What's your partner's biggest disappointment in your sexual performance?

[wpgcouple40]

She wishes I were more aggressive, more dominant. I already am, but she really wants me to take it to another level, which I am having a hard time finding. Hopefully a boyfriend will be able to do that for her.

[iwish]

Her biggest disappointment (and therefore mine) is my inability to satisfy her. After more than two decades I still can't get over how lucky I am to have her at my side. And that feeling overwhelms me with the result of having virtually no endurance. There is no way it even comes close to satisfying her, and while she will say it's no big deal I can only think she says that or maybe actually believes it because she hasn't felt the satisfaction she deserves. My fantasy is for her; for her to experience what it should feel like to be taken and satisfied until she begs for no more. She certainly deserves it.

[ssanders]

We have had many years of “good” sex, but I will never be “new” again and therefore I am not seedy or strange. My technique is not relevant. She can also feel conflicted about the expectation of married life.

[AZVixen]

My husband is lacking nothing. His size is perfect. His skills are great. Amazing oral. Tall and good looking.

I do this because a little variety is nice and it turns him on. Having him and another man at the same time is also very erotic.

[Wooster]

I've always had trouble getting hard and staying hard, and especially when penetrating. I got really good at giving head very early in my sex life to compensate. When I started dating my wife, I used to give her head until she came, and then fuck her afterwards. After a while, though, we just started to skip the post-oral fucking, since it wasn't doing much for her, and just went with me giving her head and then masturbating myself. That worked very well for both of us, since she was dating other guys on and off, so she could get intercourse elsewhere.

[ckathrill]

After my wife had sex with a guy with a really big cock, she said " it felt like I was fucked for the first time. It's not he same at all with you". Needless to say we used large dildos to get her off after that.

Have any of you regularly used dildos to finish the lady off because your cock was not big enough?

[ckathrill]

And regarding stamina, I thought only guys in porn movies could do it that long, that hard and that fast. But some of the real life guys we have been with have blown me away with their prowess!

PS: I love fucking her the next day when she complains of being too sore. :-)

[truther]

After my wife had sex with a guy with a really big cock, she said " it felt like I was fucked for the first time. It's not he same at all with you". Needless to say we used large dildos to get her off after that.

Have any of you regularly used dildos to finish the lady off because your cock was not big enough?

Just starting to and already it's been a real breakthrough for us. I think some of her reluctance was simply trying something new and different, but also sensitivity to what I might think. We don't talk about the size thing. It's obvious enough to both of us. She wants me to try a sleeve now which is really great.

[acquiescence]

I find this topic to be truly intriguing.

My wife is the type that grew up with very traditional values, so to express any kind of criticism about sex with her husband is almost paramount to a travesty. I mean, it took me years to ever get her to even admit that I am far from having the biggest penis she has ever had. Out of the 13 lovers she had before me, I'm second to the shortest she has ever had. And the guy she enjoyed sex with the most, was easily twice as big as I am. But it took forever admitting that. She always felt like it would hurt me to tell me the truth. Now, she isn't afraid to admit I don't last as long as she'd prefer, but it reminds me when she and I first got together and she would try and coax me into "slowing down" or "just try to enjoy it" and things like that. I easily cum within seconds of entering her and she is no longer afraid to admit to me that she would love to make love a lot longer than I am capable of doing. She has always expressed too, that she loves that I'm an attentive lover and that I always care if she enjoy sex or not. She has also expressed that my girth makes up for my lack of length, which she says is good. But it's the stamina that is the issue for her. We haven't done anything but roleplay, but when we do she expresses a desire for a bigger, stronger and longer lasting cock that mine. Huge turn on for me.

[acquiescence]

....She wants me to try a sleeve now which is really great.

My wife and I have tried a sleeve once, but we found it to be really awkward. She also said it did nothing for her, because it just felt 'dead' inside her and she just prefers the way a real cock feels because it feels 'alive'. Now, we have used a dildo before, which she really enjoyed. So, 6 one way and half-dozen the other, I suppose...lol

[stevens62]

Hi everyone! My wife would like for me to last longer but overall we do pretty good together. She was living with a guy when we started dating, and he was both well-endowed and long lasting, and she admits she was spoiled. Secretly, I wished he'd come over and take care of her from time to time.

She'd been meeting a guy and for lunch from time to time, - she loved oral sex with him (both ways) and brought him off the day before we were married. Later, when we were discussing how she'd like a slightly larger and longer lasting lover (and how much I'd love for that to happen!) she shared with me that she'd like to take her lunchtime lover to bed, perhaps on a regular basis if things worked out. If that happened, she said, "I don't care how long YOU last, just know he'll always go first, and then you can cum in me anytime you like. I'd really like that!" So that was our style from then on with me adding oral for her right after her lover pulled out, or after I pulled out. We made sure she always had more than one orgasm.

[petey boy]

Most likely it is that I am not aggressive in bed. Often she says no one makes love like I do but that she craves a long, had nasty fuck. I think she is further
frustrated by the fact that i have a big cock and want use to ride her hard. Also I dont like to take her doggie style.

[Reno1]

When my newlywed wife confessed tome that she was fucking two other guys she told me it was because I never made her cum. She needed guys to really nail her and not be so gentle and gentlemanly, those were her words, so I understood her need to be fucked brother guys. And it was a red hotturn on for me.
I think cuckolds are not designed to be good lovers, but can be good husbands.
She was very hot looking and sexual. I wasn’t. I was very dorky and had no natural ideas about sex. In fact I had to have some hints and help from her to even know how to fuck.
I had all this happen many years before I every found out that thereweresuchthings as cuckolds, and that they were just like me. I thought that I was the only guy who was turned on by this and that I was a total pervert for needing to do it. Therefore I know I was born a cuckold because I never had a clue about it and lived exactly that way for many years before I ever heard about it.

[CuckedDude]

Length and girth...4.75"x 3.75".

Embarrassing

[Foxx009]

Stamina for me. Luckily I eat pussy like nobodies business.

[Sissyboy]

The size of my dick. My dick is very short and thin.
I can make her cum on my lil dick and for years she never said one word about it's size, untill I brought it up. She politely informed me that my dick is tiny and I'm okay in bed

[truther]

Length and girth...4.75"x 3.75".

Embarrassing

Not really called for. maybe less than average but really not much.

[AZVixen]

Length and girth...4.75"x 3.75".

Embarrassing

4.75 inches is just slightly under average. That could almost reach my cervix. That's not small by any means. I wouldn't kick 4.75 inches out of bed. My husband is only about 3/4 of an inch longer than that and his rocks my world. Some of you guys are too lost on size. I've had men with legit 7 inches that didn't know what they were doing. They sucked at oral and just thrusted with their big dick. But I've had men with 5 inches that were studs, orgasm machines with their tongue and just knew how to have sex.

[CuckedDude]

Length and girth...4.75"x 3.75".

Embarrassing

4.75 inches is just slightly under average. That could almost reach my cervix. That's not small by any means. I wouldn't kick 4.75 inches out of bed. My husband is only about 3/4 of an inch longer than that and his rocks my world. Some of you guys are too lost on size. I've had men with legit 7 inches that didn't know what they were doing. They sucked at oral and just thrusted with their big dick. But I've had men with 5 inches that were studs, orgasm machines with their tongue and just knew how to have sex.

it's called SPH ..........the intended target was most likely thrilled

[carolinacuck]

Length and girth...4.75"x 3.75".

Embarrassing

4.75 inches is just slightly under average. That could almost reach my cervix. That's not small by any means. I wouldn't kick 4.75 inches out of bed. My husband is only about 3/4 of an inch longer than that and his rocks my world. Some of you guys are too lost on size. I've had men with legit 7 inches that didn't know what they were doing. They sucked at oral and just thrusted with their big dick. But I've had men with 5 inches that were studs, orgasm machines with their tongue and just knew how to have sex.

Well, I'm just being realistic. I've watched my wife with several men who were longer and much thicker than me. I know how turned on she was by them and the intense orgasms she experienced. Maybe we just got lucky had the 7" guys she's been with were very skilled in using their endowment.

[louisburke]

On the rare occasion that my wife allows me inside her (it has been a few years), she usually laughs, and asks if i am actually inside her, commenting that she cannot feel me at all. She turns her head, and tells me just to let her know when she I am finished.
She actually made a phone call once, acting like I was not there at all.

[louisburke]

On the rare occasion that my wife allows me inside her (it has been a few years), she usually laughs, and asks if i am actually inside her, commenting that she cannot feel me at all. She turns her head, and tells me just to let her know when I am finished.
She actually made a phone call once, acting like I was not there at all.

[bradisalpha]

As a bf, most of the things I hear is that he isn’t rough or commanding enough.. cums too quick.. doesn’t fill her up.. not long lasting.. isn’t dominant .. isn’t exciting.. too caring and loving when fucking.. not hard enough.. too tired.. ED.. not adventurous..

However, they normally aporeciate that he is a good husband and father.. and a good provider .. they just need more adventure.

Plus, someone new is always more exciting and dating is something they miss. Hot wifing, and cheating, fills a void a wife has that gets her away from her everyday pressures for a while and let’s her be herself with no accountability. She can let loose and experience the things she fantasizes about. Cuckolding also lets her take charge and exhibit her dominant desires.

My thoughts...

Brad

[ckathrill]

Length and girth...4.75"x 3.75".

Embarrassing

4.75 inches is just slightly under average. That could almost reach my cervix. That's not small by any means. I wouldn't kick 4.75 inches out of bed. My husband is only about 3/4 of an inch longer than that and his rocks my world. Some of you guys are too lost on size. I've had men with legit 7 inches that didn't know what they were doing. They sucked at oral and just thrusted with their big dick. But I've had men with 5 inches that were studs, orgasm machines with their tongue and just knew how to have sex.

Well, I'm just being realistic. I've watched my wife with several men who were longer and much thicker than me. I know how turned on she was by them and the intense orgasms she experienced. Maybe we just got lucky had the 7" guys she's been with were very skilled in using their endowment.

You can have a good lover/bad lover when it comes to oral sex. BUT you indicate that he just thrusted with his big dick. As long as he does not put it in all at once before you are ready and hurts you, and as long as the woman does not have an exceptionally shallow pussy, how can it be possible that a big, thick hard cock does not feel better? I have seen personally how explosive my wife cums with a big dick.

[Naplescuck]

My wife of 30 years has let me know numerous times that I have a tiny dick, from the very first time I made love to her. Many times she will ask if it’s in or how can I feel anything. About 2 years ago she told me ...no more jerking off, if you do I will know!! Ever since then, I cum in under 2 minutes. 3 years ago on our anniversary after wining and dining her, took her to a nice hotel on the beach, after making love to her, she said, that’s nice that you took your time, I could tell your trying to make me feel good, but just so you know, 27 years and you still can’t make me cum