Our Hotwives

mrsranchwater wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 08, 2024 4:01 pm

Hi guys, Mrs. Ranchwater here. Happy to report that I have officially gone from “prospective” hotwife to actual hotwife! .........

..... Not sure, but what we do know is we’ve never had a tighter bond or better communication in our relationship - so we’re going to take a breath, keep processing Friday night and any decisions we make will be made as a team. I’m grateful to Mr. R for the gift of this experience, and if it’s even possible to love him more I do

mrsranchwater wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 08, 2024 4:01 pm

Hi guys, Mrs. Ranchwater here. Happy to report that I have officially gone from “prospective” hotwife to actual hotwife! Friday night went great, we met our “prospect” for drinks, and after that went well we invited him back to our hotel room. After a little more visiting we made our way into the bedroom, and before I knew it the clothes were off and we were having passionate sex while my supportive husband looked on. After our friend left, Mr. R and I stayed up all night enjoying MULTIPLE rounds of very passionate reclaiming sex, talked, drank wine and had a hell of a great time together.

We both agree it was a fun, memorable night :-). Where do we go from here? Not sure, but what we do know is we’ve never had a tighter bond or better communication in our relationship - so we’re going to take a breath, keep processing Friday night and any decisions we make will be made as a team. I’m grateful to Mr. R for the gift of this experience, and if it’s even possible to love him more I do

mrsranchwater wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 08, 2024 4:01 pm

Hi guys, Mrs. Ranchwater here. Happy to report that I have officially gone from “prospective” hotwife to actual hotwife! Friday night went great, we met our “prospect” for drinks, and after that went well we invited him back to our hotel room. After a little more visiting we made our way into the bedroom, and before I knew it the clothes were off and we were having passionate sex while my supportive husband looked on. After our friend left, Mr. R and I stayed up all night enjoying MULTIPLE rounds of very passionate reclaiming sex, talked, drank wine and had a hell of a great time together.

We both agree it was a fun, memorable night :-). Where do we go from here? Not sure, but what we do know is we’ve never had a tighter bond or better communication in our relationship - so we’re going to take a breath, keep processing Friday night and any decisions we make will be made as a team. I’m grateful to Mr. R for the gift of this experience, and if it’s even possible to love him more I do

mrsranchwater wrote: ↑

Mon Apr 08, 2024 4:01 pm

Hi guys, Mrs. Ranchwater here. Happy to report that I have officially gone from “prospective” hotwife to actual hotwife! Friday night went great, we met our “prospect” for drinks, and after that went well we invited him back to our hotel room. After a little more visiting we made our way into the bedroom, and before I knew it the clothes were off and we were having passionate sex while my supportive husband looked on. After our friend left, Mr. R and I stayed up all night enjoying MULTIPLE rounds of very passionate reclaiming sex, talked, drank wine and had a hell of a great time together.

We both agree it was a fun, memorable night :-). Where do we go from here? Not sure, but what we do know is we’ve never had a tighter bond or better communication in our relationship - so we’re going to take a breath, keep processing Friday night and any decisions we make will be made as a team. I’m grateful to Mr. R for the gift of this experience, and if it’s even possible to love him more I do

The good hub wrote: ↑

Tue Jan 16, 2024 3:57 am

ranchwater wrote: ↑

Mon Jan 15, 2024 10:08 am

After 20 years of marriage, two weeks ago, I (M 54) finally got the courage to tell my wife (F 51) about the hotwife fantasy I have had for years. Even though she was surprised, she was glad that I told her. I did my best to explain it to her, and I think she finally started to understand it. At this point, I think she was fine with the idea as long as it remained a fantasy. A few days later I admitted to her that I wanted it to be more than a fantasy. She did her best to stay in the conversation with me, but she said she didn’t see any way the fantasy would ever become a reality. To her credit, we ended the conversation agreeing that we would both try to learn more about it and just slowly see here that journey would take us. As a side note, she is the most wonderful wife a guy could ask for, and at this point if she ever were to consider this, it would be her doing it for me…..which I told her I did NOT want her doing.

In the meantime, our sex life has been rejuvenated beyond imagination. Our learning about hotwifing has continued as we both have read more about the fantasy. My research brought me to this site, and we even began roleplaying her with another guy. Over the past few weeks, my conservative wife has become a sex goddess. She has more confidence, she feels more sexual, and she says that she is thinking about sex all day long. In addition, our communication has vastly improved, which we both agree only adds to the amazing sex – we both feel as if we could tell each other anything, and the added intimacy in knowing this is incredible.

On the handful of occasions that we have talked about how the fantasy might really happen, we prefer a stag/vixen type of arrangement. She would want me to be there, and I would obviously want to be there, as this has been my fantasy for years.

We are still in the learning process of seeing if this is something we would ever really do. She is clearly not there yet. But, last night as we roleplayed her with a bull, she said that she really was able to imagine fucking another guy. And this morning, she let me know how hot it makes her to think about what that first time would look like.

She knows I’ve become a new member of this forum and she has even read a few threads with me. She asked if I could find some threads where the hotwife is describing (in detail) what that first time was like. I will continue to review older threads in search of such posts, but if anyone can point us to a description of their first time, that would be very helpful.

We’re taking baby steps and hopefully will enjoy this journey together.

Reading your story and it almost sounds like mine word for word!! Except that all you describe was us last year. My wife’s post is “having troubles flirting” if you’re interested in how it went for us but I can tell you that if you keep going, prepare yourself for a hell of a ride!! One year later and wow have things changed!!Best of luck to you