she has feelings?

[desertsub]

My wife has gotten drunk and admitted things that she normally wouldn't admit to. She rarely does it, but when she does, it can be brutal. She recently went out one evening with a couple of her best friends and got very intoxicated, to the point that her best friend brought her home and we had to go get her car the next day. When she got home, she started in on me about how she had to go to work every day while I stayed at home and did nothing (I'm retired). She then told me "You're the bitch in this relationship and I'm going to fuck you like one!" She then made me strip and get on the bed and while she put on her strap on, and then she fucked the daylights out of me. That was the most aggressive she has ever fucked me and it wasn't really enjoyable for me but I took it because I knew she needed it. Her job, at that point, had her extremelly stressed and getting drunk with her friends and then fucking me was her way of relieving the pressure she was feeling. The next morning she didn't remember most of the pegging and didn't believe she had been that aggressive. I assured her she had, and that I wouldn't have any problem with her doing it more often. I pointed out to her that she needed an outlet and that I would gladly be that outlet.

[shesmypornstar]

Yesterday she woke up and mentioned having a dream about him. I pressed for some details but she wouldn't say anything. She said that "she shares too much and that I know too much" I said "oh you're talking about Saturday night when you got drunk?" to which she said "yea, I told you way too much"

Ok well there it is, shes thought about someone else almost every time we've fucked going back at least a year now. I did know most of that but honestly thought she had stopped back around Feb.

[larryt]

If she decided to fuck him, how would you want to be involved? What would be hottest for you?

[shesmypornstar]

If she decided to fuck him, how would you want to be involved? What would be hottest for you?

Thats a really good question. Obviously I was thrown off about a month ago when she was talking to him and going out of her way for him, yet not really crossing any lines. So I guess if she decided to do this I'd hope that she'd ease me into it with plenty of communication, understanding of each other and honesty. Once we're comfortable with everything I'd love for her to full on cuck me and become the more dominant partner. I don't desire any humiliation from hm, but I'd absolutely love it from her.

If we got to the point in which she went over to his house at will, or he had no problem making a move on her in front of me I'd be a very happy cuck. Thats admittedly rather mild but I guess would speak to their comfort in their relationship. On the more extreme side I'd absolutely love it if she was degrading towards me or felt comfortable humiliating me in front of him. Making me wear a cage, telling me how much better he is than me. I'd clean her up without hesitation but what would be even hotter would be if she had him cum on her high heeled boots after sex then make me lick them clean for her.

I could easily see myself accepting a sex life consisting of ruined orgasms, hand jobs and being pegged. The problem for me is that this is what would likely happen....She would jump into it without consideration of me or my feelings, absolutely have no problem degrading me humiliating me and cutting me off from sex, but thats the extent of it. I wouldn't ever get to watch, clean up, get a hj or pegged for that matter. She would just replace me sexually and make fun of me for it.

[shesmypornstar]

And on the note of high heeled boots...we were out with a group about a year ago and he and I were walking behind her and she was wearing a sexy pair of high heels. I know that she partially wore them for the event, and partially wore them to get his attention. Anyways while we're walking behind her I caught him checking her out, high heels up to her ass and down again. So with that in mind and to add an element of kinkiness to future interaction between them. Her and I cheer for rival sport teams and he happens to cheer for the same team that she likes. I'm tempted to buy her a custom paif of high heels with their teams colors and logos all over them. I've seen them before, they're very sexy and demand your attention.

No doubt in my mind that she'd find a reason to wear them in front of him and or wear them in front of him when their team plays mine. Adds a bit of kink and maybe an element of cuckiness.

[Johng1953]

The boots sound like a good idea. It would give them something to talk about and it would by necessity exclude you as you don't follow the same team.

[bernhard-bln]

I am in the same situation: I convinced my wife to have a relationship with another man. But she told me at the beginning that she can't do that if she doesn't have an emotional relationship with him, yes, a kind of love relationship. Her mind, her body would not open up to the other man if she did not have that love feeling.

After many years on these pages, I am deeply convinced that men do not understand the emotional situation of women. An infinite number of men think with their dick. The bigger, the better. The question: what do you feel when you let a man in, this question was hardly asked and answered by even fewer women.

Surely, so many people, so many different attitudes. We men have the difficulty to put ourselves in a woman beyond our thinking or feeling.

[shesmypornstar]

I'm out of town for a few nights so last night I decided to spice it up a bit before bed by playing 2 truths and a lie via text with the wife. We only played one round but each of us were given the opportunity to ask the other to expand and explain more about 1 of the 3 statements that the other made. So I'd make 3 statements and she got to pick which she wanted to hear more about and vice versa.

Without getting into all the details I found out the neighbor is 1 or 2 guys that she absolutely would fuck if she had the chance and that the neighbor makes her feel more excited than anyone has made her feel in a while. I asked her to expand on what she meant regarding how he makes her feel and she kept it simple by saying that she looks forward to dressing cute when she knows that shes going to see him and that she enjoys flirting with him and the attention that she gets.

I was feeling rather cucky last night and suggested that she buys me a pink chastity cage and make me wear it anytime that we or she will see him. Then she gets to dress cute for him while I'm stuck in a pink cage, nobody knows but us but it would be very symbolic considering that I'd only wear it in his presence. Shes never been big into chastity but she said that she does like making me jealous so its something she'll consider.

I kinda regret making that suggestion considering I'm not always in the cuck headspace, but I'm sure that it'll be unbelievably hot if she does indeed buy one and make me wear it around him. If i happen to get home and she's already ordered it then I know she likes the idea way more than shes leading on.

[troilusand]

The question: what do you feel when you let a man in

I felt sexually inferior, and rightfully so. I also felt somewhat out of control as to the future of my marriage...and I liked it!

Most of the men my wife fucked were men she was in love with. Once I finally got her to stop cheating and cuckold me instead, I always encouraged her and her lover to bond closer. Cressida loved being in love! And I loved seeing her joy.

One time, she told me about one of her long-time cheating affairs where the two of them wanted desperately to be married but his family situation made divorce impossible. She told me that was the one man she'd have left me for him in a minute. They only broke up because they both couldn't stand NOT seeing each other every day! I wonder if she had been a hotwife instead of a cheater if they might not still be together. After all, when one of the spouses knows and supports the affair, the frequency and duration of trysts can be enhanced since you don't need to hide from one of the spouses...hmmmm.

When she told me all this, I felt both lucky AND turned on. I knew I'd be addicted to risking losing her to a Better Man.

So her having long-term love partners worked wonderfully well for both of us.

Troilus

[hwc]

" she looks forward to dressing cute when she knows that shes going to see him and that she enjoys flirting with him and the attention that she gets."


How about next time she's flirting/texting with him, she asks what clothes really turn him on and make him hot for someone... then she and you can go and buy those exact outfits, in his preffered colour, and then she can not wear them for you until she is next with him and while flirting, pointedly tells him she bought them for and is wearing them for him. Before and after, she can perhaps tease you mercilessly, be a bitch and make you as jealous as possible in anticipation, during and after the event.

Now that would be real progress.

Of course, if you do this, we will require a full and detailed telling here!

[hwc]

"Then right before she turns over and goes to bed she says, and this is the reason for my post today "don''t' worry daddy, you'll have plenty of time to think about me and him together and how you manifested all of this in your head while you're sitting at our wedding" Holy shit! Talk about a mind-fuck."

I really, really hope you discuss this further with her! - and then with us!

[troilusand]

"Then right before she turns over and goes to bed she says, and this is the reason for my post today "don''t' worry daddy, you'll have plenty of time to think about me and him together and how you manifested all of this in your head while you're sitting at our wedding" Holy shit! Talk about a mind-fuck."

I really, really hope you discuss this further with her! - and then with us!

I like the way you think, HWC!

Troilus

[shesmypornstar]

"Then right before she turns over and goes to bed she says, and this is the reason for my post today "don''t' worry daddy, you'll have plenty of time to think about me and him together and how you manifested all of this in your head while you're sitting at our wedding" Holy shit! Talk about a mind-fuck."

I really, really hope you discuss this further with her! - and then with us!

Yea I think I'm finally in a place where she's opening up and engaging the conversation more once she brings it up. For a while if she said something about him I could maybe get 1 word in before she told me to stop. Or, if i brought him up she said she wasn't talking about him with me. Over the past couple weeks though she seems to be open to the conversation, IF she brings him up. So I guess next time she brings him up I"ll give it a try.

[Johng1953]

"Then right before she turns over and goes to bed she says, and this is the reason for my post today "don''t' worry daddy, you'll have plenty of time to think about me and him together and how you manifested all of this in your head while you're sitting at our wedding" Holy shit! Talk about a mind-fuck."

I really, really hope you discuss this further with her! - and then with us!

Yea I think I'm finally in a place where she's opening up and engaging the conversation more once she brings it up. For a while if she said something about him I could maybe get 1 word in before she told me to stop. Or, if i brought him up she said she wasn't talking about him with me. Over the past couple weeks though she seems to be open to the conversation, IF she brings him up. So I guess next time she brings him up I"ll give it a try.

She can't say stuff like that then shut you down!
Can she??

[shesmypornstar]

"Then right before she turns over and goes to bed she says, and this is the reason for my post today "don''t' worry daddy, you'll have plenty of time to think about me and him together and how you manifested all of this in your head while you're sitting at our wedding" Holy shit! Talk about a mind-fuck."

I really, really hope you discuss this further with her! - and then with us!

Yea I think I'm finally in a place where she's opening up and engaging the conversation more once she brings it up. For a while if she said something about him I could maybe get 1 word in before she told me to stop. Or, if i brought him up she said she wasn't talking about him with me. Over the past couple weeks though she seems to be open to the conversation, IF she brings him up. So I guess next time she brings him up I"ll give it a try.

She can't say stuff like that then shut you down!
Can she??

Oh she absolutely has been shutting me down.

[hwc]

Looking forward to hearing about any conversations or developments!

[shesmypornstar]

Nothing too much to report on but a couple small things happened over the past couple weeks.

Last week we talked a little about my interest in chastity and a few different ways to play with it. Sunday morning we were in bed around 9:30 and she asked me, "so you like the idea of going down on me while you're locked up and getting nothing in return?" and I of course told her I loved the idea. She said, I'm going to jump in the shower, you go get that cage on and I'll meet you back in bed at 10.

So I go get locked up, I'm sitting there in bed at 10 and shes nowhere to be found. I figure she got a little sidetracked with the kids so I gave it a few minutes. At 10:20 I send her a text asking if she was coming up and I immediately hear her make her way upstairs. She walks in the bedroom and says "oh you thought I meant 10am? No sweety, you're staying in that thing until 10 tonight, you said you wanted this we'll see how much you really want it." Wow, that was incredibly hot and unexpected. Then she said "maybe if you're really nice to me today I'll let you out early....Oh I like this idea" with an evil little giggle. I became instantly rock hard which really really hurt, but I calmed down and went about my day with no issues.

Around 6 she comes over to me and says ok lets do this, insinuating that I'd been in the cage long enough and it was time to have sex. But first, I of course had to go down on her which I happily did. So i go down on her until she came and she says thanks and gets up to leave. I'm like "i thought you were going to make me go down on you while wearing the cage, OR, wear it all day then have sex, not both" She starts laughing and says "Yea we'll have sex later tonight after you go down on me again."

Wow, I loved it from a mental standpoint, but that cage was killing my rock hard cock so I started to beg. Luckily for me she gave in and let me out so we could fuck and my cock could get some relief. She was sure to point out multiple times that I need to make sure I know what I'm asking for because I didn't seem to like it. No doubt on my part I loved the idea but couldn't take the pain when I was aroused. I love the idea of being locked up,, her teasing me, giving me a release and locking me back up, but being teased with no relief was too much. Needless to say, it was fun but we'll have to work out those kinks.

Next up though was last night. Had a few people over including her crush which we haven't seen in a while. Early in the night she offered to get the group a round of drink and he declined before eventually giving in. She left, gets the drinks for everyone and the night goes on. What was interesting was that maybe 30 minutes later she gets up and walks over to him to take his glass to go refill it, but does it for him only without even asking. Was kinda hot to see her show some assertiveness around him while completely ignoring me and everyone else regardless of how small the gesture was.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

Wow, I loved it from a mental standpoint, but that cage was killing my rock hard cock so I started to beg. Luckily for me she gave in and let me out so we could fuck and my cock could get some relief. She was sure to point out multiple times that I need to make sure I know what I'm asking for because I didn't seem to like it. No doubt on my part I loved the idea but couldn't take the pain when I was aroused. I love the idea of being locked up,, her teasing me, giving me a release and locking me back up, but being teased with no relief was too much. Needless to say, it was fun but we'll have to work out those kinks.

Generally, it can take some time to adjust to the realities of being caged, and the discomfort that can occur when highly aroused. When you aren't caged on a regular basis, suddenly putting a cage on can be quite painful, especially if you haven't got the sizing quite right.

Some guys say that having a smaller cage results in less discomfort because an erection can't really get a good start. As a masochist I prefer a slightly larger cage, and the knowledge that it *can* cause discomfort if I get too aroused.

So, to work the kinks out you'll have to change your sizing and/or start wearing it on a long-term/permanent basis

[Des 31]

It's been a while since any updates, but I suspect the guy, or someone else, is fucking her by now. Much of the original poster's and his wife's experiences are similar to many at this website. When it reaches the point last reported, I'm sure the rest comes about rather quickly as it did with my wife and me.

If you're reading this, I hope both you and your wife are getting all you each want and need.

~ Des

[Chrislydi]

It's been a LONG DAY since any updates, but I suspect the guy, or someone else, is fucking her by now. Much of the original poster's and his wife's experiences are similar to many at this website. When it reaches the point last reported, I'm sure the rest comes about rather quickly as it did with my wife and me.

If you're reading this, I hope both you and your wife are getting all you each want and need.

~ Des

Corrected that for you

Chris

[Des 31]

It's been a LONG DAY since any updates, but I suspect the guy, or someone else, is fucking her by now. Much of the original poster's and his wife's experiences are similar to many at this website. When it reaches the point last reported, I'm sure the rest comes about rather quickly as it did with my wife and me.

If you're reading this, I hope both you and your wife are getting all you each want and need.

~ Des

Corrected that for you

Chris

Oh yeah, thanks. I responded without realizing more pages were in this posting. Now I feel ridiculous.

[Chrislydi]

Oh yeah, thanks. I responded without realizing more pages were in this posting. Now I feel ridiculous.

I think we've all done it, I just couldn't resist it having just read the longish update and questioned whether I was getting the threads confused. I only meant it as a light hearted joke and apologise it came out badly.

Chris

[FNQLivin]

That’s a big update. Thank you

[desertsub]

What was interesting was that maybe 30 minutes later she gets up and walks over to him to take his glass to go refill it, but does it for him only without even asking. Was kinda hot to see her show some assertiveness around him while completely ignoring me and everyone else regardless of how small the gesture was.

My wife is an artist at subtle things like that but once she gets a couple of drinks in her that can go out the window. That's how my best friend learned that I'm a cuckold and she fucks whoever she wants!

Thanks for the great update. It sounds like chastity is going to be in your near future.

[shesmypornstar]

What was interesting was that maybe 30 minutes later she gets up and walks over to him to take his glass to go refill it, but does it for him only without even asking. Was kinda hot to see her show some assertiveness around him while completely ignoring me and everyone else regardless of how small the gesture was.

My wife is an artist at subtle things like that but once she gets a couple of drinks in her that can go out the window. That's how my best friend learned that I'm a cuckold and she fucks whoever she wants!

Thanks for the great update. It sounds like chastity is going to be in your near future.

She pointed out this morning that she also made sure to turn his team's football game on when he came over.

Tbh, I'm not sure if chastity will be in my future at her request or not. I've mentioned it a bit and we've talked a little about it and she always seems open to it, but kinda put off by it. No doubt she realized that she could benefit from it last week when she told me I could get out early for good behavior. I think I'd love it if she wanted me to, just not sure if she will.