My wife is so naive

[Anony92]

Ok, so this might be a long thread and i am bad at giving titles, so will have to go with what I have given. I am also bas at streamlining my thoughts or too lazy to edit what I write, so let's see where this goes.

I had found this website a few years back and found it interesting. And would never have imagined will be posting here someday, but something has happened in our lives which could be a start of me getting to be a cuckold, maybe.

An introduction first, I am married to my wife for an year or so now. We married after dating for around two years. We didn't have any children, we want to wait for a correct time and both work in a good paying job. We both are very close to each other and discuss mostly everything with one other.

But coming to the main point, my wife had recently switched to a new company a few months back and was working mostly from home. She had started going to her workplace on fridays maybe a month back. But this friday something interesting happened. Now my wife has always been an easy going girl, talking to everybody and getting along with men mostly and have many guy friends. So it is common for her to bring up guys in our conversation and she going to meet a guy friend for a hangout. Similarly, when she started in her new job, she mentioned she met a few colleagues and hangs out with a few of them when she goes to work, i just thought of it as normal. Didnt even remember their names when she told me. She had said one of them flirted with her a bit and when i told her to be careful she just said it's all good and its just fun. But, it caught my attention and every now and then she would mention him doing something like telling her she looks hot or her husband is lucky to have her and just pampering her up i just let it go and she was cool. (Let's give this guy a name X. I'll call my wife K and myself A.) A week back she mentioned after that while hanging out with the guys X playfully put his hand on her shoulder and let it sit there and she thought it was friendly so didn't mention it and let it go. She tells me everything that happens with her so she just mentioned this as well and i was a bit worried but not too much. I even asked her if that makes her uncomfortable she can ask him not to do it. But she said its ok. She likes hanging out with the guys and it was just a hand and she doesnt want to ruin their time and it was friendly. She even went on to say that he did it a couple more times with her and just let his hand on her shoulder for a while or rubbed her shoulder and hand or while one time while walking with her he even kept his hand on her side above her waist. I was a bit shocked that she casually mentioned the waist part. I said he's going a bit too far but she said its ok and she kind of liked it. He bring friendly with her and trusting her to be cool with it. She even playfully said, that i couldn't be everywhere with her so X can give her company and she wouldn't miss me. I got offended a bit and said goodnight. She saw i got mad and she might have thought she has gone a little far so she said she was kidding and she loves me and tried to get me back to normal by saying cute things while kissing me. When i brought back x to the conversation, she said - 'baby its mot a big deal, its ok. You dont have to worry about anything, i still love you.' and she hugged me while telling me if she felt uncomfortable she will talk to him. And we didn't talk much about it that night.

I just want to mention a few things before going on. This seems like a good point. As i mentioned, i dated my wife for around 2 years. She is shorter than me, slim and perky breasts. She looks very cute and looks hot when she shows skin. She had dated multiple guys before me and although she had gone physical with many lf them, she had never had penetrative sex with any of them. Even while we were dating, she didnt allow me to penetrate her. It was saved only after marriage she said. While i had multiple short term relationships before her, she was my first long term girlfriend and after 2 years we finally decided to marry. I explored everything with her sexually, while she had already done everything before. Sometimes it turned me on knowing that she had gone physical with another guy before me and i used to ask what she had done with an ex or how far she went with him. She was skeptical at first but told me few things as she wanted to tell me everything about her past as she was not very proud of how everyone of them ended. But i had always thought about how she would suck her ex's dick and how she would look and it used to turn me on thinking about all this. I never discussed about this with her, worrying it might scare her off or she might find it weird. Once, we were watching porn together, i had changed the scene to one where a guy watches his gf fucking another guy to test her reaction, but she didn't react anything and we just fooled around like normal. But this other time while doing a roleplay over text, she didnt like me exposing her pussy to the driver in the scene. So, i stopped testing more lf her and just let it be.

Anyway, so the night she told me about X and him touching her, all those thoughts came back to me and it turned me on know that another guy gets to touch and enjoy my wife. I started making scenarios in my head about what he might do next, but stopped as i thought i was going too far and he will never do anything. And she just sees him every friday anyway. Its nothing and went to sleep.

I should also mention about X a bit. As i had said K is new to this company so she hangs out with a few guys mostly. 2 different guys and X. Since, she was new, she had asked one of the guys for help and they started talking and he sits near the other guy. She sits away from both of them in a cubicle and her floor is mostly empty with many cubicles and few guys and girls here and there and many don't even come or mostly work from home. But X has his own cabin near her desk and she met him when he approached her to ask about her. X is a level senior to her so has a cabin. He is also be a little older than all of them, i have never asked his exact age. So X and K get to hang out more often while all of them only get together in breaks or while getting food. X comes to her desk to ask something or just to chat. They both work in the same project but not on the same task, so they dont work together. She told me all this a while later when i asked in detail. The shoulder touching incident happened while he came to her desk and once when they were on break with everyone. The side touching happened when she went to his cabin to ask if he was coming out and he came out with her while keeping his hand on her side.
Some of you might think its not a big deal and even i thought of the same. But it was a little weird seeing she was new and he was being a bit too friendly and she would not tell me specifically those incidents if it did not also make her think. And anyway this was last to last friday 18th. But something more happened last friday which made me write this post.
I have to stop here as this is already long and will continue in a next post maybe a couple of days later or less.
I dont know where this might go. Everything is so uncertain but this is very interesting and i now understand why it excites everyone so much. I might not post regularly as i have a full time job and mostly on Saturday or maybe friday when she would actually meet him and i since i dont work on the weekend so will get time.
But let's see. I mostly want to keep this as a journal maybe to recall everything. But i had stumbled upin a few stories here in the past, so instead of keeping to myself i wanted to share with everyone. And might be i get to understand a bit about all of this better. Lets see what happens.
If you want to ask about anything please do, will try to answer when i get time.
Im typing this journal in my phone and will keep doing so and will post it in the site. But if i dont get much interest, i might get lazy and not post anything later. This already took a lot of time haha.

[Chrislydi]

I'm very interested please go on when you get the chance. The small things and first signs which make up the very start of something different is often the most interesting and intriguing phase, rather than other threads where it's far more advanced and largely predictable, already a confirmed life style choice of many years. When there are doubts and it's far more tentative and less certain, that gradual sometimes imperceptible change which becomes normalised and accepted, the first stage of the journey, the unexpected and unplanned and the positive or negative feelings engendered, it's when it all starts.

Chris

[ericsacto]

Sounds like your wife has a work spouse and her work husband is testing the waters to see if there’s more to be had.

My wife had a work-husband that she was attracted to and wound up having sex with him. The frequency of their get togethers have dropped over the past 25 years but he did come over earlier this year for a visit and received a blowjob from her.

[Anony92]

I'm very interested please go on when you get the chance. The small things and first signs which make up the very start of something different is often the most interesting and intriguing phase, rather than other threads where it's far more advanced and largely predictable, already a confirmed life style choice of many years. When there are doubts and it's far more tentative and less certain, that gradual sometimes imperceptible change which becomes normalised and accepted, the first stage of the journey, the unexpected and unplanned and the positive or negative feelings engendered, it's when it all starts.

Chris

Thank you. Will update soon as i get the chance. Was looking forward to what others might think about our situation and was happy to read your comment. I didnt care much about her guy friends but this one is certainly crossing some limits and initially i was skeptical but it is hot when i thought about it more.

[Anony92]

Sounds like your wife has a work spouse and her work husband is testing the waters to see if there’s more to be had.

My wife had a work-husband that she was attracted to and wound up having sex with him. The frequency of their get togethers have dropped over the past 25 years but he did come over earlier this year for a visit and received a blowjob from her.

Haha yeah maybe. Will certainly bring this up in my talks with her. In my mind its more of a work crush for now maybe. Im still not sure if i will be comfortable if ut turns out like it did it for your wife. Idk i have mixed feelings about all this.

[Pecannut]

Would love to hear how things proceed

[Anony92]

Would love to hear how things proceed

Will add soon. Not getting much time to write, although my posts are taking a long time to get approved and show up here. Any idea on how to get it uploaded faster?

[hamadasamada88]

Would love to hear more! Looks like X might be interested and K doesn't mind! How old are you both?

[armyguyot1]

I know. Make 5 posts without being an asshole and you get signed off. Without that we have spammers trying to sell all kinds of bullshit on this site. Oh ya. You just got signed off for meeting the criteria. The other problem is your post is so long that it bounced about 3 times. I signed it off only to find it there several more times.

[readerofthings]

Interesting read. Thanks for posting.

[Watchinu69]

Let's call us X-- K--- A...so secreative- just use a name- any name would work well...

[Anony92]

Would love to hear more! Looks like X might be interested and K doesn't mind! How old are you both?

Thanks, will start writing soon. Was out full day with her. She slept. So will spend a little time to write.
Im 26 she is 27.

[Anony92]

I know. Make 5 posts without being an asshole and you get signed off. Without that we have spammers trying to sell all kinds of bullshit on this site. Oh ya. You just got signed off for meeting the criteria. The other problem is your post is so long that it bounced about 3 times. I signed it off only to find it there several more times.

Thank you. Yeah i totally understand. No problem.

[Anony92]

Let's call us X-- K--- A...so secreative- just use a name- any name would work well...

K and A are the first alphabets of our name. Was just lazy coming up with a different name and was afraid will forget later what i actually picked or might be too similar to our names. Chill, im more comfortable with this so prefer this way. And X is just X. I dont know. I could have picked his first alphabet also, but maybe i don't want to give him much importance. According to me he's just some guy. I have already established this. So won't be changing this in further posts. Just copy my post in a text editor and change the Alphabets to whatever you like haha. Kidding. Cheers.

[Anony92]

I'll continue after that friday 18th. After waking up next morning Saturday, everything was normal. We went with our daily activities. I caught her smiling while looking at her phone a few times but didn't think much of it. But later she showed me she got a follow request from X on Instagram. Her profile is private so she has to approve the request. She showed me her phone and told me jokingly that X is stalking her smiling while saying so. I asked if she's accepting the request, and she casually asked why not? I didn't have much of an argument so i let it be. I kept thinking that X now will have access to all of her posts, and although anyone of her followers can see them, but this felt like she was exposing herself to him. Showing her body in sexy clothes and he has access to look at her whenever he pleases.
But i remember she looked at me and said 'baby its okay. You dont have to worry about him. I love you.' her saying cute things always melts my heart so i let it be. Even i got a little playful looking over her phone and asking her to text him and teased her about him having a crush on her. She laughed it off by saying she's a nobody and sent a hi. She didn't get a reply and was a bit disappointed i thinn. I had to go out that day to meet some friends in the afternoon so i got busy. I left for my friends while she was at home. I keep texting her throughout the day just to check up on what she is doing and all. And she said in one such text that she got a reply and they have been texting.
I felt like an idiot leaving her alone with him, and kept thinking about it rather than enjoying my day. I was feeling a bit jealous thinking about all the things they might be talking about and knowing about the stuff that had happened, so i kept texting her in between just to keep her with me. I was getting late replies so i asked if she's still talking to him. She said yes. I asked what. She said 'normal stuff about work, our lives and umm my Instagram posts.' I asked what about them. She said he went through each of them and hearted them. And said she looked hot in each of them. He was flirting with her after seeing her pics saying things like too hot to handle or he wished he was her boyfriend or things like what god did her husband pray to get her.
Overall he was trying everything on her. I asked her he's going way over his limit she said it's ok. He's just being a fool. And i asked her what she felt about it, she said its ok with her she's used to guys saying things like that and she has to work with him and hang out so doesn't want to ruin anything. I asked her if she liked when he said all that. Im sure she took a very long time to answer and said idk it's different. I was shocked and asked what she meant by that being angry and sending an angry emoji. She tried to calm me down and said baby its nothing its just they're chatting for first time and this happens it will cool down after some time and i should be happy and proud i have a hot wife. Also i didn't need to worry about anything and she's fine and will stop if she's uncomfortable. She even said she will show me the chats when i come home to make sure i am ok with everything.
I want to take a little time to help you understand my state of mind at that point. On one hand i was jealous and angry at her while a stranger gets to look at her and talk and flirt with her, while on the other hand I loved her and was happy she was getting such compliments while she was happy. On one hand i had a feeling of losing her to some random dude while on the other hand this small part of me hidden inside was smiling underneath, thinking about what great fun he gets to have looking at my sexy wife. That little part was eager to see what would happen next and was eager to let her enjoy and let him have her. That's a weird collection of feeling you have altogether wrapped in one. And it was just some pictures while he gets to talk to her. But i was thinking this is where it all starts. Im not doing a good job to explain my feelings and thoughts but i hope you will understand.
Anyway i was at my friend's and was spending too much time on her while she was talkinv to him as well so replied late. I thought this was going nowhere and said will talk to her when i get home. She said everything is ok and not to worry about anything and to enjoy myself and she loved me. I also replied the same and asked her to take care.
She also had to leave in the evening to catch up with a friend of hers. So normal stuff asked her to enjoy herself too and keep me updated about how she is and what she's up to.
Anyway nothing much happened. I tried to have some drinks with my friends and kept checking with her in between while she went out. I came home first around 8pm maybe. She arrived at 9. We're not much of late night people and like enjoying our time at home with each other. We Were both a little drunk and just went to bed.
I thought this might be a good time to talk. So after some cuddling and talks about our day i brought up X. I was a little horny and idk instead of directly having her wanted to make her think about him. I asked her how her new boyfriend is jokingly. She said he might be ok. She said she last talked to him in the evening last. She again told me its nothing to worry, he's just a colleague she has to deal with and all that stuff. But i asked her did she enjoy their talks? She looked at me and waited a bit and said yes softly. The horny part of me took over and i just kissed her and started fondling her breasts. she asked what happened. I said-nothing and said she's looking very sexy and it's hot that X finds her sexy. She laughed it off. She said to wait and she'll show their chats and she did. But i just scrolled a bit not reading everything. I didn't want her to feel im being a nosy husband looking at everything and wanted to give a little privacy and independence to do whatever she wanted. And i was being a little lazy as well as i wanted to fuck her as soon as possible. I just said it's ok baby i trust you to do the right thing. I kept her phone aside and started removing her clothes. When she was naked i brought my fingers to her pussy and she was very wet. I started rubbing her a bit and told her you've been naughty. Going around chatting with her boyfriend while ignoring her husband. She said yes she is a naughty wife and should be punished. I started rubbing her more while kissing her. I said you will be fucked like a naughty wife you are. But first i want to taste you. I went down on her. She likes it when i do this. So i usually spend a lot of time on this, while she holds my hair and rubs my head on her. I had two fingers inside her and was licking her clit. When she had enjoyed herself and had cum two times, i came up and asked her for the condom, put it on and started fucking her. We looked at each other while i was fucking her slowly. I wanted to ask so many things about what might happen where this might go but didn't. I just kept fucking and weirdly the thought of X fucking her came to my head. I started pumping faster after that. I kissed her and came. I kissed her and we cuddled and went to sleep. I might have woken up in between and fucked again i dont remember.
I don't know why i went ham to explain our fucking of that day. I'm hard right now and jerking and just went with the flow remembering everything and just typing it out hahaha.
We woke up on sunday. She wakes up early and i usually like to sleep a little longer so wake up a few hours after her on the weekend. While i woke up she was in bed on her phone. We said our mornings and asked her what she has been doing and all that stuff. She had posted her pics from Saturday's night out with her friend on insta and was asked me how she looked etc. I did my part to pamper her and said she looked stunning while i went on to heart on the post and added cute comments. She was beaming and was very happy. I asked what did X think about the post. She said she was chatting with him only and he loves it. So it turns out they had been chatting for an hour while i slept. Talking about how hot she looks and how she must wear that in the office and she must also hang out with him someday. And she was just entertaining him thanking him for his compliments and laughing at his jokes. And when i think a out it, i was kind of ok with everything. After our talks and last night's session, my brain told me its ok as long as she comes home to me and sleeps with me. X can flirt with her all he wants but at the end she is my wife and i get to be with her and enjoy everything with her. I kissed her and went on with my lazy sunday.
Nothing else happened that day. We enjoyed our sunday at home went out at night for a movie together and had dinner and came back home. She kept texting at times to him in between. But while she was with me on our date she stays away from her phone so didnt do much. Normal stuff as she would treat a friend i guess. Sunday night nothing special. We were tired a bit so nothing happened. Although i woke up in between and tried kissing and rubbing her but she was not in the mood and she just gave me a handjob while i rubbed her.
Wow, this was sunday 20th. I thought i would just need this post to cover everything, but i still have last Friday's thing to go over. This is already very long. So will continue in a seperate post. This is very exciting and i like just typing everything away. Its kind of meditative recollecting everything that happened and putting it to words. again, i am too lazy to go back and edit any errors i might have made and i might have missed a few details here and there. Anyway, this is not a school essay, so wont matter much. Thanks all who have read this. Wil answer any questions you have.
Cheers,
A

[Chrislydi]

Thank you this is brilliant, so descriptive and superb detail. I love your idea of just writing everything, any errors are so very trivial so your method is ideal. Please continue whenever you next get the time.

Chris

[lonecuck]

Excellent writing here. Very enjoyable reading for me. And exciting too. Looks like it will be getting even more exciting for you too. Thanks!

[Pecannut]

Thank you so much for the update. It is exciting see where this will go. Has she sent him any nudes or more daring pics?

[whenwillshe]

I think it is time to have "the talk" with her.
She seems intrigued with the role play you did and is clearly having some NRE.
Unless you are both honest, this could be headed to a bad place
With proper communication, it could be a great place.

[tfx]

Sorry if this offends you... but am just am just giving my honest opinion... which may or may not be why you are on the forum in the first place. If you are just here to tell you story and don't need input then just let me know and I will no longer reply.
I just see a bunch of red flags. Those are directed at you unfortunately... you need to get your head in the right place and figure it out for yourself first. Sounds like you're jealous... which is ok, as long as you don't also get angry and take it out on others. Also hint a slight lack of confidence.
Before you start pushing things in a certain direction or even discussing this with anyone else, best run some scenarios in your head and then figure out those feelings, cause you're marriage is already being tested. You can take a trip down the rabbit hole, or you can let her know there is a red line not cross, shutter this site and never come here again.

[Anony92]

Thank you so much for the update. It is exciting see where this will go. Has she sent him any nudes or more daring pics?

Thanks. She is just chatting with him. And her Instagram is already filled with her pics. Not daring but some are hot. As far as i know she has not shared any pics with her. But I wonder if she might do it if he asks. Haha i curse u for putting this idea in my head. Idk what i will do.

[Anony92]

I think it is time to have "the talk" with her.
She seems intrigued with the role play you did and is clearly having some NRE.
Unless you are both honest, this could be headed to a bad place
With proper communication, it could be a great place.

Till the point in the story, nothing seemed any wrongdoing in her part to me. The roleplay aspect is just one of many things we had already done before.

We were dating long distance, so we used to have sexting nights where we included many roleplay scenarios. Or when we used to meet for a week on trips after a long time being away. We planned our sexual encounters in advance, noting down what, where and when part of our sex maybe a little how. To keep things fresh. I might have mentioned before, we had watched porn on this topic. And have had roleplays where i was a stranger meeting her in the role. We might mot have gone very in detail with the cuck lart of the roleplay but yes i agree.

I had a talk later with her. I will tell that. But yes communication is key even i know. To understand what she wants and what i want.

[Anony92]

Sorry if this offends you... but am just am just giving my honest opinion... which may or may not be why you are on the forum in the first place. If you are just here to tell you story and don't need input then just let me know and I will no longer reply.
I just see a bunch of red flags. Those are directed at you unfortunately... you need to get your head in the right place and figure it out for yourself first. Sounds like you're jealous... which is ok, as long as you don't also get angry and take it out on others. Also hint a slight lack of confidence.
Before you start pushing things in a certain direction or even discussing this with anyone else, best run some scenarios in your head and then figure out those feelings, cause you're marriage is already being tested. You can take a trip down the rabbit hole, or you can let her know there is a red line not cross, shutter this site and never come here again.

I agree with all your points, i have thought about it a few times. Maybe i will include it later. Its not just jealousy, its a mixture of many feelings altogether. I added somepart of how i feel before. I feel that she is her own person and should have the independence to choose whatever she wants and she is mature enough to take her own decisions. I agree we are married and she is very loyal to me and discusses every small detail with me her feelings etc. And yes we fight sometimes but at the end of the day we always come together due to our love for each other.
To be honest, a part of me really wants something to happen, but to what extent i still have to figure it out with her and myself.
You might not have a full picture yet of what has happened till today and i dont want to add anything because i want it to be cohesive. Please wait a few days for me to catch u up with everything, i have had talks with her too already about it. Will explain everything.
Thanks for being patient to you and for every one else. It takes a little effort amd time for me to compile everything and streamline my thoughts and although i am lazy i want to include as much as possible to have a proper record.
No i am not offended and i agree with your concern. I still have to define that red line, and will try to take things slowly and have discussed this with her as well, to check how comfortable we are.

[Mkliny442015]

I think it is time to have "the talk" with her.
She seems intrigued with the role play you did and is clearly having some NRE.
Unless you are both honest, this could be headed to a bad place
With proper communication, it could be a great place.

Till the point in the story, nothing seemed any wrongdoing in her part to me. The roleplay aspect is just one of many things we had already done before.

We were dating long distance, so we used to have sexting nights where we included many roleplay scenarios. Or when we used to meet for a week on trips after a long time being away. We planned our sexual encounters in advance, noting down what, where and when part of our sex maybe a little how. To keep things fresh. I might have mentioned before, we had watched porn on this topic. And have had roleplays where i was a stranger meeting her in the role. We might mot have gone very in detail with the cuck lart of the roleplay but yes i agree.

I had a talk later with her. I will tell that. But yes communication is key even i know. To understand what she wants and what i want.

You will get varied advice here and there is no right answer unless it works for both of you . You will get plenty of encouragement for you to go forward and let your wife fuck him so they can get off to your story without thinking of the ramifications to your life , but you will also get unbiased sensible advice as well.

My wife and I are “Ethically Non-Monogamous “ and we take the “Ethical” part quite literally. This lifestyle is not for everyone and that is ok, for some couples once you enter there is no turning back because it feels natural. It’s also perfectly ok to have the fantasy and never fulfill it as well. Your marriage, should always be paramount first and foremost.

You have to really decide and communicate before hand if this is something you really BOTH want or you are playing with danger. Anyone seasoned in this lifestyle will tell you that communication is the most important part. Right now I see a communication issue between you and her. You have had bedroom talk which primes the topic and she seems receptive but on the other hand things are moving faster in her direction without you even talking about the what if’s.

The other guy is clearly trying to fuck your wife, you say your wife is naieve but she is also enjoying the attention and doing nothing to deter him. Ask yourself, if the idea of this lifestyle turned you off would you think what she is doing is ok? Not that she is doing anything wrong but you both need to be on the same page.

He is clearly showing that even if she is married it’s not stopping him from flirting and suggesting time alone. She sees it as harmless but if they are alone and he is showering her with compliments and flirting it could lead to more. She may feel vulnerable and maybe with some alcohol involved it could lead down a dangerous path. You have to decide are you ok with that? The most “faithful “ person can also be lead into temptation because after all she is only human.

I think you first need to decide are you ok with her sleeping with someone else? Will she be able to handle it and will your marriage handle it? Have a talk outside the bedroom, tell her it turns you on the idea of him flirting with her and possibly doing more, that you love her but would be turned on by the idea of her enjoying extra marital relations. Establish ground rules and boundaries.

If something happens you may think it will turn you on but reality is a lot different than fantasy and it’s a lot to process. You need baby steps because once you go in there is no turning back.

[john jasson]

Very hot build up. Thanks for sharing.