Filipina Wife's Boyfriend is Moving In

[eater]

great story. thanks for keeping us up to date. so your cocksucking didn't change your relationship except that he's more relaxed taking her in front of you? ever think about talking to him about getting you more involved while they have sex?

[DavaoMike]

great story. thanks for keeping us up to date. so your cocksucking didn't change your relationship except that he's more relaxed taking her in front of you? ever think about talking to him about getting you more involved while they have sex?

That was just a one-time adventure period, not repeated since. I’m frequently in the same room when Maricel and Adam make love, which is awesome. But generally, Adam and I don’t talk about sex stuff. It just goes with the flow. Adam just knows that he’s welcome anytime and anywhere in our home. Sometimes, Maricel has private time in Adam’s bedroom. Other times, he just walks into our master bedroom and makes love with Maricel right next to me in our king size bed. Things just happen, no discussions or verbal banter. I have noticed, however, that Adam prefers to be elsewhere when Maricel and I make love—which as I said before, happens maybe every three weeks or so, on average.

DM

[eater]

you and yours have worked out good relationships that are working well for you. i hope you'll excuse me for trying to inject my own kinks into your lifestyle.

[DavaoMike]

you and yours have worked out good relationships that are working well for you. i hope you'll excuse me for trying to inject my own kinks into your lifestyle.

Believe it or not, Adam and I never again spoke of our two-time oral interaction last year while Maricel was in the Philippines, though it's frequently been on my mind. Adam is only the second guy in my life with whom I've experienced male-male intimacy, the first being a guy I knew in college while we were both staying in an almost-deserted dorm while the university was on spring break. We got stoned, and started talking about our girlfriends who were away with their families. I ended up sucking him off. Afterwards, we both pretended it never happened.

DM

[Des 31]

I feel so lucky to have the arrangement we are in, and Adam is the perfect boyfriend for Maricel. Though there is never any type of overt humiliation from Maricel or Adam, even remotely, there is something inherently exciting--and maybe a tad bit humiliating--about knowing that Maricel has sex with Adam probably 3-4 times more frequently than with me. This is not something she imposes on me, it's just that my libido is just a fraction of Adam's. Everyone is happy.

DM

I think a wife having sex with the other guy more often than with her husband is probably more common than the other way around if she has complete freedom to do as she wishes. The dynamic is different than having sex with the same guy with who she has lived for a long time and who has the more familiar tool. My wife is upfront in admitting fucking is more exciting with another man - Otherwise, she reasons, "What would be the point of doing it at all?" I can't argue with that logic.

~ Des

[DavaoMike]

I feel so lucky to have the arrangement we are in, and Adam is the perfect boyfriend for Maricel. Though there is never any type of overt humiliation from Maricel or Adam, even remotely, there is something inherently exciting--and maybe a tad bit humiliating--about knowing that Maricel has sex with Adam probably 3-4 times more frequently than with me. This is not something she imposes on me, it's just that my libido is just a fraction of Adam's. Everyone is happy.

DM

I think a wife having sex with the other guy more often than with her husband is probably more common than the other way around if she has complete freedom to do as she wishes. The dynamic is different than having sex with the same guy with who she has lived for a long time and who has the more familiar tool. My wife is upfront in admitting fucking is more exciting with another man - otherwise, she reasons, what would be the point of doing it at all? I can't argue with that logic.

~ Des

In my case, I have no doubt that if I had a higher libido, Maricel would be thrilled to make love with me as frequently as I wanted. Thus, our frequency of sex is entirely on me, not Maricel or Adam. He basically fills the gap.

DM

[sdbuffalo]

Amazing story. Thank you.

[4herpleasure89]

Have you tried anything to increase your libido such as hrt? My libido gets cranked up by the fact that my wife plays weekly with 2 other men.

[DavaoMike]

Have you tried anything to increase your libido such as hrt? My libido gets cranked up by the fact that my wife plays weekly with 2 other men.

I use Viagra to help me with my erection on those days when I’m in the mood for physical intimacy, but apart from that I’m quite happy with the way things are. In my past, I definitely sowed my wild oats. But at this stage of my life, I have no desire to mess with my hormones, and am quite content with taking the “back seat” to Adam as Maricel’s primary lover. I have no ego to bruise in this regard. Once every three weeks is fine with me, since I know it’s not a limitation placed on me by my wife or her boyfriend.

DM

[4herpleasure89]

Well if you are all happy and content that’s all that matters!

[conmike]

Do you ever eat cream pie?

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum conmike.

[DavaoMike]

Do you ever eat cream pie?

Oh yes, very frequently. Those times when I’m in the mood to make love with Maricel, about half the time it’s immediately after she’s been with Adam. He almost always leaves the room, and then I savor the taste of her previously inseminated pussy and the steamy slipperyness when I’m inside her. Maricel has expressed that when I am licking her after Adam, it makes her feel like we are truly a family, rather than just her with a separate boyfriend.

DM

[YoungChiBull]

Is Adam aware you eat his cum from Maricel's pussy? I'm making a wild assumption... but since you have sucked him off that one time Im sure he has a suspicion that you eat creampies. I wonder how he would react if he watched you lovingly lick her cum filled pussy.

I absolutely LOVE that Maricel feels like you all are a family for performing that act. In my opinion, that just really enforces my believe how powerful and important cleanup duties are. She's really got the best perspective of what it takes to be family and have a relationship like this long-term.

[DavaoMike]

Well, none of us use the terminology like “cleanup,” etc. And Adam and I don’t really talk about sexual stuff. It just happens. For some reason, Adam prefers not to be present when Maricel and I make love. I suspect there’s a bit of subconscious jealousy or possessiveness going on in his head, but he’s never acted on that. He totally respects our marriage, but he gets no pleasure from seeing intimacy between Maricel and me.

DM

[YoungChiBull]

I honestly think that is very sweet and kind of him to give you and Maricel privacy during your lovemaking together.
He sounds very mature (which is required for this type of relationship to be possible).

So it sounds like you and Adam rarely talk about sexual stuff. Is that because he finds it awkward? Or is it simply unnecessary since everyone is in the know?
Im just curious because I am biased: I loved discussing sex with the husband.

Thank you for your continuous updates - they are important to raise awareness about alternatives to monogamy.

[DavaoMike]

Well, Maricel and I talk about everything between us. She isn’t shy about expressing her deep love for Adam to me, as well as her love for me and her gratitude for me allowing her this gift. Maricel also tells me that Adam and her also express their love for each other a lot when they’re together.

But as for discussions between Adam and me, it’s mostly just guy talk, like about sports and, occasionally, politics, etc. Matters involving Maricel are simply understood, without belaboring them with unneeded verbal dialogue.

DM

[YoungChiBull]

That makes sense. I suppose the both of you talking about having sex with the same woman would be unnecessary. It doesn't really need to be said aloud.

So:
Maricel loves you.
Maricel loves Adam.
Adam loves Maricel.


Do you love Adam? Not in a sexual way, but just as someone that you care about intensely? He brings a lot of joy into your life (especially your wife) so I would imagine in a way you really love him and care about him deeply. You have one of the most powerful bonds imaginable - sharing the same woman and each of you doing your best to make her happy daily.

I wonder how Adam feels about you deep down. Any clue?

(also let me know if I am asking too many questions or bugging you too much).

[DavaoMike]

That makes sense. I suppose the both of you talking about having sex with the same woman would be unnecessary. It doesn't really need to be said aloud.

So:
Maricel loves you.
Maricel loves Adam.
Adam loves Maricel.


Do you love Adam? Not in a sexual way, but just as someone that you care about intensely? He brings a lot of joy into your life (especially your wife) so I would imagine in a way you really love him and care about him deeply. You have one of the most powerful bonds imaginable - sharing the same woman and each of you doing your best to make her happy daily.

I wonder how Adam feels about you deep down. Any clue?

(also let me know if I am asking too many questions or bugging you too much).

I suppose you could say I love Adam on some level, like a nephew or member of the family. We both love Maricel deeply, and I do trust him totally. I know Adam respects and looks up to me, and trusts me. When he has some issue with his work, he’ll confide in me and seek my advice. I helped him with his resume when he was job hunting, and did extensive role playing with him in preparation for interviews. I guess that our mutual love for Maricel is sort of the glue that cements my relationship with Adam, though we never really talk about that. However, on a few occasions when Maricel got upset with Adam (like when she thought he was flirting with another woman), I acted as a sort of mediator to get them back on track, and advised Adam on how to navigate Maricel’s occasional irrational personality.

DM

[YoungChiBull]

You sound like a great mentor to Adam.
I’m glad all 3 of you have come together to form such a strong bond.

[Cory87]

Have you ever seen Maricel use tampo on Adam? If so, does she still talk to you when this happens?

[DavaoMike]

Tampo is the Tagalog term for “the silent treatment.” Yes, Maricel occasionally gets irritated at Adam if she notices him even glancing at another woman. She demands total monogamy from both Adam and me, and Adam happily accepts that condition, as I do. Nevertheless, Filipinas are, by nature, fiercely jealous creatures, so Maricel can be very possessive. Whenever Maricel gets her bouts of tampo with Adam, I tend to be the intermediary, and it passes after a day or two. After that, Maricel drags Adam to the bedroom and “rapes” him for hours. lol

DM

[DavaoMike]

Adam just accepted a new job with another company, which represents a significant career advancement. He’ll be taking 2 weeks off before starting his new position, so we decided to take him on a trip with us to Costa Rica to celebrate, departing in a few days.

I’ve reserved a beautiful beachfront AirBnb with 2 bedrooms, so Adam and Maricel can have some private times during our vacation. I can’t wait! I privately warned Adam not to let Maricel catch him checking out any of the Costa Rican chicas on the beach, or she will blow a fuse! lol

DM

[YoungChiBull]

That’s amazing! And what a nice way to celebrate. I hope this doesn’t mean he has to relocate.

And what you have told us about Maricel’s jealous: make sure he gets a pair of sunglasses in case he slips up checking out some of the ticas

[DLD]

How was the trip?