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My wife allows me to cum every other week and I am only allowed to masturbate. I now cum very quickly as I am bursting by the time that I am allowed to cum. My wife is not around when I cum. Sometimes she has me in chastity, but even when I am not in chastity she knows that I will never cum without her permission.

Time for another update. My wife has gotten me to the point of no longer fucking for all intents. I now go about 14 months or more without any penetration. She has begun limiting me to hand jobs only, and it's become impossible for me to stay hard enough to fuck for more than a few seconds. She has told me more than once she can't wait until I'm permanently impotent. It won't matter much since we aren't really fucking as it is now.

The addition of my wife's boyfriend to our sex life was an enhancement, not a replacement.

I still have sex with her way more than her boyfriend does. He sees her 2-4 times a month, whereas my wife and I have sex every 3-4 days.

She loves sex, and needs it way more than her boyfriend can give it to her!

Lucky me!

I couldn't cast a vote in the poll because none of the answers apply to me.

I do not masturbate except when directed by my wife. My wife decides when I cum and she usually gets me off when she decides I need to -- which, thankfully, is three or four times a week. It has been 20 months since I last came without her permission. Once or twice during that time she got on facetime with me when I was away at a motel and directed me to masturbate for her.

I generally have sex every day with my wife. But when her ex is in town she's usually too sore the next day for it, and she usually cuts me off the day of. He lived in our city for a summer once and I was cut off for the whole summer.

Recently, my sex life has taken a major change. My wife has decided to not allow me to enter her pussy until she changes her mind. She has said that she can't say how long it might be because she really likes this way better. I was told to buy a strap on with a larger dildo to use on her since I was no longer allowed to fuck her. Apparently she still wants sex with me but just not with my penis. I also am not allowed to give myself an orgasm by any means including masturbation. I am allowed to edge when she directs me to but I am not allowed to cum. When she is feeling generous she will masturbate me where she will either give me a ruined orgasm or simply take me to the very edge and then leave me there with nothing but a hard on. All the while her BFs are fucking her and cuming inside of her a few time a week. It is truly a mind opening experience. I have found that she was right, this is better.

For all intents and purposes my only relief is masturbation. After my wife had anal sex for the first time with a guy from work, she let me try to fuck her up the ass once she said It felt "nice", she tried to make herself come, but I came before she did and it was all over nothing since then. She's starting to feel better about telling me that she doesn't need my dicklet, and she is relived that I don't pester her for sex anymore.

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bigdick4amy wrote:

hando wrote:Time for another update. My wife has gotten me to the point of no longer fucking for all intents. I now go about 14 months or more without any penetration. She has begun limiting me to hand jobs only, and it's become impossible for me to stay hard enough to fuck for more than a few seconds. She has told me more than once she can't wait until I'm permanently impotent. It won't matter much since we aren't really fucking as it is now.

Wow..... sounds like you are almost on the road to just getting castrated and being done with it.

Defacto castration is one way to look at it, along with defacto penectomy. However, she gives me hand jobs 3 to 5 times a week so I'm getting drained of semen nearly all the time. We have very frequent sex, it just never involves putting my cock inside her. She only uses my cock to control me, and it works really well.

hando, it sounds like your wife has your cock well under control !! Do you "cheat" and masturbate on your own also or do you strictly adhere to her control ??

Brad

bradisalpha wrote:hando, it sounds like your wife has your cock well under control !! Do you "cheat" and masturbate on your own also or do you strictly adhere to her control ??

Brad

I never masturbate on my own anymore. It's not necessary because I'm drained all the time. I don't get hard even looking at porn now, so it's easy to just wait for my wife to take care of me. She's my only source of orgasms.

I haven't touched anyone sexually in over 7 years.

jamorgan66, what is your story? I looked up your other posts, but you hardly talk about yourself. Do you have a wife that keeps you in chastity? Or are you alone, i.e. without a partner at all? To not have touched anyone sexually in over 7 years is quite something.

Reading types of threads about others living the dream make me so hard, but to answer the poll, I masturbate only occasionally in addition to having frequent intercourse with my wife. But I wish my answer could be different. Often I wish she would cut me off and only have intercourse (unprotected) with another man because it would be such an incredible turn on, although honestly it might be more than I could realistically handle, but I still secretly wish it would happen.

It would be very hard for me to give up intercourse. Not sure I could really handle it long term, since it would make me so horny all the time and I would not be able to concentrate at work, which would be bad -- I have a good career that requires a lot of concentration and long hours, and my compensation is based directly on my performance at work. I'm the bread winner of the family, so it would be very bad if my work suffered due to me being on edge 24:7, which is definitely what would happen if my wife cut me off in favor of another man.

But the thought of it is such an incredible, indescribable turn on -- reading about others in that situation, fantasizing about it gives me shivers -- then I either have to fantasize about it and masturbate (if my wife is not around) or have sex with my wife and imagine I'm "the other guy" having sex with her and forcing her husband (me) to resort to masturbation, while thinking about them together. That's my strongest and most frequent sexual fantasy, and it's not difficult for me to take on the role of someone else in my head.

We are not really "in the lifestyle" right now. We tried it for several months a couple of years ago, but it didn't really work out. She wasn't really all that into the lifestyle, and the guy she was with turned out to be not very good at being a "bull." He was an ex of hers who was not really into the lifestyle. He just wanted to start having sex with her again and did not care whether she was married. But after years of pestering her once every few months about hooking up, when she finally agreed (with my encouragement) instead of taking charge of the situation, he was way too worried about how I felt and making sure that I would not tell her to stop seeing him, which he admitted that he really didn't want to happen. Twice she offered to cut me off from intercourse completely and told him that I would be okay with it since I was extremely turned on by the jealousy, which would fuel my masterbation and she could limit me to hand jobs and the like. But despite her telling him that it would be okay for them to cut me off from me sex entirety, he kept encouraging her to keep having sex with me on a regular basis and he was limiting the frequency he would see her so as not to supplant my role as husband. But of course that had the opposite effect of what he was hoping for, and the more he acted like that, the less inclined I was to encourage her to keep seeing him at all.

The fact that he was going out of his way not to make me jealous and not to supplant my role as husband, and the fact that he was behaving so timidly out of fear of losing her made him seem like an incredible wuss to me. It didn't help that he didn't have a very good career and was struggling financially, so even though the guy was handsome and about ten years younger than me (my wife is 20 years younger than me), the guy just didn't seem at all worthy to be fucking my wife. So I encouraged her to stop, something I never would have done if he just had the balls to ask her to cut me off instead of encouraging her to keep having sex with me.

I would have found it such a huge turn on if he would have taken charge and told her to cut me off, while he was banging her on a weekly (or daily) basis. Instead, he would only see her once or twice a month and he encouraged her to have sex with me on a regular basis the whole time. Such a let down.

Anyway, our brief experiment in cuckolding has been over for a while. I lost interest in her fucking him as my jealous (which was such a turn on) turned to revulsion at the thought of my wife fucking a spineless wimp. Once I told her that he was unworthy, she was pretty quick to stop seeing him (although she gave him one last fuck), since she prefers me to be the one and only alpha male in her life, and I am quite capable of being an alpha. For a decade before I met her (all through my 30s), I was an alpha living the single life, having many adventures and never had the least bit of trouble attracting numerous hot women. I was quite a player back then, often dating two or three women at once. Nor did I suffer from having a small penis (I'm slightly above average in size) and I had incredible stamina. I still have reasonable stamina for a man of my age (early fifties now), but at the time I met my wife I had just turned 40 and I could last a good half hour or more before cumming and be ready for sex again 20 minutes or less after cumming and could easily cum five or six times a day. There were many times back in my single days when I drove from a two hour long fuck session with one woman straight to another woman's house to have sex with her for another couple hours. All that sleeping around ended when we started living together even before we got married -- she won't share me with another woman, but I am fully capable of being the one-woman alpha male my wife wants me to be.

But still, nothing turns me on more in this world than the thought of my wife cutting me off completely from intercourse while she is having frequent bareback sex with another man who relishes in the knowledge that he is the reason I went from being an alpha male who got sex literally whenever he wanted to being a compulsive and exclusive masturbater who is unable to think of anything other than him having frequent bareback sex with my wife while I masturbate.

hando wrote:I never masturbate on my own anymore. It's not necessary because I'm drained all the time. I don't get hard even looking at porn now, so it's easy to just wait for my wife to take care of me. She's my only source of orgasms.

Things have changed a bit. I still never masturbate on my own, but my frequency has been reduced to once every 2 months now. My wife now only does about 10% of the work, but it's still very good and I'm not feeling any need to do it on my own. I'm still retired from fucking, and I'm sure I'll never fuck again if things continue as is.

Ever since my wife took up with her boyfriend 8 years ago I have not fucked her once and she has not given me a blowjob or a handjob. And I love it that way. And from time to time they let me clean them up after they have sex and I really look forward to kissing and licking and sucking his sticky cock and licking his cum from my wife's gorgeous pussy. And between I do a lot of masturbating....and love it. I am also a sissy crossdresser so am normally in my pink maid's outfit when I clean them up and then serve them beverages

My wife has absolutely no desired to even touch me,7 years now,I get to lick her off occasionally if I ask(Her on the bed, me of the floor),Once she cums it is just "Thank You" and that's it...It is kinda hurtful but it is what it is...

For some years now it's been only self induced orgasms for me. She has absolutely no interest in my sexuality, and cannot be bothered to even touch me. It's not even cruel deliberate neglect, she doesn't care if I masturbate or not. When she is aware, she ignores. No help, not even a kiss.

My wife restrains me and 2x a month puts on a latex glove , gently strokes my cock until I cum in a condom. I'm given 5 minutes. Climax or locked back into chastity.

She used to do me anally but I had a prostate biopsy in October and told her I prefer we stop anal for a while.

I'm going to have to answer yes to this one! Even though I am still allowed to fuck my wife (if you want to call a few thrusts and then withdrawal fucking) I am no longer allowed to cum inside her. My only releases are from masturbation, and only with her permission. They are usually from her masturbating me or allowing me to hump her leg (just another form of masturbation). As a rule, I am almost never allowed to masturbate my self, she either does it or tells me to hump her leg. On rare occasions, if I beg a lot and she is in the right mood, she will let me jack my little erection for her entertainment!

Are usually get my wife off with a dildo and buzzy toy on your clip and then I jack off while she fucks my ass with her fingers

Yes, with an anal vibrator. Far better orgasms than fucking my wife.

Sometimes I get a pity fuck but I can tell that she really isn’t into it, when she was seeing her boyfriend, I would get sloppy seconds but mostly I jack myself off and I’m happy with that.

Yes and the few times i am actually allowed to masturbate my wife usually sits nest to me wearing the most unsexy clothes she can talking about how much better her daddy/bull is att giving her pleasure and how she rather fucks a complete stranger than touches my small penis ever again.

I mainly masturbate.

I get sex once a month on the 15th (that’s tonight, woo hoo!), and usually it’s a pity fuck. I’m usually done in under 4 minutes and and I’m required to pull out and cum in a tissue.

She sees her bull 2-3 times a week.