How do you feel watching

[Roger7549]

I have noticed a lot of the cucks using very clinical language when they deceive their experiences. From my own experience the ones who want to watch get very emotional. I realize I am putting on a show for them as much as I am satisfying their woman. Often the woman is also watching their man’s reaction and getting off on it. I have been in situations where it is obvious that we are putting on a live porn show for her guy. So how do you really feel when you are watching what part really does it for you?.

[Lucky Dog]

I find it the most incredibly erotic and exciting experience when my wife is cumming multiple times from a sexy man. It is the main reason I enjoy this and haven't yet had the experience of her playing by herself. She hasn't yet said she wants to do that, but my hope is she will meet the right man who makes her feel so good she will stop worrying about having fun sometimes without me and enjoy herself more.

of course, when I watched her, I also felt submissive to her and felt so much love for her. Unfortunately, none of the men were bulls and there was essentially no interaction between me and them. They were just happy being with her.

[SimpleEnigma]

Before I answer the question, I'd like to offer that in my personal experience (and others like us that I know) the thrills wittols get is 90% emotional, 10% physical. The 90% emotion comes from the lead up to the sex (whether we are allowed to be there or not), and the angst we feel that is preceding and during. For those times when we are allowed to watch, many will describe it as having their own personal porn star, and to some extent it is. The difference is, of course, is that we know its not fake like most porn. That being said, some of the strongest orgasms I've had is while only listening, devoid any visual stimulation at all.

Feelings while watching (pre-nut):

• Arousal
  Envy
  Jealousy
  Inferior
  Compersion
  Love

What does it for me, as in final trigger?

• Her writhing while being jackhammered, screaming his name
  The sounds of him grunting as he cums in her, while she looks me in the eye.

Stay tolerant, friends.

[daveandjan]

What Simple said. Haven't had the chance to watch yet, but when it happens, I will watch. Oh yes I will. Simple explained the vision I have in my mind perfectly.

[mrdnrm]

Well we been in this lifestyle now for over 20 years. The question brings back a flood of memories. I remember the first time very vividly. I even co-wrote about it with my wife and we put it out on literotica. But the point is on that first time it was a three some, we added a young black gentleman and the two of us worked her body together in the hotel room. The foreplay included a massage for over an hour and then I stepped back and watched him slide his cock in my wife as my wife reach up and held his face and took in a deep breath as his cock entered which it was much larger than mine.

At that moment the excitement of the past 90 minutes of foreplay quickly disappeared. The pain of jealousy slammed into my chest wall, my cock went limp fast as I stood there with a fake smile on my face when she glance over at me. This guy is on top of my wife her legs are straight up in the air, and he is pumping his much large cock deep into her. Then her heavy breathing turns into screams I never heard come out of her. Her nipple are rock hard, his ass is pumping up and down and her hips are match his thrust. I find myself whispering this is what you agreed to and wanted to see, her being completely pleasured by another man.

My cock starts to get hard again as I reach down and start stroking it. The jealousy starts to fade and the excitement starts to take back over in me. Soon she is cummng and cumming hard and so am I. My cum shoots across onto the bed which is a few feet away. But he does not stop and he keeps thrusting hard and flips her over to her side and starts fucking her harder lifting her ass check to get even deeper inside her. My hand is full of cum and the jealousy starts coming back over me while she is screaming for him to fuck her harder. Soon she is cumming again and he is not stopping. Then he does and for a moment as he wipes the sweat of his own forehead I think to myself wow this is finally over. He has been fucking her for over an hour now.

What a dumb inexperienced thing to think. As I see him roll her over and get her into a doggie style position and he starts up again slowly and then faster as she moves matching his deep pounding thrust into from behind. As he holds firmly on to her hips, her hands make a fist as she grabs hold of the sheets on the bed. My mind is saying what the fuck did I get us into and yet I find my cock hard as a rock and I am stroking myself and filled with mixed emotions. It is pure and simple I am pretty fucked up at the moment and I start cumming again. I can't remember ever beating my cock so hard. I am not sure if this was from erotic excitement or self punishment. But it felt great.

After over two hours of them fucking and me cumming four times all over the hotel room floor and bed yet never on my wife the night finally ended. As they laid there arm in arm on the bed and me standing there staring, limped dick and all, like a dumb founded little kid who had just watched a porn flick for the first time ever. I listen to her tell him how good he was and how good she felt. My heart sank to the floor again. But this was not the end as they both made plans to do it again without even asking me what I thought or how I felt.

A month later we did get with him again. I was better prepared mentally and was able to push throw that jealousy much fast that time. but that was the just beginning of our journey. It would take watching her with a few more guys before 97% of my jealousy was to faded away and the excitement would carry me thru the night. Somewhere around our 10th year in our lifestyle journey the addiction for me kicked in where I wanted to watch her fuck a guy every weekend.

I couldn't get enough of watching my wife, she had become my live porn star. She is my queen and yet her lovers were her sex kings and I am just the prep and clean up slave. Every morning I find myself in a some crazy adrenaline high buying sexy clothes for her to wear for her lovers on dates. The excitement of planning each date form helping her in the shower and shaving her pussy and helping her get dressed for some other guy, this excitement had taken over my life. I am now addicted to watching my wife have sex with other guys now well over 30 plus men in over the past 20 years. This has been a complete 180 from the day we took our vows. It's just fucking crazy but I love her and I love every moment of it.

[Amayzed]

Powerful descriptions mrdnrm. Thanks for sharing that.

[mrdnrm]

Powerful descriptions mrdnrm. Thanks for sharing that.

Thank you, I just edited a few typos I found, that is what this lifestyle does, it has your mind wandering everywhere as this is what happens in a Cuckolds life

[tempus_fugit36]

I have noticed a lot of the cucks using very clinical language when they deceive their experiences. From my own experience the ones who want to watch get very emotional. I realize I am putting on a show for them as much as I am satisfying their woman. Often the woman is also watching their man’s reaction and getting off on it. I have been in situations where it is obvious that we are putting on a live porn show for her guy. So how do you really feel when you are watching what part really does it for you?.

Hi Roger, as I understand your lines here you have the Bull role right?
In my case I am a cuck, but I feel attraction to women only; of course I have to respect those alpha bulls (like you?) and I even envy them a lot.
Well, how I feel by watching my wife being pounded? As a baseline my wife is normally fucked at our home, so quite often I am present in the house, but I am always asked by her to allow her privacy during the hours some other man is having sex with her. Yes I can watch from a certain distance or discretely….what I feel? Well, a mix of:

1: Anger to have come to the point that another men eats my wife in my own bed while I became a Pussyfree
2: High Excitement, I get REALLY stone hard at once when I see them fucking, sometimes I end up ejaculating without a touch, just by watching
3: Humiliation because I am not playing a man’s role and I am not seeing by my wife as her man, rather I became the kind of man that my wife needs now, after she became a slut
4: Shame because my wife became a slut and is treated as a sex toy for those men that visits our house, they come for sex, they are not dating
5: Happiness because she says she needs me
6: Inferiority because despite of my cock be not able to satisfy anymore a women (I would possibly come at once before even my cock would touch a pussy), and my wife says my cock size is not of significance to her.
7: Satisfaction because despite that others fucks my wife, I cum as never before in my life by jerking me off or by ruin orgasm sessions from my wife.

[pixwellguy]

It's an interesting question. So many cuckolds mention jealousy and angst, either when they watch or when the partner is out on a date with another man. I've never felt those feelings at all when my wife is with another man.

Since the OP's question is specifically about watching, I can say I've only ever felt the most intense excitement and pleasure when I watch. I think this comes from watching the woman I know intimately and love totally, enjoy her amazing sexuality completely and openly. My wife is an intensely sexual woman, and seeing her enjoyment of sex; seeing her pleasured and satisfied completely and totally, is so exciting for me, so fulfilling for me!

As a side note, I also enjoy seeing the man's complete pleasure and satisfaction too...not only because I know what he's enjoying, but also because I love seeing my wife making sure that he gets all the pleasure he wants and needs. This aspect has intensified since I became completely denied.

That's a rather poor explanation of something that I know is very complicated...but it's the best I can do.

[bradisalpha]

As a BF, I enjoy all the emotions a cuckold goes through while I am with his wife.. whether actually fucking or in social settings, at home or out (dinner, events, etc). In any case I make it very clear that his wife is with me while I am with them.. and, of course, I do instigate, as well as his wife, to keep him on the edge of all the emotions mentioned.

That might seem cruel to some but I can assure you that I never overstep what is appropriate in the situation that his wife is my hot wife and he is the cuckold. I enjoy measuring his responses, mentally and physically, to our actions and control or adjust them to bring the cuckold to ultimately what he enjoys. His dickie is a great barometer as it does not lie !!!!!

Just sayin…….

Brad

[Roger7549]

Thanks Brad i never get a chance to talk about this sort of thing with other bulls. Good to know I am not alone watching her cuck and gauging his response to what I am doing. It isn’t a self serving act by me more of a performance and I enjoy that seeing the mixture of emotions. The anxiety, arousal, submission as he hears her orgasm again. Great fun

[mrdnrm]

......... In any case I make it very clear that his wife is with me while I am with them.. and, of course, I do instigate, as well as his wife, to keep him on the edge of all the emotions mentioned.......
That might seem cruel to some but I can assure you that I never overstep what is appropriate in the situation that his wife is my hot wife and he is the cuckold..
Brad

From our experiences It's rare that someone (Bull) can do this. Of the last 20 plus guys my wife has been with having a guy become a good steady lover for few years comes down to just a few things. The Bull's abilities to be attentive to both the wife's feelings as well as the Cuck's. To be able to satisfy the Hotwife emotional and physically. Emotional can have a different mean for each wife from full on love to just give me 100% of you attention and skip the hoop-la. A bull that shows more loving emotion can make a wife feel a boundary is being invaded or not enough feels from a Bull can make a Hotwife feel rejected. Physically for a Hotwife, that sexual satisfaction is as different as a fingerprint the Bull just needs to find her real hidden grove and bring it out of her. A bull that can't find her buttons and is just a one way fuck everytime and can be found to be useless and boring.

A Bull who understands what the Cuck needs in all of this and understands how to manipulate his feels to make or allow the Cuckold to feel inclusive is extremely rare of a Bull. Allowing a Cuck to be included in the relationship or event is paramount to a great relationship,even if it means being left out physically but not emotionally. Inclusive doesn't necessarily mean being there physically. A good Bull who will set the expectations of the evening, relationship or an event for the Cuckold in advance can bring the heighten senses of the Cuckold to very higher levels. Keeping the Cuckold held at those levels can ensure maximum satisfaction for both the long term relationship or just for a one time event.

Our longest relationship with a Bull was 4.5 years, it started in 2010, The Hotwife was just 49 years old and he was a young Black Gentleman serving in the Air Force at a nearby military base, he was only 19 at the start. I believe because he was confident and yet not cocky it as easy for the both of them to connect better. In the beginning I was worried about his experience level since he had admitted to me before we started that my wife would only be the fourth woman he had ever been with. He was well built and very handsome and his Cock was perfect size for physical attraction. He was a perfect Gentleman from the start and was very patient the first night, within two hours the first night we met him, my wife turned to me and whispered he is young but I want him.

I believe some Bulls just a have some natural talents they develop to be really good while others have just an attitude with a bigger cock.

[bradisalpha]

......... In any case I make it very clear that his wife is with me while I am with them.. and, of course, I do instigate, as well as his wife, to keep him on the edge of all the emotions mentioned.......
That might seem cruel to some but I can assure you that I never overstep what is appropriate in the situation that his wife is my hot wife and he is the cuckold..
Brad

From our experiences It's rare that someone (Bull) can do this..

I believe some Bulls just a have some natural talents they develop to be really good while others have just an attitude with a bigger cock.

mrdnrm,

You have made a very important observation. I suppose some of the talents are learned and some are simply in person’s DNA. This is something Roger (OP) should pay close attention to and, along with his experience, listen carefully to the desires of the couples in this thread as well as the couples he is meeting with. Don’t just be a guy with a big Dick and an Attitude !!!!

As for myself, I am an Alpha and have a “natural” Dominant personality. I am very fortunate to have learned that early on in life and have enjoyed this lifestyle immensely. Learning to be demanding, yet compassionate, has been the foundation of my relationships. I learned this by listening and paying attention.. and understanding that every couple has different needs and desires.. and also understanding if you cannot properly meet those needs and desires, to walk away and not “force” it. You can cultivate and enhance a person’s needs and desires, but you cannot “force” them. Emotions are very delicate.

Just saying….

Brad

[Roger7549]

I see Brad and I have different attitudes to how we interact with a couple. I am keenly aware of the couple’s needs, desires and emotions but never get involved emotionally myself. That is a line I won’t cross. Sometimes being the guy “with a big duck and an attitude “ is exactly what they want and sometimes it’s a fun friend. Personally I prefer the fun friend role as the couple’s expectations are more realistic. I have seen some posts by men who are worried that the bull is trying to take their woman away from them. I have no interest in doing this and if i feel that the woman is becoming too emotionally attached to me I will end it

[mrdnrm]

......... In any case I make it very clear that his wife is with me while I am with them.. and, of course, I do instigate, as well as his wife, to keep him on the edge of all the emotions mentioned.......
That might seem cruel to some but I can assure you that I never overstep what is appropriate in the situation that his wife is my hot wife and he is the cuckold..
Brad

From our experiences It's rare that someone (Bull) can do this..

I believe some Bulls just a have some natural talents they develop to be really good while others have just an attitude with a bigger cock.

mrdnrm,

You have made a very important observation.......... also understanding if you cannot properly meet those needs and desires, to walk away and not “force” it. You can cultivate and enhance a person’s needs and desires, but you cannot “force” them. Emotions are very delicate.

Just saying….

Brad

Hi Brad, we have two homes one in Sarasota Florida and the other new Lake City Florida. Just curious where you maybe located (about)?

[tractorman2]

Before I answer the question, I'd like to offer that in my personal experience (and others like us that I know) the thrills wittols get is 90% emotional, 10% physical. The 90% emotion comes from the lead up to the sex (whether we are allowed to be there or not), and the angst we feel that is preceding and during. For those times when we are allowed to watch, many will describe it as having their own personal porn star, and to some extent it is. The difference is, of course, is that we know its not fake like most porn. That being said, some of the strongest orgasms I've had is while only listening, devoid any visual stimulation at all.

Feelings while watching (pre-nut):

• Arousal
  Envy
  Jealousy
  Inferior
  Compersion
  Love

What does it for me, as in final trigger?

• Her writhing while being jackhammered, screaming his name
  The sounds of him grunting as he cums in her, while she looks me in the eye.

Stay tolerant, friends.

Well said an accurate discription, i enjoy watching, the before and after whilst securely locked,i also enjoy listening or simply knowing she is enjoying herself. After many years i know my place as her cuck husband and draw emence pleasures from this, for me its 99% mental stimulation. I realised 30 years since i could not provide for her what she wanted and she gains so much pleasure from another mans touch anyway, so even if i could have she would still have sought another man as we are all different. Of all the range of mental emotions i have had I have never felt jealous.

We feel sorry for other women we know that would enjoy this LS but dare not cross the line or have husbands that would not have the strength of character to allow them to fully explore their sexuality.

[hotfreaks]

Mine is two fold. I get a strange calming feel. It's like I am in the exact spot where I was meant to be, and it's relaxing for me as much as a turn on. At the same time that I'm calm and relaxed, I get to see my beautiful wife acting out as my favorite pornstar....spreading her legs and giving her married pussy to another man or men. I also love seeing the lust in men's eyes as they get to fuck a beautiful woman.....who they "shouldnt" but yet there she is enjoying her life and the variety of men this lifestyle has to offer

[Tryagain]

When I was much younger and first starting this lifestyle, as soon as they started fucking and my wife would have crazy, over the top reactions, I would feel a bit nauseous and regretful and worried that my wife may leave me for one of these guys.

But like a cigarette, when you feel sick when first beginning to smoke, if you persist it become enjoyable. That happened with the hotwife thing.
Now…I still enjoy my wife’s reactions and the effect it has on our sex life – her feeling sexy, desirable, and sexually satisfied by them – but you get accustomed to things and it become a bit more of a routine. The danger that was present is all gone, and that was a big plus.

[surry]

As others have said, the feelings are mixed and part of the excitement. The first time my wife left to meet an ex-coworker who was back in Intown for dinner, then a fuck. He thought she was cheating on me. I had all these hard hot feelings from jealousy to turned on. This guy was a bodybuilder and very alpha. The excite type my wife wound masturbate too.
When I first met him, he did not like me. It was like he was jealous of me. My wife talked about him all the time. After he moved, she missed him. She always knew about me wanting her to cuckold me. Then when he called and asked for a date since he was back in Intown just for a couple of days. My wife was like a teenage girl. All excited and asked if I was prepared to be a cuckold.
I reluctantly said Yes. I figured this was the only way to get her to do it.
I watched her prepare, and he called to verify she would meet him at this restaurant. She said, "My husband is gone for the weekend so that we can spend it together.'
My wish was coming true, but I did not like the guy. She stayed the whole weekend with him, and she loved it. She did admit to him I was at home and I wanted to be a cuckold. He said I was stupid.

[dinoo]

Very arousing.
I really love to see her happy while playing.
A bonus: my wife loved me watching her.
A win-win situation.

[Thebestdays1]

I always found it arousing to watch my wife with another man.
I loved watching him enjoy her body and her playing with his cock before putting it in her mouth or vagina.
I'd be waiting impatiently for the moment he came in her so I could eat his cum out or off her body but at the same time, hoping their fucking or sucking would last a long time.
She let me video her a few times and we'd lie in bed together later on and watch the recordings and get turned on and fuck. I'd masturbate over them a few times a week when I was alone. I never felt jealous about her going with other men or women, just pride and aroused.

[warmnsalty]

Watching, for me, has no emotional component it's pure lust/turn on. Denial/humiliation isn't a part of our dynamic. Mrs Warm fucks guys because she likes to fuck and I like to watch. My cock is bigger than nearly all the guys she's fucked, so I don't feel any humiliation or inferiority. I'm just happy she's getting some new cock to play with. After a break starting with Covid Mrs is back at it and going full speed. We met a guy last Wednesday night for drinks after work. Things clicked, watched him enjoy her mouth and pussy, first time in years. It was amazing. I ate per pussy for nearly an hour before fucking her that night. I was out of town Friday/Saturday, back home Sunday. So friday and saturday night her new friend fucked her one on one. She txt me Sunday asking if I wanted to meet a new guy for a drink when I got home. Sure. SO Last night, we meet a married guy she'd been txting with. Good looking military guy. Watched as he fucked her 2x in 1/2 hr. Our new friend fucked her good, His first load went in missionary. Second load she rode him reverse cowgirl. I dove in and did clean up. Half hour after he left, I had Mrs bent over the kitchen island and fucked her doggie. LOVE that my slut wife is making up for lost time.

[Iwatchherplay]

From my own experience the ones who want to watch get very emotional.

I get emotional in that I am so excited and hard that I can feel the pulse in my cock. I feel like I am going to cum without touching myself.

I realize I am putting on a show for him as much as I am satisfying their woman.

The best "bulls" know this and try to give the husband a good show.

Often the woman is also watching their man’s reaction and getting off on it.

My wife will occasionally look over at me. She can see how obviously excited I am by my rock hard erection.

what part really does it for you?.

When she looks over at me while she is in total bliss, ecstasy. If he notices her looking at me he will look over at me too with a cocky smile while he pounds her sensuously.

She has mouthed the words "I love you" while getting fucked and held out her hand for me to hold while she is getting fucked.

[runaway]

Well we been in this lifestyle now for over 20 years. The question brings back a flood of memories. I remember the first time very vividly. I even co-wrote about it with my wife and we put it out on literotica. But the point is on that first time it was a three some, we added a young black gentleman and the two of us worked her body together in the hotel room. The foreplay included a massage for over an hour and then I stepped back and watched him slide his cock in my wife as my wife reach up and held his face and took in a deep breath as his cock entered which it was much larger than mine.

At that moment the excitement of the past 90 minutes of foreplay quickly disappeared. The pain of jealousy slammed into my chest wall, my cock went limp fast as I stood there with a fake smile on my face when she glance over at me. This guy is on top of my wife her legs are straight up in the air, and he is pumping his much large cock deep into her. Then her heavy breathing turns into screams I never heard come out of her. Her nipple are rock hard, his ass is pumping up and down and her hips are match his thrust. I find myself whispering this is what you agreed to and wanted to see, her being completely pleasured by another man.

My cock starts to get hard again as I reach down and start stroking it. The jealousy starts to fade and the excitement starts to take back over in me. Soon she is cummng and cumming hard and so am I. My cum shoots across onto the bed which is a few feet away. But he does not stop and he keeps thrusting hard and flips her over to her side and starts fucking her harder lifting her ass check to get even deeper inside her. My hand is full of cum and the jealousy starts coming back over me while she is screaming for him to fuck her harder. Soon she is cumming again and he is not stopping. Then he does and for a moment as he wipes the sweat of his own forehead I think to myself wow this is finally over. He has been fucking her for over an hour now.

What a dumb inexperienced thing to think. As I see him roll her over and get her into a doggie style position and he starts up again slowly and then faster as she moves matching his deep pounding thrust into from behind. As he holds firmly on to her hips, her hands make a fist as she grabs hold of the sheets on the bed. My mind is saying what the fuck did I get us into and yet I find my cock hard as a rock and I am stroking myself and filled with mixed emotions. It is pure and simple I am pretty fucked up at the moment and I start cumming again. I can't remember ever beating my cock so hard. I am not sure if this was from erotic excitement or self punishment. But it felt great.

After over two hours of them fucking and me cumming four times all over the hotel room floor and bed yet never on my wife the night finally ended. As they laid there arm in arm on the bed and me standing there staring, limped dick and all, like a dumb founded little kid who had just watched a porn flick for the first time ever. I listen to her tell him how good he was and how good she felt. My heart sank to the floor again. But this was not the end as they both made plans to do it again without even asking me what I thought or how I felt.

A month later we did get with him again. I was better prepared mentally and was able to push throw that jealousy much fast that time. but that was the just beginning of our journey. It would take watching her with a few more guys before 97% of my jealousy was to faded away and the excitement would carry me thru the night. Somewhere around our 10th year in our lifestyle journey the addiction for me kicked in where I wanted to watch her fuck a guy every weekend.

I couldn't get enough of watching my wife, she had become my live porn star. She is my queen and yet her lovers were her sex kings and I am just the prep and clean up slave. Every morning I find myself in a some crazy adrenaline high buying sexy clothes for her to wear for her lovers on dates. The excitement of planning each date form helping her in the shower and shaving her pussy and helping her get dressed for some other guy, this excitement had taken over my life. I am now addicted to watching my wife have sex with other guys now well over 30 plus men in over the past 20 years. This has been a complete 180 from the day we took our vows. It's just fucking crazy but I love her and I love every moment of it.

This is a fantastic description of your experiences! Awesome.

[Mgcouplemn]

I love watching, my wife loves watching me watching her and jerking off while she is having sex.