subguy80 wrote: ↑Sun Jul 08, 2018 12:21 pm
bradisalpha wrote:You can see in this thread, there are so many variations of sexual restrictions, and the excitement to the cuckold can be extreme if his wife and her boyfriend are creative with his restrictions and denial. They can be used as incentives, rewards, goals, punishments, rules, humiliation, embarrassment .. but always bringing nervous excitement and building sexual reactions along with mental conditioning and mind fuck fucking.
I have always enjoyed it when his wife and I were able to use these restrictions to intensify our sexual excitement as well as the cuckold.
Brad
We still have penetrative sex, but it isn’t “routine” like fucking between long-term spouses can be. When she uncages me and we fuck, it’s special and incredibly intense. I know she feels that same intensity. So, in addition, to all the uses of denial that you state, Brad (and I completely agree with), I’d also add that the “reconnection” can be an opportunity for the wife and cuckold husband to have an intense sexual bonding that is much more appreciated and special because of the denial.
I was traveling and getting super turned on reading through these posts about how many couples handle denial. Incredible. The “loss of control” junkie I am recognized the above is spot on for Scarlett and I.
I am a former chronic masturbator and she was incredibly frustrated by my lack of focus on her and when we had sex. I hated it too, so we decided a more “controlled” scenario would help motivate change. And boy has it ever!
I’ve been caged almost 24/7 for past 15 months. And believe me when I say it’s wired directly to my brain. I am more patient, giving, affectionate and submissive to her needs. It’s a slow process but we are working toward a more FemLed marriage. The right dose of denial works very well for us and we’ve never been happier. Yes, if she is horny and wants to fuck, the cage comes off and I make her cum and it’s all good. (Whether I get to cum is up to her). Our intimacy is constant, we hold hand and kiss hourly and when we do fuck it’s very special, meaningful and passionate. It’s important again and our connection is more like it used to be.
Denial and restricted access has made me crave her more and want her so bad I’m often desperate. She loves it. I love the constant arousal, the “buzz” of being horny and wanting to cum. But I’ve given that up to my beautiful and incredibly sexy Hotwife. I’m a different man/husband/cuck now.
I share super hot pics of her for her Bulls’ enjoyment. They will often ask, “dude, how can you not want that everyday? How can you be ok with her denying you her pussy?” Often they will add, I’m not complaining! I love being with her, just not sure I could do what you are doing in that cage.
Fast forward since June 2022 and Scarlett has probably been with 12 different guys. And for the past 15 months I have been caged and restricted access to her amazing pussy. In 2023 we’ve only fucked 5X and I’ve only cum in her 2X since May. She fucked her Bull on our wedding anniversary, her birthday and my birthday. I’m not complaining by any means. It’s meaningful again.
For those that denial works, hats off to you. With us, there are no absolutes and we’ll change our approach tomorrow if it will work even better. Loving life, loving my sexy Hotwife. Thanks for listening.