Re: Pussyfree?
Posted: Wed Aug 04, 2021 3:29 am
I became pussy free about a year and a half after she first cuckolded me. She said I had never satisfied her and that she had decided to restrict intercourse to men who could satisfy her.
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Hey, if it works for them...more power to them.slowsteady wrote: ↑Tue Aug 03, 2021 9:51 pmLawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑Tue Aug 03, 2021 6:37 amIf I ever enter into the this lifestyle, I don't think I could pussy-free....I love being inside a woman too much to ever go in that direction. That would def be a hard limit for me. But hey, it if works for other folks, more power to them....
A lot of guys enter into this lifestyle with your attitude. Then they get hooked and turn their lust toward the thrills of denial. Denial is incredible joy for many into this kink. That is proved by the many, many posts from men and the wives who deny them sharing their intense pleasures of denial!
During covid we went 157 days with no penetration sex from me. Only her toys. She wants to keep trying longer, and hopefully get to the point where we will only do it for birthday, or special occasions. She is also looking at cock cages morrConnecticut_couple wrote: ↑Wed Aug 04, 2021 8:10 amI was looking back at my responses early on in this thread compared to where I am not and I chuckled. Things have surely changed since March. I don't have an end goal of being pussyfree permanently, but not knowing if or how long it will be before I can slide in my wife's pussy is such a turn on. I know most likely I'll be able to slip inside after she's had a session with her bull since she enjoys showing me how stretched out she is. Beyond that, only time will tell. Just enjoying the journey.
Basically reached the same boat. She says that she does enjoy me cumming in her but that the sex is really worthless
That actually sounds like a cool gamewishfulwatcher wrote: ↑Fri Aug 06, 2021 10:10 amHere's a thought I had for becoming pussy free, with or without chastity. I call it Plus 1. Every pussy free time extends by 1 day. Starting at 0, you get pussy today then you get pussy tomorrow. Plus 1 day so you skip a day, then you get pussy. Next is plus 1 more day, skip 2 days. Skip 1 more day, that's 3 days, etc. The first month you will get pussy 7 times. Then next month it will be down to 3 and becoming farther and farther apart to eventually, you will not be allowed inside again. You can mark it out on the calendar and watch your sexlife disappear.
Hope someone enjoys this thought and tries it out.
Never say never! I told my wife for over 20 years I would never suck a cock, even thought it was her biggest fantasy. I sucked my first cock for her about 7 years ago and love doing it for her now.LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑Tue Aug 03, 2021 6:37 amIf I ever enter into the this lifestyle, I don't think I could pussy-free....I love being inside a woman too much to ever go in that direction. That would def be a hard limit for me. But hey, it if works for other folks, more power to them....
Hmmm...I certainly see your point about "never say never".....but that's not just in this lifestyle, that's life in general!desertsub wrote: ↑Mon Aug 09, 2021 7:27 amNever say never! I told my wife for over 20 years I would never suck a cock, even thought it was her biggest fantasy. I sucked my first cock for her about 7 years ago and love doing it for her now.LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote: ↑Tue Aug 03, 2021 6:37 amIf I ever enter into the this lifestyle, I don't think I could pussy-free....I love being inside a woman too much to ever go in that direction. That would def be a hard limit for me. But hey, it if works for other folks, more power to them....
What is beta sex?Loserpaul wrote: ↑Thu Mar 11, 2021 2:50 amI have been pussy free for around three years now. I am only permitted solo beta sex these days. The only direct sexual contact I have had with anyone over the past three years was sucking a couple of cocks. Since lockdown it has been strictly solo beta sex for me. I have come to accept that I will probably remain pussy free permanently. Once lockdown is all over, it is likely I will get to start sucking cocks again once in a while but aside from that my sex life is purely about being denied and relieving myself with beta sex.
Try to be pussyfree for a month. Give it a try. Agree with your wife that you and your wife will stop for a month fucking each other. Of course, your wife fucks others on a regular basis, even more times a day. In the evening, your wife tells how good she was fucking someone else and how good it was for you to know that others would enjoy your wife’s pussy. As your wife tells you how she was fucked during the day, look at her pussy and think that tomorrow will be again someone else to enjoy in your wife’s pussy. Think about how great a man you are to allow your wife to do this, and even encourage her to fuck with others on a regular basis. Think of how exciting it is when your wife’s pussy is grabbed by her lovers, they stretch her legs and they stick their cocks in her pussy. It’s a joy because you know your lover fucks your wife a lot better than you do. After a month, find a reason for not to fuck her for another month. This will be good for your wife sooner or later because she tries more and more cocks and has a better chance of finding someone who fucks her much better than you. If you enjoy this situation, feel free to tell your wife to agree on a longer term. If you can handle it for a year without fucking, you can handle it for any length of time. During all this time, your wife is sure to find someone who fucks much better than you and it is up to her to tell you that she no longer needs your dick. If you’ve enjoyed pussy withdrawal so far, this will be a real catharsis for you.defer2her wrote: ↑Thu Apr 07, 2022 4:37 amMy wife likes that I have a denial fetish. So, she sometimes plays with other couples where the woman doesn't play with other men. That way my wife gets a pussy I can't have.
The other day, we were talking about total denial. I said, "Denial is hot but not something..."
She tried to finish my sentence like she often does, "Something you'd want to do for life."
I replied, "Not that so much as we'd be missing out on the connection."
To my surprise she responded, "Well, I get that connection from other stuff, like sounding you and pegging you."
"Really? You'd be okay with just other men fucking you?" I asked with my penis tenting in my pants.
After a moment, she replied, "I don't know. I don't think I'd want to be celibate with you. At least, not right now."
I often fantasize about being pussyfree. I was for most of my life and I enjoyed the pain and humiliation that went along with that. Don't get me wrong, I love being inside her especially when I give her an orgasm. Yet the idea that I'm sexually inferior to and less deserving of pussy than my male counterparts never fails to arouse me.
Still, I would never consider denying her just to get the denial I crave. Though, this conversation was the first time I've thought there might possibly come a day where she'd enjoy cutting me off. And I don't really know if I truly hope that day will come or not. But my stupid penis certainly does.
WOuld she let you idolize her like to submissively lick her feet or legs while you masturbatin, perhaps as she talks to him on the phone and ignores you?1Pumpndump wrote: ↑Thu Apr 07, 2022 4:12 pmI became Pussy-Free in a natural, low-key manner.
I simply stopped TRYING to fuck her, whereas forever, after foreplay she would let me fuck her missionary or doggy-style, then, before I came, she would jump on top and use me as a fuck toy, having me lay perfectly still(and relaxed muscles) while she would grind herself on top of me to an orgasm. Then I would flip her over and fuck her like I always wanted, Missionary, hard and fast, lasting probably under 60 seconds!
We went on like that for years, but after we started Cuckolding(as in most instances, we went through a series of progressions over time) I started simply not forcing myself, especially if we had her cum using toys, I would make sure she came, and then sure enough, she didn't need to fuck me.
I quickly noticed that if I didn't initiate penetration, it wasn't happening. I would be treated to a Handjob, but that was it, no Blowjobs, no Pussy, I couldn't even eat her Pussy after a while!
The clincher, and this surprised me completely, is she started denying me French Kisses!
It was so frustrating and Humiliating to grovel for tounge kissing, especially since at this exact same time we were just settling in with her long-term lover(once a month, 6 years) who she would never stop talking about how intense and sexy their French-Kisses were!
Eventually, I noticed that we had gone almost a YEAR without me or her initiating any penetration!
Basically, she gets the best fuck of her life, once a month, and doesn't "have" to resort to fucking me(she just goes into the bedroom, locks the door and masturbates thinking about Fred if she needs to, mid-month).
All I get are handjobs, while we watch videos of the two of them!
defer2her wrote: ↑Thu Apr 07, 2022 4:37 amMy wife likes that I have a denial fetish. So, she sometimes plays with other couples where the woman doesn't play with other men. That way my wife gets a pussy I can't have.
The other day, we were talking about total denial. I said, "Denial is hot but not something..."
She tried to finish my sentence like she often does, "Something you'd want to do for life."
I replied, "Not that so much as we'd be missing out on the connection."
To my surprise she responded, "Well, I get that connection from other stuff, like sounding you and pegging you."
"Really? You'd be okay with just other men fucking you?" I asked with my penis tenting in my pants.
After a moment, she replied, "I don't know. I don't think I'd want to be celibate with you. At least, not right now."
I often fantasize about being pussyfree. I was for most of my life and I enjoyed the pain and humiliation that went along with that. Don't get me wrong, I love being inside her especially when I give her an orgasm. Yet the idea that I'm sexually inferior to and less deserving of pussy than my male counterparts never fails to arouse me.
Still, I would never consider denying her just to get the denial I crave. Though, this conversation was the first time I've thought there might possibly come a day where she'd enjoy cutting me off. And I don't really know if I truly hope that day will come or not. But my stupid penis certainly does.
Thank you for the comment, jimi. I enjoyed reading it. There's some things in there I hope come true when she gets back to fucking sexually assertive men on a regular basis.p_jimi wrote: ↑Thu Apr 07, 2022 3:42 pm
Try to be pussyfree for a month. Give it a try. Agree with your wife that you and your wife will stop for a month fucking each other. Of course, your wife fucks others on a regular basis, even more times a day. In the evening, your wife tells how good she was fucking someone else and how good it was for you to know that others would enjoy your wife’s pussy. As your wife tells you how she was fucked during the day, look at her pussy and think that tomorrow will be again someone else to enjoy in your wife’s pussy. Think about how great a man you are to allow your wife to do this, and even encourage her to fuck with others on a regular basis. Think of how exciting it is when your wife’s pussy is grabbed by her lovers, they stretch her legs and they stick their cocks in her pussy. It’s a joy because you know your lover fucks your wife a lot better than you do. After a month, find a reason for not to fuck her for another month. This will be good for your wife sooner or later because she tries more and more cocks and has a better chance of finding someone who fucks her much better than you. If you enjoy this situation, feel free to tell your wife to agree on a longer term. If you can handle it for a year without fucking, you can handle it for any length of time. During all this time, your wife is sure to find someone who fucks much better than you and it is up to her to tell you that she no longer needs your dick. If you’ve enjoyed pussy withdrawal so far, this will be a real catharsis for you.
We've tried the chauffeur scenario with one of her former lovers. It was hot but would definitely be better with a couple especially if anyone were to see him making out with both women.maxbud wrote: ↑Thu Apr 07, 2022 4:50 pm
Hey man .. I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to hear your stories about your wife playing with other couples ; particularly the FMF threesomes where the other man, gets both his wife and yours.; and you get none.
were there ever times you chauffered the trio, and they made out in the back seat of the car w, while you drove?
Or you four go to a strip club, and the women huddle close on either side of the other man, while they order for strippers to give him lapdances, and then your wife makes you pay for his lapdances.
Or the other wife flaunting her sexy body in front of you, while your wife is underneath the stud-husband , moaning as he fucks her slowly... and the other wife verbally teases and mocks you, whilst seducing and arousing you (having you sit and she rubs her cleavage on your face, or whispers into your ear sensually , but you dare not touch her. ? lol
What do you think?