Sweeeeeet, I am in the clear and not a pedo because it was my gf who told me she wanted to have her first born with her boyfriend and not me convincing her. Hell I didn’t even want that initially but seeing how she would get so excited talking about giving herself to her bf and having a child with him, I simply remained quiet and silently accepted my role which I begged her for years to put me in . Having been finally turned into a cuck like I had initially introduced her to, I also began accepting the evolution that she started adding to our dynamic-deliberatel pregnancy was never a topic we discussed but as she drove me deeper into being her cuck, I accepted what I got myself into.charingiscaring2020 wrote: ↑Thu Oct 01, 2020 2:59 pm
If a HW wants to have a child with her bull as an act and emotional manifestation between the HW and bull, that's totally fine with me. However when it comes to cuckold X, then you all know my opinion.
As a side note, you have raised valid points connecting your theory- however only if said child is objectified, granted that the child itself isn’t the motive for arousal and rather the way the mother conceived. It’s a touchy subject to begin with but I don’t believe that the people who want the wife to have a lovers baby want the baby for a reminder or arousal but rather just want the experience of seeing their wife belong to another man and have a child with her and her lovers dna instead of his.
I wouldn’t push my wife into the lifestyle, let alone to get pregnant by someone else, but if we were in the lifestyle and she had a boyfriend that she wanted to have children with instead of me; I am almost positive that the deep level of cuckoldry I find myself in would lead me to accept her proposal for me to surrender having any children of my own with her and watch my wife carry another mans child or children instead. I think in the cuckold’s mind, a lot of it has to do with knowing that your wife will forever have a connection with another man, especially when she as your wife carried 1,2,3 or however many of his babies in her womb. She can have a husband but having a boyfriend and carrying only his children will definitely mark the cuck in knowing she became fully another mans woman and will forever have ties with him. In my case, that would push my cuck bottons quite far.
In my case, I was sort of idealizing a hybrid cuck/poly relationship where the three of us live together while giving her boyfriend the primary role and demoting myself to secondary lover or even “close friend” while living together and watching her belong to him. Him being the main man, I would watch nature take its course as they would be the couple, They would naturally and by default start their family with minimal feedback or need of my approval. That’s a topic for a different thread though.