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Re: progress story

Unread post by Lkncouple » Mon Jun 04, 2018 9:25 am

I am assuming that you both know that very few women can achieve an orgasm with penetration. The fact that she has one is great, but she needs to understand that is not the norm. If she really feels the need to have a cock in her, I really don't understand why you have not brought in your toys. You know she likes them, they are great way to help her orgasm and you can use them and talk dirty. She will talk dirty as well. Start out kissing her and and with foreplay, then use some toys on her. When she gets close you can then fuck her or you can make her cum with the toys.

It is obvious that she wants sex more than two times a week because she is using her toys. You need to figure out how you can get involved with even if it is both of you pleasing yourself.

Has she ever talked to you about any of her previous lovers? Has she talked about sex with any guys before you? That may also be some hot bedroom talk.

As far as your premature ejaculation there is a drug called Dapoxetine that you can take to help with that. Lots of people take it with a combination of Viagra with great results. You can search on the internet for it.

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Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Jun 04, 2018 11:16 am

60d- She hasn't had a real chance to wear her new bikini yet, but it most definitely will turn heads and get looks. I am pretty excited to see her lounging by the pool and walking to and from the pool showing it off.

Lkncouple- I would love to bring in toys to the bedroom to play along with, but her stance is she can use her toys whenever and does use her toys that when she wants me she wants me. Although she does end up having fun when we've used toys and me together, she sometimes rolls her eyes and asks, "Why do we have to use toys?" and also throws in that she can use them whenever she wants. It is seeming she wants sex more than two times a week, which I guess makes it hot to know she wants it more times and uses her toys to get off, yet has made a rule I only get her twice a week. I guess it's a bit of denial? She didn't have any previous lovers or boyfriends, I have been the only guy she's ever been with in any sort of way. Thanks for that tip of the lasting longer, I will look into that one.

Last night I was still hoping for her to send me pictures. I was in the other room and she was in the bedroom with the door shut, after awhile I suddenly got a text from her. She sent two photos of her in a white tight tank top, her black mini leather skirt and some black leather heels. She simply sent with the texts, "Trying on outfits." I was in awe of how incredibly hot she looked and how exciting and fun this was. Here I am, no more than a few feet from the room she is in an she sends me a photo of her in this sexy outfit, when I could easily see it in person. I am hoping it's the outfit she wears to Vegas. Instead of just running into the room all excited I decided to play along with her little game. I sent back, "See this is why you need to be a hotwife...that look can't go to waste." I then went on sending her texts about how incredibly hot she was and what she does to me. She replied, "hahah i thought you'd like it."

Later in the night I was hoping maybe that fun little texting game would have put her in a mood to do something, but she went to bed before me again and again she used her vibrator. Chalk another night up of mentioning cuckolding, and her using her toy instead of me. I highly enjoyed her photos while also keeping in mind she chose her vibrator over me.

This morning I told her how much I enjoyed her pictures and how hot she was. She laughed and said, "You're soooo easy!" She added, "That only took me like 3 seconds to put on too." I told her it was so hot, then she wanted details on where I enjoyed the photos and how. I told her and she had this smile on her face.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Wed Jun 06, 2018 9:08 am

38kewp - I love the idea of doing that together, especially with reading erotic stories. I've thought of getting a strapon on harness too, I think it would be super hot, but I'll ask her what she thinks about me using that.

I joked with her about me needing Viagra or something like it for Vegas and thinking she'd joke back and say I was crazy she instead with a little hint of seriousness said, "That wouldn't be a bad idea." Then she took a moment to pause and I could tell she was thinking about it. So I took that pausing moment and asked in a more serious way if there was some sort of over the counter like Viagra. Again, thinking she'd laugh and put a stop to my idea by telling me no way she said she did not know and then said she did not think that would solve my problem because I don't have an issue with getting it up. I told her it might help by keeping my harder longer, in which she said back, "Hmm true."

So I have been thinking about giving her an anklet for our trip, to go along with her mani/pedi I planned on giving her before our trip. Given all the hotwife and cuckolding things she has read I am fairly certain she would know the symbol of an anklet, so I am interested to know if I bought her one if she'd wear it knowing what it meant. I didn't ask her about an anklet, but I asked her if she were to wear a piece of jewelry with dominantly black clothing (her leather skirt and heels) if she preferred the color gold or silver and she told me gold. So I am thinking of looking for a gold anklet to surprise her with and see what she says. Since they are pretty cheap I've thought of just getting both a gold and silver one as she may change her mind on the color once she sees it is an anklet jewelry piece. I'm thinking just a simple plain one that's tight around the ankle and doesn't have anything that hangs lose and no obvious hotwife/cuckold symbols that are attached to it, like the MFM symbols or the letters HW.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by seydonar » Wed Jun 06, 2018 9:19 am

Anklets are always sexy. Good call. They look out of this world hot when there is a small key attached.

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Unread post by Breaker445 » Thu Jun 07, 2018 9:17 am

So not a big update in the cuckolding department, but yesterday she took the whole FLR to a new level. Quiet frankly I am rather tired today because of all the work I did last night. We got home, me getting home before her so I did a bit of chores. When she got home she had a very long day and let me know she was tired and was going to relax. That was absolutely fine by me and I got her comfortable on the couch. She then ramped up her demands and the bossy attitude and tone. I thought I'd have more detail here, but now that I start typing I ask myself is it really worthy of all the little things she had me do. Basically, she relaxed on the couch all evening telling me to do everything, from getting her water, to making dinner, to cleaning, to even have me run out and do a little errand, all awhile she did nothing. The hot thing was she was telling me to do all these things in such a way that she knew I wasn't going to say no and her voice was so stern. Early on when she first got home and relaxed and gave me my first couple of demands she said sweetly, "You love this don't you?" which I of course said yes.

On the errand she had me go do, before I left I just naturally said, "Yes, ma'am" She smiled and I gave her foot a kiss before I left. Well I did the errand and came back only to have her tell me I did something incorrectly and had to go back out to do it correctly. She could see the reluctance in my face and as she sat there with one knee raised and her other foot resting on her raised knee she bit her lower lip, and slowly raised her foot from her knee toward me, letting me know to give it a kiss. My reluctance immediately turned into excitement as I leaned over and kissed her foot. She gave me a smile and told me, "Naughty boy." I left with a major erection as I thought to myself if now is it going to be the norm that I kiss her feet before I leave? And adding the enjoyment she was having just having me do all this stuff for her knowing she had this control over me.

My reward? She bought herself maybe the sexiest pair of heels I have ever seen, and probably will be the hottest pair of shoes she owns besides her the couple of black leather boots she has. In the middle of doing all these chores and serving her she showed me these heels on her phone and asked what I thought. I was shocked she was interested in buying them for real as I thought maybe she was just teasing me. Sometimes she will look at outrageously slutty outfits or outrageously hot and bold dominatrix or slutty boots/shoes and ask what I think, but obviously would never buy them or wear them out because they are clearly over the top, but just shows me to give me a tease and image of her wearing them. But these are black leather snakeskin heels that have a wet look to it, they have a wooden block heel and are open toed, I don't really know how to describe them, but most of the foot is covered by the wet looking leather snakeskin, and her toes and back of her heel is exposed. They are very eyecatching and sexy that will without a doubt get looks whenever she wears them. I about melted just looking at them and told her I loved them and how sexy they were. She again presented me her foot while she pondered getting them. She said, "I could see myself wearing these all year round." I lit up with excitement because the more she wears these the better. Lucky for me she decided to get them.

Near the end of the night she came out of nowhere and said to me with a little chuckle, "You upset you don't get any tonight?" It was out of nowhere so I asked, "Huh?" She told me, "You got plenty of pictures of me that you can enjoy yourself tonight." Excitedly I told her I happily would enjoy her pictures. She ended up going to bed.

This morning as she was getting ready I was in the other room and she yelled to me, "I'm putting on my underwear for Vegas!" I came into the room to see what she was saying and she stood there with the black lace underwear on that had the fishnet backing. "I'll wear this with my leather skirt." I thought what in the world is she doing teasing me this early? I told her how hot she looked and she laughed at my admiration. "You liked me being bossy to you yesterday?" She asked confidently. I expressed how hot I thought it was and told her I could do that every night. She smiled and said, "You didn't get any last night." I told her I knew, but enjoyed her photos. "You did huh?" She asked. I told her I got off three times in a row. Her eyes got big and asked me, "Wait, three times??!" I smiled at her and let her know, yes indeed I got off three straight times to looking at her pictures, I ended, and immediately went again. She gave me a "Whoa" and I told her that while I looked at her photos she was being one naughty girl. Hoping she'd ask what I was thinking about I instead saw her thinking to herself as she gave me a smile seeing how I was still admiring her body. She said, "Sometimes wives get mad when their husbands jack off, but not me." I again told her she was hot and said last night of her being bossy was hot and I'd do that every night. She laughed at my willingness and said she enjoyed it too.

Although I'm tired from everything I did last night, I have this energy rush from the thought of how amazing and fun it was and what could be in store now down the road since she enjoyed it too. It was just so hot and rewarding to serve her and do everything as all she did was relax and watch tv, shop on her phone, or look on social media. Of course my cuck mind wants me to say, "Hey next time have me do this and put me in my cage and make one of those social media apps Tinder." But who knows, the way she is taking this whole thing that could be the direction she is going. Whenever I get discouraged of what feels like a lack of progress in the cuckolding department, I remind myself that she knows I want it and she has told me she'll do it. I just have to be patient, but waiting is both frustrating and exciting.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Thu Jun 07, 2018 10:46 am

Hi Breaker,

I’m just hoping all of this will result in her actually dating and fucking other guys, instead of running your ass ragged all over the house. :???:
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Re: progress story

Unread post by InLimbo » Thu Jun 07, 2018 11:23 am

I wonder too if she will really do it, or if she's role playing to make you happy.
I hope she does.

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Unread post by Whosbeensleeping » Thu Jun 07, 2018 12:14 pm

See the doctor, and get the Viagra. You will be glad you did.

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Unread post by echoplex » Thu Jun 07, 2018 12:43 pm

Has she expressed any desire to get a boyfriend? Have you talked with her about it?

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Unread post by Breaker445 » Fri Jun 08, 2018 10:35 am

I do think she eventually will, but I do think it will be a slow journey to that point. I have this feeling this is more of her just role playing, because it seems like a slow turn to an entire lifestyle change. If she wanted to just role play I am sure she would have made this whole thing go a lot faster.

But with that said, we will see what tonight could bring. Yesterday I heard on the radio some commercial for a bar in the city promoting a night to a singles type night. I jokingly sent her a text saying I had an idea for what she could do this Friday night which was go to this bar where it was singles night. She didn't respond so I didn't bring it back up. Last night she was on her phone and she excitedly perks up and says, "Oh! You're right baby there is a big singles night party at the bar!" She added, "You'd just love for me to go into the city and hook up with a guy." I told her very blantly, "Yes." She gave me a "Hmmm" response while rubbing her foot on my thigh.

So this morning before we left she asked what we were going to do tonight. I told her I didn't know but knew what she was doing. She asked what and I told her she was going to the city for the bar party. She smiled and instead of giving me a no said one of her girlfriends was out of town and she knew the other one was busy. She added in a very confident voice yet a tad of dissapointment, "God, you know all the guys there would want me though." I told her they absolutely would. The two names of the girlfriends were ones I would have figured she'd go out with at night and would be a bit wild. I was expecting her to laugh it off and say I was crazy, but instead it made me think she'd actually go if she had a friend.

Also yesterday when we both got home she had to make a return at the mall so I chimed in and said I'd go with her. We went and there was a sale going on at the lingerie shop. I told her she could go in there and get something. Happily she went in while I sat on a bench, when she came out she was all giddy and told me she got a lot of stuff. I couldn't wait to see and when we got back she showed me the handful of underwear she got. Super hot and sexy every single choice she picked. Some black and lace, one that is all black and fishnet, another that is shiny silver. One that she picked out and was super excited about was a black one with jewels on the front and the back was like all straps, it was unique and definitely different. She kept one of the new underwear on and then tried on her black leather skirt and showed it off to me. It was so hot I actually pre came in my pants. I told her I pre came and she just laughed at me.

So since she didn't have a friend to go out with tonight said, "We should go on a date night." Excitedly I agreed with her and she asked where we should go. I smiled and told her she should get dressed up and we should go to the bar, the one that was promoting singles night. She smiled back and said, "Oh babe." I thought it was a no, so I just told her whatever sounded good to her I'd take her. She looked on her phone and after awhile she asked about a certain restaurant, but before I could respond she said, "Well, you want to do that bar and that restaurant is sort of far away from it." I was in shock because it sounded like we were going to do this. We both looked at each other and she started talking about restaurants around the area of the bar. I was waiting for her to tell me to get my head out of the naughty thoughts but as we both looked at each other, her eyes glowing and a little bit of a smirk she kept making plans of around the area of the bar. I was literally starting to get a headache and my entire body was completely unrelaxed as I thought to myself this may actually be happening, she may do something tonight. As we both started searching for places to eat she suddenly goes, "Oh shoot! I forgot I have a stupid run tomorrow morning" Unfortunately for the run she has to get up super early, so taking away any chance of being out late. But she started telling me we could go earlier, "What time does that bar thing start?" She asked and I did a little searching to find out, once we found the time we figured it would probably be too late of a night for her to get up in a few hours. The hot thing was she for one absolutely seemed ready to go and second seemed disappointed it wasn't going to work out.

I told her, "It's ok I still have Vegas." She smiled at me and said, "You are right, we still have Vegas." In a whirlwind of thinking oh my this may happen sooner than later she told me she'd go into the city if we had more time at night and didn't have to get up early. I agreed with her and we made plans to go out to dinner tonight. An incredibly hot moment given she seemed all for going out tonight and then her comment about Vegas, made it seem what we could have done tonight had we had enough time could very well happen in Vegas.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Jun 08, 2018 2:21 pm

I think you missed an opportunity to kick-off her solo outings. Going with her was an excellent idea, ready for the offing, it's too bad she didn't take the bait. ;)
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Unread post by Breaker445 » Fri Jun 08, 2018 2:54 pm

I don't think she would have gone by herself. But I think we are taking our first real step toward something now. She asked me what she should wear and I half way joking told her she could wear her leather pants (I always want her to wear those out, so it is what I hope she wears all the time) she laughed at my try and said no. I then brought up to her that she could wear what she would have worn to the single event bar with the goal of picking someone up. She responded with an intrigued, "Hmmm" then excitedly said, "Ok! But you don't get to be apart of what I choose to wear!"

So here I am, as she is in the room trying on outfits in the room with the door closed. Although I highly doubt this is anything more than just her and I going out to dinner, it is hot to know she is in the room right now putting on an outfit that she is knowing in her mind she would wear out to a singles bar event. She is still getting dressed, but he took a moment to come out and ask if I would be sad if she didn't wear a certain pair of her jeans. Before I could answer she said, "You can't be sad because I am wearing what I would wear out, remember?" I can't wait to see what she chooses to wear!

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Jun 08, 2018 3:07 pm

Let her know that you would like it if she dressed as sexily as she likes from now on, you would encourage that. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Fri Jun 08, 2018 4:35 pm

Have fun tonight, and don't hold back! You two seem to be in a good place to talk openly and maybe play around a bit.
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Unread post by Breaker445 » Sat Jun 09, 2018 10:04 am

Well what a fun and exciting night! I am super excited to see what Vegas could bring because she is definitely getting comfortable with this whole idea. Oh boy.

So as she got ready yesterday she took a moment to come out of the room and almost like to reassure herself she wasn't missing out on anything said, "People wouldn't even be out for that bar event this early would they? Like they'd start showing up way later right?" To let her know it was OK that we were missing out on it I told her yes that they probably wouldn't be out and mingling around until it was closer to the thing starting. She went back into the room and continued to get ready, I could hear her trial and error of outfits going on and off, occasionally she'd make comments to herself like, "Ugh, not this." Then I would hear the taking off of pants or the unzipping of heels or boots. It was incredibly hot to hear all these things and knowing she was really into wearing an outfit she'd wear out to a singles night. Otherwise, she knows me, she knows that she could wear anything and I'd be weak to her. But she took the time to really carefully pick out her outfit, and do her make up and hair. When she was finally done and came out ready I chuckled to myself thinking I must be crazy to actually want this. She was wearing black leather heels, super tight dark blue jeans, a black silk tank top that had lace around the neck, her make up was stunning, her hair was up, and she was wearing some earrings. She looked beautiful really, and I truly felt this would be what she wore out to pick up a guy. As we were getting ready to leave she'd make a comment to herself like, "Ugh I should have put my hair down and done my hair more." It was like I was a friend and she was trying to make last second changes to her outfit to get ready for her date.

We sat down at the restaurant and I felt the toe end of her heel slightly touching my shin under the table, I don't know if she was intentionally doing a little flirtatious move or if the slight occasional tap to my shin was incidental, but I figured I'd grab her foot and start massaging it. So I started massaging her foot underneath the table, I thought she'd give me a laugh and tell me I was naughty and pull her foot away so I'd stop massaging her foot under the table at a restaurant. But instead, she said, "Hmm that feels good." And while waiting for our food I spent the time massaging her feet with her heels on under the table. For some odd reason what an incredibly hot experience.

I asked her, "So, that is what you'd wear huh?" she smiled and said, "Yeah, well I probably wouldn't have this sweater on (It was a little chilly so over her black silk tank top she wore an open sweater), and I definitely would have spent more time on my hair." Again I sat there thinking to myself I must be crazy to want this. She said straight forward, "Babes, I wouldn't need to dress all that sexy, I'm hot, I could get a guy easily and they'd love it." I held her hand and rubbed her wedding ring and asked her, "What about this? You wear this?" Her eyes widened and she got a big smile and told me, "No." She must have seen my eyes go big and she chuckled and said she wouldn't wear it beacuse it would be less of a hurdle for a guy to get over. And it made sense, I think one thing about my wife is she intimidating to guys, so add in a ring and it creates more of a "I got no shot with this woman" thought. An absolute hot conversation with it being a serious conversation by the way it was being talked, but also a really fun conversation that we both enjoyed talking about.

Afterward I took her to another lingerie shop just to browse and it was near where we had ate. There was this sexy night gown that was dark gray and it looked shiny and sparkly, I pointed it out to her and she showed interest in it. I thought she'd say it wasn't her type and say no but to my surprise when I told her she could get it she excitedly went with it.

We got back and she briefly put on her new night gown to see how it looked, and wow, stunning. To rewind just a tad, she had recently got her second night out outfit for Vegas, which was a red skirt, that was longer but very flowy and had a slit up the front of one of her thighs that went up very high. It was her typical style of a little conservative but a little bit of sexy tease. I'd prefer tighter and shorter overall skirts or dresses, but I oogled over this dress because I knew she liked it so I talked it up as being super sexy and hot which I think she appreciated it, because she knew I prefered the tighter shorter stuff. But as she stood there in her sexy new night gown she said, "This is the type of dress I want for Vegas actually instead of my red skirt." I thought oh wow and excitedly blurted out that would be hot and she should look for one. She smiled and checked herself out a little more and said aloud, "Yeah, just like this, I can find one." I was practically asking her where I needed to go to find it because if she found a dress like this, oh wow. I was hoping I'd get a night of her flaunting around in her night gown but instead she took it off and told me she would bring it to Vegas.

We went about watching TV, the usual of me massaging her feet and the now normal of her from time to from placing her foot up toward my face so I can get a smell and to kiss them. She finally said, "Let's go to bed." Excitedly I followed her. I was all ready to go, I had relieved myself shortly before and I thought she'd make me wear a condom so I had no worries about stamina, plus in my mind I had this new found competition because of how hot she was tonight. Before she got into bed she was wearing a pair of her new bedtime underwear she had gotten. She gave herself a check in the mirror before getting into bed. When she laid next to me I admired her underwear and she gave me a couple of hot kisses, I was all for moving forward and it certainly felt like we were getting ready to be naughty when she said, "Awww babes, I'm not in the mood tonight." She nonchalantly shrugged her shoulders and with a teasingly short smile said, "Sorrry." She rolled over and turned off the lamp. I laid there with a raging hard on, here I was denied after the night we just had. A little bit of laying there she again said sorry for not being in the mood. I told her admittedly it was hot. I told her how hot it was given the night we had, and all I did for her that night to get denied of anything in the end was hot. She said, "Hmmm good." as she laid there giving my crotch a little pat.

This morning she left for her run but before leaving I told her how fun last night was. She said she had a lot of fun too and brought up again she was sorry she wasn't in the mood. I told her again doing all those things for her, seeing how hot she was, only to get denied in the end was hot. She smiled and said, "Works out for me!"

Maybe what I am writing isn't portraying it enough, but yesterday and last night definitely gave me confidence this is heading somewhere. We both had a lot of fun too, and not just fun going out to dinner, but the entire day of leading up to it was fun. I texted her bringing up to her it was hot to be denied but even hotter would be knowing when she was in the mood she had..you know..someone else to help out with that. I followed that text with telling her I didn't want to get too greedy so I'll stop bringing it up for awhile and told her I had Vegas to look forward and hopeful too. I know she's busy but she replied back, "Hahaha I'm excited" With that I think it is clear what my hopes are for Vegas and I'll take her response as there is indeed hope for a cuckolding experience in Vegas. Just combining that with our recent talks and the roll over from yesterday.

The whole denial thing though is hot, and she brought this up that is has been about a week since I got anything. I told her it was fine and admittedly it was hot. I'm interested to see if the denial continues and her toy(s) get any action. This may sound crazy that I keep track of this, but so far for the month of June I have not gotten any action with her.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Sat Jun 09, 2018 10:56 am

Another big day. They're coming so quick now you must have a permanent hardon! I agree with you that your wife enjoys these kinks as much as you, maybe more. I also agree that it's not an act - that she really is looking forward to experiences with other men. She's thinking about it and enjoying it. I suspect she's given more thought to the specifics than you. I bet she thinks about it when she gets off on her own. I know you've asked before, and she's shut you down, but, given her mood and your recent denial, it could be a hot topic for mutual masturbation, as someone else here suggested.

Your dinner conversation was heart-stoppingly sexy. Really fun that you can enjoy being physically affectionate with each other in public - like being newlyweds! About the rings - wow! Discussing that kind of detail is a big step. Maybe discuss putting her rings in a sealed envelope in her luggage before you leave for Vegas? Just to provide a little reminder every time she reaches for anything? Could be fun.
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Unread post by Breaker445 » Sat Jun 09, 2018 12:14 pm

60dCommon wrote:Another big day. They're coming so quick now you must have a permanent hardon! I agree with you that your wife enjoys these kinks as much as you, maybe more. I also agree that it's not an act - that she really is looking forward to experiences with other men. She's thinking about it and enjoying it. I suspect she's given more thought to the specifics than you. I bet she thinks about it when she gets off on her own. I know you've asked before, and she's shut you down, but, given her mood and your recent denial, it could be a hot topic for mutual masturbation, as someone else here suggested.

Your dinner conversation was heart-stoppingly sexy. Really fun that you can enjoy being physically affectionate with each other in public - like being newlyweds! About the rings - wow! Discussing that kind of detail is a big step. Maybe discuss putting her rings in a sealed envelope in her luggage before you leave for Vegas? Just to provide a little reminder every time she reaches for anything? Could be fun.
It is a whirlwind I have been enjoying. I agree with you that she is starting to enjoy all this, which is really exciting and fun. I've felt and thought since we had our heart to heart conversation where she ended it by saying she'd do it she has slowly and methodically turned this fantasy into a way that she wanted and worked for her. The thing that was so hot about enjoying being physically affectionate toward each other in public, is besides holding hands and a rare peck on the lips we don't do much public display of affection. So to be sitting there openly rubbing her foot was really hot and exciting, especially since she enjoyed it too. Good idea on placing her ring somewhere when we go, after she said that I was thinking of putting it somewhere before we go out there. Pretty exhilarating to suggest to her, while she is wearing heels and a mini leather skirt, she take her ring off before we go out and her to agree fully knowing where that suggestion came from.

I forgot to mention another thing she brought up at dinner. Awhile ago, and I think I posted about it as a gift, gave me a list of 3 naughty things I could choose we do. And I chose one thing for us to do from the list and she would do it. Well she brought up at dinner if I remembered that and told me that that was fun and she was thinking of giving me another list of things to choose from. I think my reply was, "Oh my God! yes please! That was so hot." She smiled and said she would do that again for me.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Sat Jun 09, 2018 3:23 pm

Maybe you should make a list of naughty things for her to do, and she can choose one, or more, from there. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Sun Jun 10, 2018 9:27 am

BallSpanking - I do like that idea, but not sure what to put on it. I also want to see what options she gives me because it means she thought of them and wants to do them.

Nothing to add but more denial. Lounging on the couch last night, serving her a glass of wine I massaged her foot and, again, she place her foot toward my mouth so I could smell and kiss them. This time way more obvious with her shoving her foot into my lips and I got to enjoy their scent and give them plenty of kisses while I watched some TV and she had her glass of wine and was on her phone. She told me she was tired and as she was about to go to bed she let me know, "You haven't had sex with me in awhile." I told her I knew and told her I could lick her if she wanted. She openly chuckled at the suggestion, patted me on the head, and said, "No, that's ok." As she walked away she told me I could stay up. Thinking the way she wanted me to stay up and her go to bed before me I thought she was going to use her toy, however, I checked and she didn't use her toy. Nonetheless, the denial continues as I have not done anything with her this month. Part of me wonders if this is her way of planting a seed for something down the road? I can't remember the last time we went this long without any sort of sex.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by BallSpanking » Sun Jun 10, 2018 4:01 pm

Maybe you can float the idea, that the next time someone cums inside her, it should be a man she is really hot for. Maybe that could happen in Las Vegas..., not sure when you're going. ;)
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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Sun Jun 10, 2018 6:01 pm

Can't tell you how much I miss being with a woman who liked to relax that way. Isn't it funny how the less she pays attention to you, the more arousing it becomes when she extends a foot for a kiss or suckle? I remember the first time my wife took a phone call while she was riding me. She had a brief, but completely normal, conversation with a girlfriend while never missing a beat on my cock. It just drove home the point that she was in charge and just going through the motions to get me off. Of course, realizing that, I exploded. She gave me an ironic smirk before climbing off and heading out to the balcony for a smoke and another phone call. I don't think she ever spoke to me.

It's all part of getting to that point in a femdom relationship where both partners really trust that her pleasure is what drives the whole ship. Yes, as your loving wife, she might sometimes want you to get off inside her, but there's no point in pretending she gets physical sexual pleasure from it. That's not the point. She's doing it because she loves you and wants to feel that with you. Understanding that you can't be all things to her, and that you trust her to have relationships with other men (and/or women) is a huge hurdle for both of you. I believe you both have what it takes to make your marriage work.
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Mon Jun 11, 2018 12:37 pm

60d - that sounds very hot! Very good point on the intimacy part. I think that is something I could see happening. I think she enjoys or wants the physical intimacy with me because of love and wants to feel that togetherness, but you are right she isn't getting the physical enjoyment of pleasure out of it. I think maybe she is starting to see that and like I have said she is starting to see she can have her cake and eat it too, I think that is why she is becoming more open and comfortable with all this.

Last night I ended up going to the gym late and she sent me a text while I was gone telling me she was going to bed early. I responded with the whole oh ok love you good night response and she sent me a photo of her in her new fishnet underwear just showing me her backside. I texted back with whoa hot!!! and she simply replied with telling me to clean up the mess in the room and the bathrooms were dirty too. I sent back "Hmmm yes ma'am"


I hurried home, not for the chores, but to see if her toy had been used. Surprisingly it had not. So I went to do the chores before I went to bed. We didn't see each other before we both left, but I figure if she brings up anything about my cleanliness and doing it so quick (As I don't think she expected me to do it that late at night), I will tell her I wanted to do it to show her I am serious about all this. That I thoroughly enjoy this FLR and want to please her however possible.


So, so far when she got home today she gave me a smirk and said to me nice job on the cleaning and even said she was surprised I went all out on doing more than she expected for the bathroom cleaning. Perfect opportunity to tell her that I wanted to show her I was serious about this. She gave me a slight grin and asked, "You do this in hopes I do something....?" (I know the 'something' she was referring to was cuckolding) Thinking I wanted to show her me doing this was more for my role in this FLR that is being created and to please her, I told her no. Well she saw right through my response and with a little smirk quietly said, "It'd be fun." And she walked away, and is now on a run. Oh boy, she said it quietly enough for me to hear it but for it to take me a second do ask myself, "Did I really just hear her say that?" Then with her leaving, it leaves the door open to bring it back up tonight to talk about, asking her if I heard her correctly.

I will say she has been walking around the place with some great confidence. Almost like this pride in herself that she is getting me to do whatever she wants whenever, it is super sexy to see and her little gifts to me are letting me kiss her and she flirtatiously wrapping one of her legs around my leg, giving a teasing hump or two, and to me it feels like our next move may be the bedroom, but then she just laughs at how easy it is to get me to excitement and walks away. She even brought up the idea of having sex letting me know I had not had sex in a long time. When I agreed with her she told me I'd cum in two seconds if we did anything now. I am absolutely wrapped around her finger at this point. I am so far into this keeping the place clean for her that every little speck I see I clean it up, it is intoxicating to see her slowly gain this control and be enjoying it as much as she is.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by 60dCommon » Mon Jun 11, 2018 7:32 pm

No reason not to clarify your thoughts for her. YES! you want to serve her however she likes, including housework. YES! you want her to experience great sex with other men. You want it, but you understand she's in charge and will do what she wants. No harm in telling her she's right - it could be fun.

Hope she had a good run - maybe including a "chance" encounter with her guy. Don't stress about lasting in the bedroom tonight. Just go with it and focus on pleasing her in other ways. Keeping the toys handy so you don't have to ask her or get up and break the flow can help make it better for her. No harm in telling her you desperately want to lick her tonight. Bet her feet would appreciate some attention when she return from her run - maybe go ahead and lean in to lick her while she's still dressed in her running gear?

Hope you get to worship her pussy tonight - it's been a while.
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Re: progress story

Unread post by Breaker445 » Tue Jun 12, 2018 10:27 am

No encounter with the guy she always sees on the run, well none that she mentioned anyways. I asked her if I heard her correctly and she just laughed and said maybe. I told her I was assuming the something was cuckolding and she said yes she was figuring I was doing all this in hopes she'd follow through. I made the comment of "one day..." and she gave me this smile.

I did think I was getting some last night, with just how she made it sound she wanted it and how she was acting. But again she ended up going to bed a little earlier than I did but before I went to bed I checked and saw she used her vibrator. I think I may have already mentioned this, but this is by far the longest we have ever gone without sex. Admittedly it is hot to be denied all awhile see that she's dressing far more sexier than she ever has, she's portraying more confidence than she ever has, and she is openly using her power over me to get me to do things, yet I get no reward. But in my mind, in a way, getting nothing is a reward to me. It's exciting to me to see her do all this, enjoy it, and to find out she uses her toy instead of me.

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Re: progress story

Unread post by jps18 » Tue Jun 12, 2018 11:53 am

The toy she uses is not going to be enough and it seems , or is a fact that neither are you . She's going to be getting dick somewhere . Vegas is coming closer and closer . She's more open to the idea of another man than she's ever been . It's only a matter of time now ! Hope she finds herself a big cock to satisfy her needs . And soon !

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