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I've been in agreement with this from the onset. Witholding intercourse is troublesome and confusing - she has a base instinct to please her husband through sex. Yeah, sex is just sex, but denying her will rattle her confidence way more than it will redirect her toward Rick. Her FIRST priority is the marriage and YOU, and if she can't please you then Rick will be pushed far down the list while she figures YOU out.

JMHO

I know that if I sexually ignored and denied my wife for any amount of time, she would think that I am no longer attracted to her...you might want to rethink your 'strategy' here. Being honest with your wife should be a given.

DH sees the "light at the end of the tunnel". The rest of us hear the whistle blowing!

'Tis true, 'tis pity,

and pity 'tis, 'tis true...'

You all as together as an orchestra with this one.

After reading all the advise I talked with my wife but via phone since I am not there. It seems that she still knows of my strong desire for her take a boyfriend and also about me needing to be cucked. She told me that she has read the material I provided and will no longer rule against it happening. She wants me to come home first so we can be together, have some wine and spend the first day in our bed or on the sofa or both!

She also told me that she thinks Rick is interested in her and she finds that turns her on.

Next step....airline tickets!

Thanks everyone for your helpful words. No gloating though just cause you were right!

I agree totally with this.

It`s good that you have talked with your wife and kept her in the loop.
At least now you appear to be together on this for better or worse.
I do hope it works out for you all.

Today I had a long conversation with Rick. He is ready again to work on her and is calling her tonight to see if she will meet him to talk over things especially his pending divorce. So, when I get the results of his phone call to my wife I will post it here. She and I talked again today and she is very bubbly about my return home. I want her to be equally bubbly about meeting him.

Mark,
Have you considered inviting Rick to join you and your wife in a threesome? Since you will be home soon, and “she thinks Rick is interested in her and she finds that turns her on” she may also be receptive of having a threesome too. She’ll feel safe with you being there and she’ll surely enjoy being ravaged by two loving men.

I absolute agree, start with a MFM threesome. That is the appropriate ice breaker. It will give her the security of knowing that you are OK with things.

I concur -- that's the best idea I've heard yet

And it works more often than not, especially if she finds Rick a turn-on.

She needs YOU... then allowing Rick into the love nest with you both will show her how accepting you are to Rick's advances. And she'll know by demonstration that it's something you want her to enjoy. Then, when you're traveling, you'll always have that first visual to refer back to and dream about whenever she tells you over the phone, "Guess what, honey? Rick came over last night... we had fun together."

Can it get any better than that?

Well actually it can, but that involves her sending videos of what they did a couple of hours previously while you are in a meeting... but I digress.

O.K. instead of individual responses I will compile them. You guys really rock and I do appreciate your advice and interest.

First of all, I talked to Rick on the phone before he went to see her. I told him that I want him to fuck her of course, but it might end better if we wait for me to get back home. Then I would be able to pleasure her myself first, then talk over my feelings and see where she is. The end goal remains for me to be cucked and him to be her lover with controls. It was a very good call cause he is a cool buddy and knows how serious I am. Neither of us wants me to lose her and both of us wants him to be fucking her regularly.

So, I have taken all your suggestions under advisement and implemented much of what you said. She does need to be in agreement and I will be working to educate her and to encourage her.

Thanks everyone. I will be home by Mid March and the adventure continues....

A twost I had not expected. She called me to tell me she has been promoted. So I called my friend Rick and told him she is having a major good day. He called her to tell her he would stop by tonight to check on her and they could talk. He told me he left her a nice message. She texted to say she is on her way home but did not mention his message. She may have missed it but I will need to wait it out to find out. he will be telling me the details.

I am so hard just thinking about the possibiliites.

I wish you luck! In lieu of being there you could always ask her to spin up a webcam.

thank you. one of these days I have to install one of those cameras. Probably should make it soon.

Hey Mr Hub, any updates on your wife's celebration yesterday?

This is getting to be old news. I have not heard from either of them but last night my wife texted me to say she had a migraine (she gets very intense ones) and was heading to bed. She may have been using that as an excuse to keep me from calling but I won't know Until I talk to Rick today.

I talked with Rick yesterday. His personal world has been rocked by the actions of his bipolar wife. He has taken control of his situation and found a place to move into. Now he is settled and ready to seduce my lady.

I apologized for waffling on him, go for it then hold off. That ended yesterday when I pledged to support his effort to seduce her and no turning or holding back. I will be there in a week and we will have him over for a celebatory dinner with lots of conversation. He will be flirting with her turning it up as she responds positively. He will have center stage with all the conversations to see if her interest in him is obvious.

Afterward I will be talking with her to see if she is ready or even interested in taking a lover. This way I will be involving her in the seduction but only if she is remotely interested which I believe she is now.

Why do you think she is more interested now?

(I'm hoping you're right!)

It is my guess that she is sexually maturing and has not been getting any cock for a while. At this time in her life she still looks very young and her body is at the stage where it is craving more sex not less. I aim to provide her with some but not a great deal so our friend Rick's flirtation and seduction attempts should be moving her toward giving in to him. I hope I am right too because thinking of his cock (never saw it of course) penetrating her pussy and fiilling her with cum is driving me over the edge. It is way past the time in my mind for her to be taking more cock and turninig me into a cuck.

Thanks for the updates. It is interesting to hear your story unfold! Please continue, it just gets hotter! Good Luck!

Why don't you tell your buddy to flirt with her in front of you and to even try to move it along from there. Maybe you can end up with an MFM when she sees how excited you are with your buddy flirting and moving on her.

I would but I am not into doing an MFM with her and him. I am into being cucked and him taking control of her sexually.

Time for a short update. I have returned home to a very warm welcome. My wife is very hot cause she works out with a trainer now and the results are excellent. We got into heavy petting and deep kissing last night but I did not fuck her. I am waiting to talk with my friend Rick today when we meet for lunch. He knows that he has full permission from me to work on her seduction and he is invited to a dinner with us this week.

I told my wife yesterday over drinks that she is a real hottie and a desireable woman. I said other guys are checking her out now a lot and she blushed but did not refute it like she use to. Tonight or tomorrow night I will be asking her if she is ready to take on the lover I need and want for her pleasure as well as mine. It will be a very humble, serving me who will be asking her and encouraging her to take on the new experience of being fucked by another.

More update after the next two moves are completed.