe, meet people, etc.