Our Cuckold Relationship-The Truth Finally Comes Out

[Lucky 1]

I am not overly concerned about making my wife orgasm with intercourse. We gave that up 10 years ago. I think she is satisfied with what I can do with my fingers and my tongue. She tells me that I am not a real man because of my little penis. I am not sure that she genuinely means that or if she just knows that I like it when she makes fun of me.
She does answer my questions when she is sleeping, so I will ask her again if she thinks I'm a real man, while she sleeps. She doesn't like it when I do this, because she doesn't know what she is saying. This is how I originally found out that I wasn't her best lover. For 20 plus years she said I was the best, but after wearing her down she eventually began telling me that one of her lovers was as good as me. I finally asked her while she slept if he was better than me. She admitted that he was better. The next day, I posed the question, but said that she already told me the truth the previous night. I said it would be hot knowing that she preferred another over myself. As she felt my erection growing she then quickly admitted that she just didn't want to hurt my feelings.
She says she loves me for other things: she thinks I'm good looking, sweet, smart, generous and such. I know now that she longs for someone who is great in ways that I am not, but we all make compromises with our partners. I is amazing and has given up much for me (such as a great sex life), so I'm perfectly happy to see her fulfilled by another man, who can make her happy.

[elina]

I am not overly concerned about making my wife orgasm with intercourse. We gave that up 10 years ago. I think she is satisfied with what I can do with my fingers and my tongue. She tells me that I am not a real man because of my little penis. I am not sure that she genuinely means that or if she just knows that I like it when she makes fun of me.
She does answer my questions when she is sleeping, so I will ask her again if she thinks I'm a real man, while she sleeps. She doesn't like it when I do this, because she doesn't know what she is saying. This is how I originally found out that I wasn't her best lover. For 20 plus years she said I was the best, but after wearing her down she eventually began telling me that one of her lovers was as good as me. I finally asked her while she slept if he was better than me. She admitted that he was better. The next day, I posed the question, but said that she already told me the truth the previous night. I said it would be hot knowing that she preferred another over myself. As she felt my erection growing she then quickly admitted that she just didn't want to hurt my feelings.
She says she loves me for other things: she thinks I'm good looking, sweet, smart, generous and such. I know now that she longs for someone who is great in ways that I am not, but we all make compromises with our partners. I is amazing and has given up much for me (such as a great sex life), so I'm perfectly happy to see her fulfilled by another man, who can make her happy.

Dear Lucky,

This to me is an absolute wonderful post.

Your have learned to accept that you are an important part of your Wife's life, in spite of you being sexually inadequate.
Even so, Your Wonderful Wife has elected to keep you as Her husband for all of these years, not wanting to hurt your feelings She did not tell you that you were no good in bed. She still wants to keep you as Her Hubby.

So now is the time for you to fully trust Her to satisfy Her need for sex, to encourage Her and help Her get the satisfaction She deserves with other males, and to demonstrate that She can be completely honest with you and you will still love Her and support Her.

Wonderful Cuckolding Love Story to me.

Please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

[troilusand]

I am not overly concerned about making my wife orgasm with intercourse. We gave that up 10 years ago. I think she is satisfied with what I can do with my fingers and my tongue. She tells me that I am not a real man because of my little penis. I am not sure that she genuinely means that or if she just knows that I like it when she makes fun of me.
She does answer my questions when she is sleeping, so I will ask her again if she thinks I'm a real man, while she sleeps. She doesn't like it when I do this, because she doesn't know what she is saying. This is how I originally found out that I wasn't her best lover. For 20 plus years she said I was the best, but after wearing her down she eventually began telling me that one of her lovers was as good as me. I finally asked her while she slept if he was better than me. She admitted that he was better. The next day, I posed the question, but said that she already told me the truth the previous night. I said it would be hot knowing that she preferred another over myself. As she felt my erection growing she then quickly admitted that she just didn't want to hurt my feelings.
She says she loves me for other things: she thinks I'm good looking, sweet, smart, generous and such. I know now that she longs for someone who is great in ways that I am not, but we all make compromises with our partners. I is amazing and has given up much for me (such as a great sex life), so I'm perfectly happy to see her fulfilled by another man, who can make her happy.

Dear Lucky,

This to me is an absolute wonderful post.

Your have learned to accept that you are an important part of your Wife's life, in spite of you being sexually inadequate.
Even so, Your Wonderful Wife has elected to keep you as Her husband for all of these years, not wanting to hurt your feelings She did not tell you that you were no good in bed. She still wants to keep you as Her Hubby.

So now is the time for you to fully trust Her to satisfy Her need for sex, to encourage Her and help Her get the satisfaction She deserves with other males, and to demonstrate that She can be completely honest with you and you will still love Her and support Her.

Wonderful Cuckolding Love Story to me.

Please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

I can really relate to this thread. Cressida cheated on me in order to not humiliate me with how bad bad I was in bed. Like Lucky, she loves my non-sexual attributes so much that she never thought of leaving me (well once, but that's a subject I've told before). And, like Lucky, I have embraced Cressida's slut nature, and my failure to scratch that itch. Unlike Lucky, I have an average size penis, but (she says) I'm bad at oral (others have liked it). And on my best day, I only gave her a ten minute ride.

When my wife finally told me that it wasn't just because she was such a slut (she was a slut all her life and I knew it), but also because I couldn't satisfy her, I was very happy to go from stag to cuckold. It told me who I am...and nothing tells you you are a cuck like a wife who admits to you she cheated on you because you suck at sex! You married a whore and weren't good enough to keep her happy. That'd be me.

So don't listen ONLY to the nay-sayers, Lucky: My wife successfully moved in with her last lover, "Co-husband" for 2 days a week...and spent all her vacation time with him. We were married...but they were in love! And he fucked her like the Devil!! So If you're happy if she chooses to move out for six days a week, or all of the Winter, let her...just be sure.

Me? I liked the risk that she might someday chose to leave me for the other man. But that's just me, you've got to decide that for your self.

And like Elina (best cuck poster here), she deserves better fucking than you have give her. Look what she's put up with for the last 20 years.

Troilus

[blind sided hubby]

The only truth to come out of my wife was that one of her former lovers had a thicker dick than me, but mine was longer. What she didn't tell me was that she loves a thick cock . A thick cock according to my wife was better because she got off quicker with a thick cock.
The truth is that I almost always got her off, and I didn't give a damn how thick her former lover was.

[Lucky 1]

I always loved it when my wife would go out dancing with me, and then do some hot dancing with other guys. I always hoped something would develop from one of these dances, but nothing ever did. I told her before her bachelorette party that guys would be hitting on her, knowing that such parties can get wild and knowing how hot my wife is. When she can back from her bachelorette party, I asked if anything developed. She said that a hot guy danced with her much of the night, and kept telling her that she should have sex with him before the wedding. She said that she was so busy with her friends, that she was never able to get his number. I don't think at that time, she knew how much I was hoping she would have a sexual relationship with another guy. However, now she tells me that if she could do it over again, she would have set it up so that she could have had sex with a hot guy on our wedding night. She says she would have felt guilty, but would have done so with my blessing. She said that she would have stayed with him the whole week, to see if something special developed. She now tells me that at minimum, he would have likely become a long term lover. She agreed that there is little doubt that this new guy would have a better lover than me. She says I am in the bottom 20% in size and bottom 10% or so in ability. I said, after being with her new lover for a year, she probably would have moved on from me. She said she doesn't think that would have happened, because we love each other too much. I said, but you know he would be better in bed, and if he was a nice and good man you likely would have moved on. I asked her what percent chance there was that she was have eventually moved on. Originally, she said there would have been little chance that she would have entirely left me. But ultimately, she now says, if he was a great lover and a great guy there probably would have been better than a 50% chance that she would have moved on. She thinks it would have taken a year or two, because she wouldn't want to get married, and then suddenly end the marriage and move on to another. She does always tell me that even if she were to move on with someone else, she wants to still play with me on occasion. I don't think that would really happen. She says our friendship is amazing, which it is. It would have been amazing to watch the possibility of my wife slowly falling in love with another man, and slipping from my fingers. I know it sounds crazy, when you really love your wife, but I think I should also allow her to be even more satisfied if she can be.

[Lucky 1]

My wife tells me that when the kids are gone, there is a 100% chance that she will find at least a temporary new lover to play with. My wife is about as conservative and honest a person as you are going to find. Thus, for her to say that she definitely needs a new lover, it tells me that she is not at all satisfied with what I provide for her sexually.

[Vermounter]

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[Vermounter]

Maybe it might be an idea if anyone with a small penis who has been successful in making women orgasm through piv on a regular basis could give some tips on what specifically works for him, or even does he know what it is?

Chris

If you have a small penis, you can still reach the G spot which is only 1-2 inches inside. Be careful not to hurt her by "lancing" and hitting it too hard - you have full control over the penis as it is mostly outside of her. In missionary you would angle your penis upward. A woman gets pleasure from pressure while a man gets it from friction. Alternating between applying pressure and removing pressure. Start with 2-3 seconds of your penis head firmly applying pressure against the G spot, then withdraw for 1 second. Keep doing this for a while, then eventually you can start pumping.

The O spot is 3-4 inches in but on the opposite side of the vagina. In doggy style, angle your penis upward so the head hits the spot. You don't have to worry about hitting it too hard as the vagina keeps your penis going roughly straight, just at an angle.

The A spot is 5-6 inches in and on the top like the G spot. In missionary, you would angle upward. But you might not be long enough to reach it.

If you are long and thick, you automatically put pressure on all of the right spots. The penis going in and out creates the on-and-off sensation on those pressure spots and you don't really need technique.

[halfhardcuck]

My wife had sex with a lot of different guys before I started dating her, and I knew she liked fucking and variety. She had no problem talking about the guys she had fucked before me, but she always assured me that I was just the right size for her. She has cuckolded me pretty much all through our 30+ years of marriage and always said size wasn't a thing for her. That changed when she got back with an old boyfriend from before I knew her. She had always told me he was huge and sometimes hurt her when they fucked. She found him on social media and invited him to visit, and fucked him the first night he was in our home. After that, she admitted that she liked big cocks, but she said she never admitted to it because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. I assured her that it didn't bother me, and that I actually was turned on by SPH. She started teasing me about my small penis and found that the more she did so, the more I loved it. We are now at the point that I am rarely allowed inside her, and I am never allowed to ejaculate inside her. She says that my penis is too small to deserve that privilege, and only guys with real cocks get to cum inside her now.

We are both much happier now that she admits that I am not capable of pleasing her like other guys can, and that we both want her to experience the best sex possible, even though it;s with other guys.

i totally agree that small penises that can't please a woman (like mine) have no place going in a pussy, and that men like me who can't please a woman through intercourse, should not have that privilege.

[Des 31]

Your wife is in as perfect a place as I can imagine to become a hotwife. Good marriage, but she would like (and maybe needs) more. A lot of guys would be happy to help. I feel sure your wife would be thrilled if you encouraged it.

[elina]

She says our friendship is amazing, which it is. It would have been amazing to watch the possibility of my wife slowly falling in love with another man, and slipping from my fingers. I know it sounds crazy, when you really love your wife, but I think I should also allow her to be even more satisfied if she can be.

Dear Lucky,

Your Wife appears to be a wonderfully liberated sexual person.
Your attitude as expressed above is amazing.
Maybe you should immediately start working on how you can continue to please Her as She hopefully finds a lover that She may also have an emotional connection with. Even now you can start practicing providing fott-massages, licking Her pussy with eagerness, and anything else that is intimate to further strengthen the bond between the two of you.

At a suitable time after you have licked her pussy till She is satisfied, you can ask Her is She will please continue to let you do this for Her even when /if She finds a boyfriend who will be Her main sexual partner.

Sincerely
elina

[Tracescuck]

I’ve read through these comments with a mix of emotions. My wife has only had sex with me and her former boyfriend over 26 years ago. I asked her the other week who was larger and she said she really couldn’t remember. Maybe she can’t, it’s been a while, but I’m pretty sure that’s code for yes sweetie he was bigger, but I don’t want to hurt your feelings over it. So maybe we are not at that brutal honesty point yet. I would be okay with some teasing and humiliation, but at this point I don’t think I’m ready for some of the brutal honesty blows that have been stated in some of the posts at least not yet. I realize some people like that or that’s part of their thing and that’s good. I think I would be crushed if my wife told me I wasn’t a real man. I guess I just think you can be honest with someone yet not be so brutal about it…tactful comes to mind.
All in all I think I’m an okay lover at best but on the smaller side. I am able to give her orgasms in both foreplay, 90% of the time with PIV sex and usually afterwards. But I also realize my performance is part of why I brought up the idea. My wife gives so much to our family and while it is an amazing fantasy for me, I would hope she would come to really enjoy the sex and enjoy not just good sex but great sex.

[Tracescuck]

To comment again. My wife and I listened to a Crystal Welch podcast last night “The hidden secrets of cuckoldry that you will not find in porn” and it really helped me put much of this in perspective. As a wannabe cuckold trying to figure out what I like and don’t like and finding my lane I’m realizing I kind of straddle the stag/cuckold line. I like many of the aspects of cuckoldry, but I think maybe my hard limits are “shallow” if it can be said that way. There are some teasing and humiliation aspects we’ve roleplayed on and I find they really turn me on. I can see how this can really evolve more as some delve into the lifestyle more. And where I think some of these comments were harsh, I realize there’s more to it that what it seems from the outside looking in. Time will tell it appears as to where our path will lead us. So far, I’m really enjoying our ride.

[Lucky 1]

I continually tell my wife that every time that she sees me she should tell me something to humiliate me. She said she is too nice to do that. I tell her that if she wants to make me happy, she would make fun of me, because it turns me on. She doesn't always do it, but she does it enough to make our life spicy. Over the weekend, she told me that her favorite lover, who she still works with, is 2 to 3 times better in bed than me. She also said this weekend, that because my penis was so small, I probably wouldn't be able to satisfy any woman using my penis. She said that I probably could using my tongue or fingers, but not with my Weiner. She also told me this morning that I am tiny. Then she said that I am like Tiny Tim. She is always hot.

[Lucky 1]

I shared with my wife a post on this site about "How you feel when you clean-up?" Someone comments that he feels like a pathetic loser in being on his knees cleaning up after a real man. He also says the he feels like a "Total sissy." My wife said that she can't imagine anyone wanting to put themselves in that position. I explained that that would be the ultimate in proof that she belongs to another man. She has always said that she thinks she would still let me play with her once in a while. I said that there would be no reason for her to come back to me if she had a real man. She is unsure, but agreed that that may be true. I asked if she considers me a "sissy." I am very athletic, so it is a bit of a contradiction, but she said that it is not a word that she would have likely used, although she thinks it fits. She said that she has always thought of me as not a real man, and if I am not a real man, then the word sissy would fit. This may have been the hottest thing my wife has told me to date. I reminded her that a year ago she was telling me that I was the best lover she ever had. Now, just a year later, she is telling me that I am by far her least capable lover, and that in reality, I am a sissy. We agreed that it is a breakthrough to be honest. I love that she feels comfortable telling me the truth, even though I hear about how disappointing I am in bed.

[Long Lurker 34]

I shared with my wife a post on this site about "How you feel when you clean-up?" Someone comments that he feels like a pathetic loser in being on his knees cleaning up after a real man. He also says the he feels like a "Total sissy." My wife said that she can't imagine anyone wanting to put themselves in that position. I explained that that would be the ultimate in proof that she belongs to another man. She has always said that she thinks she would still let me play with her once in a while. I said that there would be no reason for her to come back to me if she had a real man. She is unsure, but agreed that that may be true. I asked if she considers me a "sissy." I am very athletic, so it is a bit of a contradiction, but she said that it is not a word that she would have likely used, although she thinks it fits. She said that she has always thought of me as not a real man, and if I am not a real man, then the word sissy would fit. This may have been the hottest thing my wife has told me to date. I reminded her that a year ago she was telling me that I was the best lover she ever had. Now, just a year later, she is telling me that I am by far her least capable lover, and that in reality, I am a sissy. We agreed that it is a breakthrough to be honest. I love that she feels comfortable telling me the truth, even though I hear about how disappointing I am in bed.

L1 - If you do any cooking at all maybe you suggest she gift you a nice frilly apron for Christmas.

[troilusand]

I shared with my wife a post on this site about "How you feel when you clean-up?" Someone comments that he feels like a pathetic loser in being on his knees cleaning up after a real man. He also says the he feels like a "Total sissy." My wife said that she can't imagine anyone wanting to put themselves in that position. I explained that that would be the ultimate in proof that she belongs to another man. She has always said that she thinks she would still let me play with her once in a while. I said that there would be no reason for her to come back to me if she had a real man. She is unsure, but agreed that that may be true. I asked if she considers me a "sissy." I am very athletic, so it is a bit of a contradiction, but she said that it is not a word that she would have likely used, although she thinks it fits. She said that she has always thought of me as not a real man, and if I am not a real man, then the word sissy would fit. This may have been the hottest thing my wife has told me to date. I reminded her that a year ago she was telling me that I was the best lover she ever had. Now, just a year later, she is telling me that I am by far her least capable lover, and that in reality, I am a sissy. We agreed that it is a breakthrough to be honest. I love that she feels comfortable telling me the truth, even though I hear about how disappointing I am in bed.

After years in the lifestyle, my wife finally felt comfortable enough to tell me that I was the worst lover she'd had EVER had. We were chatting in bed about about how the latest love of her life (this was years ago) was by far, the best sex she'd ever had and why. That's when I asked her how I rated. And like your wife, she wasn't into hunting my feelings, but by then she knew the truth would be safe to tell. And yes, I was the worst. She never liked my hand or mouth technique, and I typically came from fucking in about two minutes.

Another time when chatting about sex, the subject of my inadequacies came up. She told me that when I asked her to marry me, as she was saying "Yes", she WAS THINKING RIGHT THEN she would eventually cheat on me because I fucked so badly. She loved me, but needed better men in bed. Didn't take long for her to get them...a little over a year.

Troilus

[Lucky 1]

Thanks for the input and the gift advice. I like to know what my wife is thinking. She tells me that there is a 100% chance that she will find someone else when the kids are gone. We likely have 7 years then until that happens. She says there is a slight chance that she would fool around before that if the circumstances were perfect. I like the thought of walking in on her with someone new. It would be hot for her to say that she had to move on, because I was so lacking in bed. I tell her that I would thank her new lover for finally giving my wife what she has needed for 26 years. I would love it if she and her lover would openly criticize me and make fun of me for my inadequacies. My wife says she is overly nice, but she thinks that she would eventually become good at doing so. She says it would also be my job to give them money for their long trips and I would need to do everyday chores to make her lover's life easier.

[Lucky 1]

I like that every day, my wife reminds me that I am small and not who she is looking for sexually. I think it has been liberating to be who I really am, rather than to be what society wants you to be. Once my wife has found a new man, it will really take the pressure off me. I will enjoy seeing her with a real man who can fulfill her needs.

[veub]

My wife and I have been married about 20 years. While dating, I loved to watch her dance with other guys. I would leave them alone and see if anything materialized. She said she came close, but said she never had sex with anyone, while we were dating.

Until a couple months ago, she always told me that I was the biggest guy that she dated, and was the best in bed. A couple months ago, I said I would like to know if one of her boyfriends was better than me. She said that she didn't want to hurt me, so choose not to tell me the truth. Eventually, she told me that her last boyfriend, a collegiate wrestler, was as big as me and as good in bed. She realized how hot this made me, so she admitted that he was really much bigger and better in bed. She then said a football player boyfriend was also much bigger and better in bed.

She has told me many things recently, which I will explain later, but yesterday she admitted that as far as she can remember, I am the smallest guy that she has dated, and definitely the worst at intercourse. I am in great shape and she says that I am good at oral sex, and very nice, which is why she says that she stays with me. However, she says when the kids are gone, she wants to take a new lover, and thinks she will spend most of the week with him. Saying, she would check in with me, once a week. She wants to spend winters in Florida with her new lover.

Yesterday I asked her if she could have sex with her best lover or me 100 times, how many times would she choose her last lover. She said she would choose him, 100 of 100 times. She says he is better than me at everything in bed. She says, standing next to him, my little penis would look pathetic, and tiny. She thinks intercourse is hugely important in a relationship, and says that because I can't make her orgasm with my little penis, I have been a constant disappointment. I love that my wife feels confident enough in our relationship to tell me the truth. I always thought that she was not very interested in fooling around, but she tells me that she loves sex, just isn't very impressed with me and my size. Her telling me this has really turned up the flame in our marriage. She is an amazing woman and deserves the best. Thanks for your interest

I haven't read the entire thread, but if after 20 years you're the worst she every had and have never satisfied her, it's her fault. Unless your penis is the size of a pinky, or you are an absolute moron, there is absolutely no reason why you could not be taught how to be a great lover.

[Lucky 1]

My wife is super hot, but unfortunately she has never been very interested in sex. I told her last week that there was one year that we probably fooled around about 5 times during the entire year. I tell her that she is like having a hot sports car in the garage that you can't drive. Nice to have, but it doesn't do you much good. She claims that she is not overly interested because I am not good in bed. I don't know: what one person hates, another might love. I am just glad that at least now she talks a lot about sex. I think that is at least a start. I tell her that she has a smoking body that rivals any supermodel. She is a fitness fanatic. However, I told her that I have never seen her in lingerie. She tells me that she owns lingerie. Well, that is nice, but not overly helpful. She says she is a mom, which I understand, but still not a complete excuse. Ultimately, she is super hot and a great partner, just not very interested in bed. I guess no one has everything.

[Lucky 1]

My wife told me tonight that if she was guaranteed to have her same kids and family with a new lover, there is a ninety percent chance that she would go back and marry someone else, other than me. I said that I was surprised that it wasn't 100%. She said that it was about as close to 100% as you are going to get. Hot.

[Lucky 1]

I would say that one of my ultimate fantasies would be if my wife and I would be out at an event. I would look over and see that my wife is engaged with a good looking guy. As I come a bit closer, I hear her talking to him for a long period, and eventually telling him that they should do something like meet to work out together. My wife loves to work out and has told me that she thinks that might be a good way to eventually hook up with some guy. I would just sit back and watch them exchange information for a future rendezvous. It would be hot to see my wife set something up with a future lover, even as I am close enough to hear the encounter. I would love it, because she would be picking another man, who is obviously superior to me, and is not concerned how it would make me, the lesser man feel.

[Long Lurker 34]

My wife told me tonight that if she was guaranteed to have her same kids and family with a new lover, there is a ninety percent chance that she would go back and marry someone else, other than me. I said that I was surprised that it wasn't 100%. She said that it was about as close to 100% as you are going to get. Hot.

L1 - At least as you have described your wife's statement, if I were you, I find would rather disheartening.

[Lucky 1]

I always ask my wife if she met anyone during the week who she thought was hot and would be interested in going to bed with. She said that over the Christmas break, when she was visiting her side of the family, she saw a really hot guy at a gas station. She has never before talked about anyone from India being hot. She said that while she is not normally attracted by guys from India, this guy was exceptional. She said that he was super fit, and looked like he was a wrestler type. I said, "Then he was for sure hotter than me." She said, "You are a 8 or a 8.5 and this guy was around a 9.5." She said, "You could tell by his fitness level and his confidence that he would have been much better in bed than me." She said that she just assumes most fit and handsome guys are much better in bed, just by default, because I fail to impress in the bedroom. A new dimension to guys she would choose over me.