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Unread post by Say_Oy » Mon May 08, 2017 11:13 pm

GemsHubby - why don't you learn to control your orgasm? i.e. not cum until you decide it is time to cum. I typically fuck my sub for about 45 minutes to an hour. This is after 45 minutes of spanking and sensation play, flogging or other BDSM stuff. When she tells me she is exhausted I usually flip her on her belly and ride her pussy for my orgasm. Sometimes we are both exhausted so I don't cum and we go to sleep, but she sets an alarm for an hour before she has to go home. She wakes me with a blow job and then we have a quickie to get me off. Then we nap until she has to leave to get home - before her hubby wakes up in the AM.
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Unread post by The Observer » Tue May 09, 2017 8:54 am

Hoping this thread hasn't died......It is a very hot one

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Fri May 12, 2017 12:02 am

Still alive, just busy with mundane things. Will follow up soon.
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Unread post by ArizonaGuy » Wed Jun 07, 2017 8:45 am

Please more......

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Unread post by D+D » Wed Jun 07, 2017 11:47 am

Yes, anxious to hear.

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Unread post by Lensman2000 » Wed Jun 07, 2017 8:43 pm

I've just seen this thread for the first time and am fascinated by the dynamic of your marriage and the direction your cuckold relationship has taken. In this, or a separate blog, could you tell us about your journey to this point? How did your wife evolve from the conservative girl to the sex toy of one man and the domme of her husband?
By the way, her blog is really testing the limits of my rudimentary Spanish.

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Unread post by BJohn56 » Mon Jun 12, 2017 12:49 pm

I’ve read through this thread and been thinking a lot about it all. Personally, from more of an alpha male’s point of view (though one who would enjoy sharing his lady as part of the Vixen-Stag dynamic), I was thinking that this looked like it was heading towards an unhappy ending down the road. But, on further reflection, I realize that I was mostly picking up on your angst-ridden viewpoint as written here and not looking at it objectively. After all, admittedly, you’re a fairly extreme cuckold, at least from my point of view. So taking a fresh look at it this is what I see:

You’ve encouraged your wife all along to push her boundaries and take ever more control of her sexuality which it seems she has. Likewise, you mentioned she had an interest in exploring the escort side of that sexuality, seeing if it were something she could do and possibly enjoy, and even seeing how much her pleasures were worth maybe? I think she’s accomplished all of these objectives and more. She’s found out that she can get paid top dollar for her favors, that she can pull off being sexual, exciting, and attentive for a lover whom she may find rather repulsive, at least in a physical way. This being something escorts need to be able to do obviously, since if a man is some kind of awesome hunk he probably wouldn’t have much need of paying for an escort. By taking her boss’s assignment to use her sexual prowess to pull in a client, and even to seal the deal with her body and charms, she has found out how powerful her sexuality can be. And she’s also managed to keep her loving cuckold on pins and needles and played his game throughout it all. Sounds like one helluva a woman to me!

Her reward? A loving husband who is turned on no end by her sexiness and living his fantasy with him, a boss who enjoys her favors so much that he not only pays her top dollar but wines and dines her, romances her, takes her on lavish trips to the Alps, and makes her a player in his business dealings as well… with a nice new red Mercedes as a bonus! She even maintains a very sexy blog through all this and keeps all of us attentive readers happy just to hear about it all as well. I mean, where is the problem?? This woman does it all for the men in her life! And I, for one, would love to be one of those very lucky guys. Although granted, not cuckolded to the extent you are, since I’d like being more of an equal partner in our adventures together and not denied, etc. and without any humiliation, but hey, that’s me. To each their own. I mean, she’s doing this according to your turn-ons, not mine. And she seems to be giving you as much or even more of what you most enjoy, no? She, my friend, is close to perfect. I think just the idea that a woman like her exists in the world is a reason for all the rest of us to hope, and too, just thinking about her brings a smile to my face. She’s most certainly a woman worthy of our awe and praise. Just one man's opinion of course. ;)

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Unread post by BJohn56 » Mon Jun 12, 2017 1:04 pm

Oh, and as for her seeming growing attraction to her older boss, maybe part of it is a result of her sexual power being able to get all this attention from him. Let me tell you, someone having overwhelming desire for you can be a powerful aphrodisiac! And, too, I read that some of the porn actresses like working with older men because, naturally, they’re more appreciative, excited, and giving, thrilled to just be getting to work with a younger woman. Plus, just like you providing all your loving support and strength when she needs it, Gerardo opens up new worlds for her and lets her expand into them as far as she wants to go. All very powerful reasons for her enjoying it, and him, all the more.

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Mon Jul 24, 2017 10:13 am

Sorry for the lack of updates. I have been kept up with mundane things. I'll try to make a short recap on what is happening. Just as someone hinted before in response to my concerns, things are going slowly but surely into a specific direction.

She continues being his office her. Sometimes they do it in the office, when everybody has already left, but most of the times they go to his house. About once a week, she has an overnight at his house. Since this has become a habit, she has moved some clothes to his house, so that she can change a go to work with different clothes next day. She also has some nice dresses there, as he takes her out when she stays the night with him. Most of the time, he work outfit are the classical secretary outfit, as this is what he demands: heels, stockings with the seam behind, garter belt, skirt (normal length), white blouse. But in summer he is more permissive and accepts that she uses a summer dress or skips the stockings. He does seem to have a fetish towards panties, because she always has to were them beneath. He seems to like it when she takes them off for him.

He is also paying her a monthly visit to a specific beauty shop, where he sets up the appointment for her. That's usually just before she goes to see that client. She has dyed her her for him and it now has a reddish tone. She is brunette and she has weared some dark red before, but now its even more reddish. Fortunately I can't see I don't like it. The beauty shop also waxes her pussy when she goes there. I prefer it completely bald, but he has chosen a landing strip for her. Again, fortunately I can live with it. At the beginning, he wanted her natural and this was an issue for me, but I am lucky that he has thought otherwise. I think it might turn him on that he sets up the appointment at the beauty shop and she gets waxes for him. They also dye her pubic hair, matching her other hair.

He blindfolds her when she is at his house and directs her to prepare him a drink or fetch his cigars. She says she loves the sensation of being blind, having to rely on being guided by his deep voice. She never liked to drink (she easily gets tipsy) and definitely disliked strong drinks. She has also never smoked and didn't tolerate the smell. But somehow, he has managed to have her drink whisky and smoke cigars with him! She only does it when she is with him, though. I still can't believe how he has managed that. I mean, she was totally against smoking and could only drink sweet cocktails. He seems to have trained her, always making her nab on his whisky and take a smoke while she was sexually aroused, either masturbating for him. or sitting on top of him on the couch and fucking him.

He has taking it slowly though and it has taking him over half a year to get her to this point. He is really in no hurry and I feel that over time he will make her do whatever he wants. The thought of it both turns me on and scares me. This guy is very different to any other lovers she has had. Her other lovers were younger or about her age and it was mostly about the sex (except her first lover, with which she kind of felt in love with). But with Gerardo, it seems as if he has some kind of long-term goal with her. He is making her take baby steps, but it's one after the other.

He likes to watch her masturbate, He has bought her a small vibrator in the past. Sometimes he blindfolds her while she masturbates. She says she doesn't know what he is doing during that time. He is supposed to be sitting on the cough, watching her, but he might as well be filming her. It told her, but she doesn't seem to care. She instead responded that he has already taken lots of picture of her, both inside the house as well as outdoors in semi public places. His latest addition has been a dild with a suction pad. He has made her fuck herself with it, while it was attached on a chair. But before, he made her handcuff herself behind her back!

The handcuffs have been an agreement he negatiated in exchange of filming her with her phone while she was blowing him. Isn't my wife sweet? Always thinking of me! That's really one thing I don't like about him, that he has e.g. taken so many pictures of her, but he is not willing that I see them. Now the handcuffs have become a regular in their games. I mean, it's pretty obvious which direction this is going, isn't it? I have enjoyed it in the past when her lovers fucked her hard, being dominant during sex with her. But I sense this is different here. He is slowly turning her into a submissive, I don't have a clue where this is going to end. It's hot, but I also feel so out of control. I love my wife being dominant with me and I understand that he wants her lovers being strong, but Gerardo's strength is of a different type and yet one she seems to lust for. I have asked her where she wants to take it, but she said that she doesn't know, that she is just walking the path, exploring it, enjoying it.

He has presented her now to his family and friend as his girlfriend. That has happened at this birthday party. At the office, nobody knows that she is with him, so I was astonished that he would want to present her to his family. She did go with him and slept at his house afterwards. His brother and his wife came to the city for the birthday party and slept at his house. He fucked her and make her moan loudly, I guess to impress them or make the jealous. Apparently she was not moaning loud enough and he pinched her nipples, so that she would scream. Her nipples are quite sensitive and she has never liked it when I applied too much pressure, but she apparently didn't mind that he did it. I asked her why she let him do that and she said that she just wanted to help him and make the family know how good at sex he was.

At the party, there was also a friend. He is about the same age as Gerardo. She said he couldn't take his eyes off her. Last week he invited them to his house for a beer and swim in his pool. Gerardo asked her to remove her bikini top, so that she could better sunbath, and she did in front of his friend, showing him her boobs! Her boobs are nice, but natural, and she has always been shy about showing them, but she didn't hesitate when he told her. Afterwards Gerardo applied sun cream all over her body, including her tits, in full view of his friend, who could watch how he was sqeezing them. Later in the swimming pool, they were playing in the water and his friend "accidentally" touched her almost everywhere. She said that she was frightented going to his house, because she thought that Gerardo wanted her to fuck his friend. Now, he isn't good looking either, so it's not normally a man she would be attracted to. I asked her if she would have fucked him if Gerardo had asked, and she said she didn't know, but probably yes! I asked her why she would do that, if she was not attracted to him and it also had nothing to do with the business. She responded that she just wants to make Gerardo happy, because he is a good man, he is generous with her, treats her with respect, teaches her things and she thinks he just deserves it. Now, Gerardo did not ask her to fuck his friend. Instead, he asked her to massage him with suncream, including his feet (apparently he has trained her to deliver nice foot massages). Then he offered his friend to apply sun cream on her. She was sitting topless on top of him, feeling his bulge building up beneath her crotch. Strangely, his friend didn't touch her in any intimate place: no boobs, no pussy. He only rubbed the sun cream on her legs, belly and exposed buttock (the bikini had gotten half into her crack). I asked her if she got excited and she admitted she did. I insisted on how she could get excited if she wasn't attracted to his friend. She said that the situation was exciting and she just wished I could have been there, watching her.

The last thing is the birthday present she did for Gerardo: he bought her a one-week holiday trip to Mexico with him. Of course he has taken care afterwards of the costs, but he was very happy that she took that initiative. I don't know yet if she will get one extra week in holidays, because if not, this would be one week less she will be spending with me. But unlike him, I cannot take her to such a beautiful place. My job is currently at risk and we are becoming more dependent on her income. But what concerns me more is what he will be able to do her with a full week, 24 hours a day together.

As I said above, I feel excited and concered at the same time. I don't know how much of it is the natural cuckold angs how much is real concern. For example her booking one week holiday with him, gives me an instant boner (it's not easy for me to admit it, but I had to free myself and say it), but scares me at the same time.

With regards to myself and sex with her, I do get to fuck her regularly, but it's always her who dictates when, where and how, and if I am allowed to cum. She has also become more demanding with me eating her out. She asks this of me more and more often, which I love, by the way. We have discussed my concerns and she has listened carefully to me. She says that she will try to improve things for me, getting me more involved, lower my angst. But she also reminded me of her sexual freedom and ordered me to put on my cage, as a reminder of that. So now I am caged once again and only she knows when I will be freed.
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Re: Her boss fucking my wife

Unread post by wingman » Mon Jul 24, 2017 5:02 pm

GM
First off, I love ur adventure!
Second, DO NOT Gerardo that you job is ar risk, nor tell him if you loose it! Unless he is a truly honorable man, he will take advantage, ask more of Jenna, who might possible be living at his house full time until you are employed again.

Third, do you think you would like to speed thing up to where Gerardo is taking your wife? If so, let Gerardo know your ok with things accelerating, GEMMA HAS YOUR OK, and she is ok with moving faster as well..
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Unread post by Serrand » Tue Jul 25, 2017 7:24 am

Of course, I could be all wrong, we all have only a limited view of your affairs here, but it wouldn't surprise me at all, if your wife's boss tries to break you and Gema up and ruin your marriage, at least in the longterm. Probabely he won’t be successful, but be prepared, that Gerardo will try. I assume you already know this yourself.
Do you know, if Gerardo ever belitted you or talked bad about you or towards Gema, has she ever told about something like that?

You said you talked about your concerns with wife. Are you able to be a little more precise about what your concerns are? And how Gema reacted to them specifically? What does she particularly to reassure you of her love for you?

Well, I wish you and Gema all the best. Hope we don't have to wait for your next updates too long

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Wed Jul 26, 2017 9:11 am

wingman wrote:GM
Third, do you think you would like to speed thing up to where Gerardo is taking your wife? If so, let Gerardo know your ok with things accelerating, GEMMA HAS YOUR OK, and she is ok with moving faster as well..
I think Gema likes the pace just as it is. In fact, that seems to be one thing that she loves about Gerardo. She says that this is because he is a mature man, unlike some other lovers that in the end turned out to be big boys. I don't believe that she would feel good about speeding up things. She just likes to take it slowly, especially in this strange voyage she is having. She is not a submissive who would instantly fell down to her dom's feet. Instead, this seems to be something that needs to evolve step by step and neither she nor me really know where this will stop. She just says she feels good about how Gerardo is handling it (her).
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Wed Jul 26, 2017 9:18 am

Serrand wrote: Do you know, if Gerardo ever belitted you or talked bad about you or towards Gema, has she ever told about something like that?
As far as I know, he just prefers to ignore me completely. Unless he needs something of me, like videotaping my wife while she masturbates at home for her. He bought her a big teddy bear and asked her to fret against it every Sunday in anticipation of her meeting him on Monday at work. I have to video tape it with her phone, so that she can later send it to him. I think that if he would talk bad about me, it would just backfire on him. He is smart and he would know. But again, I think he just ignores me for the most part.
Serrand wrote: You said you talked about your concerns with wife. Are you able to be a little more precise about what your concerns are? And how Gema reacted to them specifically? What does she particularly to reassure you of her love for you?
Well, I gave up trying to be the Alfa in our marriage. It didn't work too well and honestly, we are having great fun since her lovers take this place and I am relieved to being "only" the husband and provider. But with her now earning more money than me, with my job not going all too well, with the way she is earning the money... I think you get it. I feel like am failing her because I am failing being the provider I should be. If I am not able to provide, what's left of me? We have discussed it and she has told me that she doesn't care about the money (neither the one she is earning nor the one I am earning), that she just loves me and I shouldn't believe too much in this pseudo science about cuckold stuff.
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Unread post by yloduck » Wed Jul 26, 2017 11:47 am

Does Gema continue to make visits to Gerardo's client in Barcelona?

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Unread post by GemsHubby » Wed Jul 26, 2017 2:55 pm

yloduck wrote:Does Gema continue to make visits to Gerardo's client in Barcelona?
Yes, she does, about once per month aprox. She typically goes to the customer's office to work, then they have dinner together and sex and next day she goes again to his office to finish working. Just before she heads to the train station, he typically asks her for a blowjob in his office. Several times, he has asked her to crawl to him, to blow him.

In exchange for this ongoing service, she got a company car. I am not sure what would happen if she refused continue seeing this customer, but I guess she would lose the company car.
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Sat Jul 29, 2017 11:22 am

She had an overnight yesterday and came back home today. She is on holidays now and won't be seeing him until their trip to Mexico. Her boss gave her the dildo and handcuffs to practice at home. He instructed her to put it on a wall or mirror with the suction, and practice deep throating, while her hands are handcuffed behind.

It's going to feel weird seeing her doing this for him, but I have to admit, I am excited. He told her that he wanted me to video tape it on my phone and send him the recording every day!
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Unread post by Serrand » Mon Jul 31, 2017 5:29 am

Well, it sounds these are intense times for you. Please, keep us updated as much as you can. Will you be in contact with Gema while she's away in Mexico?

Another thing, it's a little bite off topic, but I hsve to admit I'm curious. I hope it isn't inappropiate to ask how you and Gema actually have met and fallen in love with eachother?
Existed other suitors for her love and you had "to win" her?
It would be great if you could a little about it.

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Unread post by Say_Oy » Mon Jul 31, 2017 10:04 pm

I like how Gerardo is slowly enslaving Gema. Cuffs now... more later. Pinching her nipples so she screams - and her being willing and probably turned on by the torture. (My own sub complains about the pain, but puts up with it and admits it turns her on. Also holds her tit up for me to bite hard.)

Have you noticed that he is now more in control when she is NOT with him? She is masturbating and performing tasks for him at home, thinking of him and having orgasms even when not with him... Just the thought of him turns her on and makes her want to cum. He is very talented.
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Tue Aug 01, 2017 7:33 am

Serrand wrote:Well, it sounds these are intense times for you. Please, keep us updated as much as you can. Will you be in contact with Gema while she's away in Mexico?
In about two weeks.
Serrand wrote: Another thing, it's a little bite off topic, but I have to admit I'm curious. I hope it isn't inappropriate to ask how you and Gema actually have met and fallen in love with each other? Existed other suitors for her love and you had "to win" her?
It would be great if you could a little about it.
We fell in love when we were in our early twenties. Shame on me, I was still virgin at that time. And she had had only one boyfriend before me. The same party where I won her over (she was single at that time), she had another guy after her. That guy was a gigolo type. He was very successful with girls. He had been a long time after her and even managed to get her into the car with him and kiss her once (nothing more happened). She had just broken up with her boyfriend and this guy was smelling his chance. And so did I. But I won :-)
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Unread post by GemsHubby » Tue Aug 01, 2017 7:35 am

Say_Oy wrote: He is very talented.
No doubt he is. Do you understand why I am frightened at times?
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Unread post by yielding william » Tue Aug 01, 2017 10:32 am

I encouraged my wife to fuck her school supervisor. Because it was the first man she had sex with, other than a brief work affair a few months before, that was one of the most exciting for me because it was her first. That lasted until recently and she is now seeing others. All but the first have been white men, which is apparently her preference.

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Unread post by Say_Oy » Sat Aug 05, 2017 3:18 am

GemsHubby wrote:
Say_Oy wrote: He is very talented.
No doubt he is. Do you understand why I am frightened at times?
Yes, I thought you should be concerned early on that he would simply take her from you. However, you pointed out how strong your relationship is with Gema. I also think there is a ray of hope for more participation. They are starting to involve you more, not to service Gerardo in a homosexual way, but to act as servant and enabler - filming your wife is a service to him. If she emphasizes to him that this is not "gay" and is useful to him he may start to develop an appreciation of your service.
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Say_Oy wrote:
GemsHubby wrote:
Say_Oy wrote: He is very talented.
No doubt he is. Do you understand why I am frightened at times?
Yes, I thought you should be concerned early on that he would simply take her from you. However, you pointed out how strong your relationship is with Gema. I also think there is a ray of hope for more participation. They are starting to involve you more, not to service Gerardo in a homosexual way, but to act as servant and enabler - filming your wife is a service to him. If she emphasizes to him that this is not "gay" and is useful to him he may start to develop an appreciation of your service.
Good points. My wife has suggested that when they're finishing fucking her and about to go home I should suck their cocks. I'm not bi but she thinks I could better understand why she likes doing it if I just tried it once or twice. She added, "You might get addicted." It's crossed my mind.

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Unread post by Say_Oy » Sun Aug 06, 2017 5:59 pm

@yielding william - I don't think you need to actually suck a man to understand what the wife sees in it. Just look at how you feel when you go down on her... and simply imagine what it would be like to suck the bull, the humiliation, that you are giving pleasure to a dominant man. However, I suspect that your wife wants you to do it partly to help further dominate you. :)
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Unread post by Say_Oy » Sun Aug 06, 2017 6:14 pm

GemsHubby wrote:
Say_Oy wrote: He is very talented.
No doubt he is. Do you understand why I am frightened at times?
I think that the dynamic between a cuckold and the bull is highly dependent on the bull's willingess to interact with the cuck. However, the cuck also needs to be slightly assertive and make his desires known. If the bull keeps the cuck at a distance but the cuck wants more involvement then you will end up with an unhappy cuck, and tension in the relationship. A good bull will make sure that the cuck is satisfied so that he will encourage the wife to serve the bull.

The cuck who wants to be of service and is not being included should realize that sometimes you have to serve without getting credit, or rewarded. For some that is enough, knowing that you are facilitating the wife's happiness. For other cucks, the focus is on themselves. Indeed, for some, the wife is just a tool to satisfy their own fantasies. For most, it is a balance - you both have to be getting something out of this (my sub said that!). The challenge is finding that balance, which involves the communication of desires from the cuck to the wife who then has to bring the suggestion to the bull in an acceptable way. The wife is kind of stuck in the middle, trying to satisfy two very different men....
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