How Many Men Have Fucked Your Wife?

[Baldyellow]

I can't really say how many, I know of about 15 or 16 since we have been married. She no longer does this because of some health problems. Before we were married, she was very very active spreading her legs. She fucked on the first dates and we both grew up at a resort beach that was full swing from Easter till Labor Day. All the locals knew one another. She had fucked several guys I knew before I dated her. I knew she was a sure thing before our first date according to my friends and they were correct. We had tons of tourist with good places to fuck and if they met her she probably fucked them. She will not tell me how many and I suspect she doesn't know herself. She also fucked around a lot while I was in the Army stationed overseas.

[Dirk the cuckold]

I do count blow jobs. If my wife causes a a man to come in her mouth I have been cuckolded. I used to keep track on my old phone. Unfortunately one day my phone completely locked up and I lost everything that was on there. Including the list. That was years ago but I think the count was around 25. If I had to guess now I would probably put the number close to 50. Maybe 60.

[veub]

Well over 100. Sex clubs in the 70s were crazy. She was an extra in a porn movie in an orgy scene. I still have the VHS as well as the converted DVD.

They were. People today have no idea how wild things were back pre-HIV.

[TinyBoyDick]

I do count blow jobs. If my wife causes a a man to come in her mouth I have been cuckolded. I used to keep track on my old phone. Unfortunately one day my phone completely locked up and I lost everything that was on there. Including the list. That was years ago but I think the count was around 25. If I had to guess now I would probably put the number close to 50. Maybe 60.

I also have a list on my phone! So far I count ONLY vaginal penetrations. If there is ass fucking, pussy-fucking almost always comes first so I don't count ass fucks either. Of course, this lifestyle is unique to each couple so, I make ZERO judgments of how other people live their sex lives. Many people consider BJ's to also be a proper penetration.

CONGRATS to you and your wife, dirk!

[NewtonBlade]

We met on a blind date, I was recently divorced, mid 30s, she was early 40s, 3 kids, 10 years divorced. Early in our first date, she "warned" me that she'd had sex with "about 100" men, and one of her kids was from an affair with a married lover. I fell in love almost immediately
Married 21 years, since then, only 3 more. But that includes her former work husband, whom she's been playing with for the better part of 30 years. Lately, they've picked up steam to where they make love 10-20 times a month, with lots of overnighters and weekend getaways.

[Dirk the cuckold]

I do count blow jobs. If my wife causes a a man to come in her mouth I have been cuckolded. I used to keep track on my old phone. Unfortunately one day my phone completely locked up and I lost everything that was on there. Including the list. That was years ago but I think the count was around 25. If I had to guess now I would probably put the number close to 50. Maybe 60.

I also have a list on my phone! So far I count ONLY vaginal penetrations. If there is ass fucking, pussy-fucking almost always comes first so I don't count ass fucks either. Of course, this lifestyle is unique to each couple so, I make ZERO judgments of how other people live their sex lives. Many people consider BJ's to also be a proper penetration.

CONGRATS to you and your wife, dirk!

Thank you TinyBoyDick. I'm glad that you are also living out your fantasies. This is why I LOVE this site! Where else can I talk about this stuff and not be ridiculed ??? To talk to like minded people and not be made to feel like a freak is refreshing

[TinyBoyDick]

I do count blow jobs. If my wife causes a a man to come in her mouth I have been cuckolded. I used to keep track on my old phone. Unfortunately one day my phone completely locked up and I lost everything that was on there. Including the list. That was years ago but I think the count was around 25. If I had to guess now I would probably put the number close to 50. Maybe 60.

I also have a list on my phone! So far I count ONLY vaginal penetrations. If there is ass fucking, pussy-fucking almost always comes first so I don't count ass fucks either. Of course, this lifestyle is unique to each couple so, I make ZERO judgments of how other people live their sex lives. Many people consider BJ's to also be a proper penetration.

CONGRATS to you and your wife, dirk!

Thank you TinyBoyDick. I'm glad that you are also living out your fantasies. This is why I LOVE this site! Where else can I talk about this stuff and not be ridiculed ??? To talk to like minded people and not be made to feel like a freak is refreshing

You're welcome, Dirk! Sadly, even this site has judgmental lurkers. If you encounter any of them, just tell them to fuck-off, stop judging other people's choices, and get a life!

[NewtonBlade]

Send me a pm. Sounds like we think alike.

[squiggly_lines]

This is hard to say for us.

My wife's number before we got married was approaching 150. Since getting married, she's also slept with 106 different men that we can recall, however this does not account for lifestyle parties, gangbangs, or visits to adult theaters.

So, between 250 and 350.

[Sharemywife1968]

We are at 121 different cocks over a 16yr career,,I dont count repeats or bjs etc,,has slowed over the last few months,

[iloanmywife]

I honestly have no clue, and I love it that way. I get off on not knowing how many different men have fucked my own wife since we've been married, let alone how many times they've fucked her or even who the men were.

After our first few years of playing and mostly only playing together, I could probably make a mental list of every guy she had sex with, if I really thought about it for a while. As time went by and specially since we didn't always take pictures or videos, it was harder and harder to remember every guy. Then my wife started playing alone more often. Most of those men I never met, though I knew about them (e.g., the paramedic or the professor). I mostly knew who she was seeing when she played alone, but I stopped mentally keeping track.

Then she dated a couple of guys I didn't know about at the time. I have absolutely zero idea how many times those guys fucked her. Could be 7 times, could be 700. After I found out we had a brief dust-up, then we both realized that we really, really enjoyed the thrill of this type of play. So we agreed that she should fuck guys without telling me beforehand. She could tell me afterward, but she didn't have to.

So now she sometimes plays without me knowing about it. Usually she'll tell me immediately, which always leads to some spectacular sex. Sometimes she tells me about it later, at just the right time. A few times I've found out about a date by accident or chance, without her knowing I found out, and she's never told me about any of those dates. Finally, there's an unknown number of dates that I've never learned about and simply never will. I don't know how big that number is, but I know that it's not zero.

tl;dr - I don't know how many men have fucked my wife, and I want to keep it that way.

[Acuckoldcouplenc]

Over 60 bulls

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[raymond213]

More than 50

[Minnhotwife]

At least 10 now in just the last year. She's probably had sex with other guys around 60-70 times since we opened up last year.

Currently my wife is seeing and having sex with 4 guys and wants to add in a few others, too.

[TinyBoyDick]

It is interesting that there are women who- provided they have a secure marriage that allows for their sexual freedom- will choose to enjoy MANY partners in addition to their husbands. In my humble opinion, a woman that knows she is attractive to many men and who has accumulated experiences with many men will be more confident and self-assured. Provided her husband is smart enough to allow her total freedom to choose her sexual partners, she will also be sexually satisfied and less stressed.

[marv]

Funny to be revisiting this topic so soon... my wife and I practice a bit of denial, which I've talked about in another thread. Her HW NY resolution (which I agreed with) was to have sex with 10 new FWBs before having PIV sex with me again. I told her it was my wish to have sex with her at least once a month. She didn't even balk at the number of new partners by 2023 going up by 120... let's see how the year unfolds, though. So far it's only 1

[subguy80]

It is interesting that there are women who- provided they have a secure marriage that allows for their sexual freedom- will choose to enjoy MANY partners in addition to their husbands. In my humble opinion, a woman that knows she is attractive to many men and who has accumulated experiences with many men will be more confident and self-assured. Provided her husband is smart enough to allow her total freedom to choose her sexual partners, she will also be sexually satisfied and less stressed.

Same for me. My wife has always had a strong sexual appetite and has never been afraid to act on it. That was clearly something I had to accept about her when we first met. It didn't take long before my "acceptance" turned into admiration and then into my great source of erotic pleasure.

When I first read this thread, my first reaction was that we never kept count and it didn't really matter, anyway, how many men have fucked her. However, I have to admit that as I read the responses on here, I was was having erotic fun with the idea of how many men have fucked her. I mentioned this thread to Sarah and she rolled her eyes and said "really?" But I convinced her to make a game of it and we agreed we'd each come up with a number and then compare. It would be a guess, of course. I have never asked Sarah how many lovers she had before we met. I figured it wasn't any of my business, although I was curious. From bits of information she's dropped, I'm guessing there might have been 20 because she apparently was a bit of a wild girl her first year of college. I've known her for 22 years since then and I estimated about 10 guys per year when we were in college and in the 5 or 6 years after college when we were pretty active swingers. Things slowed down a lot when we were planning and raising a family for a period. For the last 10 years and her return to the LS, she's been mostly involved with a steady lover, so the number of new guys was probably in the range of 10 or so a year, in addition to Aaron and then Jamal and then Aaron, again. So, based on this, I came up with a rough estimate of between 220 and 250 men. The really interesting part of our little game is that when she and I "showed our cards" and revealed our numbers, Sarah's number was 225. So, I guess my assumptions were pretty spot on. The next time we had PIV sex, I kept thinking about those 225 cocks that have been in her pussy and that was pretty damn erotic!

[TinyBoyDick]

... The really interesting part of our little game is that when she and I "showed our cards" and revealed our numbers, Sarah's number was 225. So, I guess my assumptions were pretty spot on. The next time we had PIV sex, I kept thinking about those 225 cocks that have been in her pussy and that was pretty damn erotic!

Being honest and upfront in this lifestyle is not only really important - as you have discovered- it can also be EXCITING! Good luck to you both! Now that you're both feeling more comfortable with all the cards on the table..maybe your wife can enjoy ANOTHER couple hundred men.

[bluebells]

My wife had sex with 4 different men since we've been together. 2 of them she just sucked their cocks, no fucking happened.

[TinyBoyDick]

My wife had sex with 4 different men since we've been together. 2 of them she just sucked their cocks, no fucking happened.

I'm a huge believer in "to each his/her own." If 4 men having some form of sex with your wife is your speed, GREAT for you guys! If another man's wife has had hunfreds of different men and that works for them...GREAT for them! This lifestyle has almost infinite possibilities and there's a right "mode" for each couple.

[LongTermHubby]

It is interesting that there are women who- provided they have a secure marriage that allows for their sexual freedom- will choose to enjoy MANY partners in addition to their husbands. In my humble opinion, a woman that knows she is attractive to many men and who has accumulated experiences with many men will be more confident and self-assured. Provided her husband is smart enough to allow her total freedom to choose her sexual partners, she will also be sexually satisfied and less stressed.

Same for me. My wife has always had a strong sexual appetite and has never been afraid to act on it. That was clearly something I had to accept about her when we first met. It didn't take long before my "acceptance" turned into admiration and then into my great source of erotic pleasure.

When I first read this thread, my first reaction was that we never kept count and it didn't really matter, anyway, how many men have fucked her. However, I have to admit that as I read the responses on here, I was was having erotic fun with the idea of how many men have fucked her. I mentioned this thread to Sarah and she rolled her eyes and said "really?" But I convinced her to make a game of it and we agreed we'd each come up with a number and then compare. It would be a guess, of course. I have never asked Sarah how many lovers she had before we met. I figured it wasn't any of my business, although I was curious. From bits of information she's dropped, I'm guessing there might have been 20 because she apparently was a bit of a wild girl her first year of college. I've known her for 22 years since then and I estimated about 10 guys per year when we were in college and in the 5 or 6 years after college when we were pretty active swingers. Things slowed down a lot when we were planning and raising a family for a period. For the last 10 years and her return to the LS, she's been mostly involved with a steady lover, so the number of new guys was probably in the range of 10 or so a year, in addition to Aaron and then Jamal and then Aaron, again. So, based on this, I came up with a rough estimate of between 220 and 250 men. The really interesting part of our little game is that when she and I "showed our cards" and revealed our numbers, Sarah's number was 225. So, I guess my assumptions were pretty spot on. The next time we had PIV sex, I kept thinking about those 225 cocks that have been in her pussy and that was pretty damn erotic!

My was also a bit of a wild girl when she first got out of college. Based on what she has told me, I would guess was with about a dozen different guys over ten years.

[Sub4her]

Well tonight she fucked the 5th different guy since we started this almost 4 years ago. (She literally text me 30 minutes ago to tell me. Not much for details yet as they are still at a party together. They snuck away and did it in his car) She is very selective so it doesn't happen often. But always blows me away when she does!!

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Well tonight she fucked the 5th different guy since we started this almost 4 years ago. (She literally text me 30 minutes ago to tell me. Not much for details yet as they are still at a party together. They snuck away and did it in his car) She is very selective so it doesn't happen often. But always blows me away when she does!!

By the sound of this, they went back into the party after the car fuck? If so, I find that to be reallllly sexy. Not taking anything at all away from the car fuck which musta been crazy hot.

[Suchagoodgirl]

Candy had been with 10 guys before we got together. That's what she told me and I believe her because before she told me I had to tell her I had been with 70-80 probably but I have no idea the actual number because some were drunk one night stands.

Since we have been married my best guess is about 22-23 guys. So she's around 32 or so. My perverted man brain would like to get her number up over 100 in the next few years but more important is that she is having hot sex regularly. If she was getting fucked 4 days a week by a 1 guy that was really getting her off that would work too. So the biggest benefit for us is for her to be having a lot of sex, which leads to us having a lot of reclaiming sex. I do think having sex with more and more men gives her confidence and a higher comfort level in spending time fucking guys.

[Sub4her]

Well tonight she fucked the 5th different guy since we started this almost 4 years ago. (She literally text me 30 minutes ago to tell me. Not much for details yet as they are still at a party together. They snuck away and did it in his car) She is very selective so it doesn't happen often. But always blows me away when she does!!

By the sound of this, they went back into the party after the car fuck? If so, I find that to be reallllly sexy. Not taking anything at all away from the car fuck which musta been crazy hot.

Yes she sucked his cock and then rode him until he finished inside her. Then they got dressed and went back to the party like nothing happened.