Are most cuckolds homosexuals?

[FL_Cpl_4fun]

I’ve proposed that cuck/cuckquean is a sexual orientation of it’s own, separate from any the the straight or alphabet orientations, but i think it’s never been a topic of discussion in any IRL public forum other than MiauMiauHW having been on a talk show once.

[nevertoolate]

Logically, if the men were homosexuals, their likelihood of being married to a woman would be slim.

[bradisalpha]

Logically, if the men were homosexuals, their likelihood of being married to a woman would be slim.

I agree 100% !!

Which brings it back to being led down a path of submission by an Alpha bf and experiencing the sexual desires that accumulate on his journey. Sure, some may have experimented when they were younger, and some may have had bisexual fantasies, but I cannot believe a man would marry a woman.. and spend years sometimes for her to become a hot wife.. just to suck a cock !!! I have never had a cuckold beg to suck my cock without first being led down that path and approaching it reluctantly.. hell, that is the fun of seduction !!

Of course, they are just my thoughts..

Brad

[Bent_n_Twisted]

I am most definitely not 'homosexual'. I have always liked girls, from the time I knew that girls were 'different' (about five years old). I grew up in a small, semi-rural town, I knew about the birds and the bees...and dogs, cats, horses and cattle,but all I knew was that it was always male + female. Until I was twelve years old I never had a clue that there was anything -but- male + female.

The concept was rudely thrust upon my consciousness when I saw two guys kissing. I was shocked, horrified, disgusted, revolted and confused. I actually felt physically ill and almost puked. Even fifty years later, now that they have started to show that sort of thing on TV, I can't look at it, I have to look away. (Of course, in the epitome of double-standards, I don't feel the same way about chicks, the old joke about 'Queer is fine as long as both chicks are hot.' I recognize that it is incongruent, but...)

However, I -am- 'kinky', and the one kink that encompasses all of the others is that of being -forced- (by one or more strong, attractive women) to participate in a variety of sexual/semi-sexual/fetish activities, activities in which I would not ordinarily participate willingly, and in which I would refuse to participate if given a choice. That includes two activities that most people would consider 'homosexual', but I have less than zero desire for a relationship with another guy, and, in fact, in most cases I abhor the thought of touching another guy, even just to 'shake hands'. I had to quit the HS wrestling team because I found the close contact too revolting. (There was recently an article on the news here locally about a girl on the HS wrestling team- she was hot, and if I could have wrestled chicks like that in HS I would have been all for it.)

So, anyway, there's that thought.

[Cory87]

I am most definitely not 'homosexual'. I have always liked girls, from the time I knew that girls were 'different' (about five years old). I grew up in a small, semi-rural town, I knew about the birds and the bees...and dogs, cats, horses and cattle,but all I knew was that it was always male + female. Until I was twelve years old I never had a clue that there was anything -but- male + female.

The concept was rudely thrust upon my consciousness when I saw two guys kissing. I was shocked, horrified, disgusted, revolted and confused. I actually felt physically ill and almost puked. Even fifty years later, now that they have started to show that sort of thing on TV, I can't look at it, I have to look away. (Of course, in the epitome of double-standards, I don't feel the same way about chicks, the old joke about 'Queer is fine as long as both chicks are hot.' I recognize that it is incongruent, but...)

However, I -am- 'kinky', and the one kink that encompasses all of the others is that of being -forced- (by one or more strong, attractive women) to participate in a variety of sexual/semi-sexual/fetish activities, activities in which I would not ordinarily participate willingly, and in which I would refuse to participate if given a choice. That includes two activities that most people would consider 'homosexual',but I have less than zero desire for a relationship with another guy, and, in fact, in most cases I abhor the thought of touching another guy, even just to 'shake hands'. I had to quit the HS wrestling team because I found the close contact too revolting. (There was recently an article on the news here locally about a girl on the HS wrestling team- she was hot, and if I could have wrestled chicks like that in HS I would have been all for it.)

So, anyway, there's that thought.

Denial-disbelief in the existence or reality of a thing.

I think this is the case with many cuckolds. Engaging in homosexual acts means you are bisexual.

[Cdncuck]

I give presents at Xmas. Don't make me Santa now does it?

[Texas Jack]

I think this is the case with many cuckolds. Engaging in homosexual acts means you are bisexual.

It comes down to the definition of the word "bisexual." If it refers to someone who occasionally engages in homosexual acts even if he is otherwise predominantly heterosexual -- then yes, men who suck cock are necessarily bisexual. But if it refers to those who are physically or emotionally attracted to people of either sex -- then no, sucking cock doesn't make someone bisexual in and of itself.

I tend toward the latter definition. In my opinion a better, more accurate term for men who suck cock in certain specific circumstances but are otherwise not attracted to men is "heteroflexible." It's nothing to do with denial or abhorrence at the word "bisexual." It's just a better, more precise descriptor.

[desertsub]

Over all I'd say no.
But for me my wife just recently had me suck cock and be bred by her bull and not counting how emasculating it is I did enjoy it and would eagerly do it again, even if not in a Cuckolding situation. In fact it was supposed to happen again tonight but her bull JUST cancelled...
Since I'm a cuckold and did & would have sex with a guy again and enjoy it I consider myself Bisexual, as does my wife and we see no problems with me being Bi. Sex is Sex for us and it's only "kinky" the first time...
In the first 21 years of our D/s marriage I never had any Bi feelings, in the last 2 years we've also had a cuckolding marriage and my wife began wanting me to be her cocksucker until finally I submitted a few months ago. Now I'm quite happy to suck cock and be taken by her bulls, and be Bisexual.

You just described our marriage to a T! I was actually homophobic in my younger days and my wife told me right after we got married that one of her biggest fantasies was to see me suck another man's cock. I flatly refused to do so. Several years ago we both agreed that our on again off again female led marriage needed to be taken to the next level with me submitting 24/7/365. I was promptly locked in chastity and shortly after that she made me suck my first cock. I now suck cock whenever told to by her or her bull and my ass is available anytime for either of them.

[slsmike]

Personally speaking, I am not, and I do not partake in MM activities, but I will clean cum from my HW. I will say this though -- many bulls are bisexual.

Prior to becoming a cuck, I was in a stag/vixen relationship for 8 years. I was a dominant guy who had some submissive curiosities. I did a ton a MFM and found most partners to be bi, bi-friendly, or heteroflexible. It was surprising. My GF wasn't into bi men so we maintained 2 SLS profiles, one real, one fake saying we liked bi men. This was done to weed people out, not out anybody! The overlap was astounding.

I also played alone as a bull and have been with several couples. I may have encountered 2 men who enjoyed MM play, but they didn't push it. The rest were all straight.

The general public would think things were opposite, but not based on my experiences.

I have been with my HW now for awhile. Started as Stag/Vixen, but she turned me. I love what we have now.

[PRsubhub]

I now consider myself to be Bisexual but, I don't have any desire to kiss or "cuddle" another man, nor do I have any desire to go out and find a guy for myself to have sex with. However if my Femdom-Cuckoldress decided she wanted to see me do it and ordered me to I would. Currently I'm happy to just suck cock and be taken by one of her bulls for her, IF SHE deems it to happen. I would never think of just jumping in without her order to do so, I guess I'm just "actively" BI when she tells me to be Bi. (odd maybe?) Other than that guys hold no interest for me, when I see a cute couple go by my eyes are always on the woman checking her out not the guy.
Then again... I've only been "Bi" for a few months so I can't say what the future holds for me, will most likely depend on what / who my wife wants me to be.

[JeffS]

How could most cuckolds be homosexuals? The key about cuckoldry (imo) is the angst and jealousy of your female partner being bedded etc by another man. ...and that angst and jealousy isn’t just because of a friendship or deep relationship you have with that woman - it comes with a subversion of your man to woman relationship you had with her prior to the cuckolding.

If cucks we gay, then why would they care? Instead, why wouldn’t they be more invested in stealing from their female partner the new object of their affection? Instead, the traditional path is they tend to assist in the bull/female partner relationship - and get some emotional needs met along the way. If cucks were gay, instead of sitting outside the closed master bedroom door, why don’t they just head off to the nearest gay bar where they would probably be guaranteed a sexual hookup.

I just don’t see how any answer that cucks are gay makes any sense given the cuck dynamics.

[Cory87]

How could most cuckolds be homosexuals? The key about cuckoldry (imo) is the angst and jealousy of your female partner being bedded etc by another man. ...and that angst and jealousy isn’t just because of a friendship or deep relationship you have with that woman - it comes with a subversion of your man to woman relationship you had with her prior to the cuckolding.

If cucks we gay, then why would they care? Instead, why wouldn’t they be more invested in stealing from their female partner the new object of their affection? Instead, the traditional path is they tend to assist in the bull/female partner relationship - and get some emotional needs met along the way. If cucks were gay, instead of sitting outside the closed master bedroom door, why don’t they just head off to the nearest gay bar where they would probably be guaranteed a sexual hookup.

I just don’t see how any answer that cucks are gay makes any sense given the cuck dynamics.

Many cucks like sucking dicks and gobbling the other mans goo. Some of these same cucks like getting fucked in the back door by her boyfriend and wear panties. These are homosexual acts so these cucks are bisexual in nature.

[charingiscaring2020]

How could most cuckolds be homosexuals? The key about cuckoldry (imo) is the angst and jealousy of your female partner being bedded etc by another man. ...and that angst and jealousy isn’t just because of a friendship or deep relationship you have with that woman - it comes with a subversion of your man to woman relationship you had with her prior to the cuckolding.

If cucks we gay, then why would they care? Instead, why wouldn’t they be more invested in stealing from their female partner the new object of their affection? Instead, the traditional path is they tend to assist in the bull/female partner relationship - and get some emotional needs met along the way. If cucks were gay, instead of sitting outside the closed master bedroom door, why don’t they just head off to the nearest gay bar where they would probably be guaranteed a sexual hookup.

I just don’t see how any answer that cucks are gay makes any sense given the cuck dynamics.

Many cucks like sucking dicks and gobbling the other mans goo. Some of these same cucks like getting fucked in the back door by her boyfriend and wear panties. These are homosexual acts so these cucks are bisexual in nature.

I agree Cory87, and the same goes with the bulls that let a sissy cuck suck them off even if it is an act of Dom/sub dynamics, which I understand. At the same time, if a man are sucked by an other man and get turned on by see that man gobbling on his goo, it's also a form of gay/bi sexual act.

[mfm4bnc]

You are seeking a binary answer for what is actually a continuum.

[JeffS]

How could most cuckolds be homosexuals? The key about cuckoldry (imo) is the angst and jealousy of your female partner being bedded etc by another man. ...and that angst and jealousy isn’t just because of a friendship or deep relationship you have with that woman - it comes with a subversion of your man to woman relationship you had with her prior to the cuckolding.

If cucks we gay, then why would they care? Instead, why wouldn’t they be more invested in stealing from their female partner the new object of their affection? Instead, the traditional path is they tend to assist in the bull/female partner relationship - and get some emotional needs met along the way. If cucks were gay, instead of sitting outside the closed master bedroom door, why don’t they just head off to the nearest gay bar where they would probably be guaranteed a sexual hookup.

I just don’t see how any answer that cucks are gay makes any sense given the cuck dynamics.

Many cucks like sucking dicks and gobbling the other mans goo. Some of these same cucks like getting fucked in the back door by her boyfriend and wear panties. These are homosexual acts so these cucks are bisexual in nature.

I agree Cory87, and the same goes with the bulls that let a sissy cuck suck them off even if it is an act of Dom/sub dynamics, which I understand. At the same time, if a man are sucked by an other man and get turned on by see that man gobbling on his goo, it's also a form of gay/bi sexual act.

I agree with you both that for some there might be a degree of bisexuality. But then since research suggests there are no heterosexuals, and only bisexuality along a spectrum, then the answer to the question is: “No, no cuckolds are homosexual. There are only various shades of bisexuality.”

https://nypost.com/2018/03/14/new-resea ... -bisexual/

[pixwellguy]

So many people worry about labels. And the fact that so many men worry about and discuss the label of "homosexuality" says a lot. And yet most men absolutely love to watch F/F porn, or watch one woman with another. And no one worries about whether or not the two women involved are "lesbians."

The fact is, sex is a joy and pleasure we are gifted with. Most other animals use it only for procreation. So if a consenting adult male enjoys sex with another consenting adult male, what does it matter? Some men like it, some men want it exclusively, others don't like it, others like it as much as they like sex with women. Same holds true for women with other women. As Jeffs correctly points out, there is a sexual spectrum, and everyone falls somewhere along that spectrum. So no, most cuckolds are not homosexuals, just as most women who enjoy sex with other women are not lesbians.

[maxbud]

I'm not gay or even bi sexual. My wife dates , comes home tells me about the date as she unlocks my cb6000s and lets me jerk off as she tells me. I live my sex life vicariously through her. I understand what sex is because I have had normal sex with her at the beginning of our marrage. But shortly after marring I went into chastity.
A few times she came home and told me her lover took her annaly. I never done that to her or anyone else. She used a dildo on my so I would know what it feels like. She thought more about it. She wanted me to know what it felt to be on the receiving end of a blow job and what a real cock felt like in my ass. About a month later, she brought a guy home, no one of her lovers, but a friend of hers he looked macho but was gay. She had him take me annaly , she had me give him a blow job and swallow.
It was the first time I was with a man. She did not take part. But now I know what it feels like when she describes it

Would it not have been even hotter, if your wife made out with him, as he fucked you and as you sucked his dick? (despite him not being her lover, .. but just to add to the cuckolding type experience)

[SailorGuy]

Even though I've never had sex with a man I would definitely call myself bi. Not even bi-curious, since I KNOW I want to sleep with a man.
I can say that now, after over 30 years of a very secure marriage, 20 of them as a cuckold.
My wife is a lovely woman, with some masculine traits to her: she has no breasts - none. Her chest is manly, muscular, great pecs. She has a short boy's haircut, hairy underarms, a very womanly ass and hips, and the most "masculine" cunt I've ever had the pleasure to behold. She has dark brown very pronounced outer labia that give her a lovely sexy bulge in her swimsuit. And though she is as slender as a ballerina that great cunt of hers easily accommodates her lover's 10-inch gorgeous cock. With her short haircut and no breasts she can look very boy-like. I am nuts about her flat chest; as a cuckold the only thing she allows me to do is admire and sometimes rub her chest, thank god.
I have had the privilege of seeing the two of them naked together in a jacuzzi, and they are a great match. I have asked my wife many times over the years to join them in bed - NOT so I could have any sexual contact with her, but so I might be allowed to touch and maybe even fondle kiss and suck her lover's massive cock. She's been game, but never her lover.

[Lucky Dog]

Sexuality a mindset!

When a couple of fellows or ladies have a good time "servicing" each other, they're not necessarily gay. Homosexuality (or, for that matter, heterosexuality) (or, for that matter, any of the myriad OTHER sexualities) is something that's based entirely in an individual's acceptance and acknowledgement of who they are........not what they do!

Think of this: If a homosexual man has a fling with a woman, is he "suddenly heterosexual"?

I have to agree !! As a BF, I do not think or consider whether a cuckold husband is bisexual. I consider whether he can be brought down a very exciting path of sexual submission and servicing myself along with his wife. That progression may be bisexual to many, but simply part of the journey in my mind.

As also mentioned in this thread, compersion is a factor in a cuckold’s interest in servicing me as he watches and desires experiencing the the sexual excitement his wife is experiencing.

Although my cuckolds do experience what is referenced here as bisexual or homosexuality, my answer to the poll question is NO.

Just my thoughts...

Brad

Although I haven't done more than cleanup and suck a man, I strongly believe that for me (and maybe many others), Brad was really right when he wrote that post a while ago. For me, one of the most exciting thoughts is that my wife would give herself so completely to a lover that she would want me to make him happy by serving him and his desires, trying my hardest to make him feel good by doing everything I can for him. I'd see this as a manifestation of my love for my wife. As he would be the man my wife desired so much and cared for — the man who makes her feel so good — he'd become important to me and I'd want to make him feel as good as possible in every way. That would mean submitting fully to his desires, to show both him and my wife that I'd do anything for their happiness.

It has taken me a while to come to feel this way, but as our marriage has strengthened, I'm more comfortable with my submissive nature and more easily able to enjoy my wife's pleasure.

[TonyF25]

I'm not gay or even bi sexual. My wife dates , comes home tells me about the date as she unlocks my cb6000s and lets me jerk off as she tells me. I live my sex life vicariously through her. I understand what sex is because I have had normal sex with her at the beginning of our marrage. But shortly after marring I went into chastity.
A few times she came home and told me her lover took her annaly. I never done that to her or anyone else. She used a dildo on my so I would know what it feels like. She thought more about it. She wanted me to know what it felt to be on the receiving end of a blow job and what a real cock felt like in my ass. About a month later, she brought a guy home, no one of her lovers, but a friend of hers he looked macho but was gay. She had him take me annaly , she had me give him a blow job and swallow.
It was the first time I was with a man. She did not take part. But now I know what it feels like when she describes it

Would it not have been even hotter, if your wife made out with him, as he fucked you and as you sucked his dick? (despite him not being her lover, .. but just to add to the cuckolding type experience)

Unfortunately he had no interest in her, he was gay. I don't think it would have been hot. For me hot is her doing it with her lover, submitting to him alone, and getting excited with him.

[Kneeling]

I NEVER FEEL I AM A HOMOSEXUAL BUT ADMIT FOLLOWING OREDERS FROM EITHER MY WIFE OR HER BULL THRILLS ME.
I DO WILLINGLY SERVICE MY WIFE AND WHEN ORDERED TO HER CURRENT LOVER. I HAVE TAKEN SIR IN BOTH HOLES
AND AM THRILLED BY IT.
MISTRESS LOVES IT BEST WHEN AFTER THEY HAVE SEX, I DO CLEAN UP ON BOTH OF THEM.

[annsman]

This must be the most stupid question asked on here!

Most not some?

Homosexual not bisexual?

I’m not interested in male to male contact, but accept that many on here are and have no problem with that, but homosexual suggests to me that you are not sexually interested in your wife/girlfriend/female partner.

I’m possibly wrong because a lot of posts seem to be bi, but I assume most posters on here are because they are turned on by their wives having sex with another man.

[thepen]

This is a really idiotic post. First of all, sexual orientation is much more complex (and fluid and context-dependent) than the binary wording of the question would give room for. Secondly, asking for people's opinion on something that's a matter of scientific truth or falsehood is about as useful as polling people on whether the sun rises in the East or West.

It's a peculiar American delusion that people imagine science facts are subject to their personal opinion. It's why the western US is now burning year round, and why we've had four times as many Covid deaths per capita as the rest of the world. People think their opinion about climate change or virology somehow establishes reality. It doesn't. Scientific phenomena don't care about your feelings.

[bradisalpha]

It is not an idiotic post.. it is an opinionated post. It is a place for members to post their thoughts with others. If a person is not interested in respecting that, they should not read it or comment on it in a negative way.

Just my thoughts....

Brad

[PRamsey]

Would never want to kiss or date a man, but I am really getting into sucking cocks and being taken in ass