Who pays for the hotel?
Who pays for the hotel?
So far we've met wife's play partners at the bar in the hotel we are staying in. Only a year into the lifestyle it's important for me to create a safe, comfortable and sexy experience for my wife. Though we are enjoying exploring and staying at some great hotels and hotel bars in the City. Unfortunately this hobby is getting expen$ive. Setting up a poll to see what other couples do.
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Re: How pays for the hotel?
Yeah, dude’s getting to screw my Queen…he can pay for the hotel.
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Re: How pays for the hotel?
Do you just tell him to pay? Who picks the hotel and makes the reservation..? Not taking my queen to Motel 6.. so do u give him option and minimum price point?Abrandnewstart194 wrote: ↑Mon Apr 29, 2024 1:23 pmYeah, dude’s getting to screw my Queen…he can pay for the hotel. I’m a cuck, not a stooge.
I don't see it as "screwing" my queen... or being a stooge.
It's a celebration of my wife willingness to be sexually adventurous. And I want to do everything in my power to make sure we all have a great time.
But any tips on how to negotiate and navigate the room charge without feeling like a pimp is appreciated.
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Re: Who pays for the hotel?
When we have a room, I pay for it. It's a little naughtier that way, and it's my room.
But, most times I have truck sex, sex at my home, or somewhere around our ranch. I carry a travel blanket and all the necessities in my truck. A Girl Scout is always prepared .
BTW, I didn't select any poll options besides "hotwife pays for hotel" because the other choices related to me were all about the hotel being too expensive. It's not too expensive for me, it's just not convenient. We don't have hotels around our ranch, so I do what is convenient and fun for me.
But, most times I have truck sex, sex at my home, or somewhere around our ranch. I carry a travel blanket and all the necessities in my truck. A Girl Scout is always prepared .
BTW, I didn't select any poll options besides "hotwife pays for hotel" because the other choices related to me were all about the hotel being too expensive. It's not too expensive for me, it's just not convenient. We don't have hotels around our ranch, so I do what is convenient and fun for me.
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Re: Who pays for the hotel?
We rarely have anyone over to our house. If there's a hotel involved, which is most of the time, we get the room. We don't even consider asking our "guest" to get a room. That way we guarantee we aren't meeting someone at an hourly rate motel because that's what they booked. Plus, we don't "entertain" for more than a couple of hours. When we invite someone to come to our room, we don't waste any time and get straight to it. But we always pay for the room.
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Re: How pays for the hotel?
We don’t need to, we tell him to make the arrangements. If he brings up money, then he loses his chance. It doesn’t have to be the Waldorf Astoria, but if it’s something cheap and sleazy, that’s a no-go as well.
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Re: Who pays for the hotel?
My wife enjoys being wined and dined by her lovers so they pick up the expenses.
Re: Who pays for the hotel?
I don't do one time things, but along with that first "hello" meeting over a cup of coffee or a beer those moments of getting to know and trust one another are important to be comfortable and neutral. That sometimes means the first sexual activities are at a neutral hotel, and though not the rule it is often the hubby who chooses and pays.
The very *best* playtimes however, when all the other logistics of discretion and other obligations align is to be invited to her house for a pleasant and unhurried playtime in her own comfort space. There is a bit of the "what we did RIGHT THERE" that goes on that can often be very pleasant for memories too.
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The very *best* playtimes however, when all the other logistics of discretion and other obligations align is to be invited to her house for a pleasant and unhurried playtime in her own comfort space. There is a bit of the "what we did RIGHT THERE" that goes on that can often be very pleasant for memories too.
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Re: Who pays for the hotel?
The first meeting, the cuck pays for the hotel. Afterwards, I prefer to go to their house and fuck in their bed and stay overnight.
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Most of the time he gets the hotel and pays. He’s getting her sex so why should she pay for the room? My wife isn’t that desperate. She travels occasionally for her work and so in that situation her company pays of course. She meets men in the hotel bar often. She has met men and they did it in the backseat of his truck and she had her regular here at our house. Most though are at a motel and he pays.
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Re: Who pays for the hotel?
A hotel is neutral territory. Each is getting something out of the playdate. By splitting the bill there is no Quid pro quo.
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Re: Who pays for the hotel?
This hasn't happened yet but when I brought up the idea to my girlfriend, she said, Sure, but you're paying for the hotel room for me and my new lover, it's only fair. Wow, that was so straightforward that it sent shivers throughout my body and balls...Guess that is my answer to the poll
Re: Who pays for the hotel?
It's always nice to split the cost. It's about everyone having a good time. We don't put any expectations on anyone. We have a few good hotels that will rent the room by 4 hour blocks, they are in no way 5 stars but clean and that is all we need. The fun part is when we get the key and they see our friend with us. They 100% percent know my wife is here for a good time and I'm sitting in the corner.
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I wouldn’t mind splitting the cost if I’m invited but I rarely am. It’s usually my wife and a lover, mostly someone I have never even met. We have a hotwife/cuckold type relationship, not a stag vixen. If I am involved I am willing to split. We also have our own money so she can split the bill with them if she wants to but she views it as a date and most men do too so who takes a woman to dinner and tells the hostess that they want two checks? Same with taking them to bed to her and most of the men she sees or have seen she tells me.
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Re: Who pays for the hotel?
When my hotwife has a date, except for a couple of occasions it has always been at our place or his. The two times she had a sex date in a hotel, we were already staying at the hotel on vacation.
If it came to paying for a hotel room and the only purpose of getting a hotel room was to have a hotwife date, I suppose whoever issued the invitation would pay for the room. After all if the guy is a volunteer (e.g. not a paid escort nor masseur), and it is my wife and I who were looking for a turn on and suggested a hotel, and he was providing the experience for us to fulfil our fantasy, then we would expect to pay for the room. On the other hand, if he suggested that he meet with my wife at a hotel, I would expect him to pay for it.
If it came to paying for a hotel room and the only purpose of getting a hotel room was to have a hotwife date, I suppose whoever issued the invitation would pay for the room. After all if the guy is a volunteer (e.g. not a paid escort nor masseur), and it is my wife and I who were looking for a turn on and suggested a hotel, and he was providing the experience for us to fulfil our fantasy, then we would expect to pay for the room. On the other hand, if he suggested that he meet with my wife at a hotel, I would expect him to pay for it.
Re: Who pays for the hotel?
My wife's lovers don't know that I am aware of her infidelity. As far as he is concerned she is a cheating wife so if he wants to fuck her he pays for the hotel.