Our Hotwives

There is a very popular on-premise swingers club in the area where I live. They are open every friday and saturday nights and always have various theme night each weekend. Recently they added a hotwife night theme and it is now becoming their most popular night. So much so that it started as a one off but was so popular that they now will be having it every month. I am a man that enjoys pleasuring hotwives but have been dormant when covid hit. I now plan to venture back up and will be going to the hotwife night at the club this weekend. Has anyone else noticed an uptick in hotwife activity and popularity now that covid is somewhat in the back mirror or are their other elements at play. I am looking forward to getting back in the mix with hotwife couples.

jjj wrote: ↑

Thu Mar 14, 2024 5:41 pm

There is a very popular on-premise swingers club in the area where I live. They are open every friday and saturday nights and always have various theme night each weekend. Recently they added a hotwife night theme and it is now becoming their most popular night. So much so that it started as a one off but was so popular that they now will be having it every month. I am a man that enjoys pleasuring hotwives but have been dormant when covid hit. I now plan to venture back up and will be going to the hotwife night at the club this weekend. Has anyone else noticed an uptick in hotwife activity and popularity now that covid is somewhat in the back mirror or are their other elements at play. I am looking forward to getting back in the mix with hotwife couples.

Couldn't help you here, covid had no bearing on my being a Hotwife.

Hmmm.....not sure that a local swingers club having a popular "hotwife night theme" is 'proof' that the 'Hotwife Lifestyle' is getting popular.
Surely at a swingers club all the wives are hotwifes?

trecital wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 12:01 am

Hmmm.....not sure that a local swingers club having a popular "hotwife night theme" is 'proof' that the 'Hotwife Lifestyle' is getting popular.
Surely at a swingers club all the wives are hotwifes?

I believe that you're correct in your thinking.

Mr. jjj has been in and around the hotwife world for decades. If he's seeing an increase in general interest, I wouldn't doubt it!

funkyfitter wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 12:13 am

trecital wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 12:01 am

Hmmm.....not sure that a local swingers club having a popular "hotwife night theme" is 'proof' that the 'Hotwife Lifestyle' is getting popular.
Surely at a swingers club all the wives are hotwifes?

I believe that you're correct in your thinking.

While wives, who, with their husbands swing, that does not necessarily mean they are hotwives. Many couples only have same room swinging as we did in our first few years in the lifestyle. It was a few years before we considered Ann to be a hotwife. Yes, she had always dressed sexily, wore anklets, flirted, was an exhibitionist etc but she wasn't dating and fucking other men away from me. Yes, she might be fucking other men at swinger parties but I was involved. We don't consider our weekly Saturday swinger parties as Ann being a hotwife. It is her Tuesday and Friday night dates with her boyfriends that make her a hotwife.

Johnann2227 wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 3:56 am

funkyfitter wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 12:13 am

trecital wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 12:01 am

Hmmm.....not sure that a local swingers club having a popular "hotwife night theme" is 'proof' that the 'Hotwife Lifestyle' is getting popular.
Surely at a swingers club all the wives are hotwifes?

I believe that you're correct in your thinking.

While wives, who, with their husbands swing, that does not necessarily mean they are hotwives. Many couples only have same room swinging as we did in our first few years in the lifestyle. It was a few years before we considered Ann to be a hotwife. Yes, she had always dressed sexily, wore anklets, flirted, was an exhibitionist etc but she wasn't dating and fucking other men away from me. Yes, she might be fucking other men at swinger parties but I was involved. We don't consider our weekly Saturday swinger parties as Ann being a hotwife. It is her Tuesday and Friday night dates with her boyfriends that make her a hotwife.

Well, OK then. Glad that you're enjoying both the swinger and hotwife life.

Great to hear from you, jjj. It's been awhile. Let us know how your club visit goes.

Best luck!

There was a time in the late 70s and early 80s when sex clubs and parties were pretty popular. There was even an article in The Washington Post about the local sex club. Although it was considered more swinging that hotwifing, it did seem that some wives got fucked a lot more than their husbands' did.

A good friend and workmate of mine shared our wives with each other (she was really my long-term girlfriend); but we would also take the woman to the on-site sex club with the objective of getting both of them fucked by other men while we waited. He and I never fucked other women at the club.

I have to echo Farmgirl about Covid. It had no effect on our lifestyle, whether hotwife or otherwise. We lived like we always do.

Hi jjj,

I think HW'ing has always been underrepresented. Couples engaging it it kept their activities secretive due to social shunning. Social norms are surrendering to reality. Couples are losing hesitancy about advertising their lifestyle. Couples proudly display images of themselves on social medial websites that cater to our lifestyle.

The primary reason my wife and I demand absolute anonymity is our kids. We cannot risk our kids finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star.

Tank Turner wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 9:21 am

Hi jjj,

I think HW'ing has always been underrepresented. Couples engaging it it kept their activities secretive due to social shunning. Social norms are surrendering to reality. Couples are losing hesitancy about advertising their lifestyle. Couples proudly display images of themselves on social medial websites that cater to our lifestyle.

The primary reason my wife and I demand absolute anonymity is our kids. We cannot risk our kids finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star.

For some reason I find it extra hot that the hotwife is not only married, but has children.

Hi isinlarsa,

Lots of dudes love fucking moms. I've been told that hormonal changes in moms cause them to become more horny. I do not know whether that is legend or factual. I do know my wife has told me thousands of times that after she has had kids, she became more horny. She's more horny in her mid-40s than she was when she was in college. She's in her sexual prime. She's always horny.

We will not risk our kids finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star.

I have been involved in the hotwife lifestyle for a number of years off and on. The reason for my post is that I always have felt that hotwives were a subset of the swinger lifestyle at least at the swinger clubs that I have visited. MOST couples that go to the swingers' clubs are either looking for other couples or looking for a lady for the bi or bi curious wife. Very few were looking for men to be with the wife with the husband watching in the traditional hotwife encounter. Because of that I have never really seen a THEME specifically devoted to the hotwife subset. Not only is this new but the number of people that have signed up to come is a VERY large number with lots of couples and single men. The clubs are a business so increased sales will encourage them to have more hotwife themed nights and I feel that is a good thing.

Tank Turner wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 9:21 am

Hi jjj,

I think HW'ing has always been underrepresented. Couples engaging it it kept their activities secretive due to social shunning. Social norms are surrendering to reality. Couples are losing hesitancy about advertising their lifestyle. Couples proudly display images of themselves on social medial websites that cater to our lifestyle.

The primary reason my wife and I demand absolute anonymity is our kids. We cannot risk our kids finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star.

Hello Tank. I feel that you hit the nail on the head with your comment due to social shunning. Even at the swingers parties it felt to me like the non hotwife swinger couples seemed to frown on the hotwife couples and normally the hotwife couples where not a part of their cliche. Quit often finding a man for the wife then leaving shortly afterwards. I observed this firsthand and have spoken to swinger couples about this. Single men in general are looked down upon at swinger clubs in some cases for justifiable reasons but I always conduct myself as a gentleman and give respect to the husband and wife and performed well when given the opportunity, so I have always done OK. So, to have a night where both hotwife couples and single men feel welcomed and comfortable with be a nice experience.

Anecdotal evidence from L and I, but we were talking to the owners of our local swinger club and they have said that in the last few years the people attending are getting younger and younger. So much so that they now have specific Under 35 events. Unfortunately I can't attend these, maybe I should send L on her own to one

Netherlands is a small country but there’s are at least two swingerclubs that have hotwife theme evenings, a giogolo night where I have seen men that liked their wives being fucked, and one with specifically black men available for women.

I definitely think this is an indicator that the hotwife lifestyle is becoming more popular.

Internet and the easy access to information and ability to communicate with others about the lifestyle probably helps a lot to get things going.

Tank Turner wrote: ↑

Fri Mar 15, 2024 12:11 pm

Hi isinlarsa,

Lots of dudes love fucking moms. I've been told that hormonal changes in moms cause them to become more horny. I do not know whether that is legend or factual. I do know my wife has told me thousands of times that after she has had kids, she became more horny. She's more horny in her mid-40s than she was when she was in college. She's in her sexual prime. She's always horny.

We will not risk our kids finding out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star.

I've been married twice. In both cases my wife had become a mother before she embarked on being a hotwife, so you may be right about the hormonal change. Or maybe perhaps it helps them recapture what it feels like to be a desirable woman; which may be more psychological. I did enjoy giving them the opportunity to spread their wings by taking on the childcare duties. My first wife is now dead, and I'm sure our two sons would be shocked to their core if they knew their mother was once fucked by three men in the same day.

Hi isinlarsa,

I think you're right. I've seen it in my wife. She's in her mid-40s. She worries that she's losing her sexual desirability. She loves the ego boost of men craving her naked body. She's become more appreciative of men's compliments. The irony is she's told me many times that she more horny now than she was in her late teens & early twenties when she couldn't get enough sex.

When she was in college, she got used to dudes checking out her incredibly scorching hot body. She accepted it as normal and natural dude behavior. Now she's told me she'll worry if dude don't check out her body.

She recently told me that she'd done fucking young studs because they want blowjobs more than fucking her, and she's done teaching young studs how to sexually satisfy women. She did love fucking young studs because of their stamina and because they made her feel young again. She complicates her sentiment by excusing young studs' sexual proclivities due to sexual inexperience and relying on porn for their sexual knowledge. I've seen her with extreme patience with young studs, and I've heard her tell at least one young stud that he had to be more sexually aggressive with her.

I did go to the hotwife theme night at the on premise club and it was well attended lots of couples and single men. But, not as much sexual activity then used to occur in the pre-covid days. Hopefully as people get past covid they will be more comfortable with the casual hookups that I used to see and be a part of at the clubs. But it was fun to see people out and having fun.