Very amusing!
But take a note of the ending it envisaged!
she has feelings?
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Re: she has feelings?
Are you going to share this 'story' with your wife?
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Re: she has feelings?
Have you suggested that you set up a night at a bar with you, the wife and neighbor and for some reason you have to leave early. Giving her time alone with him
Re: she has feelings?
Guhunkadorn said:
Very good question. What are your thoughts? Would like to hear about that conversation...Are you going to share this 'story' with your wife?
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shesmypornstar
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Re: she has feelings?
I haven't shared the original story with her. Honestly, I deleted it before ending my session on ChatGPT. I've been back a few times and played around with it more. Maybe I"m learning how to create better prompts. as the system hasn't been as reluctant to write about this topic as it seemed to be during my first attempt.
We went out the other night and she told me that she had texted him earlier in the day. Nothing special during the chat but she found a reason to text and took the chance to do so. She said she wants to start talking to him more regularly, straddling the line with consistent communication that builds more rapport but nothing that crosses the line. That said, she doesn't have faith that he'll be the one to cross the line either. All in all she enjoys that we enjoy it, and she wants to keep that going, she just doesn't see how the fantasy would become reality.
When we got home she decided to let me watch as she warmed herself up with a vibrating wand. I was rock hard and she teased me about the idea of me watching her and him together.
Her "you really think you'd just be able to sit there and watch while I have all the fun with him?"
Me "yes absolutely"
Her "no, you'd want to join the fun, it would make you too horny"
Me "No, I'd sit wherever you tell me to sit and watch till you're done"
Her "No, you'd sit for 2 minutes until you came in your pants then you'd have to watch like a pathetic puppy while we play all night"
Me "Yea but I"d love every minute of it"
Her "You'd love it if he put a baby in me"
Me "......"
Her "You'd raise his baby while I get to have all the fun"
Then she had a massive orgasm and said "see, what do I even need you for" She let me slide in but I was so hard and horny I could hardly fuck her. I kept pumping and stopping, she was laughing at me and told me to just do it already. I came hard but it was honesty a pathetic fuck for her. Good thing she has her toys and our fantasy.
We went out the other night and she told me that she had texted him earlier in the day. Nothing special during the chat but she found a reason to text and took the chance to do so. She said she wants to start talking to him more regularly, straddling the line with consistent communication that builds more rapport but nothing that crosses the line. That said, she doesn't have faith that he'll be the one to cross the line either. All in all she enjoys that we enjoy it, and she wants to keep that going, she just doesn't see how the fantasy would become reality.
When we got home she decided to let me watch as she warmed herself up with a vibrating wand. I was rock hard and she teased me about the idea of me watching her and him together.
Her "you really think you'd just be able to sit there and watch while I have all the fun with him?"
Me "yes absolutely"
Her "no, you'd want to join the fun, it would make you too horny"
Me "No, I'd sit wherever you tell me to sit and watch till you're done"
Her "No, you'd sit for 2 minutes until you came in your pants then you'd have to watch like a pathetic puppy while we play all night"
Me "Yea but I"d love every minute of it"
Her "You'd love it if he put a baby in me"
Me "......"
Her "You'd raise his baby while I get to have all the fun"
Then she had a massive orgasm and said "see, what do I even need you for" She let me slide in but I was so hard and horny I could hardly fuck her. I kept pumping and stopping, she was laughing at me and told me to just do it already. I came hard but it was honesty a pathetic fuck for her. Good thing she has her toys and our fantasy.
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Looking forward to more!
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Re: she has feelings?
What does "....." mean?shesmypornstar wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 9:10 am
Her "You'd love it if he put a baby in me"
Me "......"
Her "You'd raise his baby while I get to have all the fun"
No? Fuck, yeah? Just what did you say to her? And if nothing, what was her reaction to your implied consent?
Goddamn! She's threatening you with the ULTIMATE cuckold outcome! "You'd love it", she said!!! And you would, too, right??
Ain't it grand knowing your wife considers you worthless in bed (like me)? It makes jacking off to your sexual incapabilities so much better! Even if you'd had great success with other women (like me), knowing the woman who married you thinks your cock is useless...that's yummy!I came hard but it was honesty a pathetic fuck for her. Good thing she has her toys and our fantasy.
I really relate to your thread here. You seem to really want your wife to leave you for what you know is a better man...but still keep you In her life.
Your situation seems SO out of YOUR control...and 'ZOUNDS! That's so exciting!
She could be vanilla for the rest of your (disappointed) life; she could make you her cuckold; she could make you a father to HIS baby; she could divorce you for him...and there's both little you can do to prevent it, and, I believe, little you WANT to do to prevent it.
It seems like she's already a little bit in love with him. Me? I hope so! For her sake, it makes cucking you all the better. And for you, losing some (or all!) of her heart to a better man is so fulfilling!
This is my favorite thread to jack off to...
Troilus
P.S. PM me if you'd like to chat...I'd love it!
Troilus
Re: she has feelings?
Would love to hear of any more conversations you have had on this subject!At this point I'm beyond turned on and I can tell that she is too. I've also come to the conclusion that I love the idea of her and him way more than I dislike it, and that I should accept any feelings of regret or second thoughts because they're very temporary and I always return to wanting her to do it. So, after telling me that she'd want to get separated to fuck him I said "Ok, i like the idea I think you should do it" She immediately climbs on top of me, absolutely soaking wet, and we both cum within 45 seconds.
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Me, too! But any update would welcome.hwc wrote: ↑Sat May 13, 2023 7:47 pmWould love to hear of any more conversations you have had on this subject!At this point I'm beyond turned on and I can tell that she is too. I've also come to the conclusion that I love the idea of her and him way more than I dislike it, and that I should accept any feelings of regret or second thoughts because they're very temporary and I always return to wanting her to do it. So, after telling me that she'd want to get separated to fuck him I said "Ok, i like the idea I think you should do it" She immediately climbs on top of me, absolutely soaking wet, and we both cum within 45 seconds.
Also, regrets and second thoughts are absolutely common BEFORE you take (she takes, really) the plunge. And ESPECIALLY post-coital second thoughts.
But after she did it a time or two, I KNEW other men deserved Cressida's pussy more than I did, and was happy I encouraged her to cuck me.
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Re: she has feelings?
Have you nvited hm over for dinner or drinks or whatever? No overt sexual agenda, but just to hang out and get more comfortable together?
She could wear something slightly sexier than usual, while still maintaining deniability.
After he leaves, you’ll both be so turned on and fuck like animals.
The route to success here is to take small steps, not to hope that an affair will start from nothing. They have to have lots of opportunities to spend time together.
She could wear something slightly sexier than usual, while still maintaining deniability.
After he leaves, you’ll both be so turned on and fuck like animals.
The route to success here is to take small steps, not to hope that an affair will start from nothing. They have to have lots of opportunities to spend time together.
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Any more conversations on this? Or any more progress to report?At this point I'm beyond turned on and I can tell that she is too. I've also come to the conclusion that I love the idea of her and him way more than I dislike it, and that I should accept any feelings of regret or second thoughts because they're very temporary and I always return to wanting her to do it. So, after telling me that she'd want to get separated to fuck him I said "Ok, i like the idea I think you should do it"
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“Anyhow, when she finally makes up her mind that shes 100% in, 100% going to make a move and 100% going to act on her desires no-matter how I feel about it, shes going to initiate some kind of sex with me (could be sex, could be a bj or even just a handy) and once we're into it she's going to tell me "this will be the last time you get to cum until I make you my cuck" then once I've cum shes going to lock me in a cage with no escape until shes fucked him. That could be hours, days, weeks or even months for that matter, but once shes made up her mind shes agreed to give me one final cum before locking me up so that she can get a new cock. “
That is an incredibly hot way to find out. That along with the separation story fits in nicely with a scenario I was going to suggest:
After you cum and she locks you up, she should lock the chastity cage keys along with her wedding band in a small lockbox. (Or both the band and engagement ring if you want everybody in the neighborhood to know. But a missing wedding band is less likely to be noticed, and can easily be explained by saying it’s getting resized.)
Then she should ask the neighbor to do her a personal favor as a trusted friend and hold onto the lockbox for at least one month even if she asks for it sooner. He will be curious about it. So she could tell him that the two of you are privately doing a trial separation and the box contains a specific symbol of your marriage. You both agreed as long as the symbol is locked away, the two of you will live as if you were unencumbered single individuals. You only living together for the sake of the children during the separation.
She can explain that that you both agreed a minimum of one full month was needed for the trial, and at some point she would retrieve the lockbox and you two would reassess your marital status.
Her reason for having him hold the lockbox – she wanted to avoid any temptation of opening the box and ending the trial before the end of the minimum one-month.
Who knows he may make a pass at her right away since she is living as a single or he may wait and ask her out over the next couple weeks. But it’s definitely likely that during that month you will become a cuck.
That is an incredibly hot way to find out. That along with the separation story fits in nicely with a scenario I was going to suggest:
After you cum and she locks you up, she should lock the chastity cage keys along with her wedding band in a small lockbox. (Or both the band and engagement ring if you want everybody in the neighborhood to know. But a missing wedding band is less likely to be noticed, and can easily be explained by saying it’s getting resized.)
Then she should ask the neighbor to do her a personal favor as a trusted friend and hold onto the lockbox for at least one month even if she asks for it sooner. He will be curious about it. So she could tell him that the two of you are privately doing a trial separation and the box contains a specific symbol of your marriage. You both agreed as long as the symbol is locked away, the two of you will live as if you were unencumbered single individuals. You only living together for the sake of the children during the separation.
She can explain that that you both agreed a minimum of one full month was needed for the trial, and at some point she would retrieve the lockbox and you two would reassess your marital status.
Her reason for having him hold the lockbox – she wanted to avoid any temptation of opening the box and ending the trial before the end of the minimum one-month.
Who knows he may make a pass at her right away since she is living as a single or he may wait and ask her out over the next couple weeks. But it’s definitely likely that during that month you will become a cuck.
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see contribution 27-06-2023
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Early in 2023, all my settings disappeared.
To read (and view) my contributions advanced search for author "dinoo".
We visited frequently a club. (www.kasteelwaterloo.nl)
It became "our" club.
To read (and view) my contributions advanced search for author "dinoo".
We visited frequently a club. (www.kasteelwaterloo.nl)
It became "our" club.
Re: she has feelings?
Been a while, doing OK shesmypornstar? Thought by now we would of got a drop of how your wife changed the way she dressed this summer, if the neighbor had noticed, or if you have just kept in to teasing in your bedroom. Hope everything is going well for you and your family.
Re: she has feelings?
Hi, shesmypornstar, hope everythings ok and it would be great to catch up on what's been going on, if you have the time to post!
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Re: she has feelings?
Hey everyone, sorry for being MIA for so long. A big part of my absence was in an effort to better myself, just change up some habits, and create some separation between myself and the idea of becoming a cuck, which as we all know can be a thought we're easily consumed by. I wish I had the big update you've all been waiting for, but it seems to be more of the same. Still very fun at times, and seems to be progressing in the right direction. So off the top of my head here are a few things that have happened since I've been away.
Her birthday was a couple months back and we had some people over around that time, not for her birthday but just as a small get together. Anyway, we were discussing who was and was not coming over when she said to me, "Oh and the neighbor said hes coming too, go check your phone" The thing is, I had planned on inviting him, but she went and did it herself from my phone. Later that night or the next day she said "it was my birthday, I needed to make sure i got what I wanted, I just didn't want to invite him myself" That of course was extremely hot and we played off that for a while. She has since started texting him directly for future invites.
We kinda had a dry spell for a while, not in regard to cucking or him, just in general. We weren't too into each other sexually which is ok and happens at times. Almost anything we did do during that time involved talk or thoughts of him in one way or another.
A couple weeks back we had a date night and she got all dressed up for me. TBH she looked really hot but when she asked me what I thought I told her it was a good look but didn't play into it too much with my initial response. She took that as a chance to tell me "well if he saw me right now I know he'd tell me I looked great" That I know is true and brings me two of the more interesting interactions between the 3 of us since I was last here.
The three of us were talking about a person (girl) we saw out at an event. I mentioned that I took notice of some of her more appealing physical features to which he quickly responded by looking at my wife and commenting that he hadn't noticed the person I was talking about. Then more recently her and I were out and we happened to run into him. He said hi to both of us as we approached him and I had a response meant to initiate a quick response from him. However, I noticed that he "ignored" my comment for about 5-6 seconds as he eyed my wife up and down before finally turning and responding to me.
I say that to say this. She has told me a few times that they have sexual tension between the 2 of them. Last week I asked her if she legit thought there was tension, or if it was something she may be imagining. Her response was "100%" so I responded by telling her that I noticed him checking her out while he ignored me a few weeks back. She responded by saying "Keep watching"
She then told me that she had a chance to tell him we were separating but she missed the opportunity because it was unexpected. She asked me to invite him over, as I have a few times this summer, but not to be a dumbass like I have all summer and find a reason to leave for a few minute so she could have some time with him, then she'd tell him. In reality if I had to leave the situation while he was over I can't imagine it'd be for any more than 10-20 minutes so I asked her if she'd really be able to talk about something that serious in such a short window. To that shes not sure and our conversation went like this
Me: I'm ok with you telling him we're doing a trial separation but i think we need to talk out some ground rules
Her: I make the rules
Her: i tell you when i want
Her: I tell you what I want
Her: I do what I want
Her: Sit back and relax
Me: well we need to determine how long this "trial" is. What are you going to tell him?
Her: Good question
Her: But it will be as long as I need
Me: How long do you think he'll date you with us still living together
Her: He won't date me, but we'll talk and hang out a lot more
Me: Like fwbs?
Her:Yes
Her: But theres no backing out for you
Me: I know
Her: Once I say this to him its on
Me: Maybe if you want to ensure that I don't back out, you should condition me for this
Me: Like if we're messing around and I cum, don't just stop the talk and the teasing just because I came and I'm over it now. IRL I might get off but you're still going to see him again anyway even if I'm not horny and into the idea anymore
Her: Good point
We were driving the other day and the new Selena Gomez song came on. I think its called "I'll be single soon" She made sure to tell me multiple times thats her new favorite song and that she can't wait to be single soon.
The last 2 things from me on this incredibly long update. We played a little sexual game last week and she had a surprise for me if I completed my challenge. I failed and didn't get the surprise, but I do know she has some kind of sexual surprise for me and she wants it to happen organically. Last, I've noticed that I can hardly hold off from cumming when we have sex now. I used to be able to go for quite a while to get myself there. For a while I couldn't cum unless we were talking dirty. Then for a while she could ride me and I"d have no issues holding back and I'd finish myself when I flipped her over and took control. Now in the past month or so I'm finding I can't keep the thoughts out of my head and I can barely make it 2 minutes before losing myself in her even if shes the one on top. Looks like shes making progress towards becoming a cuckoldress, while I"m making progress towards becoming a weak dicked husband who can't keep from cuming immediately.
Her birthday was a couple months back and we had some people over around that time, not for her birthday but just as a small get together. Anyway, we were discussing who was and was not coming over when she said to me, "Oh and the neighbor said hes coming too, go check your phone" The thing is, I had planned on inviting him, but she went and did it herself from my phone. Later that night or the next day she said "it was my birthday, I needed to make sure i got what I wanted, I just didn't want to invite him myself" That of course was extremely hot and we played off that for a while. She has since started texting him directly for future invites.
We kinda had a dry spell for a while, not in regard to cucking or him, just in general. We weren't too into each other sexually which is ok and happens at times. Almost anything we did do during that time involved talk or thoughts of him in one way or another.
A couple weeks back we had a date night and she got all dressed up for me. TBH she looked really hot but when she asked me what I thought I told her it was a good look but didn't play into it too much with my initial response. She took that as a chance to tell me "well if he saw me right now I know he'd tell me I looked great" That I know is true and brings me two of the more interesting interactions between the 3 of us since I was last here.
The three of us were talking about a person (girl) we saw out at an event. I mentioned that I took notice of some of her more appealing physical features to which he quickly responded by looking at my wife and commenting that he hadn't noticed the person I was talking about. Then more recently her and I were out and we happened to run into him. He said hi to both of us as we approached him and I had a response meant to initiate a quick response from him. However, I noticed that he "ignored" my comment for about 5-6 seconds as he eyed my wife up and down before finally turning and responding to me.
I say that to say this. She has told me a few times that they have sexual tension between the 2 of them. Last week I asked her if she legit thought there was tension, or if it was something she may be imagining. Her response was "100%" so I responded by telling her that I noticed him checking her out while he ignored me a few weeks back. She responded by saying "Keep watching"
She then told me that she had a chance to tell him we were separating but she missed the opportunity because it was unexpected. She asked me to invite him over, as I have a few times this summer, but not to be a dumbass like I have all summer and find a reason to leave for a few minute so she could have some time with him, then she'd tell him. In reality if I had to leave the situation while he was over I can't imagine it'd be for any more than 10-20 minutes so I asked her if she'd really be able to talk about something that serious in such a short window. To that shes not sure and our conversation went like this
Me: I'm ok with you telling him we're doing a trial separation but i think we need to talk out some ground rules
Her: I make the rules
Her: i tell you when i want
Her: I tell you what I want
Her: I do what I want
Her: Sit back and relax
Me: well we need to determine how long this "trial" is. What are you going to tell him?
Her: Good question
Her: But it will be as long as I need
Me: How long do you think he'll date you with us still living together
Her: He won't date me, but we'll talk and hang out a lot more
Me: Like fwbs?
Her:Yes
Her: But theres no backing out for you
Me: I know
Her: Once I say this to him its on
Me: Maybe if you want to ensure that I don't back out, you should condition me for this
Me: Like if we're messing around and I cum, don't just stop the talk and the teasing just because I came and I'm over it now. IRL I might get off but you're still going to see him again anyway even if I'm not horny and into the idea anymore
Her: Good point
We were driving the other day and the new Selena Gomez song came on. I think its called "I'll be single soon" She made sure to tell me multiple times thats her new favorite song and that she can't wait to be single soon.
The last 2 things from me on this incredibly long update. We played a little sexual game last week and she had a surprise for me if I completed my challenge. I failed and didn't get the surprise, but I do know she has some kind of sexual surprise for me and she wants it to happen organically. Last, I've noticed that I can hardly hold off from cumming when we have sex now. I used to be able to go for quite a while to get myself there. For a while I couldn't cum unless we were talking dirty. Then for a while she could ride me and I"d have no issues holding back and I'd finish myself when I flipped her over and took control. Now in the past month or so I'm finding I can't keep the thoughts out of my head and I can barely make it 2 minutes before losing myself in her even if shes the one on top. Looks like shes making progress towards becoming a cuckoldress, while I"m making progress towards becoming a weak dicked husband who can't keep from cuming immediately.
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Re: she has feelings?
SMPS - Just wondering if you should go this route what will any of you say to any other neighbours you might be friendly with, when they see your wife 'around' with this fellow. If you are going to play this like a real 'separation' then they should be able to freely go on vanilla dates too.shesmypornstar wrote: ↑Mon Sep 18, 2023 1:49 pmHey everyone, sorry for being MIA for so long. A big part of my absence was in an effort to better myself, just change up some habits, and create some separation between myself and the idea of becoming a cuck, which as we all know can be a thought we're easily consumed by. I wish I had the big update you've all been waiting for, but it seems to be more of the same. Still very fun at times, and seems to be progressing in the right direction. So off the top of my head here are a few things that have happened since I've been away.
Her birthday was a couple months back and we had some people over around that time, not for her birthday but just as a small get together. Anyway, we were discussing who was and was not coming over when she said to me, "Oh and the neighbor said hes coming too, go check your phone" The thing is, I had planned on inviting him, but she went and did it herself from my phone. Later that night or the next day she said "it was my birthday, I needed to make sure i got what I wanted, I just didn't want to invite him myself" That of course was extremely hot and we played off that for a while. She has since started texting him directly for future invites.
We kinda had a dry spell for a while, not in regard to cucking or him, just in general. We weren't too into each other sexually which is ok and happens at times. Almost anything we did do during that time involved talk or thoughts of him in one way or another.
A couple weeks back we had a date night and she got all dressed up for me. TBH she looked really hot but when she asked me what I thought I told her it was a good look but didn't play into it too much with my initial response. She took that as a chance to tell me "well if he saw me right now I know he'd tell me I looked great" That I know is true and brings me two of the more interesting interactions between the 3 of us since I was last here.
The three of us were talking about a person (girl) we saw out at an event. I mentioned that I took notice of some of her more appealing physical features to which he quickly responded by looking at my wife and commenting that he hadn't noticed the person I was talking about. Then more recently her and I were out and we happened to run into him. He said hi to both of us as we approached him and I had a response meant to initiate a quick response from him. However, I noticed that he "ignored" my comment for about 5-6 seconds as he eyed my wife up and down before finally turning and responding to me.
I say that to say this. She has told me a few times that they have sexual tension between the 2 of them. Last week I asked her if she legit thought there was tension, or if it was something she may be imagining. Her response was "100%" so I responded by telling her that I noticed him checking her out while he ignored me a few weeks back. She responded by saying "Keep watching"
She then told me that she had a chance to tell him we were separating but she missed the opportunity because it was unexpected. She asked me to invite him over, as I have a few times this summer, but not to be a dumbass like I have all summer and find a reason to leave for a few minute so she could have some time with him, then she'd tell him. In reality if I had to leave the situation while he was over I can't imagine it'd be for any more than 10-20 minutes so I asked her if she'd really be able to talk about something that serious in such a short window. To that shes not sure and our conversation went like this
Me: I'm ok with you telling him we're doing a trial separation but i think we need to talk out some ground rules
Her: I make the rules
Her: i tell you when i want
Her: I tell you what I want
Her: I do what I want
Her: Sit back and relax
Me: well we need to determine how long this "trial" is. What are you going to tell him?
Her: Good question
Her: But it will be as long as I need
Me: How long do you think he'll date you with us still living together
Her: He won't date me, but we'll talk and hang out a lot more
Me: Like fwbs?
Her:Yes
Her: But theres no backing out for you
Me: I know
Her: Once I say this to him its on
Me: Maybe if you want to ensure that I don't back out, you should condition me for this
Me: Like if we're messing around and I cum, don't just stop the talk and the teasing just because I came and I'm over it now. IRL I might get off but you're still going to see him again anyway even if I'm not horny and into the idea anymore
Her: Good point
We were driving the other day and the new Selena Gomez song came on. I think its called "I'll be single soon" She made sure to tell me multiple times thats her new favorite song and that she can't wait to be single soon.
The last 2 things from me on this incredibly long update. We played a little sexual game last week and she had a surprise for me if I completed my challenge. I failed and didn't get the surprise, but I do know she has some kind of sexual surprise for me and she wants it to happen organically. Last, I've noticed that I can hardly hold off from cumming when we have sex now. I used to be able to go for quite a while to get myself there. For a while I couldn't cum unless we were talking dirty. Then for a while she could ride me and I"d have no issues holding back and I'd finish myself when I flipped her over and took control. Now in the past month or so I'm finding I can't keep the thoughts out of my head and I can barely make it 2 minutes before losing myself in her even if shes the one on top. Looks like shes making progress towards becoming a cuckoldress, while I"m making progress towards becoming a weak dicked husband who can't keep from cuming immediately.
Re: she has feelings?
Glad to hear things are well; was worried you got what you wanted and things went very poorly. Please drop a line at least once a month to tell us it has not become a dumpster fire and the two of you split up, for real. I’m sure I am not the only reader to have become invested in your saga.
So if this “separation” does happen, will you be totally cut of from intimacy?
So if this “separation” does happen, will you be totally cut of from intimacy?
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Re: she has feelings?
I'll definitely be sure to check in if I happen to take a bit of a break in the future. I appreciate those who have followed our adventure and care how this plays out.
In terms of the separation, I think the "trial separation" is being approached as a secretive thing we're dong and shes just deciding to confide in him to see where it goes. They're 100% able to go out on vanilla dates in public if they'd like to, and we have quite a few options within a short drive for them to get out without too much concern of being seen.
In terms of intimacy I've made it known that I'd like to be caged and cut off from her with my only sexual release from her being HJs or her making me jerk off in front of her. I've said that multiple times over the year, who knows if she'll remember it.
My honest guess is it'll go something like this....the first time she tells me about any sexual play between them we'll fuck like crazy. After that I think she'll take the approach of cutting me off completely, but will give in for the first few weeks when I'm begging or asking her to stop. After I settle in a bit I honestly do think she'll completely cut me off, cage me, and at most give me 1 weekly release with plenty of details.
At some point I think she'll turn a corner and make me go down on her to clean up her cum filled pussy, which will lead to another intense fuck. After we cross that line though I think its back to the cage and cleanup duty whenever she wants. The hardest part of all this is that at some point I do think she begins to limit when and what she tells me, leaving me caged and wondering whats going on, playing with me less and playing with him more, but still making sure to tease me with less and less of pleasing me.
In terms of the separation, I think the "trial separation" is being approached as a secretive thing we're dong and shes just deciding to confide in him to see where it goes. They're 100% able to go out on vanilla dates in public if they'd like to, and we have quite a few options within a short drive for them to get out without too much concern of being seen.
In terms of intimacy I've made it known that I'd like to be caged and cut off from her with my only sexual release from her being HJs or her making me jerk off in front of her. I've said that multiple times over the year, who knows if she'll remember it.
My honest guess is it'll go something like this....the first time she tells me about any sexual play between them we'll fuck like crazy. After that I think she'll take the approach of cutting me off completely, but will give in for the first few weeks when I'm begging or asking her to stop. After I settle in a bit I honestly do think she'll completely cut me off, cage me, and at most give me 1 weekly release with plenty of details.
At some point I think she'll turn a corner and make me go down on her to clean up her cum filled pussy, which will lead to another intense fuck. After we cross that line though I think its back to the cage and cleanup duty whenever she wants. The hardest part of all this is that at some point I do think she begins to limit when and what she tells me, leaving me caged and wondering whats going on, playing with me less and playing with him more, but still making sure to tease me with less and less of pleasing me.
Re: she has feelings?
I find this very hot, very scary. My worry is that because of the deception, you are taking a risk with his emotions and being unfair to him. He could legitimately fall in love with your wife. She could fall in love with him. She may choose to leave you. Are you prepared for this?
Logically, if you’re seperated, then she should not have any intimate relationship with you.
Do you have kids?
Logically, if you’re seperated, then she should not have any intimate relationship with you.
Do you have kids?
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Guhunkadorn
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Re: she has feelings?
Good to hear from you and that your marriage is not up in flames.......yet.
Sounds to me like you could easily make this happen. He's invited over and after a while you excuse yourself to make 'a call'. You return and after a bit she leaves to 'check on dinner'. While she's doing that you stay quiet and wait for him to mention how sorry he is to find out your separated but glad that, according to her, it's very amicable. You affirm that it is but that yeah, it's a bit different basically being single though still living under the same roof.
At that point you two have made your move and the rest will be up to him. Within a few weeks something will either happen or not.
It's a dangerous and scary course of action and you need to be sure.
Slight change of subject but I'm a bit surprised he hasn't found a girlfriend. He owns a home, works and seems independent and capable. Decent guys like that can normally find dates pretty easily. Maybe he's holding out for your wife? ( based on the sexual tension he's perceiving )
Thanks for touching base and good luck.
Sounds to me like you could easily make this happen. He's invited over and after a while you excuse yourself to make 'a call'. You return and after a bit she leaves to 'check on dinner'. While she's doing that you stay quiet and wait for him to mention how sorry he is to find out your separated but glad that, according to her, it's very amicable. You affirm that it is but that yeah, it's a bit different basically being single though still living under the same roof.
At that point you two have made your move and the rest will be up to him. Within a few weeks something will either happen or not.
It's a dangerous and scary course of action and you need to be sure.
Slight change of subject but I'm a bit surprised he hasn't found a girlfriend. He owns a home, works and seems independent and capable. Decent guys like that can normally find dates pretty easily. Maybe he's holding out for your wife? ( based on the sexual tension he's perceiving )
Thanks for touching base and good luck.
Re: she has feelings?
Well,shesmypornstar wrote: ↑Mon Sep 18, 2023 5:15 pm......
My honest guess is it'll go something like this....the first time she tells me about any sexual play between them we'll fuck like crazy. After that I think she'll take the approach of cutting me off completely, but will give in for the first few weeks when I'm begging or asking her to stop. After I settle in a bit I honestly do think she'll completely cut me off, cage me, and at most give me 1 weekly release with plenty of details.
At some point I think she'll turn a corner and make me go down on her to clean up her cum filled pussy, which will lead to another intense fuck. After we cross that line though I think its back to the cage and cleanup duty whenever she wants. The hardest part of all this is that at some point I do think she begins to limit when and what she tells me, leaving me caged and wondering whats going on, playing with me less and playing with him more, but still making sure to tease me with less and less of pleasing me.
That is what you think,
But didn't your Cuckoldress in the making tell you She would make the rules?
I think it will be much more interesting for you as well that way...
Good luck,
can't wait to hear where this is going
Sincerely
elina
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shesmypornstar
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Re: she has feelings?
A trial separation, whether real or not, is just that, a trial. If he's guarded or has concerns then I doubt he'll make any moves until getting a signal that the trial separation has become a true separation or that we're getting divorced. And as everyone here knows, thats a signal he won't get considering the "separation" is just a cover for her to have some fun.
On the flip side, if he's less guarded or really really interested at making the most out of the opportunity, well then I guess everyone's feelings are at risk. But just as I know that I could be at risk of losing her, hes smart enough to know that we could end the trial separation by making the decision to stay together.
I think we all understand the risks we're taking, what we don't fully understand is how the odds may be staked for or against us. If his leap of faith is testing the waters with a woman he thinks is in the middle of a trial separation from her husband, he understands the risk but doesn't understand that odds of the trial separation ending in his favor are stacked against him. On my end though, I understand the risk of opening my marriage to a 3rd party. I even think the odds are stacked in my favor and that I won't lose my wife to a neighbor shes having some fun with. What I don't know, or any of you truly know is how things will change once a spouse begins to have sex with another man, or if shes even fully being honest about her interests in the other person going into the entire thing.
Yes kids are involved and that makes the stakes even higher. Two things that shes always told me about our possible venture into cuckolding are this...
1) If I'm happy and having sex with another man, I don't know why I'd need you anymore
2) I'd never do anything to break up our family.
If the truth falls somewhere in the middle I'd have to believe she stays true to the idea of not breaking up our family. So if thats the case, at worst I end up a married family man who has a wife that has no use for me sexually because her needs are met outside our marriage. That kinda sounds like a classic cuckold situation to me.
Last note, he has had a couple girlfriends since we've known him but its been kind of an "on again off again" type of thing. In the beginning it was very much on, more recently very much off, and in the middle it just depended on the day. The interesting thing though is we've never met the girlfriends, yet my wife has found them and has kept some tabs on them via social media. Lets just say shes a little happier whenever hes single.
On the flip side, if he's less guarded or really really interested at making the most out of the opportunity, well then I guess everyone's feelings are at risk. But just as I know that I could be at risk of losing her, hes smart enough to know that we could end the trial separation by making the decision to stay together.
I think we all understand the risks we're taking, what we don't fully understand is how the odds may be staked for or against us. If his leap of faith is testing the waters with a woman he thinks is in the middle of a trial separation from her husband, he understands the risk but doesn't understand that odds of the trial separation ending in his favor are stacked against him. On my end though, I understand the risk of opening my marriage to a 3rd party. I even think the odds are stacked in my favor and that I won't lose my wife to a neighbor shes having some fun with. What I don't know, or any of you truly know is how things will change once a spouse begins to have sex with another man, or if shes even fully being honest about her interests in the other person going into the entire thing.
Yes kids are involved and that makes the stakes even higher. Two things that shes always told me about our possible venture into cuckolding are this...
1) If I'm happy and having sex with another man, I don't know why I'd need you anymore
2) I'd never do anything to break up our family.
If the truth falls somewhere in the middle I'd have to believe she stays true to the idea of not breaking up our family. So if thats the case, at worst I end up a married family man who has a wife that has no use for me sexually because her needs are met outside our marriage. That kinda sounds like a classic cuckold situation to me.
Last note, he has had a couple girlfriends since we've known him but its been kind of an "on again off again" type of thing. In the beginning it was very much on, more recently very much off, and in the middle it just depended on the day. The interesting thing though is we've never met the girlfriends, yet my wife has found them and has kept some tabs on them via social media. Lets just say shes a little happier whenever hes single.
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Guhunkadorn
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Re: she has feelings?
Thinking more on this I think you need to drop the word 'separation' all together....too much negativity between it, and your marriage. Overall bad karma.
Maybe you two should, in the light of day, approach your neighbor, admit her attraction to him and your openness to the two of them having a quiet FWB relationship. Emphasize to him that you love your wife and family, but don't want to stand in the way of her following through on the feelings of excitement she experiences when she's around him, and which you both suspect he feels towards her. Admit also that the thought of them in said relationship excites you as well in spite of how kinky that may sound.
Emphasize that if nothing comes of this, no reciprocity on his part, there will be zero hard feelings and your neighborly relationship can continue on it's platonic course.
Just a thought and I'm not a pro at this I just don't feel good about the 'S' word being bandied about between you two.
Maybe you two should, in the light of day, approach your neighbor, admit her attraction to him and your openness to the two of them having a quiet FWB relationship. Emphasize to him that you love your wife and family, but don't want to stand in the way of her following through on the feelings of excitement she experiences when she's around him, and which you both suspect he feels towards her. Admit also that the thought of them in said relationship excites you as well in spite of how kinky that may sound.
Emphasize that if nothing comes of this, no reciprocity on his part, there will be zero hard feelings and your neighborly relationship can continue on it's platonic course.
Just a thought and I'm not a pro at this I just don't feel good about the 'S' word being bandied about between you two.