Our non-Story (yet)

[Des 31]

From all you have posted, I think it's time you begin encouraging her to take the plunge. You were already ahead of where I was when I first began encouraging my wife to sleep with other men. It took me about a year before she could agree.

My suggestion is that you simply tell her you would find it exciting if another man and she get together. Judging from what has happened so far, I think she's ready to consider it - and perhaps to act on it very soon with your permission.

[hamadasamada88]

Welcome to the forum hamadasamada88.

Thank you so much!

[Johng1953]

Any updates? Seemed like your wife was slowly starting to get excited about other men flirting with her

I would think he's fed up with having his parenting challenged!

[subbieCuck]

Hi guys, I am still optimistic about becoming a cuckold. The last few weeks, my wife tells me all the time about a handsome new colleague of hers, he shows me his facebook, his abs and jokes much .Too much. Of course I am full supportive. Even if nothing happens with him, she is getting in the mood of hotwifing. Also she dyed her hair red and I she is now super-sexy. I am keep telling her that.

But my latest ...hm lets say innovation, is I am writing a "novel". 16 pages. It is a crime, novel but the main character is a Hotwife. She loves mystery movies so... The story is: A hotwife goes vacation with her lover and cuckold husband at an isolated hotel up in the mountains. Someone gets killed and she finds the killer through her deductive thinking. Meanwhile I describe two sex scenes (mildly, not with pornographic imaginary) and the fine relations between the three of them. I will send the pdf to her tonight, hopefully she will read it and get hot and come closer to saying the big YES.

Wish me luck!

[subbieCuck]

Not much luck. She did read my small story and found it amusing, but no, she doesnt want to cuckold me- and that is ok by me.

[brutay2]

Hi subbiecuck

What worked for me was waiting for kids to get to sleep and then putting them back in their own beds

Thanks for the tip. This actually is within our plans but our little one drops its pacifier too often and wakes. So we need to be close to place the pacifier back to her mouth. Also, with the older one, sometimes she wakes when we leave and come to bed to sleep with us. She nearly caught us having sex once or twice. there is nothing long in letting the children see you two making love. simply explain the best way you can about love and act like this is common occurrence

[subbieCuck]

Hi subbiecuck

What worked for me was waiting for kids to get to sleep and then putting them back in their own beds

Thanks for the tip. This actually is within our plans but our little one drops its pacifier too often and wakes. So we need to be close to place the pacifier back to her mouth. Also, with the older one, sometimes she wakes when we leave and come to bed to sleep with us. She nearly caught us having sex once or twice. there is nothing long in letting the children see you two making love. simply explain the best way you can about love and act like this is common occurrence

It is a matter of privacy, plus I am not for exposing kids to sexual scenes. What are your thoughts? Do you follow your own suggestions?

[brutay2]

Of course I do. I am only telling you that if by chance some curious young ones happen to see the grown ups , then do not act like the sky has fallen. Explain the best way you can. without alarming them because the alarm may do more damage than the action

[subbieCuck]

I am only telling you that if by chance some curious young ones happen to see the grown ups , then do not act like the sky has fallen. Explain the best way you can. without alarming them because the alarm may do more damage than the action

Sounds prudent. Yes, thanks for the advice.

[subbieCuck]

My dear diary,

We had a discussion a couple of days ago. My wife told me she had minimal sex drive.

My parents came for a visit, so we had a chance to go out together. We chose a nice bar. We had a discussion about various subjects, in a good mood. Then we discussed our sex lives. We agreed we were a little sad we rarely have sex any more. Then I asked her if my cuckold fetish is making her feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. She gave a negative reply. I explained once more why I want her to cuckold me- it is for the thrill and excitement I get when she is happy. Also I want my wife to experience life to the maximum and having sex with only one man, might not be sufficient. I also told her I am into humiliation, I kind of like it. She told me she knew.

Then she told me she felt she didnt have significant sex drive, so no real motivation to do it. Firstly, having sex without emotions is not something she likes. Then, she does not desire sex any more. Not even with me- but when I do the first steps, she willingly joins. But until the moment I make the first steps, she has no desire at all.

I feel this is because she has gained some weight after our second child. Also sleep deprivation and lack of exercise, may contribute.

On one hand I am happy and optimistic since my beloved wife didnt mentioned any moral inhibitions. On the other hand, something much more serious might be underlying.

She started having some moderate exercise but not to much. She is going to hit the gym next week. I hope it will help her in the long term. To lose weight and feel better. Cuckolding me is not that significant. Her mental wellbeing is much more important.

[Charles1970]

Small steps… slow movement. You will get there! Well done about the conversation!

[subbieCuck]

Dear diary,

It 's been almost a month now my wife started going to the gym. Actually it is a mini-gym and pilates and some other cardio courses. It is 40 minutes per day, every day except weekend. I couldnt even imagine the benefits.
*Her libido is up
*She feels much better, body and mind
*She has learnt how to spread her legs so I can do oral and rimming much easier.
*Other women wearing sexy outfits, have been teaching her by example to update her lingeries with tanga and brazilian strings.
*A personal trainer might be flirting her, and she likes it. She was talking to me about him, and I noticed a smile. Unconscious smile, while talking about him, is a great sign.

Let's see how will this evolve. My hopes are up, again.

[subbieCuck]

While we were having sex she closed her eyes, and turned her head away from me. After a while I asked her what is she thinking. She answered she was thinking of the gym instructor, his green eyes and his masculine voice. Oh my god. I nearly exploited. I was enthusiastic about it. Maybe we are moving forward. Time will tell.

[Kai_Ryan971]

Hey, please share your update. I hope you've been cuckolded or on the journey to become one

[subbieCuck]

Hey, please share your update. I hope you've been cuckolded or on the journey to become one

Hi Ryan, thanks for your interest. Nothing exciting has happened. Daily life consumes our energy.