Our Hotwives

It gets down to the talent and size of the gentleman. She has been with maybe 50 black men, 150 Asians, 100 Indians and 200 white guys as a escort when looking back on her black book. Some were professional athletes in all pro sports, doctors, some were police, judges, lawyers, engineers or business owners, teachers etc. At the end of the day, it was all her best fucks were unpredictable. I just love seeing her as she rolls her eyes back as a cock is exploding in her. She does like thick cock almost always.

I say blacks because one of the few times I could get my wife to talk about the porn she really liked she mentioned the blacks on blondes porn because of the skin color differences. Personally I think it would be less likely she would get emotional attached to a black guy in a way that would cause me to question our relationship. But one never knows for sure once the genie is out of the bottle.

My wife and I are Hispanic and before we got into this lifestyle she had been with 14 guys all Hispanic, including me. Since she started playing she's been with three black guys and one more Hispanic. So she's never been with a white guy and she wants to try it. Although I must admit its a huge turn on seeing the contrast difference when she's with a black guy and I wouldn't have that with a white guy

MichaelW wrote:Here are our "whys".

The way my wife Deanna says it:
"I have no interest in fucking another white man, I have one of those at home."

She had always had a curiosity about sex with a black man that goes back to her high school days when at her school it became a brief trend for many of the pretty popular girls to have a black boyfriend. She didn't and was envious--but she was already dating me too. There were a couple of reasons, I suspect, one being to prove to themselves and others that there was no prejudice in their cases and two, it was somewhat out of the norm, bordering on scandal in that small rural community.

After she tried a black man for the first time she said it was all she had expected and more.

I read her an old post from here once in which the conversation had descended into a woman having a preference for black men as racist--and she shot back, "I don't care what they say, what I do is no one elses business and I'm not quitting."

Just as some people prefer Pepsi, other Coca Cola, some men like redheads, some brunettes, in her instance she prefers her extramarital sex to be with black men.

From a straight husband's aspect, not into eating creampies but for certain into watching the live sex show of my wife's body racked with pleasure than I cannot watch when I am fucking her, it is a delightful rush. My encouragement of her pleasure is a gift I give her--and it is appreciated and rewarded by her afterward.

I personally enjoy the contrast of white and black limbs intertwined. It is visually more interesting than white on white limbs in my personal opinion.

If you like it, you like it. Shouldn't have to explain it. If you don't like it, or it doesn't make a difference, again, your own business.

In our case my wife likes fucking black men, and I like watching her do it. For us in ways it is a perfect combination.

A couple of things you said really resonate with me. I love watching the live sex show with my wife as the leading lady, watching the pleasure she is receiving -- a vision I cannot watch when I'm fucking her myself. And the contrast of white and black limbs intertwined is so erotic. Visually, seeing a black cock going into a white pussy provides a striking difference image than a white cock going into a white cunt.

I have commented on this before I never believed in the black thing but from talking to many women it is a thing. Now i know not every situation is the same but i now think that there is something to it. Like my X-wife said.

HER: Yes, the black thing was a turn on. Can't explain the black thing.

To "ease into this lifestyle" Kelly and I first started with a well endowed white guy. This was to test the waters and see if this was even something we were into. Once we experimented with him, and had a total blast, we decided to dive into the taboo nature of her with a BBC. Well. HUGE turn on for both of us, so we did it again. And again. For us (me) it has to do with society's view with how it's a "no-no" and that it's against many beliefs in how many of us were raised, as far as romantic involvement between races. These bulls were very respectful and fun. We had a fantastic time and agree that it most likely won't stop anytime soon! So for us, it's either!! Just matters that the guy is respectful and polite

Anonymuss1 wrote:I voted black because I love the contrast of skin tones, and that's what she was with almost exclusively before I came along. Turns me on when she tells me about her past experiences.

Many, many, many years ago, before the web when you still had to order adult films out of the back of a magazine, I sent off for one of those collections on VHS tape .... '101 XXX Adult Clips' or something like that. They were all out takes from other films with no credits as to performers or clip source.

One scene was as close to black and white as you could get while still being in color. She was as white as I've ever seen ... pasty white, bleach blonde, looked like she'd never been outdoors. He was as dark as I've ever seen, coal black.

Not really my thing, but the contrasts were there for sure.

The first time my wife cuckolded me was with a black supervisor where she then was a substitute teacher. Because he didn't know I was aware of it, I never got to watch although I wished to. All others she has since fucked have been white. At least part of that is that people we find ourselves with are mostly white. Whether white or black, my wife says it depends on the man and how compatible he is. She has only fucked one man I didn't like but she didn't know it at the time.

I have never had the pleasure of seeing a black man on my wife, however I have read a lot about it and would like to see it firsthand.

Could not care less about his race, as long as she likes him enough to date.

This is a great topic... It confuses people on many levels as to why a person would prefer any one race...

Sex is obviously a combination of romance and lust and love in a marriage. All things matter. Once you have that, you are free to explore and see what turns you on for fantasy fun. Sex outside marriage is an amazing thing.

For years we were swingers and, in swinger land, that meant that I got to sleep with tons of beautiful wives and my wife with a lot of husbands... You can guess who got the better end of that deal. Coupled with the honest fact that I'm well endowed and my wife thinks great in bed, it left her wanting something more.

We stopped swinging because of the couple drama that some would bring combined with the less than great sex plus the fact that I had slept with every beautiful woman I ever wanted but my wife was always my world. She was my sexual goddess and I could think of nothing I wanted more than for her to be erotically pleasured however she wanted to be. I'll bet a lot of husbands share those feelings about their wives!

After we stopped swinging, I think we both missed the sexual excitement that a non-monogamous lifestyle brings into the relationship. Once you go down that road and accept it, it is really hard to become vanilla again. So, after some time and reflection, I encouraged my wife to do the hotwife thing. She hates that label, btw! I think that's hilarious cause I love it.

Neither my wife nor I have any negative views toward racial differences. That said, we are libertarians - you are free to like what you life. Some guys have the Asian girl fetish. Some people like their race exclusively. Then there is the BBC thing. It is what it is. The hardest thing is admitting to yourself what turns you on and being totally OK and comfortable with it.

Over the years, my wife has focused on BBC primarily, but has ventured back to other races from time to time. She has never said as a hard and fast rule black only. And not all of the black boyfriends have lived up to our fantasy. Far from it unfortunately! Recently, after running into a dry spell, she decided to open the search to any race. We had some fun and she got to experience some back to back guys. She wanted to see if the black thing was you know a fantasy that she had had when she was younger and that is now run its course or if it is the thing for her. Me? Well, there is nothing like seeing your wife completely turned on, and I don't care who it's with. And I love interracial porn and the who white couple with wife having a black boyfriend is a huge turn on. Always has been, have no idea why. It's not an inferiority thing - I am built well and have a very large cock, bigger than most of my wife's boyfriends.

Anyway the point is that after much reflection, my wife is once again 110% wanting BBC boyfriends and I couldn't be happier! It's just been such a great ride and so much fun. The fantasy fun works for us really well, and I can't wait to enjoy it more now that she is wanting more.

A few years ago when this whole hotwife thing was new, my wife had a steady guy who lived a few miles away in the city that she would fuck every week. This was during an adjustment period for me and looking back I really really wish I had handled the situation better. You see, she actually liked this guy. Like a high school crush. This is saying a lot - The MRS. is not a feeling girl. Sex for her is a fun hobby only. Feelings are for me. And she keeps people in their place. Well I could tell she kind of dug him and I wish I had been more encouraging about her spending time with him. Back then I was jealous and insecure. Today, well lets just say I would LOVE that. So fucking hot. I want nothing more than my wife to be fantasizing about seeing her boyfriend and having those butterflies. I know we are rock solid and I want to enjoy her enjoyment over those fun erotic emotions and see how turned on she would get. That is my hope for this year. We will see how it goes!

At this point in time, my cuckoldress has repeatedly said she has no interest in fucking a black man. However, she had always asserted that she would never go down on another woman, then met a woman, did just that and discovered she thoroughly enjoyed it. My wife's preference is for cocks that are large and thick, which seems to be somewhat challenging to come by with white men. So it could be it will take meeting the right black man. My suspicion is that if she does experience a BBC she will want to repeat the experience. As for me, I enjoy seeing IR videos and pics and often imagine seeing my wife on the receiving end of a BBC. In the end however, it is all about what my wife wants, not me.

My gf, now 22 and unfortunately monogamous, grew up in a rap/hip-hop culture where rough, aggressive black men were seen as really successful celebrities. And by "in a rap/hip-hop culture" I mean white suburban America.

A good friend of mine drives for Uber around the University where my gf just graduated from and he tells me that if he leaves on a hip-hop station the hottest, whitest white girls will get all excited when they get in his car and ask him to turn it up. The thuggish the better.

Despite being monogamous, just yesterday in the shower my gf was stroking me telling me how she really does love being fucked aggressively by big black cock and she likes that I am turned on by it.

Black men only

Black

My wife prefers white guys. That's what turns her on. Specifically the bad boy type. Bikers, rough tough country boys, hard working strong blue collar types. And the occasional young innocent type. That's just her. We don't apologize for it or feel guilty. We are not racist by any means. And I wouldn't want or ask her to fuck anyone that didn't turn her on.

Whiteboy81 wrote:BLACK POWER everyday black men are superior in every way but especially physically. Why else do you think they dominate sports while white boys riding the bench looking stupid or at home watching on the couch wishing he was that capable.

Yes .....you are on to something there WhiteBOY ........the sports analogy
was quite telling i can't see why blacks wouldn't far excel at bedroom "sports"
like they do in outside sports ............seems perspicuous

Marla is different then most ( all?) Hotwives. She is not a size queen. In fact she would prefer average size over everything else. In our experience that is difficult in this lifestyle as guys of size tend to be attracted to this lifestyle. Her belief is average guys try harder and lets face it, it is about the experience not the size.

Because of this she shys away from black guys because she believes they are all bigger. I think that is bs but she is fixed in her opinion. I really have no preference as long as she is happy but I would like to see her just once with a black guy. My desire to see her with a black man is more contrast then any hidden social taboo.

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prefer to see her with black men

I have never got to stage of her being with another man but IF she did, my #1 concern would be that it was someone that she wanted to have sex with. I imagine my preferences would be irrelevant. Well thats how I imagine I would be thinking. And as for me watching, that would be 100% sure her call as to wether or not I was allowed to watch.

If I had any say though, I honestly don't think I'd care, black, white, asian, etc... Watching, not watching, etc... As long as she was happy, then I'd be happy.

My wife says she does not care. She likes variety and to the extent a black man is a change from the "usual," i.e. her husband and lover are not black, she enjoys variety. From my limited experience being cucked by a black guy, I sensed that they got off knowing that there were white husbands who wanted black men like them to fuck their wives. That wasn't really true for me, or Sarah, but I didn't correct them. That seemed to empower them more and add a hot element to the sex. I remember one guy who was particularly verbal to me, and to Sarah, and that was hot. So, I suppose to this extent, the black bulls did add something a little different.

I want to see the expression her face when the black guy slides that massive cock in her pussy. Hear her moaning in pleasure as he fucks her so good and hard that she off multiple times.

Well, my wife is black and she would never ever like to fuck black guy again, so I can only watch her with white guys.

jaymesred wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:43 pm

Who cares?

What he said...All we look for is a good man..more between his ears than between his legs. !

My wife is black. I’m mixed (black/white). It doesn’t matter to me I just like seeing her fucking