Wife's new lover

[Newbeginning84]

Hi all, first real post here.
I've been posting on another forum, but it was much more chastity focus forum.
Just started this new arrangement with my wife few months ago. It's all very new and exciting and happening so fast. We had and have a complicated situation because I'm working overseas for many months at a time. Shortly said tried this to make it better for both of us. She get affection and sex, and i get not to worry about her getting lonely and depressed while I'm away while.
Bonus for us is that it's actually something I've fantasied to do. Was a relief to admit to her that it turned me on when she asked permission to have a lover. I get off on the humiliation.


Friday my wife is planning to travel to stay with her new lover over the weekend at a resort. She already knows him and should be comfortable with him now as this is the second time she is spending time with him.
I'm feeling excited for her and hope she will have the best sex ever. I'm imagining her being a little naughty slut for him and having passionate love making with him. My dream is to see her spreading her legs wide open and taking a hard pounding from a bigger guy than me.

I will still be on job far away, but I've decided to try hold of on masturbation until I arrive home in 10 days time.
I don't think I deserve to cum and I consider it kind of cheating on her. Also it should be about her pleasure only.
I wish I had brought the cage with me, would have been a lot easier to avoid masturbating then.

Excited to return home soon and reclaim her on her terms and conditions.

[Bartleby]

It is quite stunning how slutty wives get once they are with lovers.

You will be bursting with cum if you really stick to your plan.

In either way, let your wife tell you in every detail how slutty she has been.

[Newbeginning84]

She will make sure I'm caged when I arrive home, I just thought it would be exciting to jumpstart it before her weekend.
Last few times she has been teasing me with pictures from the bed, but I'm only allowed to ask her 3 questions when she is finished with her weekend.
Can't wait to beg her for permission to eat her pussy again.

[elina]

Dear Newbeginning

So glad for both you and your Wife that you are embarking on this together.
When do you expect to be back home for your Wife to lock you up?

Sincerely
elina

[subguy80]

[quote=Newbeginning84 post_id=1317375 time=1656995416 user_id=108626]
Was a relief to admit to her that it turned me on when she asked permission to have a lover. I get off on the humiliation.
Friday my wife is planning to travel to stay with her new lover over the weekend at a resort. She already knows him and should be comfortable with him now as this is the second time she is spending time with him. [/quote]

I would love to know any details of how she asked for permission to take a lover. You said you got off on the humiliation. Did she give you any reason why she wanted a lover? Just to spice things up? Is this guy handsome and sexy to her? Did she comment about his cock, etc? Also, does this guy know you have given your wife permission or does he think your wife is cheating?

[Newbeginning84]

Dear Newbeginning

So glad for both you and your Wife that you are embarking on this together.
When do you expect to be back home for your Wife to lock you up?

Sincerely
elina

I will arrive home in 10 days. Main reason for locking me up is that I have a masterbation addiction. Spending all my energy alone and lose my interest in her.
We have discussed it a lot, and I hope it will work.
We have agreement that i will be locked up whenever I could have chance to masturbate... Basically that is going to mean whenever I'm not in the same room as her.

[Newbeginning84]

Was a relief to admit to her that it turned me on when she asked permission to have a lover. I get off on the humiliation.
Friday my wife is planning to travel to stay with her new lover over the weekend at a resort. She already knows him and should be comfortable with him now as this is the second time she is spending time with him.

I would love to know any details of how she asked for permission to take a lover. You said you got off on the humiliation. Did she give you any reason why she wanted a lover? Just to spice things up? Is this guy handsome and sexy to her? Did she comment about his cock, etc? Also, does this guy know you have given your wife permission or does he think your wife is cheating?

I'm working overseas for 3 months at a time, and while I've been home, I did not give her enough sex and attention because of my masterbation addiction.
She felt lonely and depressed at home and asked me first how i would feel if she was flirting with a guy in a bar, and what if she kissed him. She asked me to give her a limit. She needed some attention, love and sex.
She already told me before about fantasy about going to swinger club, but we never did anything like that.
Since I live of knew what she really wanted i basically told her that she could fuck all the guys she wanted.
Even in our house in our bed.
It's a turn on for both of us. She would like that i also can do something without her, but after I suggested the cuckold style, she feels better that I'm not allowed anything.

She has two lovers, one of them I know. He don't know that I'm a cuckold, he thinks we have open relationship.

The other guy I don't know much details about, I've only been allowed 3 questions after the meeting.
But she says he is nice and funny, and the sex was good after she felt more relaxed on the 2 or 3rd day with him.
I've asked her if his cock is bigger than mine.. how ever she just says that she didn't measure it. I guess it's bigger and she don't want to put me down.

I'm quite average, not small. But I do wish she gets the best cock possible and amazing sex. She loves to be a slut.

I hope can hold of on the masterbation until I arrive home. I want to show her how good a partner I can be when helped and controlled by her.

[Des 31]

Welcome to the club. It is exciting for couples with the right attitude, marital commitment, trust, and good communication. I'm sure your wife and her guy appreciate your generosity in sharing and am equally sure she will be in high spirits with a new dick pumping through her.

You clearly have more discipline than me - I don't think I could hold off masturbating madly while he's fucking my wife's brains out. I know what it's like for my wife at those times, and that probably excites me as much as it does her. Here's wishing the best for the two of you.

~ Des

[Newbeginning84]

Dear Newbeginning

So glad for both you and your Wife that you are embarking on this together.
When do you expect to be back home for your Wife to lock you up?

Sincerely
elina

I'm set to return in 9 days now. She has informed me that I will be caged whenever we are not in the same room.
Has to be like that because of my masterbation addiction.

[Newbeginning84]

I would love to know any details of how she asked for permission to take a lover. You said you got off on the humiliation. Did she give you any reason why she wanted a lover? Just to spice things up? Is this guy handsome and sexy to her? Did she comment about his cock, etc? Also, does this guy know you have given your wife permission or does he think your wife is cheating?

I've been a dick to her for long time, spending my time and energy on masterbation instead of her.
I'm working overseas 3 months at a time, and the time home i also did not pay her enough attention.
So she told me how she felt lonely and depressed, and would like to know how I felt about her flirting with guys.
I told her I read fine with it.
Then she moved on to ask how about losing.
Still I was fine.
She asked me to give her a limit to what she could do.
So I basically gave her no limit, as I already had long time cuckold fantasy. I told her she could fuck all the guys she wanted and even bring them into our bed.

I knew from talks with her that she also had fantasy about open relationship, so I was not surprised that she went through with it.

She has 2 lovers now, one guy I know. Other one lives far away.
She only allow me 3 questions after each time, so I don't know much. She says he is nice and funny.
I know she enjoy the sex.
I've asked her if he is bigger than me. Her answer was that she did not measure it. I guess that means yes it's bigger.
The guy i know thinks we have open relationship.
Other guy knows that she is cuckolding me.

She told some of our friends about our situation. Same story, some knows it's cuckolding some thinks we have open relationship.
It's going to be humiliating seeing her girl friends again who she told the truth. I like it.

[Shadnaster]

You can only ask her three questions?

What will those questions be?

[Newbeginning84]

You can only ask her three questions?

What will those questions be?

Well, I don't know.
Last time I forgot about the only 3 question rule and waste 2 before she answered and told me only 1 left.

Usually I wonder how many times they fuck and where he finished on/in her and if he made her cum.
To be honest I would like to know everything about it, but I need to respect their privacy. Also I think it's good to leave some for my imagination.

I like to imagine her being a total slut with him and acting out all her pervert desires of her inner slut.

[desertsub]

I'm set to return in 9 days now. She has informed me that I will be caged whenever we are not in the same room.
Has to be like that because of my masterbation addiction.

This is the same reason my wife kept me locked in chastity for over 90% of the time for several years. She had forbidden me to masturbate without her permission and she came home from work unexpectedly one day and caught me masturbating to internet porn. She was and as hell and even slapped me before she stormed out of the house. That evening when she got home from work she locked me in chastity and kept me that way up until Covid hit. Since then she has pretty much left me unlocked, except for Locktober, she always locks me up then!

[Newbeginning84]

Small update

My wife went through with her plans and left this Friday for a long weekend with her lover. We had some tasks about it, if we both still want this. Answer is YES.
Now she is at her lovers home and i imagine she has already been fucked multiple times.
We agreed that i don't need any details and I want them to have their privacy. Can't help to imagine her in the sexy lingerie I've bought for her, lying on her back with her legs wrapped around him taking his big cock hard in her shaved pussy like a cum hungry whore.

I'm sure they are going to have a lot of sex during the weekend, but also time for cutling and friendship.
I truly hope she enjoy her time with him and feel loved and cared for.

I will return home few days after her weekend is over.
It's going to be insane. It will be the first time I see her after she started cuckolding me. She has fucked two different guy multiple times since I saw her last time.
I'm feeling crazy in love with her, thinking of her, wanting her. Of cause the fact that I haven't touched my penis in 7 days makes me extremely eager to get release, but she asked me not to touch it.

When I arrive home, I don't know where to start with her.
Should we talk first about our new adventure?
Should I ask permission to eat her pussy as a symbolic cuckold act? Should I be caged and not cum?
Maybe just have sex with her and her show how good of a lover I can be?

We have been playing with chastity and bdsm last time I was home. She have been pegging me a few times and I have told her how much I love it. She has bought me a birthday gift, which I think is something to help me achieve anal O.

I know she wants to have sex with me, but I also know that she wants to fulfill my desires to be her sub.

I just don't know where to start. I feel like just jumping straight into it and forgetting about vanilla for the beginning. I so much crave for her being bad to me.
I really hope she will be strict.

What you guys think, how would you go about returning home into a completely new setting than you had when you left home months ago?

[elina]

..............
I know she wants to have sex with me, but I also know that she wants to fulfill my desires to be her sub.

I just don't know where to start. I feel like just jumping straight into it and forgetting about vanilla for the beginning. I so much crave for her being bad to me.
I really hope she will be strict.

What you guys think, how would you go about returning home into a completely new setting than you had when you left home months ago?

Well, if you really want to be Her sub,
First bring Her flowers,
I suggest you start by going down on your knees, hold out the flowers and tell Her you love Her more than ever,
Then ask; how can I best serve you my love?

A sub focuses on pleasing his Wife & Cuckoldress, and I would suggest if you want to be a sub, this is where you start.

Sincerely
elina

[Newbeginning84]

I received some texts and pictures from my wife. She is enjoying her stay with her lover.
She post one picture to her story on instagram which is clearly not from our bed and house. Everyone who know here well (family and friends) can see she is sleeping somewhere else.
Some friends knows she is cuckolding me other don't know everything.
I like the humiliation of them knowing, which is also why she posted the picture I'm sure.
I had a dream about her humiliating me by being cuckolded by her. I told her about the dream and that I woke up with a hard erection.
Her response: So you dreamt about what I'm doing hahaha, so means you are happy that I'm here"

I do love when she turn cruel like that and laugh of my humiliation. Can't wait for her to take the keys to my cage in a few days now. I think she will discover cuckolding and chastity is the best thing ever for her and me.
It's been 9 days now without me touching myself. I've never gone this long. Constantly horny and thinking of her. Housing hoping she will allow me to mastrubate, even if it means that I have to do it in an humiliating way on my own face.
Chances are that she will not allow it since it's only 5 days more before I return home. She is becoming more and more certain of her power over me.

[elina]

You are clearly going through exiting times!
Please keep us posted.

Will be interesting to see what will happen as you get home.

Sincerely
elina

[Newbeginning84]

She still have one more day with him. I asked her if he was "nice in bed"
Her "very good"

Hurt little bit, she could have just have said yes.
I guess he is bigger and better than me and she will enjoy rubbing my nose in it so to speak.
I am glad tough that she get what she desires.
Can't stop thinking about her having sex with him, I really would like to see it.

[elina]

Well,

Seems to me you really want to be Her cuckold.

Then you are lucky that Her lover is "very good", this will clearly motivate Her to keep his as Her lover and make you the cuckold you want to be.

Hurting a "little bit" is just about what you need, or isn't it?

SIncerely
elina

[Newbeginning84]

Yes, it's been a long lasting fantasy of mine coming true.
First time she cuckolded me was fantastic, I was so happy for her and I.

I do enjoy the humiliation as one of my biggest kinks, and she knows about it. She can hurt me and I will thank her for it.

I think she found a long term lover in him, she really send to enjoy his company and his larger cock.
Going to be interesting and intense to see what place I will have when I return. I think she has really warmed up to her role, but I'm sure she will still be good to me, I know she love me. Just don't know if she will show all of her love by making me her sub cuckold and reward me with more humiliation when she is showing her love.

Both frightened and excited at the same time.

[Long Lurker 34]

I received some texts and pictures from my wife. She is enjoying her stay with her lover.
She post one picture to her story on instagram which is clearly not from our bed and house. Everyone who know here well (family and friends) can see she is sleeping somewhere else.
Some friends knows she is cuckolding me other don't know everything.
I like the humiliation of them knowing, which is also why she posted the picture I'm sure.
I had a dream about her humiliating me by being cuckolded by her. I told her about the dream and that I woke up with a hard erection.
Her response: So you dreamt about what I'm doing hahaha, so means you are happy that I'm here"

I do love when she turn cruel like that and laugh of my humiliation. Can't wait for her to take the keys to my cage in a few days now. I think she will discover cuckolding and chastity is the best thing ever for her and me.
It's been 9 days now without me touching myself. I've never gone this long. Constantly horny and thinking of her. Housing hoping she will allow me to mastrubate, even if it means that I have to do it in an humiliating way on my own face.
Chances are that she will not allow it since it's only 5 days more before I return home. She is becoming more and more certain of her power over me.

NB84 - What sort of reaction did your Wife's picture post of her Bf's place get from friends and family?

[Newbeginning84]

I haven't heard anything from anyone yet.
I just noticed she is also not using her wedding ring. She told me she don't feel comfortable fucking someone else and using the ring. I think the pictures are mostly for my humiliation, she also don't want family to know about it.

[desertsub]

..............
I know she wants to have sex with me, but I also know that she wants to fulfill my desires to be her sub.

I just don't know where to start. I feel like just jumping straight into it and forgetting about vanilla for the beginning. I so much crave for her being bad to me.
I really hope she will be strict.

What you guys think, how would you go about returning home into a completely new setting than you had when you left home months ago?

Well, if you really want to be Her sub,
First bring Her flowers,
I suggest you start by going down on your knees, hold out the flowers and tell Her you love Her more than ever,
Then ask; how can I best serve you my love?

A sub focuses on pleasing his Wife & Cuckoldress, and I would suggest if you want to be a sub, this is where you start.

Sincerely
elina

I was going to suggest the same thing as elina when I read your question. He and I are both experienced subs and we definitely think alike!

Going to your knees and offering your service to your wife as soon as you see her helps establish that you are fully willing to submit to her and her authority over you. It should leave no doubt in her mind that you want her to be in charge.

[Newbeginning84]

Update.
My wife decided that she didn't want to sleep with other men anymore, shortly before I returned home.
I needed to accept that and forget about my dream of her cuckolding me.

Then she slept with one of her bulls again, and I was kind of hurt because I just was getting used to the thought of not doing this anymore. I told her how I felt about it and she understood.

Returning home was little awkward and took some time before we were back to normal.
She continued saying she did not feel like doing the cuckold lifestyle and also didn't want to lock me in my cock cage. All in all we have been completely vanilla and just trying to work on our relationship showing more affection and interest in one another.

Reason I'm back posting here? I'm back at job away from home and I she is sleeping with other men again.
She asked me how I would feel if she did it again and I said I like that she is doing it. So she went on to confess she already slept with a friend of us a few days earlier.

I know the guy and I'm really surprised and happy for my wife as he is a big, strong, hansom bull she deserves and I wished she would find. She said it was very good sex and I can only imagine.

Now I don't really know what you would call this kind of arrangement that we apparently have, that she is free to sleep with others while I'm away, and then being exclusive with me when I'm home. She is teasing me about it, saying I deserve to ask few questions about her encounter because she was bad doing it without telling me first.
I wish she would be more cruel to me, denying and humiliating me and of cause also continuing after I return home. But I've decided to leave it completely up to her, I will not suggest or talk about her dominating/humiliating/denying me. I will support her having sex with others and let her know it makes me hot for her, nothing more.
The the rest may or may not come?

Last time around she seemed to be picking up on the dominating/humiliating part, asking me to do things and send her picture. She asked me one time to go buy a toy to use on myself, and when I returned home from job she gave me a vibrating butt plug and a flesh light kind of thing.
So I know she has it in her, question is if she want to do it or not. I wish she would take it further and not stop when I'm home.

[Newbeginning84]

Just had small talk with the wife.. I needed to tell her how it makes me crazy for her and igniting my cuckold humiliation fantasies when she sleeps with other men.

She told me she does not do it for me...

This was kind of difficult to understand how she exactly feels about doing it. Of cause she is doing it because she wants to fuck the guy, not because I want her to do it.
Just don't know if she also means that she don't care about my fantasy at all and just fucking because she likes it.

She is now talking with another guy in a nother state, and wants to travel to visit him in December. I just approved.
Even if she don't care about cuckolding me, I still want it for her.

I'm just desperately praying for her to gain some interest in cuckolding me. I don't know if it's too much to ask for?

At times she seemed to be completely onboard, then she goes on to say she don't want any of it anymore. Now back again sleeping with me guys.

I'm confused and desperate.
I really want to avoid topping from bottom. It's just so easy to fall in when you feel it's so near and you crave it too much.

Should I just be quite and hope for something? It's so difficult to take about it with out topping from bottom.
How can I let her know my dreams without putting the pressure on her to do the things just because I like it?

Only way I see is too be quite and supportive of her adventures. Just don't say a thing.