Has your wife had sex with a man who is less attractive than you?

[atl0707]

If it has happened, was it more or less humiliating than her being with a more attractive man?

[4incheslong]

Yes, and I found it surprising. He even had teeth that were somewhat unattractive which is usually a big deal for her. But he was tall, rich, dick twice my size and I found out very confident and that is a huge turn on to her. She liked to be a submissive slut for him. When he approached her initially after some flirting by her, he asked her if she would like to fool around. I would have thought she would have acted as a cheating wife, but she didn't. She basically told him she fucked other guys and I was a little dick cuck who couldn't satisfy her. I knew the guy and that was the most humiliating part.

[Chrislydi]

Yes although apparently more of a rebound affair, following the end of a very passionate one. He was considerably smaller than me in height, a little on the 'weedy' side and far less muscular and I've since found out smaller in both length and thickness. He was also a complete nonentity, lacked any really posiitve character traits unless you call cheating on both his wife and girlfriend while abandoning his child positive, I suppose you'll always get some who will.

He just happened to be in the right place at the right time when I wasn't flavour of the month with her but it was humiliating as she wouldn't even tell me about their sex, possibly as it was nothing to write home about. He was also physically scared of me, and I stress I did nothing to make him uncomfortable so possibly just my stature, and tended to see her only if I wasn't around, which meant mostly at his.

Anyway I found out about his impending bankruptcy, perennial cheating and abandoned offspring, he was ruined in her eyes and ostracised by virtually everyone, haven't heard about him since. One asshole of a man.

[parklife]

I think all of my wife’s sex partners have been less attractive than me…. But maybe that’s because I’m conceited..

And I do t find her desire for variety in any way humiliating or think of her FWB’s looks in the slightest.

[Chrislydi]

Tbh it's their character rather than looks, as in if they're going to potentially drag us into their sordid little world, usually when cheated on wives, girlfriends and abandoned children are involved, you're liable to get collateral damage and avoiding that is essential.

Although that's specific to my case, the rule of avoiding complete assholes is a fairly general one. It might be coincidental but the more alpha men don't normally let themselves be so vulnerable to being exposed by those they bull for. This bloke was someone I could have pushed around if I had that sort of mentality to do so.

Chris

[Michael Wolf]

My wife is a escort and generally has sex with much older unattractive men, it never never bothers me although I can get a little jealous of a young good looking guy fucking her

[Long Lurker 34]

I think all of my wife’s sex partners have been less attractive than me…. But maybe that’s because I’m conceited..

Now I know who this song is about!

https://www.songlyrics.com/i-m-too-sexy ... xy-lyrics/

[Greg_N_Shelley]

I think all of my wife’s sex partners have been less attractive than me…. But maybe that’s because I’m conceited..

And I do t find her desire for variety in any way humiliating or think of her FWB’s looks in the slightest.

Same here too. Shelley always seemed to choose fuck buddies for their performance qualities rather than their looks. Most have been very ordinary-looking guys, stocky and even slightly overweight, but always well hung and capable of fucking like champions. The word "bull" has always been very appropriate to describe her preference.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum Michael Wolf. We would love to hear more about your wife and her exploits.

[Bartleby]

My wife had a boyfriend who was a stoner, a techno DJ and had a huge beard. His dick was skinny.

He was a nice, considerate guy, but with the qualites mentioned above, I didn t take the infidelity of my wife kindly that time. What disgusted me the most was the techno "music".

[4herpleasure89]

I really don’t know how to answer that. She like handsome men so I assume more attractive than me mostly but she doesn’t compare.

[Farmgirl]

Every man that I've been with is less attractive than my Number1. I had to think about that because I don't look for "attractive" guys, I look for ones with a personality that turns me on.
Looks, like dick size, is not at the top of the list. Personality along with their mind is more important.

I asked my Number1 about the "humiliation" aspect you asked about, and he said, "I don't see any humiliation in any of it whatsoever".

[parklife]

Every man that I've been with is less attractive than my Number1. I had to think about that because I don't look for "attractive" guys, I look for ones with a personality that turns me on.
Looks, like dick size, is not at the top of the list. Personality along with their mind is more important.

I asked my Number1 about the "humiliation" aspect you asked about, and he said, "I don't see any humiliation in any of it whatsoever".

Pretty much sums it up… I don’t think my wife looks for “attractive” men, but there are men she’s just attracted to for whatever reason…. Has little to do with traditional ‘looks’.

[Baldyellow]

My wife Beck fucked a guy for a good while that had a small dick, but had a pretty good personality. He was a almost a foot shorter than me and not nearly as strong and fit as I was. I don't know why, but Beck loved to fuck him and did quite a long time. I even agreed for them to date alone. When they did, it really wasn't much of a date, just go to a hotel room and fuck for the weekend. I did like him, but did not see the attraction. We had many MFM threesomes with him too.

[Chrislydi]

My wife Beck fucked a guy for a good while that had a small dick, but had a pretty good personality. He was a almost a foot shorter than me and not nearly as strong and fit as I was. I don't know why, but Beck loved to fuck him and did quite a long time. I even agreed for them to date alone. When they did, it really wasn't much of a date, just go to a hotel room and fuck for the weekend. I did like him, but did not see the attraction. We had many MFM threesomes with him too.

It possibly shows how important the character of the man is, even over other considerations. You said you did like him so I presume Beck must also have found his character very attractive? I had much the same experience with a guy far shorter, a weakling even by comparison, and it was only when I opened her eyes to what his actual character was that she finished with him.

[carolinacuck]

Most women would consider me a good looking guy, so the answer is yes. However I don't quite measure up in the penis size department and that always cost me relationships in my single days. C prefers good looking guys so I have been surprised that she compromised on looks on a few occasions in her extramarital relationships. She fucked a military officer who was average looking but had a good physique and a big cock. They had incredible sexual chemistry. Another guy wasn't particularly handsome but had a big thick dick that sent her into orbit orgasmically speaking. She'd still be fucking him if his wife hadn't found out.

[Cdncuck]

Attractive is subjective. What one person finds attractive another may not.

Attractive to my wife involves a number of things. A sense of humor, manners and intelligence are as important to her as looks. Regardless of how the guy may look physically, there also has to be chemistry.

So one of her boyfriends will look very different than another yet she finds them both equally attractive.

Are they more or less attractive than me? That's not something I've ever thought about. I'm not in a competition with them. It's all about having fun for both of us and her boyfriends.

[bltn1966]

When Marie became a HW she only dated tall handsome guys. But there is two guys my wife said she really didn’t find attractive. The first guy was a young, pudgy frumpy looking white guy. He look like Wayne Campbell from Wayne’s world. Marie said he was a plutonic friend that had a great sense of humor. I still don’t know what he said to get her in bed with him. The second guy was a 6’6” tall, rail thin introvert. Marie made a few jokes about his skeletal frame. She called him “Lurch”. What’s funny is some of the guys Marie found attractive we’re DUDS in the bed. But both of these guys fucked the living daylights out of Marie.

Wayne Campbell had a short extra wide cock that drove her crazy. Marie apologized, to him, about having so many orgasms.

Lurch had just witness me fucking his wife. It was the first time he’s ever seen her with another man. I knew he was extra horny after seeing what I did to his wife. My poor little wife didn’t know what hit her once Lurch got his hands on her.

[wulfenus]

I was getting my wife to tell me some of her sexy stories from before we were married. She could attract male model type guys, but it got me hotter when she told me of her first 'long term' relationship. It lasted about 2 weeks, she went out with this guy who was a regular customer where she worked at an outdoor bar/grill. After going to music, he got into her panties on the first date As they were in college I asked, after that did they do it after class or when? She said, we were students, -- so all the time. Then she paused and said I don't know why I went out with him he wasn't good looking.

So the 'not good looking' part sunk in on me and I can imagine that guy whacking off to her to this day remembering he had a babe out of his league.

[blind sided hubby]

Yes, I caught her with some ugly slob on the train going home from work. I got there just in time to see her kissing her pig of a lover. I was shocked to see them so I sat behind them for the ride home.
When we got to our stop she got off but he stayed on. I caught up to her and told her what I had seen, she cried and promised to never do something like that again, what bullshit, I knew right then and there she was a cheater and a liar. I never saw that slob again, but i'm sure there have been other gargoyles in her life.

[gruenberg]

it is how to define attractiveness.

my wife had an affair with her boss. a balding big belly guy. but he was always well dressed, had manners and was very successful. he had her.
by the way, a fact i still find interesting, how they had sex while she was pregnant. two people with round bellies....

my wife also had an affair with a guy i knew from my childhood. this guy was an unsympatic arrogant asshole. just face it. he had no positive character traits. he had her too.

summing up only this two guys, i could say yes, she had sex with less attractive men.

[Cdncuck]

Never thought it was a competition. My wife fucks guys who turn her on. When she was younger she liked to fuck guys who met the usual standards of being good looking. As she got older, that changed and she found there is more to this than looks. As for me? I've never paid attention to their looks. I'm just happy and excited she's fucking.

[isharedmywifein2018]

She certainly has on several occasions agreed to take from less attractive dudes because they had huge dicks and I am not talking 6 like me - both were over 12 with massive girth. She loves huge cock and I thought I had one until we got into the lifestyle. Both meetings were behind her bulls back and one was a swap - I got the honor of fucking Mr. Big’s BBW wife.

[trecital]

I think all of my wife’s sex partners have been less attractive than me…. But maybe that’s because I’m conceited..

Now I know who this song is about!

https://www.songlyrics.com/i-m-too-sexy ... xy-lyrics/

I was thinking more of Carly Simon's brilliant song 'You're so vain'. To paraphrase one of it's lines..... "I bet you thought this thread was about you......".

[Long Lurker 34]

I think all of my wife’s sex partners have been less attractive than me…. But maybe that’s because I’m conceited..

Now I know who this song is about!

https://www.songlyrics.com/i-m-too-sexy ... xy-lyrics/

I was thinking more of Carly Simon's brilliant song 'You're so vain'. To paraphrase one of it's lines..... "I bet you thought this thread was about you......".

T - Good one. LMAO.