How sexual was your girlfriend/wife before cuckolding?

[toreaddave]

Hey everyone!

I've read before, and it makes obvious sense, that more sexually-open/experienced women are more inclined towards cuckolding.

I'd like to hear your thoughts and experiences on the matter regarding your own girlfriend/wife.

How sexual (open-minded, experienced, kinky, etc.) was your girlfriend/wife before cuckolding?

Also, who introduced cuckolding first and how did the other respond?

Looking forward to reading your comments!

[4herpleasure89]

Mine had lo libido and was rather shy. The lifestyle changed things when she realized other men (and women) found her hot. Her boob job was another catalyst and finally hormone replacement therapy. But she was not natural to cuckolding at all.

[tractorman2]

I suspect we are quite rare in the world of cuckolding,

We met as she turned 16, she was unusual being tall at 6ft, slim pretty and a fine wearer of tight jeans, 34B. She had a tomboy attitude to life and had a boyish yet curvy figure. Her dad was a very dominant character and her parents were quite strict with her, till she hit 16.

She had been discouraged from having a boyfriend so i was her first, we got on very well from the start and i soon found i liked other men looking at her, she didnt having been bullied about her height, which had made her rather insecure really.

It would be many months before having felt her breasts that she gave me her virginity, thus began a daily fuck when we met up.

However soon after she phoned, admitting she had cheated on me, having been out with a man in his mid 30s, topless in his car she bottled doing what she had intended and felt i should know. I was very annoyed saw her the following day told her we were finished but as she cried and begged forgiveness i slid between her legs one last time, then forgave her.

Months later and totally unconnected i stood in her bedroom 35mm camera in hand and asked her for a picture, she didnt like this, nor did she like me then asking her to remove her top, she just paused, stared at me and not in a nice way, then said her dad would killer her, so true and me too as i knew. She however then nervously removed her top and i took a couple of her topless in jeans.

I had a friend who had a photo shop, he agreed to develop the film knowing my girlfriend was just 16, yet as the pictures came to life, he named her, saying he could not believe she would do this, he knew her from her visits to his shop with her mother, now i was shocked. Soon after he said she had been into the shop with her mother and as usual nervously smiled like an innocent teenager yet she knew he had seen her topless.

By the time she was 17 she was wearing suspenders under her tight jeans for me, i loved the feel and also knew other men liked the look too, she followed this buying a pair of knee boots making her 6ft 3, same as me. I also took more pictures yet she still didnt like this but still went into the shop with her mother. Our sex life was fantastic, yes i loved other men looking at her.

She finally got fucked by another lad, when drunk on holiday with her friend at 17, she told me as i collected her from the airport, crying and upset, i stopped the car and made love to her, for some reason this confession turned me on, years later she said she knew i liked this confession, as i questioned her about the event whilst fucking her, she found it bizarre but knew then she loved me.

Still 17 i had expanded my photo collection to include nude pictures, still she went into his shop, it would be years later before i realised she liked this kink, a man in his 50s having seen her naked now chatting to her mother as she played the part of innocent teenager.

Married at 18 she has admitted that probably even on that day as her new husband i was destined to become her cuck husband too, a child soon after stopped both our plays but by he time she was 21 she was having an affair and unknown to me that was a driver for my picture collection expanding.

When she was about 24 i watched my then best friend fuck my young wife for the first time, something she wanted me to see, to gauge my reaction sure i would be fine with her having a lover.

So who was the kinky one and drove this, she was and in reality it started when she was 16.

Naughtyness around her parents has continued to be something she has enjoyed but thats another subject.

[wannabecUKold]

What a fabulous account, tractorman. Thank you. I can just imagine her looking nervously at the shopkeeper when in there with her Mum.

[LongTermHubby]

My wife had been with quite a few men before our marriage so she knew just how good it could be. While we had children at home, we were in a monogamous relationship. Shortly after we became empty nesters, my wife embraced her sexuality fully and began enjoying other men.

[CuckHusband11]

My wife wasn’t particularly more sexual than average when we met, and her sex life with me from day one was very vanilla and boring. She thought she would be ok with this and she didn’t need all the sex like a pornstar, but after years of only ever orgasming from masturbating and having zero sexual chemistry with me she had a bit of an existential crisis and found she needed to explore her sexuality more and felt she was wasting her time sexually with me now, so we are now a poly/cuckold couple and happier for it

[Cdncuck]

My wife was a virgin when we met. I found out afterwards she had a high sex drive ,was a constant masturbator and had a lot of sexual fantasies. At the time I met her she was extremely shy and had very little dating experience.

About six months after we started dating, I brought up the idea of her having sex with other guys. We hadn't had sex ourselves up to that point. I brought it up because we were getting serious about each other and I felt this was a part of my personality she should know about. I also thought she would tell me to get lost once I talked to her.

To my great surprise, she was turned on and aroused by the idea. After the initial conversation she talked about it continually. She wanted to know how we would go about it. Who would we do it with? Would I still respect and love her?

From the first time I brought it up, she never said anything like if we did this. It was always when we do this. There never seemed to be any doubt in her mind it would happen.

A couple of months after the first conversation we had sex for the first time. Once we started having sex, she spoke about having another guy involved all the time. Once we did our first mfm, she loved it.

I didn't have a lot of sexual experiences. There were a few girls in high school but I wasn't very good at talking to girls. When we started, I had more sexual experience than her because her experience was zero. Within 6 months of starting, she had far more experience than me.

Once she started it was like someone flipped a switch. She dressed differently, she became much more confident about herself sexually and in her social life as well. She was a different person.

[parklife]

Not exactly sure how to answer this…. Was she sexual? Sure. She was 21 when we met and had only had sex with three other guys in her life but she was open and willing to try just about anything. One was a ONS, another was a short tryst with her best friends boyfriend and the other was her long term high school boyfriend of 5 years. So, numbers wise, not so experienced but she didn’t lack for experience and adventure (she and her BF had sex nearly daily after they started).

She’s always been open minded, not a prude though she has always had limits.

We were monogamous for many years…. I had hotwife desires for a while (dating back to an old girlfriend) but it was my wife who confessed to a dream about fucking someone she called on (she was in sales and he was a buyer). Not Geri g fucked by him, but her sitting on h M and riding him.

That sparked my own fantasy and I began discussing my desires more and while she was an adamant ‘NO’, we used it in our fantasy world for years. She continued to say it would never happen but we were both turned on during sex bun talking about it and incorporating it into our sex lives. She wound up reconnecting with her old tryst partner on LinkedIn with whom she had had sex with before and after flirting a while and her reaffirming with me, they rekindled their physical relationship.

From there, it opened up the world of hotwifing. Now, 8 years later, she’s only had sex with three other guys in that time so again, experienced but not exactly out there playing the field.

Our sex life had dwindled before this started…. We are definitely in the camp of increased sexual drive when she is an active hotwife. The more sex she has outside our marriage, the more sex we have inside it as well.

[Wooster]

My wife had an average libido, and still does. Before we got together, she had had a few longer-term relationships and a few more casual partners. When we started dating, I just asked her not to stop seeing other people, and that’s how it’s been since. Now that she has a long-term boyfriend, her libido is still about the same. They don’t even have sex every time they get together.

[NewtonBlade]

My wife R was a 43 yo divorcee when a mutual friend hooked us up for a blind date. We had a couple drinks and were doing the "get to know ya" thing, discussing jobs, exes, kids, etc. She had three sons, one in college, one in high school and one in kindergarten. I was twice divorced, 36 yo, two boys from my second marriage. Her youngest and my two were very close in age.

About an hour into it the liquor was taking effect, there was an obvious attraction as we'd occasionally touch each other's hands or knees. I finally just had to ask why the age gap between her oldest and youngest. She confidently answered that the teenagers were by her first husband and the youngest was by a married boyfriend. Knowing that I had a dairy farm background, she put her hand on my leg and said yes, she'd been bred by two bulls. I knew I wanted to marry this woman.

We went out for dinner a few days later. I told her that I'd been without a girlfriend for a couple months, and hadn't had sex since. R stammered a bit, but eventually said that she was dating two men, casually. A few beats later I asked what casual dating meant. She said usually about once a week with each guy, sometimes more often, and yes, she was having sex with both of them, no condoms.

I had a little experience being cuckolded by my first wife, so what R said was intriguing. I was very suave about it, told her that she was a beautiful woman and should have a busy sex life. I asked if there was a chance I could join her little stable(another farm reference)and she said it was quite possible.

It took a half a year but eventually I won the competition, R and I became exclusive. Wasn't supposed to be possible, but a few months later she became pregnant. We married shortly after our son was born.

Twelve years later she caught me cheating and our marriage hit the skids. For appearances sake, we attended a friend's daughter's wedding. By chance R's former "work husband" and lover from the early 90's was there as well. He hit on her hard, and on the way home R told me that she was going to take him up on his offer. She said I could deal with it, or fight it and become another divorced, middle aged cheater.

For the next couple years they'd get together every 2 or 3 months and fuck. R was getting her revenge, but by the third date I might have been more into it she was. There's more to the story, but I've been on too long already. PM's are open.

[uxorious]

My wife R was a 43 yo divorcee when a mutual friend hooked us up for a blind date. We had a couple drinks and were doing the "get to know ya" thing, discussing jobs, exes, kids, etc. She had three sons, one in college, one in high school and one in kindergarten. I was twice divorced, 36 yo, two boys from my second marriage. Her youngest and my two were very close in age.

About an hour into it the liquor was taking effect, there was an obvious attraction as we'd occasionally touch each other's hands or knees. I finally just had to ask why the age gap between her oldest and youngest. She confidently answered that the teenagers were by her first husband and the youngest was by a married boyfriend. Knowing that I had a dairy farm background, she put her hand on my leg and said yes, she'd been bred by two bulls. I knew I wanted to marry this woman.

We went out for dinner a few days later. I told her that I'd been without a girlfriend for a couple months, and hadn't had sex since. R stammered a bit, but eventually said that she was dating two men, casually. A few beats later I asked what casual dating meant. She said usually about once a week with each guy, sometimes more often, and yes, she was having sex with both of them, no condoms.

I had a little experience being cuckolded by my first wife, so what R said was intriguing. I was very suave about it, told her that she was a beautiful woman and should have a busy sex life. I asked if there was a chance I could join her little stable(another farm reference)and she said it was quite possible.

It took a half a year but eventually I won the competition, R and I became exclusive. Wasn't supposed to be possible, but a few months later she became pregnant. We married shortly after our son was born.

Twelve years later she caught me cheating and our marriage hit the skids. For appearances sake, we attended a friend's daughter's wedding. By chance R's former "work husband" and lover from the early 90's was there as well. He hit on her hard, and on the way home R told me that she was going to take him up on his offer. She said I could deal with it, or fight it and become another divorced, middle aged cheater.

For the next couple years they'd get together every 2 or 3 months and fuck. R was getting her revenge, but by the third date I might have been more into it she was. There's more to the story, but I've been on too long already. PM's are open.

Wow, this story is so good. Would love to hear more.

[toreaddave]

Thanks for the comments, everyone! Poll results seem to indicate a pretty even spread. This disproves my initial preconceived notion that more sexually open/experienced women are more likely to enter/enjoy the cuckold lifestyle. I suppose the conclusion is that anyone could end up in the cuckold lifestyle, and you never really know if your girlfriend/wife would enjoy the lifestyle until you take the leap and dip your toes!

[NewtonBlade]

Wow, this story is so good. Would love to hear more.

Thanks uxo, I'll try to bring it up to current day. When I stopped yesterday we were in late 2012.

In the poll leading off this topic I marked R as Rather open and not Very open. By our second date(June '98)she freely admitted that she was in two casual relationships that included sex and intended to continue them both. If I wanted to date her (I definitely did) we needed to recognize that opportunities would be limited due to our separate family issues, and that she'd continue to see her current "friends" a couple nights a week, with an occasional weekend overnight when her youngest was with his father.

So even though our courtship started out with me in something like a cuckold role, it didn't feel like it. R just spelled it out for me, she liked me and wanted to get to know me better, but I had to accept that I'd be third in line to her current lovers. She already had relationships with those guys, and I was the interloper.

It was almost two months following our blind date before R and I had intercourse, and that was after a whole lot of G-rated dates that included our kids. I totally offered, so R even called me to be her backup sitter for a couple of date nights. It could be a macho thing, but I don't believe she ever cucked me until I caused our marital problems more than a decade later.

Running out of time again, I'll come back and bring it up to "modern times" if there's interest.

[uxorious]

Wow, this story is so good. Would love to hear more.

Thanks uxo, I'll try to bring it up to current day. When I stopped yesterday we were in late 2012.

In the poll leading off this topic I marked R as Rather open and not Very open. By our second date(June '98)she freely admitted that she was in two casual relationships that included sex and intended to continue them both. If I wanted to date her (I definitely did) we needed to recognize that opportunities would be limited due to our separate family issues, and that she'd continue to see her current "friends" a couple nights a week, with an occasional weekend overnight when her youngest was with his father.

So even though our courtship started out with me in something like a cuckold role, it didn't feel like it. R just spelled it out for me, she liked me and wanted to get to know me better, but I had to accept that I'd be third in line to her current lovers. She already had relationships with those guys, and I was the interloper.

It was almost two months following our blind date before R and I had intercourse, and that was after a whole lot of G-rated dates that included our kids. I totally offered, so R even called me to be her backup sitter for a couple of date nights. It could be a macho thing, but I don't believe she ever cucked me until I caused our marital problems more than a decade later.

Running out of time again, I'll come back and bring it up to "modern times" if there's interest.

Yes, crazy interest. Can’t wait for the rest of the story!

[annsman]

It’s difficult to answer, my wife was 13 when she lost her virginity and has been sexually active ever since. She was in an abusive relationship when we started so had low self esteem, I got frustrated with her negativity so one day pulled her naked in front of a full length mirror and asked her to tell me what she saw. She concentrated on she thought were her flaws.

I then started from her head to her toes pointing out how beautiful she was. Her boyfriend always teased her about having small breasts, but I pointed out their beautiful shape and firmness. It didn’t ease her self esteem straight away, but me continually complimenting her and my obvious us lust for her soon got her back to her sexual self.

[Milfcouple]

Mine had lo libido and was rather shy. The lifestyle changed things when she realized other men (and women) found her hot. Her boob job was another catalyst and finally hormone replacement therapy. But she was not natural to cuckolding at all.

Hot
What hormone replacement are you using?

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum milfcoiuple.

[4herpleasure89]

Mine had lo libido and was rather shy. The lifestyle changed things when she realized other men (and women) found her hot. Her boob job was another catalyst and finally hormone replacement therapy. But she was not natural to cuckolding at all.

Hot
What hormone replacement are you using?

It started when her doctor gave her a shot of a very small amount of testosterone. Even women need testosterone and her levels were very low. It was a swingers cruise and about 4 days in I came into the state room and she was using her vibrator to cum over and over again.

We eventually sought out the services of a hormone replacement therapy doctor who did blood word then injected time release pellets into our butts. Her libido and vaginal wetness reached very high levels. That and her boob job were the two greatest factors in motivating her to fuck other men.

[bradisalpha]

As a BF, I enjoy the shy, not so open, cautious, seemingly good girl type. Starting with good conversation, complementary, flirty, but non pushy.. leading to seduction and pulling out the sensuality from deep inside. Never underestimate the sensuality and hidden desires inside a woman.. they can be brought out slowly and once exposed can be overwhelmingly sexual. It takes patience, the right timing and atmosphere to seduce a hot wife.. as well as seducing her husband to follow along (which, as you know, is fairly easy if it has anything to do with sex !!)

Just saying.…

Brad

[toreaddave]

As a BF, I enjoy the shy, not so open, cautious, seemingly good girl type. Starting with good conversation, complementary, flirty, but non pushy.. leading to seduction and pulling out the sensuality from deep inside. Never underestimate the sensuality and hidden desires inside a woman.. they can be brought out slowly and once exposed can be overwhelmingly sexual. It takes patience, the right timing and atmosphere to seduce a hot wife.. as well as seducing her husband to follow along (which, as you know, is fairly easy if it has anything to do with sex !!)

Just saying.…

Brad

There really is something extra sexy and special about the transformation of a shy/good girl into a sexual butterfly.

[Wifesharing]

My wife was sexual liked to have sex. However she was very vanila in the sex she liked to have misionary and really noting else like to give hand jobs but not blow jobs. Liked to keep things clean mostly condoms as to not get the stuff everywhere.

You can imagine my shock when we start this and I saw a side of her unleashed I didn't know existed. She seems to really love sucking cock to completion and positions and even anal wow. I think for her it s block because I am her husband or something, we never really discussed it much I enjoy knowing she has that side and seeing it but I am perfectly happy with the sex we have between us as well. I believe fully if I push for that stuff i would get it but I figure I don't want to push her into anything.

[toreaddave]

My wife was sexual liked to have sex. However she was very vanila in the sex she liked to have misionary and really noting else like to give hand jobs but not blow jobs. Liked to keep things clean mostly condoms as to not get the stuff everywhere.

You can imagine my shock when we start this and I saw a side of her unleashed I didn't know existed. She seems to really love sucking cock to completion and positions and even anal wow. I think for her it s block because I am her husband or something, we never really discussed it much I enjoy knowing she has that side and seeing it but I am perfectly happy with the sex we have between us as well. I believe fully if I push for that stuff i would get it but I figure I don't want to push her into anything.

Oh wow, interesting that she goes wild for other men but not for you.

[shorebird]

I knew years before hot wifing that one-man wasn't enough her. She loved sex and would squirt and orgasm several times when we had sex. I loved her so much I wanted her to experience more than one man and to do a guy who was really equipped. She resisted for years then took the step and 30 guys later she has never looked back. Some were one timers and others were guys she was with for years. We have done threesomes, watching, taking turns with her. She down plays her sex life and still really seems to enjoy sex with me as she still gets very wet and will have several O's. She is a keeper, warm, loving and giving.

[toreaddave]

I knew years before hot wifing that one-man wasn't enough her. She loved sex and would squirt and orgasm several times when we had sex. I loved her so much I wanted her to experience more than one man and to do a guy who was really equipped. She resisted for years then took the step and 30 guys later she has never looked back. Some were one timers and others were guys she was with for years. We have done threesomes, watching, taking turns with her. She down plays her sex life and still really seems to enjoy sex with me as she still gets very wet and will have several O's. She is a keeper, warm, loving and giving.

Thanks for sharing! Do you know why she resisted for years?

[Wifesharing]

My wife was sexual liked to have sex. However she was very vanila in the sex she liked to have misionary and really noting else like to give hand jobs but not blow jobs. Liked to keep things clean mostly condoms as to not get the stuff everywhere.

You can imagine my shock when we start this and I saw a side of her unleashed I didn't know existed. She seems to really love sucking cock to completion and positions and even anal wow. I think for her it s block because I am her husband or something, we never really discussed it much I enjoy knowing she has that side and seeing it but I am perfectly happy with the sex we have between us as well. I believe fully if I push for that stuff i would get it but I figure I don't want to push her into anything.

Oh wow, interesting that she goes wild for other men but not for you.

I don't see as for them and not for me. I have no doubt if I tired or asked she would do it for me, I never really tired. What I did see is that she is much more relaxed and free to try new things les hesitant just more aggressive over all.

It is strange to me as well she is almost two different people sexually