It might actually happen after years of telling me no.
Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2022 8:08 am
I first told my wife about my fantasy for her to be with another man about 10 years ago. She's always told me that it will never be more than a fantasy because she's never going to do it.
Last month, one of our neighbors' son was in town and I thought he was just visiting. My wife and I shared an elevator ride down with him one day where he told us how he's house sitting his parents place for the next few months while they're in Florida.
Later that night, her and I are having sex and she very unexpectedly asked me about my fantasy. "So... You know about how you've been wanting me to be with another man? Was that really a serious thing?" Just her bringing this up surprised me as she has been actually annoyed every time I brought it up and let me know how she only role plays with me to fulfill my urges but she really dislikes the thought of it. Anyway, I told her it's been my biggest fantasy for as long as I can remember. Then I asked her if anything changed with her, and she said she was just curious. "Oh really? It wouldn't have anything to do with our neighbors son, would it?" (Easy assumption as he's 6'4, incredibly muscular - we live in a beach town so we've seen him in his swimming trunks before - chiseled features, basically a model.)
She knew she couldn't hide it from me and admitted that he was the reason her curiosity was piqued. What followed was the hottest role playing we've had in months if not years as we imagined that he had just taken her and I was reclaiming.
We talked about it the next morning and she's still actually considering it. Then will come the question of whether we let him know that I know or play it out like she's a cheating wife.
I can't believe this is actually happening and haven't been able to focus on anything else since.
Any advice would be appreciated as to how best approach this situation.
Last month, one of our neighbors' son was in town and I thought he was just visiting. My wife and I shared an elevator ride down with him one day where he told us how he's house sitting his parents place for the next few months while they're in Florida.
Later that night, her and I are having sex and she very unexpectedly asked me about my fantasy. "So... You know about how you've been wanting me to be with another man? Was that really a serious thing?" Just her bringing this up surprised me as she has been actually annoyed every time I brought it up and let me know how she only role plays with me to fulfill my urges but she really dislikes the thought of it. Anyway, I told her it's been my biggest fantasy for as long as I can remember. Then I asked her if anything changed with her, and she said she was just curious. "Oh really? It wouldn't have anything to do with our neighbors son, would it?" (Easy assumption as he's 6'4, incredibly muscular - we live in a beach town so we've seen him in his swimming trunks before - chiseled features, basically a model.)
She knew she couldn't hide it from me and admitted that he was the reason her curiosity was piqued. What followed was the hottest role playing we've had in months if not years as we imagined that he had just taken her and I was reclaiming.
We talked about it the next morning and she's still actually considering it. Then will come the question of whether we let him know that I know or play it out like she's a cheating wife.
I can't believe this is actually happening and haven't been able to focus on anything else since.
Any advice would be appreciated as to how best approach this situation.