I understand what you are saying and I do understand this is what you want but I can't have that kind of relationship with Pat and Doug in my house. I have never met Doug and I have no desire to know him. What he does with Pat is between them. i rarely hear about what they did together. I know they have sex of course, but details are not my thing.petey boy wrote:I have discovered that the reconnection doesnt need to be that i will be unlocked from my cage or that I will be allowed to enter her. To have SIR come to my bedside in the morning and send me up to the bed he now shares with Beth i have never felt closer. To gently lick her clean or to nipple and tease her pussy as we did before our joint submission to SIR or just hold her as she whispers to me, Content! Our joint submission to SIR !subguy80 wrote:It’s funny to realize I posted this survey and question two years ago. Sarah’s BF at that time, and subsequent BFs, have always preferred that my penis be off limits to her pussy. I think they saw it as a form of humiliation and a show of their dominant position. The more we played with denial, the more I found that it aroused me in different ways. When I don’t cum in a long time, everything is erotic and I’m horny all the time.bradisalpha wrote:You can see in this thread, there are so many variations of sexual restrictions, and the excitement to the cuckold can be extreme if his wife and her boyfriend are creative with his restrictions and denial. They can be used as incentives, rewards, goals, punishments, rules, humiliation, embarrassment .. but always bringing nervous excitement and building sexual reactions along with mental conditioning and mind fuck fucking.
I have always enjoyed it when his wife and I were able to use these restrictions to intensify our sexual excitement as well as the cuckold.
Brad
A big change over the past two years is that Sarah, herself, enjoys denying me the use of my penis more and more. The chastity cage used to be something she used as a sex toy. Now, when she cages me, it means something more. It means she loves the looks she gets at a bondage party when she has a man on her arm and her husband is following, naked and caged. I know she loves going on a date and leaving me caged (as she did this weekend). So, yes, your point about using denial to enhance the sexual enjoyment of the wife and the BF is something we're experiencing now.
We still have penetrative sex, but it isn’t “routine” like fucking between long-term spouses can be. When she uncages me and we fuck, it’s special and incredibly intense. I know she feels that same intensity. So, in addition, to all the uses of denial that you state, Brad (and I completely agree with), I’d also add that the “reconnection” can be an opportunity for the wife and cuckold husband to have an intense sexual bonding that is much more appreciated and special because of the denial.
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TONYtony51 wrote:I understand what you are saying and I do understand this is what you want but I can't have that kind of relationship with Pat and Doug in my house. I have never met Doug and I have no desire to know him. What he does with Pat is between them. i rarely hear about what they did together. I know they have sex of course, but details are not my thing.petey boy wrote:I have discovered that the reconnection doesnt need to be that i will be unlocked from my cage or that I will be allowed to enter her. To have SIR come to my bedside in the morning and send me up to the bed he now shares with Beth i have never felt closer. To gently lick her clean or to nipple and tease her pussy as we did before our joint submission to SIR or just hold her as she whispers to me, Content! Our joint submission to SIR !subguy80 wrote:It’s funny to realize I posted this survey and question two years ago. Sarah’s BF at that time, and subsequent BFs, have always preferred that my penis be off limits to her pussy. I think they saw it as a form of humiliation and a show of their dominant position. The more we played with denial, the more I found that it aroused me in different ways. When I don’t cum in a long time, everything is erotic and I’m horny all the time.bradisalpha wrote:You can see in this thread, there are so many variations of sexual restrictions, and the excitement to the cuckold can be extreme if his wife and her boyfriend are creative with his restrictions and denial. They can be used as incentives, rewards, goals, punishments, rules, humiliation, embarrassment .. but always bringing nervous excitement and building sexual reactions along with mental conditioning and mind fuck fucking.
I have always enjoyed it when his wife and I were able to use these restrictions to intensify our sexual excitement as well as the cuckold.
Brad
A big change over the past two years is that Sarah, herself, enjoys denying me the use of my penis more and more. The chastity cage used to be something she used as a sex toy. Now, when she cages me, it means something more. It means she loves the looks she gets at a bondage party when she has a man on her arm and her husband is following, naked and caged. I know she loves going on a date and leaving me caged (as she did this weekend). So, yes, your point about using denial to enhance the sexual enjoyment of the wife and the BF is something we're experiencing now.
We still have penetrative sex, but it isn’t “routine” like fucking between long-term spouses can be. When she uncages me and we fuck, it’s special and incredibly intense. I know she feels that same intensity. So, in addition, to all the uses of denial that you state, Brad (and I completely agree with), I’d also add that the “reconnection” can be an opportunity for the wife and cuckold husband to have an intense sexual bonding that is much more appreciated and special because of the denial.
I do understand your feelings. We each deal with our life situations in the best way we can. Be well!
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Agreed. We deal the way we can. Take care.petey boy wrote:TONYtony51 wrote:I understand what you are saying and I do understand this is what you want but I can't have that kind of relationship with Pat and Doug in my house. I have never met Doug and I have no desire to know him. What he does with Pat is between them. i rarely hear about what they did together. I know they have sex of course, but details are not my thing.petey boy wrote:I have discovered that the reconnection doesnt need to be that i will be unlocked from my cage or that I will be allowed to enter her. To have SIR come to my bedside in the morning and send me up to the bed he now shares with Beth i have never felt closer. To gently lick her clean or to nipple and tease her pussy as we did before our joint submission to SIR or just hold her as she whispers to me, Content! Our joint submission to SIR !subguy80 wrote: It’s funny to realize I posted this survey and question two years ago. Sarah’s BF at that time, and subsequent BFs, have always preferred that my penis be off limits to her pussy. I think they saw it as a form of humiliation and a show of their dominant position. The more we played with denial, the more I found that it aroused me in different ways. When I don’t cum in a long time, everything is erotic and I’m horny all the time.
A big change over the past two years is that Sarah, herself, enjoys denying me the use of my penis more and more. The chastity cage used to be something she used as a sex toy. Now, when she cages me, it means something more. It means she loves the looks she gets at a bondage party when she has a man on her arm and her husband is following, naked and caged. I know she loves going on a date and leaving me caged (as she did this weekend). So, yes, your point about using denial to enhance the sexual enjoyment of the wife and the BF is something we're experiencing now.
We still have penetrative sex, but it isn’t “routine” like fucking between long-term spouses can be. When she uncages me and we fuck, it’s special and incredibly intense. I know she feels that same intensity. So, in addition, to all the uses of denial that you state, Brad (and I completely agree with), I’d also add that the “reconnection” can be an opportunity for the wife and cuckold husband to have an intense sexual bonding that is much more appreciated and special because of the denial.
I do understand your feelings. We each deal with our life situations in the best way we can. Be well!
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It’s been 8 months now pussy free for me also locked in chastity 2 1/2 yrs now only her bf is allowed inside her and I feel we are closer as a couple than ever
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It’s been 8 months now pussy free for me also locked in chastity 2 1/2 yrs now only her bf is allowed inside her and I feel we are closer as a couple than ever
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My wife and I still have sex but only with a condom. The bulls take her condom free.
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Do you mind me asking how often you are allowed to ejaculate? Myself, I'm concerned about health problems from not ejaculating often enough? I'm sure it's fine to go a week or so, but not cumming for months at a time concerns me. The longest I ever went was two weeks. I'd be interested in knowing how you handle extended periods of time if you don't cum? Thanks.daveleonard wrote:It’s been 8 months now pussy free for me also locked in chastity 2 1/2 yrs now only her bf is allowed inside her and I feel we are closer as a couple than ever
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I am allowed to actually fuck my girlfriend on my birthday and our anniversary and on the rare occasion that she is really, really horny and wants some real dick. Otherwise, I am allowed to eat her and fuck her with a strap-on pretty much every day, or sometimes she wants me to use my face dildo to fuck her. She edges me quite a bit while I am in my cage and will occasionally give me a ruined orgasm. And about once a month, she'll let me out and will put a Fleshlight under her and let me pretend to fuck her, but I'm actually fucking the Fleshlight. She also fucks me two or three times a week with her strap-on.
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RangerCuck you sound like a busy and lucky cuck!
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The girlfriend and I don't look to have a regular lover for her. We seek different partners on a consistent basis. Doing so is motivated by the excitement of the unknown. AKA - never sure as to what the next "guest" may demand of (or expect) of her.
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The Fleshlight variation is a wild, hot one!RangerCuck wrote:I am allowed to actually fuck my girlfriend on my birthday and our anniversary and on the rare occasion that she is really, really horny and wants some real dick. Otherwise, I am allowed to eat her and fuck her with a strap-on pretty much every day, or sometimes she wants me to use my face dildo to fuck her. She edges me quite a bit while I am in my cage and will occasionally give me a ruined orgasm. And about once a month, she'll let me out and will put a Fleshlight under her and let me pretend to fuck her, but I'm actually fucking the Fleshlight. She also fucks me two or three times a week with her strap-on.
My wife used to joke about getting one of those realistic, lifelike sex dolls for me (not the cheap blow up ones, lol), saying that at least "she" wouldn't care that I couldn't satisfy her, or be bothered by how quickly I would cum!
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I am indeed lucky. I've long had cuck fantasies and I managed to get hooked up with a woman who's also had them and was looking for someone willing to be cucked. Not sure how long it will last, but I'm sure going to enjoy it while it does.ShellsCuck wrote:RangerCuck you sound like a busy and lucky cuck!
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I found this old post and reread it. Funny how sex restrictions for cuckolds keep changing and evolving in this lifestyle. My own situation is a prime example. Up until a couple of months ago, it seemed like my wife and I were leading pretty vanilla sex lives (well, OK, she had an occasional fling). Now her current BF wants me totally restricted except for hand jobs. Stranger yet, I’ve agreed to it. Part of me is titillated by the prospect and part of me is a bit worried.
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Titillated and worried at the same time is keeping you excited, isn’t it ?? Wondering what is next and yet cannot wait to find out ??subguy80 wrote:I found this old post and reread it. Funny how sex restrictions for cuckolds keep changing and evolving in this lifestyle. My own situation is a prime example. Up until a couple of months ago, it seemed like my wife and I were leading pretty vanilla sex lives (well, OK, she had an occasional fling). Now her current BF wants me totally restricted except for hand jobs. Stranger yet, I’ve agreed to it. Part of me is titillated by the prospect and part of me is a bit worried.
A cuckold with restrictions is a very attentive cuckold !! And if his attention begins to dwindle.. I raise his restrictions. It’s like having your hand on a joystick that controls his reactions.. and I enjoy being in that position !!
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Amazing all the different approaches we find erotic! In my view, we need to add at least one more option to the survey: "I get to have sex with her except for the day or two before she sleeps with her FB." That worked well for us, - my wife and I had good sex except that she liked to deny me if she knew she had a date coming up - there were times she'd deny me if she was in her fertile window and had a date coming up - depended on the guy and her feelings for him.
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You're going to love it! Not being allowed to have her pussy will drive you nuts! You'll be jerking off 5 times a day while shes out there getting all the cock she can handle!subguy80 wrote:I found this old post and reread it. Funny how sex restrictions for cuckolds keep changing and evolving in this lifestyle. My own situation is a prime example. Up until a couple of months ago, it seemed like my wife and I were leading pretty vanilla sex lives (well, OK, she had an occasional fling). Now her current BF wants me totally restricted except for hand jobs. Stranger yet, I’ve agreed to it. Part of me is titillated by the prospect and part of me is a bit worried.
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Sir has imposed so many variations with me I find that my wife has come to adore it. Currently I have not had my cage off for 15 days. I have leaked butbradisalpha wrote:Titillated and worried at the same time is keeping you excited, isn’t it ?? Wondering what is next and yet cannot wait to find out ??subguy80 wrote:I found this old post and reread it. Funny how sex restrictions for cuckolds keep changing and evolving in this lifestyle. My own situation is a prime example. Up until a couple of months ago, it seemed like my wife and I were leading pretty vanilla sex lives (well, OK, she had an occasional fling). Now her current BF wants me totally restricted except for hand jobs. Stranger yet, I’ve agreed to it. Part of me is titillated by the prospect and part of me is a bit worried.
A cuckold with restrictions is a very attentive cuckold !! And if his attention begins to dwindle.. I raise his restrictions. It’s like having your hand on a joystick that controls his reactions.. and I enjoy being in that position !!
Brad
not cum. That slow dripping out of arousal is both so intensely hot and frustrating at the same time. Last night was one of the hardest. I was called to the bedroom and ordered to suck him hard and then place his cock into my wife. I did it with relish and was leaking profusely. Usually he sends me out of the room the moment he begins taking her hard. Last nite I was thrilled as I watched him take her further an further into heat. Then he stopped and pulled out
leaving Beth frantic. He then whispered to her for a moment as i knelt as i do at the foot of the bed and waited. A few seconds later my wife yelled at me
to get out so she could have his cock back in her. I crawled away as i got to the door SIR told me to mount the pillow he tossed at me and to take the pillow while he had Beth. The heat and the frustration so intense. Hearing her low moans and then her heat so intense I knelt in the hall listening at the door an this half hearted cum that left me more frustrated then before. I fell asleep on the floor outside what used to my bedroom with Beth.
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petey boy I'm always amazed at how much can handle and how far down the cuckhole that you are willing, hell enthusiatic, about traveling. I don't think I'm nearly as strong as you are.
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I think you are actually in love with Sir and you are jealous of your "wife". Admit it.
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I admit it !Suchen Zucker wrote:I think you are actually in love with Sir and you are jealous of your "wife". Admit it.
Beth has told me when she sensed I was struggling with these feelings, that it pleased her to have someone that
understood how a woman of today could allow herself to kneel and crawl and to accept all Sir's rules. As long as
we stay united and accept that he will use us both, we will be fine.
When I suck his cock I confess sometimes I think he loves my mouth then Sir will pull me off and that stiff and hard
cock craving her pussy. The pain I feel when I am told to put his cock in her , the sounds of her moans, make me
so hard.
When they both thank me for my service to their pleasure i feel at home.
PS and yes i say it here i am jealous that she has him in her at least once a day.
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I still have very regular access, but my domme is actively looking for a more regular bull. Someone who will fuck her at least a couple of times a week, so that she doesn't feel reliant on me for that. She wants it to be easier for her to deny me her pussy and seems to be hoping her bull is the type who will want to put access restrictions on me.
The idea is sexually exciting but makes me very nervous. I know how submissive she can be for the right man.
The idea is sexually exciting but makes me very nervous. I know how submissive she can be for the right man.
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That is the masochistic thrill of it all! It is like a guy that loves to hang his balls out for his wife who loves to try and slap them. Sooner or later, she is eventually going to get enough good slaps in that they must be removed.rspanked wrote: ↑Sat Mar 09, 2019 10:17 amI still have very regular access, but my domme is actively looking for a more regular bull. Someone who will fuck her at least a couple of times a week, so that she doesn't feel reliant on me for that. She wants it to be easier for her to deny me her pussy and seems to be hoping her bull is the type who will want to put access restrictions on me.
The idea is sexually exciting but makes me very nervous. I know how submissive she can be for the right man.
The wife always gets the lovers. The cuckold always gets fucked. Bring lube.
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My little dick stays permanently locked. It's been so long now, that even when I am unlocked I only really get half hard if I try. I don't really have a dick anymore, but i'm very happy this way, and it wasn't really much of a dick to start with anyway. That's why she locked me up.
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Once she finds a regular guy, you'll never go near her pussy. It's only a matter of time.rspanked wrote: ↑Sat Mar 09, 2019 10:17 amI still have very regular access, but my domme is actively looking for a more regular bull. Someone who will fuck her at least a couple of times a week, so that she doesn't feel reliant on me for that. She wants it to be easier for her to deny me her pussy and seems to be hoping her bull is the type who will want to put access restrictions on me.
The idea is sexually exciting but makes me very nervous. I know how submissive she can be for the right man.