What is the “Golden Ticket” to getting cuckolded?

Flirty Skirty · Unread post by **Flirty Skirty** » Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:07 pm

I’d really like to hear your thoughts about whether there is a definite sign that your wife or gf will cuckold you. I think it’s obvious that “all of the above” would likely be the real answer so I’ve restricted the answers to one.

glowman99 · Unread post by **glowman99** » Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:31 pm

I think it's a mixture of having a small dick, cumming quick, and her obsessed with big dicks.

SammySings · Unread post by **SammySings** » Sun Jul 22, 2018 3:33 am

I picked the "enjoys talking about it" part. My two previous relationships never took it seriously or tried to shame me when I talked about it. My current wife got super turned on when I talked about it (which was actually a pretty big part of me falling for her - I never felt so accepted as when she was totally into my biggest kink).

weluvtoodoit · Unread post by **weluvtoodoit** » Sun Jul 22, 2018 5:15 am

I chose "she knows you can't make her orgasm" because early on in our marriage she had her first penetrative orgasm from a neighbor. It took me a few years to get to that point, but she confessed after the fact to me that he was the first one.

gatorrdw · Unread post by **gatorrdw** » Sun Jul 22, 2018 5:30 am

My wife and I enjoyed talking about "sharing her" quite often. She loved to tell me about what men have done with her and how much she enjoyed having me watch her. I also could have marked that she had a promiscuous past, because she had been being fucked by the divorced 30 year old next door neighbor for almost 3 years while she was in high school. GTR

nevertoolate · Unread post by **nevertoolate** » Sun Jul 22, 2018 6:18 am

By far the best indicator is a sexual adventure filled past. This certainly removes many unknowns for her.

Cdncuck · Unread post by **Cdncuck** » Sun Jul 22, 2018 6:36 am

I'd say there is no sure way to tell. Some women with a promiscuous past want to put it behind them when they marry. On the other hand, some women whom you would think no way get into to it in a big way once the idea is presented. My wife was one of those gals you would have thought no way. Fortunately for both of us, despite a lack of experience, she also came with a turbo charged libido.

I think it depends more than anything on the woman and you never know until you ask. To my way of thinking it's best to ask BEFORE you get married.

petey boy · Unread post by **petey boy** » Sun Jul 22, 2018 7:44 am

I have met her first husband and two of her lovers. All say the same thing. She lovers the challenge of new cocks!

Lucky Dog · Unread post by **Lucky Dog** » Tue Jul 24, 2018 9:03 am

My wife had a very sexually conservative, non promiscuous past. After years of no luck in getting her interested in cucking me, she finally started to enjoy discussing my fantasy and we talked about different scenarios. I could tell she was excited.

That was the beginning.

PnG2010 · Unread post by **PnG2010** » Tue Jul 24, 2018 9:35 am

My golden ticket was that P has always been a slut and open with me about it. We were reminiscing about it last weekend at a bar we met at early on. I'll never forget her sitting there telling me about all the young cock she was getting and me telling her how much it turned me on. The next date, she invited a friend of hers to join us and it's been game on ever since.

Socksmix8 · Unread post by **Socksmix8** » Tue Jul 24, 2018 11:11 am

For us it started with stretching her pussy. After a few years she became very, very loose and my average cock no longer did anything for her but she still missed the sensation of getting stretched by a big cock so that led us down the path of looking for big dicks for her to fuck.

UnderHer · Unread post by **UnderHer** » Tue Jul 24, 2018 12:21 pm

I have been cuckolded by several women in my life and what works for me is sharing with them my fantasy of seeing her with other men. I don't simply tell her "I want to see you with other men." I let them warm up to the idea for awhile. I bring up the topic of sexual fantasies, usually right before sex with her. Then I just say something like, "I don't know why, but in my fantasy (or dream), you're always having sex with a black guy. They would respond with something like, "Oh really? That's interesting." Or "That's weird." Then they would quickly change the subject. But I kept at it. Eventually I introduced one of those lifelike black dildos and used it on her. Then I would tell her I'm imagining another guy is fucking her while I lick her clit. Interracial porn would be introduced and she would be watching while I'm licking. It took a long time but eventually she came around and started hinting that she'd like to try it.

sherulestherooster · Unread post by **sherulestherooster** » Wed Jul 25, 2018 6:10 am

Honestly believe the tipping point for her was her being able to openly lust after a young, edgy, studly waiter at a family restaurant we used to go to. She'd stare at him like she had a schoolgirl crush. During pillow talk, her feeling my hard erection while discussing her having sex with him seemed to really assure her that I was turned on by this. So I selected "she enjoys talking to you about your cuckold fantasy".

tractorman2 · Unread post by **tractorman2** » Thu Jul 26, 2018 11:50 pm

I would say if a wife is prepared to talk about this subject and has mentioned a man or is chatting to a bull on line knowing what he wants its looking promising, I don't see any connection with my size or performance, every women if they are prepared to accept it has room for a lover.

carolinacuck · Unread post by **carolinacuck** » Fri Jul 27, 2018 6:25 am

I voted for the "small cock" option....obviously a couple other choices are related to the "root cause" (no pun intended) of having a small penis, such as the lack of sexual satisfaction/orgasms. While C wasn't necessarily "promiscuous" after she divorced her first husband, she did enjoy the pleasure of several well hung men before we married. When I brought up my cuckold fantasy, she was quite willing to make it happen.

PANTIES · Unread post by **PANTIES** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 8:19 am

Having both a small cock and one that is premature was difficult for her to want to fuck. There were times I would cum just at the moment of putting my little dick in I would ejaculate. I have not had sex with her since January 2019.

I know I would become a cuckold.

Pauline

john jasson · Unread post by **john jasson** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 9:13 am

Something different for us. She loves sex, wanted to explore but felt guilty about it breaking her vows. I assured her that to explore her sexuality in all of its aspects is not only fine by me, but a wonderful joy for us both. Slowly she edged forward. The hot thing about a good girl doing this rather than a slut is that she never quite overcomes her reserve and has to battle it all the way until her lustful desire wins out.

knight4princess · Unread post by **knight4princess** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 9:26 am

At this point "She had a promiscuous past before she met you" is way out in the lead. And that's what I selected as well.

I think having a high sex drive that she has freely acted on in the past is perhaps the best gauge of what the future may hold. If she isn't already a horny woman she is much less likely to hold discussions about being shared or to start up talking with a prospective partner. I also think that if she is under-sexxed, she is more likely to be OK with a small dick or an under-performer as her mate. So it all boils down to whether she is horny to begin with.

WimpToad · Unread post by **WimpToad** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 9:49 am

A combo of sorts, small cock, somewhat active when younger and,lack of orgasm with cock (lot better with tongue)

thepen · Unread post by **thepen** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 10:33 am

I'm amazed at how many guys are still hung up on cock size. While that's one of many elements that make a woman interested in/attracted to a man, it's probably down the list behind confidence, conversational smoothness, sense of humor, career success, appropriate assertiveness, and of course looks.

It's like y'all are in 8th grade still, thinking you are your cock!

Des 31 · Unread post by **Des 31** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 2:57 pm

I suspect how it came about for us is common. I had encouraged her for about a year, and she was firmly against it. About the time I was on the verge of giving up, she had a covert affair with a coworker she then worked with. Through an unusual circumstance when I came home from a business trip a day early, I learned of it.

We discussed it that night. She confessed and agreed it was better than she had imagined. She is now 35 and has since been dating other guys for about seven years. We're each pleased with the way it finally worked out. In our opinion, a wife's successful experience counts more than anything else either of us can imagine. She had sex with several men before I met her but considers fucking others while married is more exciting and is particularly fulfilling by having my permission and support.

Our marriage was rock solid before and even better now that it has become an ordinary part of our relationship. But we realize that this isn't for everyone, and our experience isn't universal.

cuckoldcpl4fun13 · Unread post by **cuckoldcpl4fun13** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 4:05 pm

Cdncuck wrote: ↑
Sun Jul 22, 2018 6:36 am
I'd say there is no sure way to tell. Some women with a promiscuous past want to put it behind them when they marry. On the other hand, some women whom you would think no way get into to it in a big way once the idea is presented. My wife was one of those gals you would have thought no way. Fortunately for both of us, despite a lack of experience, she also came with a turbo charged libido.

I think it depends more than anything on the woman and you never know until you ask. To my way of thinking it's best to ask BEFORE you get married.

Thank you for this most logical response.

cuckoldcpl4fun13 · Unread post by **cuckoldcpl4fun13** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 4:09 pm

UnderHer wrote: ↑
Tue Jul 24, 2018 12:21 pm
I have been cuckolded by several women in my life and what works for me is sharing with them my fantasy of seeing her with other men. I don't simply tell her "I want to see you with other men." I let them warm up to the idea for awhile. I bring up the topic of sexual fantasies, usually right before sex with her. Then I just say something like, "I don't know why, but in my fantasy (or dream), you're always having sex with a black guy. They would respond with something like, "Oh really? That's interesting." Or "That's weird." Then they would quickly change the subject. But I kept at it. Eventually I introduced one of those lifelike black dildos and used it on her. Then I would tell her I'm imagining another guy is fucking her while I lick her clit. Interracial porn would be introduced and she would be watching while I'm licking. It took a long time but eventually she came around and started hinting that she'd like to try it.

Another winning answer! This is almost exactly how most of the couples I know got started or how it felt from the wife's perspective. It is almost a carbon copy of what happened when my husband brought it up to me and how my friends reacted when I told them about it as well.

cuckoldcpl4fun13 · Unread post by **cuckoldcpl4fun13** » Sat Feb 12, 2022 4:11 pm

Lucky Dog wrote: ↑
Tue Jul 24, 2018 9:03 am
My wife had a very sexually conservative, non promiscuous past. After years of no luck in getting her interested in cucking me, she finally started to enjoy discussing my fantasy and we talked about different scenarios. I could tell she was excited.

That was the beginning.

Thank you for this post! Totally associate with it.

SheLikesWhenIWatch · Unread post by **SheLikesWhenIWatch** » Sun Feb 20, 2022 2:26 pm

My wife TOTALLY got off when we started fantasizing about a co-worker of hers. (Our sex was off-the-charts WILD!) He's older...a nice guy, really...a bachelor...no kids...never been married. Fantasy led to roleplaying. Roleplaying led to pillow talk about whether we actually could/should enjoy such a lifestyle. Pillow talk led to me approaching her co-worker and explaining our situation to him.

He was more than happy to oblige. We've been a happy "throuple" ever since (albeit in separate houses/apartments). We are all happier!

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