I guess that you have a few things to learn about women.
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I don't understand it, that's why I ask. I don't want to attack anyone, but rather get to know a different point of viewslowsteady wrote: ↑Fri May 28, 2021 7:09 amI guess that you have a few things to learn about women.
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That's screwed up setup to fall I guess. You after all thar time probably dint miss it much PIV then. Do you like getting fucked cumming that way more than PIV?Thisismyusername123 wrote: ↑Thu May 27, 2021 10:04 pmOur bull would fuck my asshole, and all I had to do was make him cum before I did. Suffice to say I didn't manage it even once.lookingiansa wrote: ↑Thu May 27, 2021 3:40 pm
How did you have a chance to win it back?? Some challenge not capable of to humiliate you more??
Too bad they not letting you try again.
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Beacause she now knows what a real cock feels like and can do and husbands little cock cant do that for her anymore so thats why most cuckolds dont get much pussy
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I don't understand it, that's why I ask. I don't want to attack anyone, but rather get to know a different point of viewslowsteady wrote: ↑Fri May 28, 2021 7:09 amI guess that you have a few things to learn about women.
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Beacause she now knows what a real cock feels like and can do and husbands little cock cant do that for her anymore so thats why most cuckolds dont get much pussy
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I don't understand it, that's why I ask. I don't want to attack anyone, but rather get to know a different point of viewslowsteady wrote: ↑Fri May 28, 2021 7:09 amI guess that you have a few things to learn about women.
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but as it was written before, 90% sex is in the head and not in the pussy, so it's just a matter of how her wife feels towards the cuckold....little dick but someone he loves......She can fuck with her lover for a big dick and with her husband for love.
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Hm...
With 58 posts, I assume you have been reading a lot of the threads in the cuckold section?
Have you reflected on whether this might be because there is something else that She has discovered gives both Her, Her cuckolded husband, and her Bull/BF even greater pleasure?
And what could that be?
I think the explanation here is right before your eyes if you consider and reflect upon all the valuable input that has been made by numerous posters across a large number of threads here in the cuckold session. It has already been explained numerous times and I for one do not feel I am able to answer your question in a better way. You have to want to find the answer; and once that attitude descends upon you, you will for sure find it here.
I suggest you continue to read the threads in the cuckold section for a while, and reflect upon what is said there. Then perhaps you then eventually get around to understand that.
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You are curious about celibacy, sexual denial and maybe chastity or even pussy free. That is the reason you are here and reading this post. The 90% sex in your head is very interested in this particular kink. The other 10% (your words) is all about pussy. Many guys on this site state how, not so long ago, that they would never believe they could get hooked on this... But now are totally addicted to life without pussy.
See, her lover may toss her a good fuck, but consider that other things about him might also attract and enhance her image and her attention. In this case she gives much desire for her lover's attributes. This could mean that hubby, by definition, is getting a good percentage less of her esteem and other closeness that she also now must share with her lover.
Women always win this game.
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I am aware of it, it is obvious, but if she is a lover who gives her everything, why is she still with her husband who is worse in everything? It is for money for convenience. My 1 girlfriend once said she fell in love with a lover, it was obvious to me that this was the end of our relationship. I'm sorry to ask you like that, but I'm trying to understand itslowsteady wrote: ↑Fri May 28, 2021 9:02 pmSee, her lover may toss her a good fuck, but consider that other things about him might also attract and enhance her image and her attention. In this case she gives much desire for her lover's attributes. This could mean that hubby, by definition, is getting a good percentage less of her esteem and other closeness that she also now must share with her lover.
Women always win this game.
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Again, the answer is very simple.
Once you allow another guy to be the wife's lover, you give them opportunity to "test drive" a potential relationship for themselves. It's just human nature to sample things in life
I don't care how much you talk about things with the wife. Once she goes on a date with another dude, there is now a completely different set of factors affecting each other. Except she is an escort or seeking vengeance or related reasons, it is never "just sex" with any woman. Once you sink the worm into her pussy you've touched her goodies. The entire relationship changes. Women in a proper state of mind don't throw their cunts out there to be used as toys. Sure, a woman can be drunk, have mental problems, feel vengeful or any similar "reason" and become loose. Otherwise they are very circumspect with their cunt's usage.
Easiest way to understand why things work contrary to your way of thinking is to date another man's wife. You'll see for yourself.
Once you allow another guy to be the wife's lover, you give them opportunity to "test drive" a potential relationship for themselves. It's just human nature to sample things in life
I don't care how much you talk about things with the wife. Once she goes on a date with another dude, there is now a completely different set of factors affecting each other. Except she is an escort or seeking vengeance or related reasons, it is never "just sex" with any woman. Once you sink the worm into her pussy you've touched her goodies. The entire relationship changes. Women in a proper state of mind don't throw their cunts out there to be used as toys. Sure, a woman can be drunk, have mental problems, feel vengeful or any similar "reason" and become loose. Otherwise they are very circumspect with their cunt's usage.
Easiest way to understand why things work contrary to your way of thinking is to date another man's wife. You'll see for yourself.
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“ My wife and I have a loving, caring relationship but no sex.”. This is me to a T!
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So maybe cuckolds are just more brainy intelligent people than those who just don't understand what they are getting out of it?
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Perhaps. Who knows?
Yes, I know it was intended humorously. (You succeeded, in my opinion. )
So maybe cuckolds are just more brainy intelligent people than those who just don't understand what they are getting out of it?
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Perhaps. Who knows?
Yes, I know it was intended humorously. (You succeeded, in my opinion. )
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I once suggested to my wife that she could offer a period of 'exclusive pussy' as a birthday present to her long term boyfriend.
He was delighted to receive such a 'gift'.
It meant I was denied access to her pussy for the period we agreed. I was still allowed to orgasm from handjobs/wanking.
We agreed to give him the same 'gift' on a number of birthdays, and some xmas's too. One year my wife even asked me for the same gift on her own birthday.
He was delighted to receive such a 'gift'.
It meant I was denied access to her pussy for the period we agreed. I was still allowed to orgasm from handjobs/wanking.
We agreed to give him the same 'gift' on a number of birthdays, and some xmas's too. One year my wife even asked me for the same gift on her own birthday.
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My wife has a steady, he's a very thick older guy, he sexually takes care of her, at least 2 times a week (she also hooks up with other guys once in while). I normally got pussy from her a couple of times a month. I'm only 3 1/2" and don't get very hard, and cum in a minute or so. She compares sex with me to "Doing the Dishes", and she calls my dick a clit, and has made fun of my size, since before we were married. She says I'm the perfect husband, her best friend, and loves me, but sexually it's just not there, why she sees other guys.
Last year at Christmas she got some new expensive lube and did the normal thing of telling me about her and her BF while rubbing my cock, this usually ended up with me close to coming and me having really fast intercourse and coming in her pussy, but this time I made the mistake of telling her that the new lube and her soft hand felt just like a pussy, and she made me cum hard in her hand really fast.
So for the next several months she just used that lube and her hand on me, sometimes with me fucking her hand while she held it down by her pussy, which was fun, she called it my hand pussy. After the novelty wore off, I'd ask to fuck her, she would make up an excuse, like she was saving herself for Bryan (her BF) the next day, sometimes would suck my dick. Soon it was almost June, and I hadn't been in her and confronted her about it.
She said let me be blunt, I don't want you in me anymore, and that the thought of fucking me depresses her and since she stopped fucking me she hadn't had a bad migraine. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. I was a bit upset, and but she ended up jerking me off with the lube, and telling me that I need to get used to the hand pussy, and that her real pussy was for other guys. So it's now almost a year, and all I have gotten is hand jobs, no blow jobs since June on my birthday. It's funny since I haven't fucked her in almost a year, I get way hornier for her, especially when she dresses sexy. A few times, when I told her she looks sexy or seen her nude, her reply is "This isn't for You".
Last year at Christmas she got some new expensive lube and did the normal thing of telling me about her and her BF while rubbing my cock, this usually ended up with me close to coming and me having really fast intercourse and coming in her pussy, but this time I made the mistake of telling her that the new lube and her soft hand felt just like a pussy, and she made me cum hard in her hand really fast.
So for the next several months she just used that lube and her hand on me, sometimes with me fucking her hand while she held it down by her pussy, which was fun, she called it my hand pussy. After the novelty wore off, I'd ask to fuck her, she would make up an excuse, like she was saving herself for Bryan (her BF) the next day, sometimes would suck my dick. Soon it was almost June, and I hadn't been in her and confronted her about it.
She said let me be blunt, I don't want you in me anymore, and that the thought of fucking me depresses her and since she stopped fucking me she hadn't had a bad migraine. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. I was a bit upset, and but she ended up jerking me off with the lube, and telling me that I need to get used to the hand pussy, and that her real pussy was for other guys. So it's now almost a year, and all I have gotten is hand jobs, no blow jobs since June on my birthday. It's funny since I haven't fucked her in almost a year, I get way hornier for her, especially when she dresses sexy. A few times, when I told her she looks sexy or seen her nude, her reply is "This isn't for You".
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My wife has a steady, he's a very thick older guy, he sexually takes care of her, at least 2 times a week (she also hooks up with other guys once in while). I normally got pussy from her a couple of times a month. I'm only 3 1/2" and don't get very hard, and cum in a minute or so. She compares sex with me to "Doing the Dishes", and she calls my dick a clit, and has made fun of my size, since before we were married. She says I'm the perfect husband, her best friend, and loves me, but sexually it's just not there, why she sees other guys.
Last year at Christmas she got some new expensive lube and did the normal thing of telling me about her and her BF while rubbing my cock, this usually ended up with me close to coming and me having really fast intercourse and coming in her pussy, but this time I made the mistake of telling her that the new lube and her soft hand felt just like a pussy, and she made me cum hard in her hand really fast.
So for the next several months she just used that lube and her hand on me, sometimes with me fucking her hand while she held it down by her pussy, which was fun, she called it my hand pussy. After the novelty wore off, I'd ask to fuck her, she would make up an excuse, like she was saving herself for Bryan (her BF) the next day, sometimes would suck my dick. Soon it was almost June, and I hadn't been in her and confronted her about it.
She said let me be blunt, I don't want you in me anymore, and that the thought of fucking me depresses her and since she stopped fucking me she hadn't had a bad migraine. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. I was a bit upset, and but she ended up jerking me off with the lube, and telling me that I need to get used to the hand pussy, and that her real pussy was for other guys. So it's now almost a year, and all I have gotten is hand jobs, no blow jobs since June on my birthday. It's funny since I haven't fucked her in almost a year, I get way hornier for her, especially when she dresses sexy. A few times, when I told her she looks sexy or seen her nude, her reply is "This isn't for You".
Last year at Christmas she got some new expensive lube and did the normal thing of telling me about her and her BF while rubbing my cock, this usually ended up with me close to coming and me having really fast intercourse and coming in her pussy, but this time I made the mistake of telling her that the new lube and her soft hand felt just like a pussy, and she made me cum hard in her hand really fast.
So for the next several months she just used that lube and her hand on me, sometimes with me fucking her hand while she held it down by her pussy, which was fun, she called it my hand pussy. After the novelty wore off, I'd ask to fuck her, she would make up an excuse, like she was saving herself for Bryan (her BF) the next day, sometimes would suck my dick. Soon it was almost June, and I hadn't been in her and confronted her about it.
She said let me be blunt, I don't want you in me anymore, and that the thought of fucking me depresses her and since she stopped fucking me she hadn't had a bad migraine. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. I was a bit upset, and but she ended up jerking me off with the lube, and telling me that I need to get used to the hand pussy, and that her real pussy was for other guys. So it's now almost a year, and all I have gotten is hand jobs, no blow jobs since June on my birthday. It's funny since I haven't fucked her in almost a year, I get way hornier for her, especially when she dresses sexy. A few times, when I told her she looks sexy or seen her nude, her reply is "This isn't for You".
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My wife has a steady, he's a very thick older guy, he sexually takes care of her, at least 2 times a week (she also hooks up with other guys once in while). I normally got pussy from her a couple of times a month. I'm only 3 1/2" and don't get very hard, and cum in a minute or so. She compares sex with me to "Doing the Dishes", and she calls my dick a clit, and has made fun of my size, since before we were married. She says I'm the perfect husband, her best friend, and loves me, but sexually it's just not there, why she sees other guys.
Last year at Christmas she got some new expensive lube and did the normal thing of telling me about her and her BF while rubbing my cock, this usually ended up with me close to coming and me having really fast intercourse and coming in her pussy, but this time I made the mistake of telling her that the new lube and her soft hand felt just like a pussy, and she made me cum hard in her hand really fast.
So for the next several months she just used that lube and her hand on me, sometimes with me fucking her hand while she held it down by her pussy, which was fun, she called it my hand pussy. After the novelty wore off, I'd ask to fuck her, she would make up an excuse, like she was saving herself for Bryan (her BF) the next day, sometimes would suck my dick. Soon it was almost June, and I hadn't been in her and confronted her about it.
She said let me be blunt, I don't want you in me anymore, and that the thought of fucking me depresses her and since she stopped fucking me she hadn't had a bad migraine. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. I was a bit upset, and but she ended up jerking me off with the lube, and telling me that I need to get used to the hand pussy, and that her real pussy was for other guys. So it's now almost a year, and all I have gotten is hand jobs, no blow jobs since June on my birthday. It's funny since I haven't fucked her in almost a year, I get way hornier for her, especially when she dresses sexy. A few times, when I told her she looks sexy or seen her nude, her reply is "This isn't for You".
Last year at Christmas she got some new expensive lube and did the normal thing of telling me about her and her BF while rubbing my cock, this usually ended up with me close to coming and me having really fast intercourse and coming in her pussy, but this time I made the mistake of telling her that the new lube and her soft hand felt just like a pussy, and she made me cum hard in her hand really fast.
So for the next several months she just used that lube and her hand on me, sometimes with me fucking her hand while she held it down by her pussy, which was fun, she called it my hand pussy. After the novelty wore off, I'd ask to fuck her, she would make up an excuse, like she was saving herself for Bryan (her BF) the next day, sometimes would suck my dick. Soon it was almost June, and I hadn't been in her and confronted her about it.
She said let me be blunt, I don't want you in me anymore, and that the thought of fucking me depresses her and since she stopped fucking me she hadn't had a bad migraine. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. I was a bit upset, and but she ended up jerking me off with the lube, and telling me that I need to get used to the hand pussy, and that her real pussy was for other guys. So it's now almost a year, and all I have gotten is hand jobs, no blow jobs since June on my birthday. It's funny since I haven't fucked her in almost a year, I get way hornier for her, especially when she dresses sexy. A few times, when I told her she looks sexy or seen her nude, her reply is "This isn't for You".
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Maybe it's just a matter of wording but the first part of that statement is a dichotomy to the latter part.bebbabe1973 wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 2:42 pm................. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. .................
Specifically the "more than anything" part.
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Interesting thread - for most parts.
Apart from the fact that she decides what's going to happen there are no restrictions for me in general. And that is the way we years ago already started or relaionship as a FLR right from the beginning.
Looking back things changed quite a bit though. We still have sex several times a week, but she has another sub now who is taking care if she wants intercourse most of the time. So for the two of us it became quite rare, but at he same time way more special.
With penile stimulation becoming less frequent to me in general my wife is really creative in finding other things as a kind of replacementfor it so that we now migh have sex in a somewhat different way most of the time, but it is no less fullfilling for both of us and there are certainly no restrictions.
Apart from the fact that she decides what's going to happen there are no restrictions for me in general. And that is the way we years ago already started or relaionship as a FLR right from the beginning.
Looking back things changed quite a bit though. We still have sex several times a week, but she has another sub now who is taking care if she wants intercourse most of the time. So for the two of us it became quite rare, but at he same time way more special.
With penile stimulation becoming less frequent to me in general my wife is really creative in finding other things as a kind of replacementfor it so that we now migh have sex in a somewhat different way most of the time, but it is no less fullfilling for both of us and there are certainly no restrictions.
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For us it was me that wanted my wife to cuckold me. It took quite a while for her to agree to try..the search was fun but stressful because of fear of STI. Finally a fellow, a decided bachelor came a long..a good man who is not interested in breaking up our marriage; and they have been exclusive for five years now. I don’t participate at all, not even watching as he has completely replaced me as a lover.
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Welcome to the forum Spirit.
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My legs remain closed to hubby. He is allowed to fuck my hand or thighs after cleanup.
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Why do you say that? A lot of us have a person that we love "more than anything", but there are certain aspects of that person we don't care for. It doesn't diminish our love for that person.R_H_NC wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 5:33 pmMaybe it's just a matter of wording but the first part of that statement is a dichotomy to the latter part.bebbabe1973 wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 2:42 pm................. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. .................
Specifically the "more than anything" part.
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I am going to assume you aren't being purposely obtuse in light of your particular level of kink and given this is the cuckold forum.desertsub wrote: ↑Thu Nov 18, 2021 8:52 amWhy do you say that? A lot of us have a person that we love "more than anything", but there are certain aspects of that person we don't care for. It doesn't diminish our love for that person.R_H_NC wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 5:33 pmMaybe it's just a matter of wording but the first part of that statement is a dichotomy to the latter part.bebbabe1973 wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 2:42 pm................. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. .................
Specifically the "more than anything" part.
It is obviously a logic fail to say you love someone more than anything and yet basically loathe having sex with them. I realize that there are many on here who don't agree with that and, as I said, I get it.....particular kink and this being the cuckold forum.
My ex wife smoked, I hated that but that didn't effect that loved her more than anything (until I didn't). If you are equating one with the other than, all I can say is...........BIG apples, BIG oranges.
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Intercourse and love are 2 different things, although I love intercourse with my wife, she doesn't with me. Hell plenty of lesbian couples love each other without intercourse. Not that hard to understand.R_H_NC wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 5:33 pmMaybe it's just a matter of wording but the first part of that statement is a dichotomy to the latter part.bebbabe1973 wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 2:42 pm................. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. .................
Specifically the "more than anything" part.
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Evidently it is hard to understand. She evidently wasn't just talking about PIV.bebbabe1973 wrote: ↑Thu Nov 18, 2021 1:01 pmIntercourse and love are 2 different things, although I love intercourse with my wife, she doesn't with me. Hell plenty of lesbian couples love each other without intercourse. Not that hard to understand.R_H_NC wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 5:33 pmMaybe it's just a matter of wording but the first part of that statement is a dichotomy to the latter part.bebbabe1973 wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 2:42 pm................. She then said I love you more than anything, and the foreplay was great, but she felt like she was almost being forced to fuck me, and that I needed to be happy with what she was willing to do. .................
Specifically the "more than anything" part.
What do you think the chances are.........soon it will just be masturbating himself?bebbabe1973 wrote: ↑Tue Nov 16, 2021 2:43 pm……….So for the next several months she just used that lube and her hand on me, sometimes with me fucking her hand while she held it down by her pussy, which was fun, she called it my hand pussy. After the novelty wore off, I'd ask to fuck her, she would make up an excuse, like she was saving herself for Bryan (her BF) the next day, sometimes would suck my dick. Soon it was almost June, and I hadn't been in her and confronted her about it.
…………... I was a bit upset, and but she ended up jerking me off with the lube, and telling me that I need to get used to the hand pussy, and that her real pussy was for other guys. So it's now almost a year, and all I have gotten is hand jobs, no blow jobs since June on my birthday. ………………..